Rob — you should trust Kristen. If you don’t love her, fine — but if you love her and don’t trust her, that’s no good. The only way to really repair your relationship is to trust her again!
Robert Pattinson, I know you were heartbroken when Kristen Stewart cheated on you with Rupert Sanders, but if you are committed to rebuilding a successful relationship with Kristen, you HAVE to trust her! It’s not fair to anyone for you to keep holding her mistakes against her.
It was a huge mistake and she groveled in front of the world. In her very public apology, she pleaded for your forgiveness,”This momentary indiscretion has jeopardized the most important thing in my life, the person I love and respect the most, Rob. I love him, I love him, I’m so sorry.”
Everyone makes mistakes, and Kristen recognizes this was a huge one. You’ve decided to give her a second chance, so you have to honor that. If she ever cheated on you again, that would be it and you would be right to not trust her. But this was a one-time mistake, and she deserves your forgiveness and trust.
Robert Pattinson, Kristen Stewart’s Committed To You
She has done everything to prove it was a mistake and assure you that she will never do it again. A source recently told Hollywoodlife.com that Kristen made a “commitment” to you to cut Rupert out of her life forever, and she’s stayed true to that promise. While you’re away in Australia, she’s making it clear she learned her lesson and is staying far away from him!
I know you’re worried that, while you’re away filming The Rover, Kristen may stray from that promise, but stop! You have to trust her while you’re away. You didn’t have to take her back after the affair — but you did. It isn’t fair to you, her, or your relationship for you to continue to focus on her past mistakes. To give your relationship a real, honest try, you have to start over with a clean slate.
Rob, Give Couples’ Therapy A Try
If you really do still love her and are still unable to get past her infidelity, it’s probably insecurity. The only way to get past these issues is for you to go to therapy. Lots of couples go to therapy so they can build a happy, healthy relationship together, and that may be exactly what you and Kristen need. You and Kristen had a beautiful relationship together, it would be a shame for you to lose it because you didn’t try everything.
If this relationship is really special to you — you need to hold on to it. You’ve made it clear your relationship with Kristen is something worth fighting for, so you need to give it all you’ve got! Do you agree, HollywoodLifers? Tell me now!
WATCH: Robert Pattinson Hooks Up With Mystery Girl To Get Back At Kristen Stewart
– Bonnie Fuller
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Rob & Kris ARE still together and have NEVER been on a ‘trial separation’ – visit my blog and I’ll PROVE it to you. :) Every time you click into these “Robsten” articles – makes these gossip rags a few pennies and just happens to hurt you at the same time because of YOUR “real feeling” Twilight obsession. That is the ONLY reason we are continuing to see this stuff. If you’re struggling with a STUBBORN Twilight obsession that is driving you crazy STILL – Search for “Misfit Chick’s Twilight Blogpost” out in Internetland.
Angel
Posted at 10:30 PM on February 16, 2013
Yes.. I do really hope things can really work with both of them.. as said and written people do make mistakes so why do we sentence them to “death” by just a mistake? We learn from mistake and that is why we can become mature and know how to lead a better life and a relationship. Agreed?
katie
Posted at 10:37 PM on February 12, 2013
@ tom we can have different opinions but using vulgaities becuse you lack the ability to express yourself is degrading to the rest of us as well as to yourself. Rise above that please.
Joyce Delgado
Posted at 7:56 PM on February 12, 2013
I AM NOT TELLING KIDS TO TO GO LOOK AT ANY THING; IF YOU ARE NOT KIDS YOU ARE ACTING LIKE WHORE,
hope and pray
Posted at 4:40 PM on February 12, 2013
ROB you can’t trust her! Don’t listen to dreamers who want you two back together. If you marry her she will make you life a living HELL! Don’t do it. THINK MAN THINK!
irish girl
Posted at 7:34 AM on February 12, 2013
!pjoyce Delgado u are so gulible. Have u ever been told not to believe evrything u read or hear. So if Rob was Married I can tell u it would b all over the place and the world would know. So Joyce u must b a young fan cause u believe the fantasy (Edward and Bella). But I’m sorry to disappoint u but this is real life and there not married and those pictures are real. Trust me on that. So stop tormenting people with go to goggle. Stop it now please cause its boring.
most people that i know usually get a second phone to talk to someone there having an affair with.
