Single ladies, take a lesson from Taylor Swift, who put ex-boyfriend Harry Styles in his place cleverly and effectively at the Grammys.
Taylor Swift’s Clear & Inspiring Message
Here’s what she told ex-boyfriend Harry Styles in a clear English accent: “We are never EVER getting back together.”
But here’s what she also told him AND told all women who are suffering from heartbreak after a painful breaking — “We are never ever getting back together because — SORRY, I’M BUSY OPENING UP THE GRAMMYS!”
That’s right, Harry! Taylor is far too busy doing something exciting, challenging, and worthwhile to be contemplating getting back into a self-esteem damaging relationship with you!
Taylor is telling romance-damaged women that the best antidote to the agony of being underappreciated in a romance is to get busy focusing on your own career and personal growth.
As Taylor sang and strutted around the stage with her gorgeous long legs, shaking her hips, she set a mood of confident defiance.
Taylor Swift: My Relationship Was A Circus
She purposely dressed like a ringmaster and set the stage for her song, “We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together,” as a circus, because she was telling the world that her relationship with Harry had felt like one — over the top; a performance lived out in public.
Even Taylor’s private post-breakup tears became public when a fan snapped a photo of her leaving the holiday vacation she had shared with Harry before their breakup fight.
You Can Learn From Taylor Swift
So ladies, she’s also telling you — learn from her and don’t turn your relationship or breakup into a circus, even if it’s unintentional.
But most of all remember — if you’re hurting after a hard split, don’t stay in bed moping — get busy!
Get busy like Taylor is doing and don’t stop! Yes, you do deserve to be loved and appreciated, but in the meantime — move forward living your life!
Thanks Taylor for that inspiring message to all women suffering the bad romance blues!
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