Justin, it appears that you’re still in love with ex-girlfriend Selena, and you’re repeatedly attempting to win her back. You can do it, but you need a whole new strategy!
You two had two happy years together, and that’s a long time for a couple that was just 17, (you) and 19 (her) when you first got together.
Not that many young romances last that long, even when the couple isn’t in the celebrity spotlight and having to deal with the stresses of demanding work schedules and almost non-stop travel.
Despite all that and against long odds, you and Selena made it work.
You & Selena Understood Each other
So it’s no wonder that you’ve been missing your little ‘mamacita’ as you used to call Selena. She was your best friend and confidant. She understood you and what you were going through.
You may have multi-millions of fans around the world, but very few young women are actually in the position to really understand what your life is like and what you have to do on a daily basis..
Selena did. She was a teen star just like you. She was a singer like you. And she understands what it’s like to deal with the pressures of fame.
You no doubt find it hard to believe that you have so many girls around the globe throwing themselves at you, but the one young woman who you love and want, refuses to get back together with you and barely responds to your calls and texts.
Your Behavior Is Not Good For Your Relationship
That must make you want her even more. The problem is, Justin, that since you split, you haven’t been on your best behavior. You’ve arrived at your concert shows late, you had a tussle with a paparazzi, an L.A. neighbor has accused you of assaulting and spitting on him, and what’s the deal with you repeatedly taking off your shirt in bizarre places, like the airport.
Justin, you’ve been facing an onslaught of criticism for your behavior and no matter how many times, you proclaim that you’re not going to pay attention to the ‘haters,’ it has to hurt.
You’re not used to having so much negative feedback and press.
You Can Trust Selena 100%
That’s why a source tells us you went to see Selena in L.A. on March 27, and asked her to help you sort out your messy life!
You know that you can trust Selena, as a true friend, and that she has a mature and thoughtful head on her shoulders.
“You were nearly crying about all of the press and the assault investigation, when you saw Selena, a source told HollywoodLife.com.
We understand Justin, how it must be hard when you’re so famous and so many people are around, you are just ‘yes’ people. You don’t know who you can trust besides Selena.
The only thing is Justin, is that if you want to win Selena back, you are going about it in exactly the wrong way.
You may be trying to win Selena over by allowing your neediness to show and hoping it melts her heart.
But that’s the opposite of what she wants to hear. Selena doesn’t want to take you back because you don’t know how to pull your life together.
She doesn’t want to take care of a boy. She wants to have a relationship with a “man,” who is mature, together, and energized about making positive moves.
You Can Win Her Back — If You Make Some Changes
If you want to win back Selena, you need to stop partying, literally, stop freaking out about paparazzi, stop getting into trouble with neighbors or anyone else, and start acting like an adult.
If Selena is the young woman for you, and you want to share the new good times and renewed romance, forget about trying to play on her sympathies.
Instead, start showing her how much you have learned from your mistakes and how you’ve grown into a man she can be impressed by.
Selena is a very special young woman. You won’t easily replace her love, so I’d advise you to get cracking in the maturity department if you want to win her back. Selena wants to be with a Justin Bieber that she can respect – not a Justin Bieber that she’d have to bail out.
Justin – it’s very likely that Selena still loves you. The feelings that she had for you for so long don’t just go away quickly.
But she’s been fighting those feelings for what she believes is her own good. She believes that she needs to get over you.
And Justin, if you wait too long to get our of your recent doldrums, her feelings will eventually fade away.
Do you agree HollywoodLifers? Let me know!
— Bonnie Fuller
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