‘Vampire Diaries': Why I’m Glad Stefan Is Moving On From Elena

Fri, January 25, 2013 3:30pm EDT by 45 Comments
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Julia Sanders

Posted at 6:48 AM on April 21, 2013  

So i am glad that Stefan is grinding happiness somewhere, but i hope with every fiber in my being that he and Elena find their way back to each other and stay in love for the rest of eternity!

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card

Posted at 9:04 AM on April 9, 2013  

Hi, thanks for sharing.

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Ambie

Posted at 6:50 PM on March 22, 2013  

No the love triangle is awesome.

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sabrina

Posted at 6:22 AM on February 6, 2013  

Let’s be real people…I love stefan..I love damon..equally..but the series isn’t named the damon diaries..or is it??!!coz I might be watching the wrong show..the story so far is been told from stefan’s point of view..his diaries..not damon’s…he is narrating his story..so basically everything has to do and end with him…so people I seriously doubt if damon would end up with elena…its all a matter of time…

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Kendall

Posted at 11:09 AM on February 4, 2013  

To be honest i am not tired of the love triangle at all. It kept everyone wondering who Elena was going to chose and i still am a supporter for Team Stefan. Stefan has been there for her since the very beginning, who has done everything he can to make her happy. Once Elena realizes who she has fallen for ( Damon ) she will come running back to Stefan i have no doubt. But for the meanwhile i do like that Stefan hooked up with Rebekah, because he needs to at least attempt to move on to make the love triangle more confusing. He will always love Elena and I think She will realize it but maybe too late.

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Paulena

Posted at 7:07 PM on February 4, 2013  

I agree. As much as I think the love triangle shouldn’t end right now. They need to start moving Stefan closer to Elena. Ultimately the triangle should end with Stefan and Elena. Damon is best being the funny cynical vampire. It will be epic when Elena becomes human and runs to Stefan. I hope though he doesn’t think Rebekah is getting an ounce of the cure. She’s cute though. So conflicting. Haha!! Stelena! Maybe Damon and rebekah can be together!

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Jau Ðɇ TiŋKɇr

Posted at 5:08 AM on February 6, 2013  

Completely agree with you.. if some people doesn’t want ths love triangle anymore, why not find someone for Damon.. obviously Stelena’s love was unique.. the story is based on their love.. the diary it written on Stefan’s point of view.. so let Rebekah and Damon be together and Stefan and Elena need to get back together… i ship Stelena <3

 
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Fran

Posted at 1:24 AM on January 30, 2013  

You are right as usual Andy. If Stefan had continued to be pining for Elena that would’ve made him a very sad man, but if they bring together Stefan and Elena again after everything that has gone down, how sad and pathetic would that make him? OMFG…I’ll be crying myself to sleep if that ever happens… Eww. I CANNOT believe that people want Stelena to be together again. I am a Stefan fan and I would HATE it if he takes Elena back ever again. That would suck big time and Im hoping that the writers let Stefan keep some of his dignity and manhood…No Stelena please! I want Stefan with anybody else BUT Elena…:( pretty please with a cherry TREE on top…

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Anna

Posted at 8:53 AM on January 29, 2013  

I so enjoy Stefan and Rebekah. I agree the lovetriangles on the show are getting old. I like that Stefan is not compelling himself a girl or lashing out on other people.
I love that he goes straight for the hot girl who wants sex with him to and that he even talks about it, sooo damn hawt. I want to see more of this Stefan.

Elena’s attitude goes on my nerves. Damon killed or tried to kill so many of her friends and family including Caroline twice, Bonnie, Alaric, Jeremy, Matt, Tyler and even holy Elena wanted to kill Kol and so kill 1000s of vampires all over the world and last season she daggered Rebekah when Rebekah was helping them and later she wandted her dead and was being proactive in the plan to help kill her, so how does she have the never to ask Stefan about Rebekah and point out she tried to kill her. Yeah, Rebekah killed her, but she killed her to save her family and herself. At least she had a reason, but Damon just killed Jeremy because he couldn’t deal with the fact that he got rejected.

