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Kristen Stewart — you are facing the biggest test of your love since you and Rob recovered from your cheating mistake. When Rob leaves to shoot ‘The Rover,’ you need a keep-your-man-plan.

Kristen Stewart — if you love Robert Pattinson, and you want your love to survive this next challenge, you mustn’t let long distance tear you apart while he shoots The Rover.

Kristen, you and Rob have surprised all the naysayers who thought your romance was over and out after your publicly-revealed affair with Rupert Sanders.

But Kristen, against all odds, you managed to win Rob back with an apology, your persistance and with your assurances of your deep love and commitment to Rob.

It certainly helped that Rob sill loved you deeply, and you two already had a longterm relationship under your belt.

But now with Rob headed 7,000 miles to Australia and a 13-hour plane ride away to shoot his new thriller The Rover for a month or two, you are facing a major test of your renewed love.

Rob confirmed to a German news outlet on the Golden Globes red carpet that he’s leaving “in a few days,” to shoot the futuristic film.

Kristen Stewart Needs A Keep-Her-Man-Plan

The question is Kristen: do you have a plan to keep as close as possible to your man so he feels secure in your love? You need to.

At HollywoodLife.com, we’ve heard from sources over the past few months that “trust issues” understandably have at least until recently, remained a sore spot. And Kristen, I’m sure you understand Rob’s continued inability to completely get over them.

So your next challenge is to reassure him in every way that you’ll stay true to him and your relationship while he’s gone.

You’ve already been so good about wearing the gold and platinum necklace that Rob gave you, on every trip when you’ve left his side since the cheating episode, including to the Toronto International Film Festival and to Paris for the spring fashion shows.

I’m sure he’d love it if you told him you’d wear it as much as possible when he’s gone. But that’s just step #1.

You luckily are finally free from an intense, intense period of  filming Breaking Dawn Parts I & II and Snow White and the Huntsman and then promoting both those films plus also promoting, On the Road. You have literally been non-stop for several years.

Why Kristen Stewart Needs To Follow Rob To Australia Even If He Doesn’t Ask Her

But now you have a break until you begin shooting either the Snow White and the Huntsman sequel or Focus. Neither have start dates.

That means, you are free to visit Rob while he shoots. And you know what Kristen? You should go for as much and as long as you can. Why not? If you have no major commitments in LA, why not be there to support him. Lots of partners of actors or actresses follow their loves to movie sets. Don’t wait for him to ask you – just say, you’ll go.

Honestly, it’s a good idea if you can do it. Long distance is the enemy of love. Especially when you are talking separations of a month or two. It’s so difficult to communicate when you are separated by thousands of miles and many multiple time zones.

It’s so easy to have arguments long distance because you are lonely, frustrated and sometimes allowing your imaginations to get the better of you. And because you’re at a distance, those arguments can easily get ugly and fester for days and longer.

Don’t Let Rob Be Tempted By Loneliness or Insecurity

Being face to face where you can support Rob and he doesn’t have to worry about your loyalty can prevent that from happening. Also, being on set with your lover means he isn’t going to be tempted by loneliness or insecurity to step out of bounds- something which Rob has never done in the past.

But Kristen, if it’s impossible for you to visit Rob too often or stay too long, then you need to plan to over communicate and be overly romantic.

You need to text Rob multiple times a day filling him in on your days. Do not think that being mysterious about your whereabouts and activities will make his heart grow fonder.

Rob’s heart is already fond enough and what he needs is reassurance, not games playing.

Send him pictures of yourself as you go about your days. Send him photos of Bear — if Bear is left behind. Send him pics of you with his friends or your mutual friends. Over communicate at all times. Tell him how much you love and miss him multiple times a day. Send sexy texts.

Send Rob Sexy Texts

And find a time that works for you and Rob every day to talk — preferably by Skype, so you can see each other. Because he’s working, you probably will be the one compromising by talking at a time that’s less convenient to you. But it’s what you need to do to let Rob know how much you love and miss him.

Don’t be afraid to surprise Rob with some little gifts that you send him on set — whether they are funny or useful or both.

The key is — if you can’t be with Rob — t let him know in every way possible that he is still your #1 and will always be your #1, and he doesn’t ever have to worry about trusting you again — you ARE trustworthy!

So Kristen, do not take this challenge lightly. You worked so hard to win Rob back — don’t blow it now! you can survive this long distance-love test!

Do you agree, HollywoodLifers? Let me know!

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