Justin Bieber, you did it. After pursing Selena for months, refusing to give up on your relationship, you’ve finally convinced her to be back by your side. Now, don’t blow it!
Justin Bieber, How You Won Selena Gomez Back
The two of you had been fighting ever since Selena learned you’d been flirting with Barbara Palvin and other Victoria’s Secret models, backstage at the Victoria’s Secret fashion show in NYC in Nov.
Arguments and on-and-off and short splits finally culminated in Selena’s determined decision to make the breakup permanent after she left your Cancun vacation during the Christmas holidays, following another big blow up about Barbara on Dec. 30.
Selena first checked into another hotel and later hopped on a plane to go home to LA at the urging of her mother. So Justin, it was a long, hard road to win Selena back.
We know from sources that you never stopped calling her, texting her and trying to see her. You kept Selena’s photo as the screen saver on your phone! You even sent mutual friends like Alfredo Flores to plead with Selena on your behalf.
Selena Gomez Tried To Move On
Meanwhile, Selena did her best to suppress her feelings for you and move on.
A source close to her told HollywoodLife.com exclusively that following the split, she was “flirting with as many hot guys as she can right now, because she’s trying to get the last few years of her life back.”
Furthermore, the source said “she wants to find a good guy. He ( Justin) was just a little boy and she needs a man … she will go on a ton of dates and be happy and forget about Justin.”
Well, Justin, as anyone who’s been through a tough break up knows, it’s a lot easier to say you’ll move on and date other people, than to actually do it.
When you’ve been deeply in love like you and Selena were for two years, those feelings don’t just evaporate instantly when you split. You clearly learned that, too. Flirting with Victoria’s Secret models or going on a date with model and nursing student Milyn “Mimi” Jenson, didn’t fill the hole in your heart, when you were really still hung up on Selena.
Well Justin, I don’t know what you said exactly or promised Selena that made her finally give in and hop on a plane to fly 14 hours to Norway to see you.
But it must have been a big promise that you’d give her your devotion, commitment and a full-fledged effort to make your relationship work.
Timing Is Everything For You & Selena
You caught her at a good time. Selena was feeling lonely and missing you, following all the excitement of promoting her film Spring Breakers.
“She was hanging out with her girlfriends from the movie, now that has stopped and she is lonely,” a source close to the pair told HollywoodLife.com exclusively.
So Justin, you were in touch with her when she had a vulnerable moment, and she caved to the feelings of love that she still had for you. We know Justin, that you were super happy, that Selena flew to be with you.
You tweeted one word on April 18, “smiling,” and then on April 20, you instrammed and then removed a photo of the pair of you, nuzzling. But if you truly want to keep Selena now and grow your romance to the next level, you can’t quickly get into the mode of taking her for granted again.
You need to treat her like a princess. Pull out all the romance stops – romantic dinners, flowers, jewelry, and most of all, your time.
Spend quiet and private time with Selena so you two can share your thoughts again.
We know that you considered Selena to be your best friend, one of the few people you could truly trust.
She is after all, one of the only young women in the world who can actually really understand and relate to what you have to do, to be Justin Bieber – the musician and star. And also Justin Bieber, the person.
Justin, Don’t Take Advantage Of The Precious Time You Have
So give her time. Listen to her because she’ll want to share her own thoughts, concerns and hopes with you.
Be romantic, and do not disrespect her by flirting with any other girls. “The second he says something rude to her,” she’s out, warns another source to Hollywoodlife.com.
In other words Justin – don’t pull any star crap with Selena! She’s there with you tentatively.
She gave into her feelings because she was lonely. But she’s not 100% convinced that it’s the right move. And she has spent a couple months dissing you, even on The Late Show.
So #1, it was smart that you NEVER publicly dissed her back and you also told your friends not to. You always kept the door open to lure your little ‘honey bee’ back. And you did it.
Now, don’t ruin the reunion by disrespecting her or ignoring her. Think back to how you treated your precious Selena when you first got together, over two years ago, and get back in that love mode.
If you treat Selena right, you two have a chance of going the distance again for a long time! Do you agree HollywoodLifers? And are you glad that Justin and Selena are back together?
– Bonnie Fuller
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