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hathorsakhmet

Posted at 9:27 AM on January 29, 2013  

In Reply To Anna:

Hummmm!!!! I find it interesting that some people still can’t see that all life is important. Yes Damon has killed or attempted to kill people and yes some were people that Elena knows. Does it matter less if Elena did not know the people???? I suppose it’s okay that Stefan has killed more people than Damon that we’ve seen so far and it’s okay that they were not related to Elena, correct??? Those people killed by Stefan had families as well. Stefan is no saint like anyone else on the show. Killing people, taking life is wrong either way. Did not Matt kill Finn??? Did not Jeremy rip the head off of a Hybrid??? Isn’t Tyler trying to kill Klaus with the rest of our gang??? Does Stefan take animal life while feeding??? Blood bags are your best bet for not taking life because blood is giving willing by the human donor but oh wait, Stefan has no other choice but to kill innocent animals because he can’t control his bloodlust. So who really is innocent in this game of survival??? It’s definitely not Stefan Salvatore…Lol!!! Wake up TVD People & Realize Stefan Has Done More Harm To Life As Damon Has & He Definitely Is No St. Stefan. Elena has made a major difference in Damon’s life reawakening inside him the value of human life. Damon has changed a lot since S1 due mainly to his Love for Elena Gilbert. Even Jeremy knows not to kill Damon [04x11] because it destroy his Sister. Jeremy may be angry but he knows. Jeremy has moved on from the unfortunate snapping of the neck scene and so should all you Stefan Worshippers!!!

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DE-MEANT-2B

Posted at 11:18 AM on January 29, 2013  

not to mention that damon has since saved the lives of caroline, tyler, bonnie, matt and jeremy!!! and as for the forever pulling out the jeremy neck snap out of ur “desperate stelena fans making a point bag” if you also haven’t noticed or simply just choose to ignore. DAMON WAS READY AND WILLING TO DIE INSTEAD OF HURTING JEREMY AGAIN!!! step out of the past and join the rest of us in the present!! it’s season 4 and damon has more than made up for the past and has actually chosen to care no matter how much it can end up hurting instead of stefan who chooses NOT to care whenever HE’S hurting!!

 
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Christie

Posted at 1:27 AM on February 2, 2013  

Elena was the one who killed Finn

 
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KD

Posted at 9:24 PM on January 27, 2013  

I’m over the triangle. Full Stop. Im surprised Elena has any fans at all. If they go the same back and forth between brothers routine, I really think the show is going to suffer in it’s final seasons. Time to grow a set and move on with character development and story.

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Hathor Sakhmet

Posted at 10:53 AM on January 27, 2013  

I preferred Stefan with Caroline since she’s the one actually sired to Stefan [behavior wise and all]. She’s loyal to him and it’s pretty much sincere. Tyler deserves better than Caroline. We all know how rehashing past relationships sometimes lead to major disappointments. Rebekah will experience some hurt once/if the cure is found and Stefan shows interest in Elena again. Damon & Elena are together with a lot of obstacles, which I feel was not fair to us DElena fans but at least they are finally together. They have more chemistry than any other couple on TVD. I’m tired of Bonnie being all alone, which could definitely lead to a cranky witch. Everyone deserves some loving and I’m happy people are moving more towards what they want rather than continuing relationships that aren’t beneficial. Team DElena, Team Staroline/Stebekah/Statherine & Team Tyler/Bonnie with whomever comes into their lives. Hummmm, there’s a though Team Tonnie!!!!

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Ольга

Posted at 4:59 AM on January 27, 2013  

Пусть Стефан останется с Ребеккой, а Елена с Дэймоном, Кэролайн с Клаусом.

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Paulena

Posted at 9:13 PM on January 26, 2013  

I think that rebeka compelled stefan to forget. And now when she gets stabbed will break free. Or she doesn’t trust him so he knows she’s easy and will sleep with her so she trusts him and get the cure for elena

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Cherie

Posted at 9:09 PM on January 26, 2013  

I love Stelena fan even though Damon is totally hot but I did enjoy me some Stefen getting action from one hot blonde original now I no they don’t typically follow the books word for word but sorry all you delena fans she chooses Stefen In the end so if they choose to go with the books ending prepare your box of tissues

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Kandy

Posted at 9:26 PM on January 27, 2013  

If they follow the ghostwriters ending that would be lame and predictable.

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DE-MEANT-2B

Posted at 10:51 AM on January 28, 2013  

that ending was written by a ghost writer and NOT the true creator of the series lj smith. she wanted a delena ending and was fired from writing HER own story for it cuz the publishers thaught a stelena ending was more suitable. i hope the show follows the wishes of lj smith and what she wanted cuz nobody else had the right to tell her story!! stelena fans might want to get their box of tissue ready also. anyway, why would the show end in stelena when we all know the books did(wrongfully so)? what’s the anticipation in that?

