Taylor Swift: Dumping Harry Styles Was A Good Decision

Tue, March 5, 2013 4:24pm EDT by 23 Comments 12,584 Article Views
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Taylor, although you didn’t speak on the record about your breakup with Harry, you did authorize a source to explain the real reason why you two split. I’m so proud of you for standing up for yourself!

Taylor Swift, you really are such a role model. You really opened up in the April issue of Vanity Fair about your relationship with Harry Styles and it makes total sense why you decided to end the relationship. I’m so happy that you wouldn’t tolerate him allegedly cheating on you, because so many girls stay with men who cheat!

Taylor Swift, I’m Glad You’re Speaking Out

Taylor, even though you wouldn’t allow yourself to be quoted in Vanity Fair talking about Harry, you did authorize a source. I know from experience that this means you approved the quotes before they were published. The source says that you couldn’t trust Harry and that: “[he] disappeared one night and after that it was like he just didn’t want to keep going.”

The source adds that someone showed you a photograph of Harry kissing another girl while you two were together, and that even though you took him back, you eventually dumped him because you couldn’t trust him. Good for you, Taylor! I’m happy to learn this because so many girls stay with men who constantly cheat on them. You are setting a good example for all girls by saying you you won’t stand for someone disrespecting you.

Taylor’s Lesson: Never Settle

Now maybe Harry, 19, wasn’t ready for a mature relationship even though he said he was. You are also four years older, at the ripe old age of 23, and have been juggling fame and a private life since 2006. It’s unfortunate that he broke your heart in the process, but you have learned a valuable lesson: never settle!

You also stood up for yourself again when you said that you don’t see a problem writing about your exes and your past relationships.

T.Swift — Good For You For Defending Your Music

You said: “For a female to write about her feelings, and then be portrayed as some clingy, insane, desperate girlfriend in need of making you marry her and have kids with her, I think that’s taking something that potentially should be celebrated—a woman writing about her feelings in a confessional way—that’s taking it and turning it and twisting it into something that is frankly a little sexist.”

It’s so good for you to not allow people’s opinions to change your own. It’s also wonderful to hear you have no regrets when it comes to your music!

Taylor, you are one strong woman, and a heck of a role model. Do you agree, HollywoodLifers? Vote now and let me know!

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A Musician

Posted at 5:48 PM on April 4, 2013  

Wow.
I think that’s taking something that potentially should be celebrated—a woman writing about her feelings in a confessional way—that’s taking it and turning it and twisting it into something that is frankly a little sexist.”

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Sophie

Posted at 1:55 PM on March 17, 2013  

the thing is: why does she makes it like it was a 10 years marriage she is divorcing from like they just dated for 3 months, you know…

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The informer

Posted at 7:21 AM on March 12, 2013  

Fact is Taylor doesn’t put out and Harry loves his women (of all ages)so it was never going to work – they weren’t in love, they just dated for a couple of months and probably only hung out about 10 times – hardly a relationship

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Grace

Posted at 5:33 PM on March 10, 2013  

I absolutely agree. This is really the first relationship she’s been in thats brought her a ton of hate, and I’m so glad shes not letting herself get walked over like a doormat. and its funny how, when she finally opens up and sticks up for herself in an interview she’s called a liar, and STILL a slut. everyone seems to think they know taylor’s personal life, more than SHE does which is insane. She can’t control what the media says about her, or who happens to believe what the media says about her, but I love how she said tabloids will turn you into a fictional person, which is 100% true. And they do it to everybody, print lies and whatever they want with no proof and people will believe them. I think this was the best way to defend herself, she handeled it very well. She really is smart when it comes to the media and handeling these sort of things.

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FU

Posted at 5:32 AM on March 8, 2013  

They are both human beings, and it is their both businesses to be dating 6-100 people if they want to, cheating if they want to, making music about boyfriend or love making if they want to, and stood up for themselves on magazines or through press conferences if they want to. You, the fans on both sides; Taylor Swift and Harry Styles, and other people who says “not a fan of both” but slandered these two entertainers anyway, actually don’t have the rights to call Taylor Swift a “slut” or “witch” just because she dated a lot of men and be making music about it, or to call Harry Styles a “cheater” or “unfaithful” just because of his mistake to kiss a another girl when he is in a relationship and mistreating Taylor Swift. We don’t know the facts in the relationship between these two, let it be their private businesses. You wouldn’t like it either, I believe, if you are labelled just like that because of the words and actions you do. Let them be themselves, as entertainers they understand their responsibility to fans because they have brains to think for themselves (which does not involved your help), and you too don’t have the rights to be telling them what is and what is not in their private life either. Give them some space to have their own life too, and you should get a life as well.