Joyce Delgado
Posted at 6:58 AM on February 12, 2013
@IRISA GIRL YOU DID NOT GO ASK GOOGLE[ IS ROBERT DOUGLAS THOMAS PATTINSON MARRIED ] IT WILL TELL YOU [ I`M MARRIED TO KRISTEN JAYMES STEWART SHE LIGHT MY SOUL ] THEN ASK [ DID LIBERTY ROSS FAME KRISTEN STEWART WITH FAKE PHOTOS ]
irish girl
Posted at 5:40 PM on February 11, 2013
@Joyce Delgado give it a rest will u. There is nobody listening to u and ure garbage that they are married. By the way DO YOU KNOW THEM PERSONALLY?. NO U DON’T. So stop please.
twilighted57
Posted at 1:54 PM on February 11, 2013
Bonnie, you are the last person in the world who should be giving relationship advice. I’m actually shocked you are since you often rely on Dr, Phil Dembo for your tabloid therapy nonsense.
That said, your worst nightmare is that Kristen and Rob actually breakup for good. That’s why we get those contradictory stories from you. You have used them as a cash gravy train for Hollywood Life from the first minute they came on the scene. You and your writers have invaded their privacy, made up stories, and you have let your editors run amuck with the truth. You have feed the celebrity gossip machine with nonsense for fun and profit.
I recognize that you turned around US Magazine years ago while with American Media, Inc by deliberately pursuing a strategy of capturing the private lives of celebrities. That lovely company that owns so many of these sleazy tabloids. And you took that strategy to Hollywood Life where you helped to transform celebrity gossip into the vicious, paparazzi-fed, 24/7 tabloid free-for-all that helps you and the companies you work for get rich off off of invading the privacy of others. It may great for you, but its not so pleasant for the people whose lives you play with. And the public is tiring of your lies.
So don’t give us any of your advice. You should be quietly happy that no one is chasing you around with a camera photographing you and your family when you are just trying to live your life. That’s exactly what you and colleagues encourage.
Joyce Delgado
Posted at 5:19 PM on February 11, 2013
@TWILIGFTED57 IS YOU KNOW ROBERT I MARRIED TO KRISTENASK GOOGLE [ IS ROBERT DOUGLAS THOMAS PATTINSON MARRIED ] IT WILL ANSWER [ I`M MARRIED TO KRISTEN JAYMA\ES STEWART SHE LIGHT MY SOUL
Rosita freskita
Posted at 11:53 AM on February 11, 2013
is pathetic that HL this giving precise instructions of how people should act, his staff first review including this reporter (a) and talk bye!
Ellenj55
Posted at 10:42 AM on February 11, 2013
I can’t believe the conspiracy theories on this board. I have the feeling all this craziness is from Tweens who don’t have too many life experiences. This girl made a mistake, and Rob has forgiven her. Even God forgives. If you don’t like her that’s fine, but nasty name calling and quoting fake stories as the truth is very immature . Life does not work perfect for the famous and rich. They have problems too! This was a big one for Kristen. The cheating happened. Kristen herself said it herself. She publically apologized to Rob. That’s all we know for a fact. They have not talked about it because its personal. They have done everything to play down their personal lives. It’s these rag sites that makeup lies and crucify them. That part I don’t understand. Why do people want to hurt or say aweful things about someone you personally don’t know. They owe s nothing more than a good performance for the price of your ticket. This couple are not stupid. If they break up I believe a statement will be made. To do so would benefit them because these nutty stories and comments will eventually stop. Until the statement is made I don’t believe anything written by these sites. HL had to pull a story because they made it up and named an innocent party in the article. They were well on their way to a slander suit. I’m 64 and a fan of both. But I think I qualify as having many life experiences. Good or bad, it’s how you deal with it that grows you as a person. I married 18 m husband 19. We were kids but we knew where we wanted to go in life and we have been married 46 yrs. We have endured a lot from losing our 22 yr old daughter , to health issues. Life takes you in directions you never expected. But our love as sustained and we feel blessed that we are still in love and are grateful for our life. Lets be kind it truly makes you feel better, not bitter.
twilighted57
Posted at 4:36 PM on February 11, 2013
Ellen, I think you are having problems recognizing a fact when you see one. These are the facts you reference. Their is no evidence to support the notion that Kristen ever made a mistake unless you believe everything you read in a the tabloids. And a careful examination of their evidence shows that 1). The US Magazine/FameFlyNet version of events reguarding this so-called scandal does not comport with their so called photographic evidence. 2) The photographics was staged and photoshopped. Read the Grand Punk at justiceforkristen.wordpress.com. Part 12 just released proves this is the case as to the guard rail photos. 3) Kristen has publically said anything. People Magazine claim a”apology” from her, but has no supporting evidenc that she ever said anything to anyone there. About the only fact you have right is that they (Rob &Kristen) have not talked to anyone about it. And if if you don’t believe anything written by these sites, why do you steadfastly believe them when they claim this incident happened?.
