Desiree Hartsock: If You Love Brooks Forester, You Must Fight For Him

Tue, July 30, 2013 5:20pm EDT by 20 Comments
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marie

Posted at 2:10 PM on August 28, 2013  

follow your heart so you dont regret it in the long run

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Linda

Posted at 9:52 AM on August 5, 2013  

Brooks loves her.

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Arleen Spendlove

Posted at 1:30 AM on August 1, 2013  

She shouldn’t have went topless in front of Chris in all their sexy scenes, should not have led him on… On the boat,topless, playing with the stingray topless, bath tub scene topless, and she is all over him. She also did lip locking tongue licking , and making out with Drew. And for her to say she loves Brooks. The three guys should dump. She is narcissistic, claiming her heart is broken, she’ll break the heart of Chris & Drew. She led them both. Capture the stingray scene on your DVR, PAUSE & slow motion the scene, she is topless. On top of the boat making out with Chris topless.
She kissed most of the men lustfully except Zak. Her mouth is too wide open to lip lock and tongue lick. Disgusting,,,

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lee

Posted at 12:36 PM on August 1, 2013  

I agree! But a lot of women (like Des) think that by “baring” it is the only way they can make a man want them and LOVE them. However, these women don’t realize is they are showing a sign of INSECURITY and IMMATURITY. While physical attraction is important, I also believe men wants something “deeper” in a woman, i.e., depth, maturity and substance! And Des is DULL and BORING!

She tries to be cute with the guys, but “cuteness” will only last a few months and men will slowly get tired it and would want a woman of depth and substance.

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Matt

Posted at 9:11 AM on August 8, 2013  

Yeah, disgusting – YOU!

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Trish

Posted at 9:27 PM on July 31, 2013  

That’s the beautiful TRUTH. And I think that all DOES work out. You have spoken words here that others have not. How I wish there was more wisdom in the world – like this! Thank you. I truly have come to care for both Brooks and Desiree. I haven’t seen two people more compatible. Men DO get freaked out! For goodness sake, his heart is not on a timetable – TV is! I wish them both total, lifelong happiness.

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jes

Posted at 6:11 PM on July 31, 2013  

Move on girl. Plain and simple, the guy is not into you

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lee

Posted at 12:54 PM on August 1, 2013  

You’re right!

Remember how she tries to beg Sean Lowe not to send her home; that Sean “is making a mistake”? How can anyone stoop that low to beg for LOVE? Sean may have liked her a lot but that does not translate to LOVE.

But I guess Des thinks that if she loves a man, that man should love her in return! LOVE is a two-way traffic – you give love and you get love in return. And so if you love someone and you don’t get love in return, it’s time to move on and find someone who will love you in return.

Des has high expectations that she will fall in love with one of the men. And I’m sure the men don’t think they will fall in love with her either. Afterall, being with a woman for 6 weeks and with ten (1) other guys she is cavorting with, how can any man get to know her on a personal basis and be in love in such a short time? True love takes time to develop; it does not happen in 6 weeks and having to share one woman with 10 other men who are vying for her “love.”

After all is said and done, I think Des is not only DESPERATE for a man, she also wants to salvage her self-esteem and dignitity after she was eliminated by Sean Lowe!

Look at AshLee Frasier who was in the Final 3 of The Bachelor with Sean Lowe. She got eliminated but she has moved on. And she is now dating one of the guys who was eliminated by Emily on the previous Bachelorette! If you ask me, AshLee would have been a better pick as the Bachelorette than Des.

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Tina

Posted at 1:01 PM on July 31, 2013  

Brook is jerk. If he come back to her, it will be unfair for two guys keep up with Des. Let Brook go, and find love from either Drew(barf) or Chris. They are fighting to show you thier love. Brook isonce again JERK…

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Sandpiper

Posted at 12:15 PM on July 31, 2013  

You can’t make someone love you. It is, or it isn’t. What I strongly dislike about what Brooks has done is the fact that he waited so long to tell Des he didn’t love her. These UNfeelings didn’t just happen..they’ve been going on for a while, & he should never have accepted the last rose he got, but rather sit her down & explain things to her. He’s led her down the path…now she’s totally upset.
He shouldn’t be permitted to come back, either. This whole scenario on the show with people coming back is sickening. Once you go…you’re gone. It’s that simple.
Des..Brooks doesn’t love you. As hard as that may seem, HE DOESN’T LOVE YOU. It won’t work with him. To become engaged to one of the two other men may be a mistake too. You said you loved Brooks…something you shouldn’t have been permitted to say because that makes the show look very lop-sided which I have come to believe it is. Just about 2 weeks ago Chris Harrison was speaking with you…& he kept prodding…to the point where he was practically admitting you were in love with Brooks. Get him to cut that bloody hair too!…& a shave once in a while will do wonders.
While it’s not good to choose someone based on simple looks..Brooks has nothing to offer in that category. The hair, unshaven face, overbite…he’s totally unattractive. AND there’s something wishy-washy about him. He’s dull & boring. You can do better, but you just don’t realise this now.
Good luck…but I’m beginning to hate this show.

