Selena Gomez & Taylor Swift: Their Splits Have Turned Them Into Women

Thu, February 21, 2013 10:30pm EDT by 22 Comments 17,206 Article Views
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Selena and Taylor are rebounding quite nicely from their recent splits, and noted relationship experts tells HollywoodLife.com that these BFFs are blossoming into quite the powerful women! Read on for all the details.

Selena Gomez and Taylor Swift have leaned on each other since both split from their respective beaus at the start of 2013. While they’re beginning to get over Harry Styles and Justin Bieber, they’ve each turned up the heat and proved what glamorous women they’ve become!

Relationship expert Dr. Phil Dembo tells HollywoodLife.com exclusively, “Selena Gomez and Taylor Swift are living parallel lives…both post break-ups with boyfriend, both much more bold and sexy with their look as women and both are best friends.”

Taylor Swift & Selena Gomez Want To Look Their Best

Dr. Dembo tells us that the breakups are pushing the besties to look their very best! “It is often the case that after a break up with a boyfriend or girlfriend, we are much more heightened to wanting to look our best, our sexiest, and our most inviting. One, we want to look good for the new suitors out there and, two, we want to look really good just in case our ‘ex’ is looking our way.”

“The other dynamic working here for both young women is they are are in fact young women and we have been watching their every move and all their growth and development since they were young children,” he adds. “Both Selena and Taylor are emerging into ‘womanhood’ and with each young adult experience such as a new love or a break-up, we will witness a step forward in their evolution as women, and as sexual beings.”

The BFFs Want To Get Back Their Sense Of ‘Self’

Relationship expert Cooper Lawrence agrees. “Several studies have found that after a breakup, young women tend to lose their sense of self and no longer feel like they know who they are…so….a great way to get back your sense of ‘self’ is to explore every aspect of who you are, and especially your sexuality,” she says. “Lots of girls change their appearance and attitude FOR a guy, why wouldn’t they change it AFTER the guy is gone? Makes sense, right? And it’s totally normal behavior, we all do that.”

Do you think that Taylor and Selena have blossomed into women after their breakups, HollywoodLifers?

– Billy Nilles, Reporting by Sandra Clark and Chloe Melas

More On Selena Gomez & Taylor Swift:

  1. Selena Gomez Is Doing So Well & Her Friends Are Helping Her After Split
  2. Selena Gomez Is Over Justin Bieber: ‘She’s Doing Great,’ Says BFF
  3. Taylor Swift Teases Harry Styles In Black Lingerie During BRIT Awards

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Posted at 2:38 PM on March 24, 2013  

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Posted at 5:43 PM on March 22, 2013  

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Zenesia

Posted at 4:04 AM on March 1, 2013  

You guys should just let the guys live their lives. We all know youre guy freaks

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Posted at 6:07 PM on February 28, 2013  

Or make them look like sluts- well Selena anyways. You’re a 20 year old DISNEY star and yeah youre still on Disney cause your shows coming back (according to my 5 year old sister) and you showing clevage… Is that what mature looks like, do i get to go to school or around fancy places and to the mall and show clevage… Or will i get called a slut Selena… I get that this is made by a fashion designer but you can pick something that doesn’t show clevage and your pics on twitter with youre poses and youre dance that you posted i just can’t anymore… I used to like you a long time ago and the more years that have come, i just don’t respect you… Those pictures on the beach with youre now ex boyfriend JB, and that time you were with Alfredo and your but was hanging out of your shorts… I just dont know anymore…
As for Taylor Swift she has mostly always been mature. A singer songwriter and doesn’t show that much clevage.

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Posted at 2:10 PM on February 23, 2013  

taylor looks gorgeous! but i do admit the girl acts childish. i hope she can get her act up and start acting more mature but well. my sister is older and she also acts like a teenager

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Shelley

Posted at 7:43 AM on February 23, 2013  

The sexist media strikes again. A woman can’t “mature” on their own. It has to be because of a guy. I’m willing to bet that them wearing more mature clothes has absolutely nothing to do with their exes.

