Kristen, I know it’s hard when you still have strong feelings for Rob, but he’s truly ready to move on. You need to accept that this is probably the end.
Kristen Stewart — You’ve Got To Let Rob Go
You still believe that Rob is your soul mate. After your terrible cheating mistake, you worked non-stop to earn back his love and trust.
You thought you had succeeded and that your relationship had even survived a “trial separation” initiated by Rob, when he went to Australia.
But then Rob shockingly pulled the plug on your romance before his 27th birthday. A source told HollywoodLife.com that the final straw was when Rob found out you were texting Rupert Sanders about possibly directing Snow White and the Huntsman 2.
However, now other sources have revealed to us that, while the texts may have been the final straw, the real reason Rob wanted out was that he felt you had become too dependent on him. He ended up feeling like he was “in charge” of you and that became too trying for him.
“He felt like an adult taking care of a child at times “, claims the source.
This must be painful for you to hear and know.
Kristen, You’re Still So Young
But Kristen, I think you nevertheless have to accept that Robs’s feelings for you have changed.
Sadly, it’s not surprising. Both of you are so young — you’ve just turned 23, and he’s just turned 27. You’ve had a long romance for people so young — almost five years.
But it’s normal for couples your age to grow and change and often, you grow in different ways.
Rob’s clearly feeling that. He’s ready to be “free” again and to not feel responsible for a girlfriend.
He also in reflection, feels that filming and promoting the Twilight films drew you two closer and gave you a lot in common, another source tells us.
But now that Twilight is completely over and done, he feels you’ve lost a major force that kept the two of you together.
Kristen, this must all be heartrendingly difficult to digest. Break ups are awful, especially when one partner — you — still has such strong but unreturned feelings for the other.
Still, it’s best that you accept the situation this time. This isn’t the moment to fight to get Rob back, the way you did after the cheating.
Right now, nothing will “convince” Rob to take you back.
Kristen, Keep Leaning On Your True Friends
Instead, you need to keep concentrating on you and how you can cope with your heartbreak.
You’ve been doing the right thing — hanging out and leaning on your close friends. You were out for lunch at Hyperion Public on May 26 with a friend, you’ve spent time with bestie Taylor Lautner and have been seen with friends outside Gelson’s grocery store.
We’re sure you’re also getting love and support from you devoted mother, Jules, your dad, John, and your three brothers. You’ve always been so close to your family.
Kristen, you need to keep doing that — surrounding yourself with the people who love you. Even if Rob’s feelings have changed, it doesn’t mean that you still aren’t the lovable, smart, talented and down-to-earth special person that you are.
Close friends and family members should keep reminding you of that.
If It’s Meant To Be, Rob Will Come Back
The worse thing you can do is to keep calling Rob or trying to see him and convince him to reconsider his decision. That will only push him further away. It will reinforce his alleged perception that you are needy.
Right now he needs his space, and you need to start moving on for good. Get refocused on your stellar career, and other goals in your life.
If your relationship with Rob is truly meant to be, he’s going to have to come around to seeing that himself. And maybe he will in time, as he remembers all the wonderful things you have in common and all the great times you had together.
But you can’t — in any way — count on that. You can’t put your emotional life on hold, hoping that he’ll change his mind.
Instead Kristen, try every day to accept a little more that your wonderful romance with Rob is over.
But that doesn’t mean your life is. No way!
Kristen — You Will Love Again
You will have decades of future career successes and yes, you will have other great romances and perhaps marriage.
No matter how unbelievable it may seem now, you will fall in love with another wonderful man again, and he’ll love you back.
But that’s down the line.
For now, just do as many activities that you enjoy, and see your favorite people ( outside of Rob) as possible. Let them comfort you and help build up your self-esteem.
Hopefully you and Rob will be able to be friends, but don’t push it right now.
Your best Rob strategy is to back off and let him move on. That way, you can too!
Do you agree HollywoodLifers? Let me know!
– Bonnie Fuller
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