Kris, Khloe needs your love and support now more than ever as she decides whether she should stand by her husband, Lamar. You need to be there for her and remember that this decision is ultimately up to your daughter, not you — or anyone else in your family, for that matter.
Kris Jenner, we hear you are so worried about your daughter, Khloe Kardashian, that you’re urging her to divorce Lamar Odom as he struggles with his alleged drug addiction. Lamar is obviously causing Khloe tremendous heartache, and it’s totally understandable that you would want to save her from all that pain — but you have to back off — this is something Khloe needs to work through on her own.
Kris Jenner, Pressuring Khloe Kardashian To Divorce Lamar Odom Is Not Helping Her
Kris, your concerns, both as Khloe’s mother and her manager, are totally justified. On a personal level, as a mom, you’re deeply concerned that Lamar is causing your daughter great heartache, not to mention incessant worry. You see her losing sleep because she doesn’t know where he is or what he’s doing — and worst of all, Lamar hasn’t even committed to rehab yet, so there’s no telling when this nightmare will end for Khloe.
Then, on a professional level, you see Lamar, a former asset to the family business, now turned into a dreadful liability who has nothing to offer the Kardashians anymore — neither a glamorous basketball career, nor as half of the Khloe & Lamar show, nor even as a usable storyline for Keeping up with the Kardashians.
As far as you’re concerned, Khloe could do much, much better in the right new relationship, both financially, emotionally and as a new subject for reality TV.
But, Kris, even if Lamar is a drug addict now, Khloe still loves him. She actually married him for the right reason — because she loved him — and she’s taking her wedding vows seriously, i.e. the better or worse part.
So, Kris, you need to set aside your misgivings, as both a mother and a manager, and stop urging Khoe to abandon her marriage and leave Lamar. Your job as a mother, the only thing that should count right now, is not to pressure Khloe, who is frantic that Lamar might endanger himself or worse. But it’s your role to listen to her, love her and support her.
Kris, I’m warning you, if you keep pushing her, you could damage your relationship with her forever.
Kris, Telling Khloe To Leave Lamar Will Only Drive Her Away
Kris, as awful as awful as it must be to see your daughter in so much pain, you need to be there for her during this difficult time.
Khloe is already turning to her friends instead of her family, and that is probably because you and the other Kardashians are driving an emotional wedge between yourselves and Khloe by telling her what to do. You all need to listen to her and say reassuring things. You need to let her go through all the stages of shock and denial, until she can finally accept the reality of Lamar’s problem and make more measured decisions about her future and whether she wants to be with him.
Kris, You Need To Let Khloe Decide If Lamar Is The One For Her
Kris, now Khloe may still have to go through more of Lamar’s awful drug antics before she makes a final decision about her marriage. She clearly feels she needs to give Lamar more time to hit rock bottom to finally commit to rehab and a sober life. But whatever Khloe decides, it’s her decision to make, not yours or Bruce Jenner‘s or Rob Kardashian‘s or Kim Kardashian‘s or Kourtney Kardashian‘s.
After all, you’re not the person who’s going to live with Lamar. So Kris, the only thing you and your family should be doing right now is giving Khloe a safe and accepting family environment that is her non-judgemental refuge. Keep your lips zipped and your opinion to yourself — if you keep harping on Khoe, you will only drive her away.
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