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lee

Posted at 12:25 PM on August 1, 2013  

I totally agree with everything you said said.

Isn’t it that LOVE IS FREELY GIVEN, FREELY ACCEPTED? Love goes both ways. If a guy/gal does not have any “deep” feelings (love) for you, why should you beg for LOVE? A person has to love you; but you CANNOT make that person love you! If Des thinks she loves Brooks and Brooks is not sure he has feelings for Des, yes, it hurts but it’s the TRUTH! Would Des prefer Brooks to say he loves her while the show’s airing and to “ante up” the ratings (which I think is what network is doing here), only to break up with her a few months after the show wraps up? Then it just really shows how IMMATURE Des is and is not ready for a relationship, much less marriage.

I was never a fan of Des because I have seen other women on The Bachelor with Sean Lowe are much more beautiful, mature and intelligent. To sum it up, Des is DULL and BORING and I think one by one the men on the show finally came to see this.

I hope Des finds love and the men she is most desperate to marry.

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pamc

Posted at 8:39 AM on July 31, 2013  

You cannot make someone love you. It cannot be forced. If Desiree were to convince Brooks to be with her, she will always feel like he could possible bolt, and never be truly happy after what has happened.
Going with the guy who absolutely loves her and wants to be with her would ultimately provide her with the best life and marriage. She has said that she “loves” both Chris and Drew. She (and every woman) wants to be with the guy that is crazy about them, not accepts them begrudgingly. It will NOT last.
I regard Brooks as more of crush than anything. His feelings toward her have appeared a bit shallow to me in all of episodes.

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Hannah

Posted at 6:29 AM on July 31, 2013  

I have been watching every single episode and I really thought Brook’s would be the one from the very beginning. But if Brook’s doesn’t love Desarai then what could she really do. but it isn’t Deserai’s lost its Brook’s who lost such an wonderful girl. Desarai I know guys are heartbreakers but remember Brooks’s breaking up with u shouldn’t stop u from giving up on the other two left, cause they are amazing.

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Dee

Posted at 1:04 AM on July 31, 2013  

Wbat is wrong with everyone telling Deairee to fight for Brooks? Are you crazy? The guy said he didn’t live her. Why the heck would you want a guy that doesn’t want you? Des- you deserve better. He broke your heart. Don’t run after him he doesn’t deserve you! You will find better some day!

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maryjane

Posted at 12:31 AM on July 31, 2013  

I’m sorry but this article is terrible- it plays on all the love myths that keep women hoping a man will change his mind or change for her. If a man says he doesn’t love you and is willing to leave you – believe him and move on. Brooks clearly struggled with his choice because he cares deeply for Desiree but he was honest when he said he does not share her level of commitment or love. Acceptance and moving forward to find mutual love would be an act of dignity for Desiree- not hopin, wishin’ and prayin’. She deserves to find mutual, lasting, I will never give you up kind of love. You can’t make a man love you.

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lisa

Posted at 8:51 PM on July 30, 2013  

Definitely fight for him. Do not give up. I’m praying that he realizes that he loves you and comes back for you.

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lena

Posted at 8:07 PM on July 30, 2013  

Keep your head up high and have pride in yourself. There are lots of other men who will truly love you when the right time comes. The guy was just being honest. We truly dont know whats in his mind. You might come accross us selfish if you force it so move on…

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sasha

Posted at 6:29 PM on July 30, 2013  

Fight for him!!! Don’t settle. There are a lot of great guys out there but just cuz u have two great options doesn’t mean u should settle for one of them. Love is a risk and u gotta follow your heart. Be with the one you love. And it may take awhile for brooks to come around and he may never come around…. but if he doesn’t someone that steals your heart even more will come around…. don’t give up beautiful!!!

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Gigi

Posted at 5:38 PM on July 30, 2013  

What more canBrooks say?? He doesn’t love you and he said that. He might have wanted to come forward with that info before this but, it is what it is. Don’t sacrifice the pride you have left by trying to get him back. Suck it up and move on…

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Sandpiper

Posted at 12:18 PM on July 31, 2013  

Agreed with Gigi…Brooks can’t say any more than he’s already said. What maddens me is the fact that he’s waited ’til just about the very end to tell her he’s “not on the same page”. Let him go!
Don’t ever give him the impression you might be a psycho who can’t/won’t let go. Move on!!

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