‘Vampire Diaries': Damon & Elena Mustn’t Be Torn Apart

Fri, November 30, 2012 1:06pm EDT by 95 Comments
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gabita91

Posted at 8:09 PM on December 30, 2012  

To be honest, i begin to think that maybe Stefan always loved Elena only because she looked like Katherine. In a few episodes from season one or two, Katherine kissed Stefan,and he kissed her back. And he told her : What is it about you that still makes me care?” And Stefan stayed in Mystic Falls at first,only to know her. I think that deep down, Stefan truly loves Katherine, because he loved her as a human, but when he found out that she is a vampire,she had to make him forget,so that she doesn’t loose him. And with Elena is the same. He thought he loved her,as a human, just like with Katherine, but he doesn’t feel quite the same since she is a vampire. But Damon loves her no matter what.

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Lana

Posted at 8:15 PM on December 22, 2012  

You are right Bonnie, chemistry can’t be faked and Elena and Damon share mercurial chemistry! That being said (and me being a hardcore Delena shipper) I can’t wait to see Elena AND most importantly Damon realize her love is for real…I know we will see the day when un-sired Elena tells Damon she loves him, loves him, loves him…I can only imagine his face and his happiness!!! That in itself would make up for all the disappointments, letdowns and downright cruel moments we have had to live through while sailing this ship…:)

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M.C.

Posted at 12:53 AM on December 22, 2012  

I think the ‘sire bond’ thing is about losing free will, when you don’t question anything, when you’re at your weakest, and your entire focus is on the person you’re with. There’s a lot of very deep parallels to what it means to be in an emotionally abusive or potentially physically abusive relationship. Without the supernatural cloak, in real life, you have to realize that you do have a say. You have to start thinking about what you want in your life, to break yourself of the sire-bond and you have to be your own hero. It’s sad, it’s scary, but you do have to break yourself from it and not feel that the end all be all is in this other person or that they hold your happiness. You have to realize that you have the strength and you hold your own key to your own happiness.”

–Hollywood Crush. Actress Candice Accola’s take on the sire bond. I think it’s pretty insighful and accurate in describing Damon/Elena current relationship.

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Kelly.

Posted at 12:39 AM on December 22, 2012  

Damon loves Elena a little too much
The real problem with Damon isn’t that he’s a “psychopath narcissist” — it’s that his heart is too big! All Elena wants is for her loved ones to live long and happy lives, but Damon doesn’t care about Elena’s wishes as long as he gets what he wants — her. When Elena and Matt were drowning after the crash, Stefan listened to Elena’s pleads to save Matt first because he understood that was the only way to make Elena happy. Damon, on the other hand, would kill anyone — even one of Elena’s best friends — to save her life. Though he’s much more sensitive, Damon’s still just as selfish as when we met him in Season 1.

Interesting excerpt from T.V. Guide Debate “The Vampire Diaries Debate: Should Elena and Damon Stay Together?”

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locodiablo

Posted at 11:58 PM on December 21, 2012  

Its simple, elana turned vamp, her emotions intensified, so yes her feelings for damon grew stronger but if she truly loved stefan then that love should have got stronger too, just as her doubts over them both would grow deeper As for her being sired, if she is or isnt it makes no real difference. Being sired just means you do as your sire asks wether you want to or not, but as tyler pointed out, it doesnt change how you feel emotionally about it. So if elana wasnt happy or in love with damon she wouldnt be fighting so hard to prove her feelings towards him. Stefan is a good guy, but he’s proving he only likes elana one way, and that he cant accept her faults and all. Damon doesnt always play nice, but even when hes being an idiot, he at least puts his own feelings to one side where elana is concerned as he wants the best for her even if it means he loses the one thing he desires, and that is her. It doesnt always seem that way but just how damon’s character is being developed from the bad boy image he had at the start. And good guy or bad boy i know personally id rather have a guy who would accept me for who i was, who would have the strength to stand up to me if he thought i was doing wrong, but who would stand by me when i made a decision good or bad, than someone who didnt like me at times because i was different from what he thought i should be. Life isnt about staying in one place and letting it slip by because its safe, its about making each day being the best it can be for you, and sometimes whats expected of you isnt what is best for you. btw i dont care who elana ends up with cos i personally dont like the character, caroline is a much more interesting one and would like to see her develop more.

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Regina

Posted at 4:51 PM on December 15, 2012  

Elena belongs with Damon!!! Elena+Stefan=snoozefest

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TLynnmartin

Posted at 9:51 AM on December 14, 2012  

Elena and Damon have chemistry because Nina and Ian are dating in real life. The chemistry can’t be denied. However, the love story is Stefan and Elena…..yet I root for Damon too. This actually is a true love triangle. I actually don’t think Elena is good enough for either of them…….Now Caroline I could see them fighting over…

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Eden

Posted at 7:51 PM on December 3, 2012  

So I noticed someone said that Damon tried to kill her on the bridge to gget back at Klaus…just wanted to fact check. That was actually Stefan. :) Mr. Perfect. (that was sarcasm in case anyone missed it lol) Team delena also btw!!

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Krissa

Posted at 12:17 PM on December 6, 2012  

I don’t even remember that happening at all lol.. Maybe i shouldd go refresh my memory what season and episode was that??

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Melika

Posted at 1:14 PM on December 3, 2012  

i don’t get any of this news, i have only watch this show because elena and stefan! and i’m not sure if i want to watch it anymre! thats all i can say, you can say anything you want about damon but this show has not been so fair to nither stefan and damon, if they go on like this their gonna lose both stelena and dele fans
team stelena

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Sam

Posted at 11:36 PM on December 9, 2012  

I agree…they need to stick with Delena and make it endgame…haha ;)

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HitGirl

Posted at 2:17 AM on December 19, 2012  

sweety, has stefan ever really understood elena? and when elena chose stefan over damon earlier, damon didn’t go out of town- cuz he knew she cared abt him n she didn’t want to lose any more ppl(like she told matt) but holy Stefan bailed out on her the moment she confessed abt her feelings for damon. C’mon. it’s evident! DELENA is what it’s supp to be.
team Delena

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Amy

Posted at 10:54 AM on December 3, 2012  

Doesn’t damon deserve to be happy, after what he had been through for three seasons? Stefan doesn’t even love elena anymore. If you truly love someone that should remain same when the person become a bit darker. Elena loved stefan when he became ripper didnt she? She deserved the same, but saint stefan failed her. And i dont think damon needs to prove his unconditional love anymore..he changed enough for love, he deserves to be loved too.

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Leigh

Posted at 2:37 PM on December 5, 2012  

I have been waiting all of this time for Delena and Damon to show their real feelings for each other even though we all knew how Damoln feels about her. It took her new Vampire instincts for Elena to give into her real feelings for the sexy Damon !

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