Taylor Swift Is ‘Too Busy’ For Harry Styles’ Bad Romance

Sun, February 10, 2013 11:29pm EDT by Bonnie Fuller 25 Comments

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Single ladies, take a lesson from Taylor Swift, who put ex-boyfriend Harry Styles in his place cleverly and effectively at the Grammys.

Taylor Swift had strong messages for Harry Styles and for women in bad relationships at the 2013 Grammy Awards.

Taylor Swift’s Clear & Inspiring Message

Here’s what she told ex-boyfriend Harry Styles in a clear English accent: “We are never EVER getting back together.”

But here’s what she also told him AND told all women who are suffering from heartbreak after a painful breaking — “We are never ever getting back together because — SORRY, I’M BUSY OPENING UP THE GRAMMYS!”

That’s right, Harry! Taylor is far too busy doing something exciting, challenging, and worthwhile to be contemplating getting back into a self-esteem damaging relationship with you!

Taylor is telling romance-damaged women that the best antidote to the agony of being underappreciated in a romance is to get busy focusing on your own career and personal growth.

As Taylor sang and strutted around the stage with her gorgeous long legs, shaking her hips, she set a mood of confident defiance.

Taylor Swift: My Relationship Was A Circus

She purposely dressed like a ringmaster and set the stage for her song, “We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together,” as a circus, because she was telling the world that her relationship with Harry had felt like one — over the top; a performance lived out in public.

Even Taylor’s private post-breakup tears became public when a fan snapped a photo of her leaving the holiday vacation she had shared with Harry before their breakup fight.

You Can Learn From Taylor Swift

So ladies, she’s also telling you — learn from her and don’t turn your relationship or breakup into a circus, even if it’s unintentional.

But most of all remember — if you’re hurting after a hard split, don’t stay in bed moping — get busy!

Get busy like Taylor is doing and don’t stop! Yes, you do deserve to be loved and appreciated, but in the meantime — move forward living your life!

Thanks Taylor for that inspiring message to all women suffering the bad romance blues!

Do you agree HollywoodLifers – did you love Taylor’s performance? Or not? Let me know!

WATCH: Taylor Swift Disses Harry Styles In Her Grammy Performance

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A DOLLAR STOPPED GOD FROM SMILING !

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An inspiring message to girls? no. The song “We Are Never Getting Back Together” is spiteful. So to try and spin this as inspiration is just plain stupid. She had no right to do that on national television at the Grammy’s. This isn’t Teen Choice Awards, but the GRAMMY’S! I guess I can see this angle. But honestly, that was WAY too low of a blow… I am trying to understand that she is hurt, but lashing out at your exes is not how you handle break-ups. Come on, Swift! Have some dignity and stop playing the victim card!

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Really? I think it’s so inappropriate and immature to mock your exes on national tv and then gloating about performing on the Grammys. Miss Swift needs to improve her musicality, stop being a bed-hopping star-f**ker and GROW UP!

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re: woodsider. I couldn’t agree more. She is not growing as a person, if anything she is shrinking even further back to her tween years.

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you are right taylor needs to stop!

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She must be awful in bed. I bet Taylor Swift could not name you all the men she’s slept with in the last 12 months. Ladies: If your boyfriend thinks you’re worth keeping, he’ll make sure you know it. Taylor Swift is going through a man every month…and none of them wants her back.

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@Mr. J. You have no idea what goes on behind closed doors. Any man would be insane not to want her. Beauty, fame, wealthy, HUMOR (the opening was a spectacle because that is what they wanted it to be…she winked at him…grow up he is on a magazine cover with a stripper). I am sure she already has a prince waiting. Hopefully she picks the right one…my money is on Lautner, he has been a friend and lover in the past, he would be good for her.

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wow umm i doubt he would ever say that because u kno he was the one who broke up with HER!how mature a 23? year old acting olike a 3 year old when harry is one of the worlds most famous celebritie and ppl always put the world on his shoulders and hes only 19…taylor leave harry the f*ck alone

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the only thing Taylor proved was how immature she really was. Shes 23 i think its time she starts acting like it. You look at Adele(who is younger then Taylor) and you realize just how immature Taylor is.

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@Davis – Adele is 24. She was born in 1988. Taylor was born in 1989. Adele is older than Taylor.

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taylor is not just a hearkbreaker but she is also jealous of justin bieber

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I can’t tell if this is cleverly mocking her immature behaviour or if the writer is actually thick enough to think what Taylor did, mocking Harry’s voice/accent in the performance, was something to admire. Taylor needs to get her head out of her arse and act her age. I’m not even going to comment on how she must be feeling in actuality towards the breakup considering the whole thing was PR in the first place. Ah well, Taylor, too bad your “boyfriend” called up and said “I still love Lou.”

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Get so sick of these talking idiots! Just show the damn video!

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Good to see Taylor showing some skin. It’s past time she shucked the cutesy little girl image.

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Taylor we love u< but the fact that you write songs about your break-ups is freaky. You're talented and you've got it all, so theres no need to write songs about your break-ups. Poor Harry………………………………………………………

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Harry styles broke up with Taylor swift the she tried to get him back and he said no cuz of what she said about Niall and directioners’ she was taking over his life and chased after him not the other way around. Harry had no time for her meanness!

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Exactly!

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Here’s what Taylor really taught girls with her performance last night. 1. Still keep being dillusional and think your ex still into you when he clearly doesn’t give a damn. 2. Sing a revenge song over and over again to try to get back at your ex. 3. Make the whole world hate him( she’s clearly mad that it isn’t working this time).
Here’s what Taylor told the world last night. 1. I clearly can’t get over Harry. 2. She is the one that turned the relationship into a circus. 3. I may be 23 but I still have the mind of a 12 year old( no disrespect to 12 year olds.) 4. I’m 23 and I think it’s OK to act immaturity. 5. I don’t know how not to pick out a hideous outfit.

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No, you can learn from Taylor Swift how to be an immature woman at 23. Shes just a joke.

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so true

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She is gorgeous as always. He didn’t deserve her!

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Life goes on heart breakers it will continue coz ur well known rich and famous u neva have a steady boyfriend swift my dea

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You lot are so retarded. Seriously.

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So i dont get it… She says she doesnt Wanna get back with him then she wrote a song of missing him Wtf are you sick!!!!!!

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For the past few months this site has become a joke. Especially when covering Taylor, Rihanna, Selena, etc. Taylor has done this circus routine several other times, before breaking up with Harry. Most performers do their nominated song. Her song choice has nothing to do with Harry.

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