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Vivian

Posted at 7:02 PM on March 7, 2013  

Honestly, it’s kind of sad to be even dwelling on this in the interviews. I mean sure it’d be okay for Taylor to express her feelings but majority – not all – of the songs I hear or see from her are about boys. Also the fact that she’s showing her immaturity like the stunt she pulled at the Brits, and this interview talking about their relationship? Ridiculous. As a role model to millions of young girls I hope she understands that having a boyfriend will not solve the world’s problems. But honestly the fact that this is still going on after they broke up is kind of understandable towards people’s reactions… I don’t really hear Harry’s story of this and I hear Taylor’s side more often so yes it does sound like she is a creepy clingy girl.

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zayn_luverr_eenn

Posted at 2:23 PM on March 7, 2013  

Taylor you’re such a slu*!!!!!!!!!!!!!! >.<!!!!!

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Niall Horan fan

Posted at 12:49 AM on March 22, 2013  

Your right she is a f***ing s*ut and a major f***ing bi*ch

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iadvicedyou

Posted at 9:47 PM on March 6, 2013  

It makes me frown seeing your abusive comments. Sure Taylor and Harry broke up. Sadly. But the amount of hate from both fandoms is like…wow. First off, Directioners or/and Swifties you guys are all on the same boat. They both did something wrong which were minor/major. Lets not forget this is normal as human beings. I am on neither side, and I think this should rest. It makes no sense to be going at this for almost 3 months straight. Its ridiculous to the point this situation is amusing. It is not going to help Taylor, Harry, or both fandoms-even you- to be typing up hate and stuff. It makes people angry from just on simple break up. Taylor had this several times before, and did you complain? A little, yes. But this, this is just sick. Yeah its Harry Styles…just chill and enjoy who they are as a person and most importantly supporting their music. Don’t hate. And if I offended you, I am sorry. I am just saying this from my point of view.

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Angie Hernandez

Posted at 7:55 PM on March 6, 2013  

Why did you break up with Harry that is so mean

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chloe

Posted at 10:18 PM on March 5, 2013  

go taylor go.. no need to waste your time for someone like him.. people said you date so many guys, why bother… its normal thing.and keep writing song, your song is great

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zayn_luverr_eenn

Posted at 2:25 PM on March 7, 2013  

can’t you see that taylor is the real reazon for the break up??? i’m not favouring Harry cuz i like 1D, and to be honest, even I thowt it was harry, but now it”s 100% sure Taylor is the witch >.<!!

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eco_ben

Posted at 8:35 PM on March 5, 2013  

lol.just because taylor speak out.it’s the truth already.

i’m calling harry to speak out also his side of the story.

then bonnie will write harry is ungentleman.

double standard.

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anon

Posted at 8:29 PM on March 5, 2013  

Taylor is not a good role model and Harry is dating Louis.

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kim

Posted at 8:28 PM on March 5, 2013  

wow you defend Kristen cheating but think it’s good that taylor dumped harry for cheating??

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anon 2

Posted at 4:43 AM on March 11, 2013  

true shes favouring the females over the males and even though im a female thats still not cool.

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dude

Posted at 6:01 PM on March 5, 2013  

Bonnie are you actually saying somthing nice about Taylor. Im confused she is lashing out because if you google her she is called a slut and a whore because she has been in 6 relationshps since she was 17. And like I’ve said before if she doesent date for a year and a half like the time between Jake & Connor. You gossips will still say she is a serial dater. And make up lies about who she is stalking. This site is one of the worst at printing gossip and lies about her on a daily basis

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Lana

Posted at 5:11 PM on March 5, 2013  

I love Taylor & Harry really is a lying cheating slut…

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hmm

Posted at 11:06 AM on March 6, 2013  

I think you mean taywhore is a lying, cheating, slut.

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anon 2

Posted at 4:45 AM on March 11, 2013  

yeah and taylors not a slut!!
if u didn’t get that, that was sarcasm

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allison

Posted at 5:00 PM on March 5, 2013  

cough, cough BS!!!!!!

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GP

Posted at 12:00 PM on March 8, 2013  

Are you kidding me?? This article is …i dont even know where to begin,…she is older then harry styles and and and she resorts to insulting him on stage….seriously!! but we all had to feel sympathetic when kanye west humiliated her??? i dont think so. I get that she doesnt want to be cheated on but i dont think we needed an article about it and to be honest i think their whole relationship was a publicity stunt for both harry styles and taylor swift….friends around them from both sides have been heard talking about them ….there was never affection between them and harry styles didnt look at her with the care and heart eyes he has looked at others with….so i call bs on this relationship and dont feel sorry for her one bit

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anon 2

Posted at 4:47 AM on March 11, 2013  

totaly agree with GP

 
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