Selena Gomez: Hold Your Ground & Don't Reunite With Justin Bieber

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Selena Gomez — good for you for holding out against Justin’s pleas to get back together one more time. Remember, you’re NOT a doormat — you need to move on.

Selena Gomez — you officially split up from Justin Bieber a week ago, HollywoodLife.com has exclusively confirmed with a source close to the pair.

And that follows a series of on and offs since Thanksgiving. Now, you need to stand firm on this final split, for both your own sake AND Justin’s.

The romantic turmoil has been terribly hard on both you and Justin — the source confirms. “They both still care about each other a lot,” says the insider.

That’s certainly true. You and Justin have been in love and involved for over two years, and you’re just 20, and he’s 18.

You don’t stop loving and caring about someone instantly. Not by a long shot. And especially when Justin’s been calling you “100 times a day,” another source close to Selena, told HollywoodLife.com. Justin’s also often in tears when he calls, says the source.

How Justin’s Hurt You Selena

No wonder you’ve melted before, Selena. Any girl with a heart would — and you have a big heart!

That’s why you forgave Justin even after he hurt you by hanging out with Victoria’s Secret Supermodel Barbara Palvin and then taking her on a Broadway date to The Lion King.

We know you and Justin have lots of great history and wonderful romantic memories together. I’m sure you can’t forget how he took over the entire Staples Center in LA to have a special romantic dinner and screening of Titanic for you. That was an incredibly thoughtful move.

You and his family also get along fabulously well . You’ve visited his hometown of Stratford, Ont with Justin, played with his little sister, Jazmyn and brother Jaxon, and Justin has spent time with your family in your hometown of Dallas.

It’s super hard when you still care about each other and when you have so much in common career-wise to talk about. You can comfortably share your hopes, fears, challenges and concerns with each other. You’ve really been each other’s best friends.

Why You Need To Be Able To Trust Justin

But sadly, all that has to be left behind if you feel like you’re being disrespected at times in your relationship.

Barbara Palvin was an issue and feeling like Justin was flirting with model Chanel Celaya, who starred in his “As Long As You Love Me” video was another.

No relationship is a good relationship if you can’t 100% trust your boyfriend.

So unless that trust can be firmly restored and Justin can totally commit to respecting you and even putting your relationship ahead of fooling around with friends like Lil Twist, then you need to move on even if it’s with a heavy, heavy heart.

I know it’s hard to get through every day and night now, but it is for the best. You and Justin will each learn and grow from being apart and even having other relationships.

You and Justin SHOULD Date Other People

You’re so young. You SHOULD date other guys, and Justin SHOULD date other girls. You need to have other romantic experiences in order to learn what type of guy is really right for you.

If you and Justin are meant to be true forever loves, you can come back together when you’re both more mature. But for now, you must hold your ground and try and let your broken heart mend.

You will feel better about yourself, once you stop being a doormat for a love that’s not deserving of you right now! What do you think, HollywoodLifers? Should Selena hold out against Justin’s pleas and move on with her life?

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I think that selena gomez and justin bieber must get back together and they are so cute together

imma step ryt off and and call bebier a punk but listen selena is a very strong woman getting into an argument like that can be very intimidating esp when she talking so loud and stuff.the guy freaked out its normal if she really wants him she should consider going back to him after all she accused him.bieber should have called out babara for dissing her though.

whats the point they always break up this is dumb. justin’s always breaking selena’s heart and then u guys get back together

I’m at wits end over their break up I can’t imagin what Selena Gomez is going thru, one things for sure a pot head boyfriend is not the image Selana needs or wants. I wish the Biebs happy trails to all his fans weather it’s one or hundred million, he has shown his true colors just about now, how dare he let Selena go wandering off into lala land while in puerto allarta, I guess BIEB learned money cannot buy maturity, you have to earn it and he dropped the ball big time.

pls when a strong american woman walks off from you u better not follow or else!!i may though at least send someone after her but..He was SCARED

It’s the best thing she ever did was dumping justin bieber Selena Gomez needs to find herself a reel man not a kid like him

I hope they work it out so damn badly… <3

justin selena please come back to …
I hope you come back ..
please, please come back ..

Justin Bieber is a tool.

i think their should spilt up cause u know justin is way younger than selena and i hope selena has the heart to forgive him.

Gomez and Bieber need help from a therapist.

dear selena gomez, i may be your oldest fan(79) i am sad to see what is happening to you & justin and wish i could talk to you both and maybe help resolve your problems. i am sure you are hurt as is justin. you are a little more mature than he is but he is catching up but apparently not fast enough. your love for each other is obvious and a kind not seen very often. i expect he can be very exasperating but it’s like (for better or worse). he needs you right now but you need to roll with the punch as they say. i suspect he is being a jerk but you are the one who can keep him going in the right direction and ignore his foolishness. it takes two to have an argument and I think you are a big enough person to just ignore him when he is acting out. with most couples it probably wouldn’t work out but your feelings for each other is plain to see. you knew he was immature when you went with him when he was 16 and need to give him time to catch up. you are the one he turns to when he realizes he is in the wrong and tries to make it up to you. two years from now he will be much different he is a good boy and means well but is just a little bit mixed up right now. you see he has had his mother on him all his life and now all of a suden she isn’t there and he still needs guidence for some things. i went through a similar thing when i was his age and mine didn’t turn out so well and that is why i am writing to you now. you both need to be together and i think you will really never completely get over each other. it looks to me like you need to be together. please give what i am saying a lot of though.

Wow! Even though this is For Selena Gomez, it helps me a lot too, because I’m having the dilemma of letting go of a guy, and this is really inspiring to me. Thank you for writing this

they should reunite and work things out and tell each other what’s on there mind…

As he matures he is not what you call handsome,He is a white boy trying to be black. He is to young to be involved in all this drama.

I think she should lay loo for like two week’s or a month and then make the joice!!!!!
It’s the best way, Bonnie is right!!!!!

Ohhh God!
This is stupid!

And justin don`t smoke weed.

Check in google- Robin Verrecas.
This guy smoke weed. Robin look like Justin!

Please check!
Thanks! ;))

i swear some people are Stupid!!

this is the most ridiculous article of all time! who are you to tell her to not go back to him? it’s her choice not yours… Justin was working when he met Barbara and he did not cheat on her.. he did NOT take her to see lion king, she was with someone else…. let them be alone