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Paulena

Posted at 12:44 PM on January 28, 2013  

If the series ends with Stelena then things are right in the world again. I love their chemistry. I love how in season three all she wanted to was save the love of her life. Yea crap happened she’s a vampire and sired to Damon which means yes her feelings are magnified. Can anyone blame her she generated feelings along the way of saving stefan. Lets be real people if you get told numerous times by the man you love is done and over and he becomes cold you start to take the affection from the one who wants to be with you. But she’s in love with Stefan. So endgame should be the reuniting and love between them

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stelena+damonasaclosefwend

Posted at 4:57 PM on January 29, 2013  

Your right since the begging Stefan was meant 2 b wid Elena and it will just b really stupid if he is not at the end of the season

and it’s not just like sdelena hav been through a lot of “obstacles” stelena hav 2 like wid deh ripper, Elena knowin bout vamps,Klaus bein bck ,Elena turnin in 2 a vamp, Katherine’s return e.c.t
They haven’t really been happy wid out being in danger or wid Damon getting in the way
and unlike Damon Stefan respects Elena’s orders and leaves her and Damon 2 be 2GETHER !! Damon is a nice guy but he dusn’t realize dat he really thinks of her as a best friend or a sister

And b4 Elena turned into a vamp she chose Stefan ! But is 2rue dat ppl say dat she has more in commen wid Damon when she is a vamp as she shares the same opinions and interests wid him and dat she dusn’t no how Stefan can b so calm a nd relaxed and still live a normail life wid dat problem

p.s pleaz don’t get offended by wot I say the whole point of commenting is to give ur opinion and I really don’t want have a “debate/argument”

 
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X

Posted at 4:13 PM on January 30, 2013  

You really think being with a guy who abuses your emotionally is true love? Stefan treated Elena like dirt last season. How many times did he rip out her heart last season? He even physically threatened her. She said “I won’t love a ghost forever” and “we’ll let him go” last season and this season he’s lied to her and tried to “fix her”. This isn’t a true love story, its two people who have hurt each other because it doesn’t work. Damon has changed who he is because of his love for Elena and Elena fell in love with him despite her feelings for Stefan. Damon’s love is unconditional, he’ll always choose her, and Elena said “its the most real thing i’ve EVER felt. I love you Damon.” If Stelena is endgame then this was the worst love story I’ve ever watched.

 
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Paulena

Posted at 5:59 PM on January 30, 2013  

Abisive? That’s a bit much. Yea he’s not perfect and the man is fighting a demon. He told her those things bc he was under compulsion. Everyone had said one time it another this kind of love never dies. Especially klaus. Stefan tried to stab himself to stop from hurting her. He loved her through a the crap. He was trying to keep her safe by pushing her away. Damon has killed her family. He loves her ya but for his selfish reasons. Damon has always pushed stefan down by tempting him with his one biggest weakness. So I don’t think either choice is perfect of we are looking at a healthy relationship. Oh and he wanted to fix her bc she never wanted to be one. Damon could care less what she didn’t want. The story is epic in my opinion with Stelena. To end them together can show that love is really strong.

 
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Jau Ðɇ TiŋKɇr

Posted at 6:15 AM on February 6, 2013  

@Paulena Agree

 
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Hathor Sakhmet

Posted at 1:18 PM on January 28, 2013  

Although she stayed with Stefan, she still Loved Damon more and that was obvious during her reaction to Damon’s Death. It was then that Stefan realized Elena and Damon was in love with each other. He knew how Damon felt but he never imagined Elena felt the same way. This crushed Stefan seeing Elena’s behavior, her not wanting to live if Damon was not around. She never behaved that way for Stefan. It was Katherine about to pull Damon’s heart out that forced Elena into a rage that finally killed Katherine. Even after all that, Elena and Stefan were not all together mentally. In the back of his mind. Stefan always knew Damon took up a huge part of Elena’s Heart & Mind although she was with him still. So let’s be Real about whom Elena Loved the most. Yes, she Loved them both but it was Damon that stole her heart & this is what’s happening on the show as well. L.J. Smith wanted a DElena ending and that’s what we will get on the show or the show won’t survive with the few Stelena Shippers that are out there. ***DElena All The Way***

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Paulena

Posted at 1:56 PM on January 28, 2013  

A few stelena shippers? UHMMM a few is a huge understatement. If they wasnt the case why would they intervene to change the story for it to end with Stelena? Had it been said that she was really fired? No it was rumor but yes she did step away and change the story. Why? Not for just those few Stelena fans more like those Huge fans. We know she loves Damon but any one can love two people at the same time. One is more like appreciation love. Stefan and her have a huge chemistry. Re watch the episodes. Not saying Delena doesn’t but it’s intense chemistry.

