Kristen, you might think your entire world has just fallen apart and you’ll never love anyone as much as Rob. But I’m here to tell you that just when you think all is lost forever, you will meet another great man and fall in love again.
Kristen Stewart, you will find love once more. You might not believe it right now, but it will happen. In the coming months, you’ll find it hard to eat, sleep and EVERYTHING will remind you of Robert Pattinson. But once you’ve given yourself some time to heal, I promise you, you’ll find yourself meeting another guy when you least expect it, who will have you laughing and talking who you’ll want to spend time with. It may take time but one day you’ll realize that you’re falling in love again.
Kristen Stewart — Your Life Isn’t Over
Kristen, you are only 23. Not only are you young, but you’re beautiful, smart and incredibly talented. You have so much to offer a man, and you must keep telling yourself that. Even though you fought to make your relationship with Rob work, I can tell you that you can’t have a one-sided relationship. Rob is mentally done with your relationship. For whatever reason, he appears to have crossed the line of no return. You must let him go. If you do, yes, maybe he’ll come back to you. But you can’t bank on that. If you keep holding out hope for his return, you won’t be able to truly move on with your life and eventually open your heart to someone else.
For right now, you must make sure that you continue to focus on work, because doing something that you are passionate about- like taking on a role you believe in- is the best healer. Plus, go out with your girlfriends, try new restaurants , work out to get yourself in your best shape ever and get those endorphins flowing. Spend time with the people who love you the most- your mom, dad and brothers and let them smother you with affection. Go on a trip to somewhere you’ve always wanted to see or have a relaxing, indulgent spa day! Honestly, doing things for yourself will make you feel good. Pampering yourself, buying a new outfit and getting a manicure: all of these things will help you feel beautiful.
Relationship expert Diana Falzone agrees with me too!
“We put so much focus on the idea that once we are single, we need to search for a new partner. Yet that attitude actually keeps us from understanding ourselves, what we need and what to expect from a potential partner. My suggestion is that Kristen should focus on Kristen for a while.”
These things won’t make Rob come back, but they’ll help you feel a little bit better. Whether it’s reading new scripts, hanging out with Taylor Lautner or cooking with your mom, all of these things will help you move on. Also, getting into counseling and talking about what went wrong with Rob will help you too.
When you feel ready — and sooner than later is key — you should go on a date with someone new. Laughing, flirting and having fun will only help you continue to heal. You might not believe me, but one day you’ll see that Rob isn’t the only man you can love in your life. The romantic idea that there is only one true love for each person in this world, is simply not true. There are other potential true loves out there for you – I can guarantee it. It happened for me and for several other once heartbroken women I know.
Now, you may go through more heartbreaks in the future, but I promise you that when you find THE real one, that is meant to last, you’ll know it and all the pain that you’re feeling now, will be a memory that you learned from in your past..
– Bonnie Fuller
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