Selena Gomez — good for you for holding out against Justin’s pleas to get back together one more time. Remember, you’re NOT a doormat — you need to move on.
And that follows a series of on and offs since Thanksgiving. Now, you need to stand firm on this final split, for both your own sake AND Justin’s.
The romantic turmoil has been terribly hard on both you and Justin — the source confirms. “They both still care about each other a lot,” says the insider.
That’s certainly true. You and Justin have been in love and involved for over two years, and you’re just 20, and he’s 18.
You don’t stop loving and caring about someone instantly. Not by a long shot. And especially when Justin’s been calling you “100 times a day,” another source close to Selena, told HollywoodLife.com. Justin’s also often in tears when he calls, says the source.
How Justin’s Hurt You Selena
No wonder you’ve melted before, Selena. Any girl with a heart would — and you have a big heart!
We know you and Justin have lots of great history and wonderful romantic memories together. I’m sure you can’t forget how he took over the entire Staples Center in LA to have a special romantic dinner and screening of Titanic for you. That was an incredibly thoughtful move.
You and his family also get along fabulously well . You’ve visited his hometown of Stratford, Ont with Justin, played with his little sister, Jazmyn and brother Jaxon, and Justin has spent time with your family in your hometown of Dallas.
It’s super hard when you still care about each other and when you have so much in common career-wise to talk about. You can comfortably share your hopes, fears, challenges and concerns with each other. You’ve really been each other’s best friends.
Why You Need To Be Able To Trust Justin
But sadly, all that has to be left behind if you feel like you’re being disrespected at times in your relationship.
Barbara Palvin was an issue and feeling like Justin was flirting with model Chanel Celaya, who starred in his “As Long As You Love Me” video was another.
No relationship is a good relationship if you can’t 100% trust your boyfriend.
So unless that trust can be firmly restored and Justin can totally commit to respecting you and even putting your relationship ahead of fooling around with friends like Lil Twist, then you need to move on even if it’s with a heavy, heavy heart.
I know it’s hard to get through every day and night now, but it is for the best. You and Justin will each learn and grow from being apart and even having other relationships.
You and Justin SHOULD Date Other People
You’re so young. You SHOULD date other guys, and Justin SHOULD date other girls. You need to have other romantic experiences in order to learn what type of guy is really right for you.
If you and Justin are meant to be true forever loves, you can come back together when you’re both more mature. But for now, you must hold your ground and try and let your broken heart mend.
You will feel better about yourself, once you stop being a doormat for a love that’s not deserving of you right now! What do you think, HollywoodLifers? Should Selena hold out against Justin’s pleas and move on with her life?
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