 
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DE-MEANT-2B

Posted at 11:34 AM on January 29, 2013  

why would they intervene..don’t you mean why would they fire the original author and creator of the book series and STEAL her right to tell HER story the way SHE wanted it to be told? obviously for her to be fired means that they had different opinions how whom elena should end up with and the simple fact is that lj smith felt in her heart 1 way for HER characters and the publishers felt another. they wanted a more suitable ending with the less controversial more sqeaky clean fairytale type of man. you really believe it was done for the majority of viewers honestly wanting a stelena ending? the only ending that should matter is the one lj smith invisioned!! hopefully the show respects her wishes UNLIKE the publishers!!

 
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DE-MEANT-2B

Posted at 11:37 AM on January 29, 2013  

BTW , she didn’t step away and change her story cuz she was fired from telling her story therefor SHE didn’t change anything..the ghostwriter did!!

 
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X

Posted at 4:23 PM on January 30, 2013  

L J Smith WAS fired because she wanted a Delena ending. The Publishers didn’t do that to satisfy the fans, it was to satisfy their own preference. Read about it online. The publishers weren’t okay with the direction L J Smith was going, making Elena with Damon, and DESPITE the Delena fanbase being larger, the publishers wanted to end the series with the INITIAL plot in which Stefan and Elena stay together. But L J Smith saw Elena changing from the girl who fell in love with a boy in highschool to being a strong and even dark character. Putting her with Stefan was forcing the characters to go backwards and Smith knew that. But the publishers fired her because THEY wanted Stefan and Elena together, the nice couple, and replaced Smith with the book’s editor, who became the ghost writer. It was a shameful thing to do and I for one refused to read any books in the series not written by L J Smith. Its a sad world when publishers dictate what the creators create.

 
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TehD

Posted at 6:04 PM on January 26, 2013  

I’m not deluded, either. The series is advertised as a love triangle, and no doubt Elena will find herself in doubt and questioning which brother she prefers in time.

But, for now, I’m all for Stefan finding warmth and comfort in Rebekah. It’s a little crazy, but they have history and are generally on the same page these days. And I love Stefan, I do–I think he has chemistry with a LOT of women. Lexi, Rebekah, Caroline, Katherine–Stefan is a potential lady-killer in the making. He’s considerate, he’s just selfish enough for it to be acceptable, and he loves in spite of his troubled past.

To me, it’s all about chemistry. Damon and Elena have INTENSE chemistry. So does Stefan with nearly every girl (I do find his relationship with Elena comparatively bland). Caroline creates sparks with nearly every man she makes eye contact with (Matt, Tyler, Klaus).

Not to mention, Stefan is still a man. He has needs. So what if it’s not with Elena for the first time in the series (real-time, of course, not including flashbacks)? I’m happy he is free to pursue other avenues; I think, when it comes time for him and Elena to reconsider getting together, it will give them both a lot more perspective on their relationship and how they ought to communicate in the future if they choose to go that route and make it work.

It shouldn’t matter which brother ends up with the main character. It SHOULD matter that whatever happens is believable. And I find it incredibly believable for Stefan and Rebekah to find sexual comfort in each other after all this time.

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Jane

Posted at 3:56 PM on January 26, 2013  

How long does everyone think this thing with Stebekah will last? Is Stefan and Elena really over for good this time? I hope not, love Stelena! Does anyone know the deal with cure? Can only 1 person have it? I don’t remember if they ever said how many ppl could use it, but it seems like only one because they keep saying the first to find it will decide how its used. Anyone know the deal?

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Katie

Posted at 11:38 AM on January 26, 2013  

We don’t know that stefan doesn’t love her, he may not be in love with her but i think he has feelings for her in some way dating back to the 20’s of course. i think they go great together!