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Posted at 2:43 PM on February 22, 2013  

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karen

Posted at 1:03 PM on February 22, 2013  

Selena made her name by herself and she didn’t need no Justina at all,she’s been an artist since she was 7 years old

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Zenesia

Posted at 12:04 PM on February 22, 2013  

FINALLY. its a miracle. girls/women watever you call yourselves. tay-Being 23 you must’ve gotten used to the break-ups. N you must know how to do deal with them MATURELY.
sel-You’re 20, you’re too ypung 2 controll someone. Learn 2 controll yourself 1rst

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sabrina

Posted at 11:40 AM on February 22, 2013  

Yes, Selena is famous like this because of Justin, you can say “she had wowp before Justin” but you can’t lie that she’s even more famous because she was his gf. So now, she has more clothes handed to her for her to wear and more people are asking her to be in their movies and stuff. But she’s not a woman, she had to date someone for her to be where she is right now.
But really Selena isn’t that interesting, I think that if Justin dated another girl in hollywood or a model or just someone well known, paps would leave Selena and follow that girl.

And Taylor, you can’t even brand her a mature woman. She can’t get over break-ups, she has to write up to 5 songs about her exes and she practically acts like she’s 13 years old. Plus the whole thing about Taylor and Selena wanting fairytale relationships when those don’t exist.
And that thing about ‘after break ups woman lose who they are’ or whatever, Taylor just says ‘oh well, might as well bash them in a song’ and Selena goes to any guy she sees and flirts. Doesn’t look like they are sad about the break up at all and it definetly doesn’t look like they lost themselves at all.

Give them a few more years and then say if they have matured. But this was just another break up for both of these people. And they’re not mature women yet when they’ve practically just left their teens, they are just wearing more expensive clothing.

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Numa_subba

Posted at 8:51 AM on February 22, 2013  

I think they want to prove themselves more worthy bcos most of the ppl used 2 say dat selena got her fame bcoz of mr.bieber

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mezmreyes

Posted at 8:41 AM on February 22, 2013  

“Women” don’t still live with their parents. “Revenge” singing is not on their agenda either, that is a sure sign of immaturity in fact.

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arandomgirl

Posted at 9:58 AM on February 22, 2013  

That’s an American thing. In a lot of cultures, single men and women live at home until they’re ready to marry. Plus, she might just feel safer. She did have that stalker fan who went to jail for threatening to kill her so no one else could have her, plus the thousands upon thousands of death threats she got from Justin’s crazy fans. I don’t think I’d want to live alone if I was her either. Btw, Justin doesn’t live alone. He has several hangers-on who live with him. He chose to live with them instead of his mom so they could party like rock stars. If you find that more mature than living with family, you are probably at that parents-are-stupid-and-I-know-everything stage. You’ll grow out of it.

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Beli

Posted at 8:35 AM on February 22, 2013  

Selena yes, she’s certainly matured into a young lady. Taylor: that girl gets around like crazy and it wont be more than a month or 2 before she’s knocking it with someone else. then they’ll break up again next time she’s needs to get a new album out!

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JBRULES!

Posted at 8:21 AM on February 22, 2013  

they aren’t women. They are just girls who date every single guy in the world.

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yeah yeah im so hard

Posted at 6:37 PM on February 22, 2013  

um how so Taylor maybe but not Selena

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KAPUA

Posted at 7:53 AM on February 22, 2013  

WOW, I BET INSIDE THEY STILL AND ALWAYS WILL MISS HARRY AND JUSTIN. JUSTIN IS STILL A GENTLEMEN AND VERY GOOD GUY TO SELENA.

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Posted at 4:05 AM on February 22, 2013  

think selena is maturing since her breakup and experimenting with fashion by taking more risks in the outfits she wears. taylor is still a bit immature in my opinion

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someperson

Posted at 2:48 AM on February 22, 2013  

More like into really desperate whores.

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Jenelle

Posted at 6:55 AM on February 22, 2013  

YES.

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