Selena and Taylor are rebounding quite nicely from their recent splits, and noted relationship experts tells HollywoodLife.com that these BFFs are blossoming into quite the powerful women! Read on for all the details.
Selena Gomez and Taylor Swift have leaned on each other since both split from their respective beaus at the start of 2013. While they’re beginning to get over Harry Styles and Justin Bieber, they’ve each turned up the heat and proved what glamorous women they’ve become!
Relationship expert Dr. Phil Dembo tells HollywoodLife.com exclusively, “Selena Gomez and Taylor Swift are living parallel lives…both post break-ups with boyfriend, both much more bold and sexy with their look as women and both are best friends.”
Taylor Swift & Selena Gomez Want To Look Their Best
Dr. Dembo tells us that the breakups are pushing the besties to look their very best! “It is often the case that after a break up with a boyfriend or girlfriend, we are much more heightened to wanting to look our best, our sexiest, and our most inviting. One, we want to look good for the new suitors out there and, two, we want to look really good just in case our ‘ex’ is looking our way.”
“The other dynamic working here for both young women is they are are in fact young women and we have been watching their every move and all their growth and development since they were young children,” he adds. “Both Selena and Taylor are emerging into ‘womanhood’ and with each young adult experience such as a new love or a break-up, we will witness a step forward in their evolution as women, and as sexual beings.”
The BFFs Want To Get Back Their Sense Of ‘Self’
Relationship expert Cooper Lawrence agrees. “Several studies have found that after a breakup, young women tend to lose their sense of self and no longer feel like they know who they are…so….a great way to get back your sense of ‘self’ is to explore every aspect of who you are, and especially your sexuality,” she says. “Lots of girls change their appearance and attitude FOR a guy, why wouldn’t they change it AFTER the guy is gone? Makes sense, right? And it’s totally normal behavior, we all do that.”
Do you think that Taylor and Selena have blossomed into women after their breakups, HollywoodLifers?
— Billy Nilles, Reporting by Sandra Clark and Chloe Melas
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