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THE VAMPIRE DIARIES BEST FAN Linda

Posted at 10:16 AM on January 26, 2013  

Stefan is together with Rebekah because he wants to find the cure for Elena.That’s the truth.OMG you guys don’t understand this, it’s clear that he doesent love that slut Rebekah.

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stelena+damo asaclosefwend

Posted at 4:39 PM on January 29, 2013  

R u a Stelena ? and ur right Stefan probably jus wants the cure for Rebecca coz a few episodes bck he said elena is the love of his life and he was tryin to be heroic and now they say he’s moved on that’s a bit fast and I do hope he gets bck wid elena !

p.s I still love Delena but steafan and Elena r nothing wid out each other and Damon can be Elena’s bestiee that she loves in a friend way ! as Damon has no friends

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sabrina

Posted at 7:07 AM on January 26, 2013  

So happy…afta last night’s episode…now all u delena fans…stop being haters….let’s face it..elena has moved on wit damon..stefan shld do so too..or wat do u delena fans want…4 him 2 kip mopping around??!!…hell NO!!!nt gonna happen…I rily dnt care if itz rebound sex or nt..itz time things stop revolving around elena ..itz become vewi boring…n elena get d hell out..stopping trying 2 b in stefan’s lyf..give him space…n all dat judgmental..crap she’s got abt who he’s wit…or nt wit..shld stop..she cnt tell him wat 2 do..or wat nt 2 do…ooh..n pls elena shld pls stop acting jealous n get over ha self…

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Alexis

Posted at 1:26 AM on January 26, 2013  

I’m a Damon’s fan and I really liked what Stefan said to Elena. I was annoyed because she seemed jealous of Stefan and Rebecca, not that I like them that much. But Elena is immature, and she needs to realize Stefan is not in her world anymore, he’s out, and he’s doesn’t love her anymore. She chose Damon in the long run, but now I think Elena- even though I really wanted her to be with Damon- is going to regret her decisions, and now there’s only going to be problems between her and Damon. And if that does happen I don’t wanna watch it anymore.

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Gokhan Kelleci

Posted at 11:37 PM on January 25, 2013  

as a stefan fan i dont want elena with stefan anymore after having sex with his brother,they crossed the line.Damon fans still blaming stefan about using becca but it is their choice to use eachother,anyway damon fans are so blinded that they will always find a way to blame him..yeah stefan is moving on but apperantly elena is moving on little slowly.that she is still trying manage stefan’s life and judging his relationships.
well no is perfect!!! well said stefan

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Madz

Posted at 11:18 PM on January 25, 2013  

I never liked Stefan and I think I never will but I think he is using Becks….the couple has no future. And Stebecca does not interests me…But I am glad coz this way…the stupid triangle is over and best part is I got Delena…I shipped them from beginning…season1 so I am happy as an obstacle has been removed.

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Ava

Posted at 8:16 PM on January 25, 2013  

This Stefan is way more fun to watch let’s face it! Best part of last night’s episode, everything with Stefan!

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"A"

Posted at 4:25 PM on January 25, 2013  

Stefan is better off without being with someone like Elena who’d sleep with his brother. Let Damon act all whimpy and make a fool of himself following a chick who uses guys. Stefan can move on and be HAPPY.

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Alex

Posted at 4:13 PM on January 25, 2013  

I also agree its time for Stefan to move on for now. I am a Stefan fan, but Elena has done nothing but create him into something he is not. But for everyone who is going to be happy that Damon and Elena can finally be together, its just going to be the same thing that it was with Stefan. All things you love about Damon now, are all going to change once he is with Elena. He will become the old Stefan and Stefan will be more like the old Damon. Elena does nothing but turn these brothers into something else and Damon just going to become some boring love sick character.

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mvk

Posted at 3:54 PM on January 25, 2013  

Well Andy, very well said (written). I agree with you one hundred percent. It is time the triangle is gone, Damon got the girl (hopefully-this is still to be determined) and Stefan moved on. I love the idea of Rebekka and Stefan. He is more exciting with her. His love making is even more exciting. He definitely is not wishy washy and boring. Damon was never boring.

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Ashley

Posted at 3:46 PM on January 25, 2013  

I dont like how it’s worded. I’m not a fan of Stefan and don’t care about his happiness. just want him to move him already.

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abayomi phemyt johnson

Posted at 4:53 PM on February 20, 2013  

Am a stelena fan but i think their love story is getting old lets see stefan being free from elena WORLD

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