Joyce Delgado
Posted at 4:56 PM on February 11, 2013
@ELLENJ55 STOP LYIING ON KRISTEN STEWART; YOU ARE I DID NOT SEE A LIVE VIDEO OF HER AOLOGINE TO NO ONE . IT WAS A SO CALLED REPORTRE WITH A PICTURE OF KRISTEN , READING AND SAYING THE WORDS SHE JUST READ WAS KRISTEN APOLOGY. TELL ME SOME THING @ELLENJ55 IF ANY ONE READ WORDS THAT THEY SAY IT IS YOUR WORDS AND YOU ARE NOT THERE. DO THAT MAKE IT TRUE? HERE IS SOMING THE MEDIA IS NOT TELLING .KRISTEN IS NOT ROBERT GIRLFRIEND, SHE IS HIS WIFE. ASK GOOGLE [ IS ROBERT DOUGLAS THOMAS PATTINSON MARRIED ] IT WILL READ [ I`M MARRIED TO KRISTEN JAYMES STEWART SHE LIGHT MY SOUL ]
Tom
Posted at 12:07 AM on February 11, 2013
hope and pray
Posted at 4:58 PM on February 10, 2013
TRUST KRISTEN???????? She has already tried to contact Rupert for COFFEE???????
Their isn’t anything to trust there!
have the right to speak
Posted at 2:00 PM on February 10, 2013
OMG BONNIE WILL YOU EVER GET OVER YOURSELF. ROB IS NEVER GOING TO LISTEN TO YOUR ADVICE SO GIVE IT UP WITH THIS BS. HE HAS FRIENDS AND IF HE WANTS ADVICE HE WILL GO TO THEM AND NOT YOU
FAKE PHOTO CONSPIRACY THEORISTS: WHAT IF the original cheating scandal WAS true? How do you think it makes Kristen feel, if you’re all so sure she would never do something like this?
HOW MANY MORE Twilight Fans will Kristen LOSE if she REALLY made this mistake?
NEWSFLASH: Kristen COULD have been in a WONDERFUL relationship with Robert BEFORE this happened – and STILL have been rendezvousing around with Rupert!!
YES, SHE COULD HAVE!!
Here’s the conclusion of a Dr. Keith Ablow’s article (aside from my own experience!!): “In my psychiatric office, if Pattinson were to insist on jettisoning Stewart from his life exclusively because she had expressed herself sexually with another man, I would tell him he had never truly loved her. And I would be right.”
As to why those cheating photos “may” have been manipulated (sure looks like it, huh?); what about the possibility that US Weekly (the original purchaser and publisher of those pictures) made a deal and/or worked with marketing people from Summit – since they couldn’t control the leak – to make the incriminating situation appear both “tame” AND “naughty” enough to 1) convince the world that Kristen WAS being bad; while 2) not show it as “bad as it could have been shown” so that the mean gossip magazine gets to tell it’s HUGE, money-making story AND BDp2 still makes its boatloads of bucks.
EVERYONE in Hollywood WANTS BDp2 to make money… In Hollywood it will spill over!!
It would have been MUCH more difficult for Twilight Fans to forgive Kristen MAYBE… If we saw those photos for what they actually were. They may have “toned them down” so that WE could be more easily manipulated and we’d still go see the movie.
Rob & Kris ARE still together – visit my blog and I’ll PROVE it to you. :) Every time you click into these “Robsten” articles – makes these gossip rags a few pennies and just happens to hurt you at the same time because of YOUR “real feeling” Twilight obsession. That is the ONLY reason we are continuing to see this stuff. If you’re struggling with a STUBBORN Twilight obsession that is driving you crazy STILL – Search for “Misfit Chick’s Twilight Blogpost” out in Internetland or click on my name and scroll down to the Twilight post.
katie
Posted at 12:26 PM on February 10, 2013
None of us know either Rob or Kristen other then what they want us to know. The one thing Rob has always been clear about is loyalty, committment, fidelity. If the public knew how important those values were to Rob then certainly Kristen knew. For what ever reason she violated, she violated his most important values. Three things followed; she counted on his love to forgive her asif it was not a big deal, or she never thought she would get caught or it was the way out of a relationship she no longer wanted to be in.Only kristen knows that answer. Trust is a value that once broken takes time to repair, you never go back to what it once was, the crack will always be a weak point in the relationship. Rob only knows his torment and how he was ablt to forgive but never forget the incident. Even if he wants to trust her the weak spot is always there. It just may be too hard for him to live with, so he is doing the right thing for both of them in ending it. I also think he timed this to minimize the pain and drama for both of them. He has always considered her even when he didn’t have to. Time to move on for both of them.
