
Beyonce has critics up in arms slamming her attitude in her new single released on March 18. But I think they’re misunderstanding her new anthem. Is she standing up to her childhood bullies?
Beyonce’s surprising new single, “Bow Down,” has fans and foe, singer Keyshia Cole, up in arms about her super confident new lyrics.
“I’m so crowned, bow, bow down b*tches,” and “I’m bigger than life, my name in the lights,” and “I’m the number one chick, ain’t need no hype,” have Keyshia and other commenters in a lather.
They’re convinced that Beyonce is carried away with her wealth, success and high-powered friendships. After all, Beyonce is now besties with Michelle Obama. Keyshia Cole went on Twitter clearly in response to “Bow Down” and tweeted, “First ‘Women need to stick together’ now b*tches better bow. Smh. But it’s all G!,” and then followed with another tweet, “I dont kept it real from the star! #Respect THAT” and “can’t stand when people all self righteous when it’s convenient it makes them look good. Lmao!”
But Keyshia, and other Beyonce bashers, I have another possible explanation for Bey’s loud and proud new single.
First, let me just point out, that I don’t think there’s anything wrong with a woman “owning” her success. Beyonce has succeeded — why can’t she express that she’s proud of herself? Would she have received so much of a negative reaction if she was a man rapping about all of his success? I don’t think so!
Facebook COO Sheryl Sandberg just published a book, “Lean In,” in which she talks about how when women are strong and ambitious, they are often seen negatively, whereas men with the very same qualities are admired.
So I think sexism accounts for some of the criticism of Beyonce’s unabashed celebration of her own success.
Beyonce May Be Addressing Other Issues Through Her Music
But there’s also another issue that Beyonce may be addressing here.
Could she be talking back to girls who once bullied her when she grew up in her hometown of Houston, Texas?
“H town, I’m coming down, coming down. Get it on the ground, I know you were little girls, you grabbed a bee-ing in my world, Don’t forget it, don’t forget it, Respect that, bow down, b*tches,” she sings.
Maybe that’s why the cover art for the single is a photo of a tween Beyonce surrounded by trophies. No doubt, Beyonce was an early achiever, and all of this may not have gone over well with her former school classmates. We all know how achievers can be bullied, simply because others are jealous.
I hope that’s not the case, but it could be a good explanation for why Queen Bee is now singing out and possibly back at her former critics and telling them to, “Bow Down.”
Beyonce Is A Great Role Model
In any case, I’m not going to criticize Beyonce for the high spirited, “Bow Down.” She’s a hard working professional. A loving wife and mother. She’s helping First Lady Michelle Obama promote her very important, Let’s Move campaign, to fight childhood obesity. She’s a great role model.
HollywoodLifers, we need to support our strong and successful career women and not tear them down when they express themselves! Do you agree? Let me know.
WATCH: Beyonce New Song ‘Bow Down’ About Bullies?
– Bonnie Fuller
More Beyonce ‘Bow Down’ News:
- Keyshia Cole Slams Beyonce For New Song ‘Bow Down’
- Beyonce Releases Controversial New Single — Listen
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Andrea
Posted at 10:03 PM on April 2, 2013
I’ve always thought of Beyonce as a proper and poised young lady and after “Bow Down” I still see here as that a proper and poised lady. She is just stating the truth, to all the premature hate commentators do your home work on what she is saying on Bow Down and you will also see she’s just stating facts. And, the first ones to bark at her are either directly intimidated by her and or jealous of her. Love you Bee. Hail to the Queen:)
Allan
Posted at 9:15 PM on April 3, 2013
Bill
Posted at 12:37 PM on March 28, 2013
Larissa
Posted at 4:06 PM on March 26, 2013
Sally
Posted at 6:11 PM on March 25, 2013
Sally
Posted at 6:09 PM on March 25, 2013
Sexism is a lame excuse! It’s perfectly acceptable for woman to talk about their success. However, it is strictly the manner in which Beyonce goes about it in the song. It is so contradictory to the image that she tries to maintain. This song is purely a move towards making her more relevant. Her music isn’t selling nearly as much as her performance. Performance is basically what sheis known for nowadays. She’s selling herself out for what she thinks will make her hot again. This clearly isn’t R&B, which is the genre that people usually put Beyonce under. I mean, why wouldn’t you, she’s only been singing R&B for years. All, bad move. Maybe if she were a brand new artist and hadn’t spent more than 10 years developing an image of herself this would be acceptable. And MAYBE if she didn’t just have a baby. Kind of taking a step back here don’t you think?
Allan
Posted at 8:42 AM on March 26, 2013
Can’t agree more Sally. I more upset because of young children that listen to this kind of message. Of course you try to monitor what your kids are listening to these days, but you cannot be with them 24/7. The only thing you can hope for is the value that you instilled in them will pay off in the long run. The question is would she what her own daughter to listen to such a song as this. Hopefully not, but you never know these days.
Amanda
Posted at 2:05 PM on March 21, 2013
me again
Posted at 11:29 PM on March 21, 2013
Ray
Posted at 10:35 AM on March 21, 2013
Monica
Posted at 10:50 PM on March 20, 2013
Giovonni
Posted at 9:15 PM on March 20, 2013
Bonnie, you know who I think are better role models? Everyday woman who are loving mothers and wives, who go out and bust their butts at work for average salaries. Then come home to raise their families with sometimes little appreciate, but don’t have a nanny, aren’t buddies with the first lady, or don’t have millions of dollars to shut down entire hospital floors when they give birth. I think those are the real role models.
And as for MALE rappers getting away with these type of lyrics? Why does everything have to be made into a sexist or racist issue? Let me remind you that female rappers like Nicki Minaj and Lil Kim have just as superficial and harsh lyrics as their male counterparts and get away with it too. The reason is because rap, by nature, thrives off these type of lyrics, but not that it’s right. And that brings me to my third point: Just because one segment of the music industry gets away with vulgar, demeaning lyrics doesn’t make it ok for Beyonce to do it!!! You mentioned Ms. Obama as Beyonce’s “bestie”, so will you also praise Michelle if she were to write a book that included cursing and belittling people as a way of EXPRESSING her success? I should think not!
Sorry, I’m not buying into your defense of Beyonce on these song’s lyrics…
Maria
Posted at 10:52 PM on March 20, 2013


Bill
Posted at 7:55 AM on April 4, 2013
I quess the Devil has come for his due now!!!! She has to hold up to her end of the bargain.