PotH
Posted at 3:25 PM on February 10, 2013
@katie…he speaks…but you should know where looking…after all he is not so private person like everybody talking…and who want to know – know everything from him personaly
I absolutely agree with kate, I trusted rob would do what is best for both of them. He is a mature, level headed gentleman and I honestly believe that it is a time to move on for both of them.
Good luck in the future.
PotH
Posted at 12:26 PM on February 10, 2013
Robert Pattinson and hope all this hate will one day come to you … because you’re silent all the time and you are not shut mouth of your insane fans…you are coward and weak ugly mom’s little boy…so many months after, your fans still attacks your so called “love of yours life”…and you doing nothing. you are “busy”. haha what a joke!
This is his way of ending things and trying to make himself look like the hurt one,I dont beleive he is.This is a great way to end things,it was all a set up and he was in on it with the advice of Mum & sisters.who dont approve of him being with Kristen. It is all about Rob making money and being at the top .He now hates Twilight, the movies that made him very rich and Kristen got him his start in.I also hope itspoilt the whole Twilight seried for them, maby one day he will feel their pain,on his way back down the ladder,maby its only the outside that looks good,I once heard in an interview he is no Edward Cullen.
DB
Posted at 5:09 AM on February 11, 2013
@chicklette Wow, Kristen fans are the most vicious on the internet. She did wrong by cheating with a married man yet her fans continually attack Rob and call into question his character? No wonder she hasn’t shown the least bit of remorse for what she did, she has a whole brigade coddling her and acting as if she’s the victim. pfft
Joyce Delgado
Posted at 7:03 AM on February 11, 2013
@CHICKLETTE DON`T BE MAD AT ROBERT, YOU CAN BUT KNOW WHAT THEY ARE LIKE BECAUSE THE MEDIA WANT T O SAY THE WORD FOR THEM. THE MWDIA WANT TO RUN THERE LIFE FOR THEM, THAT WAY THE MEDIA DON`T HAVE TO LEAVE THEY DESK. THEY JUST MAKE IT UP, BUT DON`T THINK ROERT DON`T LOVE KRISTEN , KRISTEN IS HIS SOUL MATE GO TO GOOGLE TYPE IN THIS [ IS ROBERT DOUGLAS THOMAS PATTINSON MARRIED ] AND IT WILL TELL YOU THAT[ I`M MARRIED TO KRISTEN JAYMES STEWART SHE LIGHT MY SOUL ……IT TRUE
@PotH: You must just remember Rob could not defend Kristen because he was very busy running away and picking up “so-called” models to have sex with her for the entire night twice last season he was to busy to protect his girlfriend and co-star, what a gentleman, but Kristen fought like a tiger for her relationship, I have lost all my respect for him, he left his girlfriend in Engeland for Twilight on the drop op a penny aswell, very selfish man only care for his sex needs
HP
Posted at 4:10 AM on February 10, 2013
Spinnaker
Posted at 9:42 AM on February 10, 2013
@Spinnaker: Believe me I feel truly sorry for you you have for months now been on the same song calling somebody you don’t know a cheat, you have not been able to move forward you are stuck in a pigeon hole How Terrible, If God can forgive then who do you actually pray to when you need help and forgiveness you are a very sad person
victims
Posted at 3:29 AM on February 10, 2013
So you see Rob? you can be the fuc king hollywood with the blessing of the clinically insane fans.
Nardocchio1
Posted at 12:56 PM on February 18, 2013
Really !!! I am not buying into the fact that , Kristen wrote the heartfelt Apology !!! Someone else Wrote it for her , For Sure … We have to step back , and leave this drama unfold on its
own !!! I am a big ” Twilight ” fan and can’t believe i am saying this but , I hope that they
can get past this … If it is meant to be Well !!!! The big picture is , sometimes we have to
make the right Decisions , for the right Reasons !!!!!!!!!