Taylor Swift: Stop Telling Selena Gomez To Dump Justin Bieber

Thu, November 29, 2012 6:04pm EST by 60 Comments
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Taylor needs to butt out of BFF Selena’s relationship with Justin! She shouldn’t be giving her friend any advice to break up!

Taylor Swift, I know you think you’re looking out for your best friend Selena Gomez by reportedly encouraging her to break up with Justin Bieber, but you’re making a big mistake! You’re putting yourself in a no-win situation!

Taylor, girlfriends shouldn’t tell another woman to break up with a guy, even someone they’re married to. I understand that you’re worried about Justin’s recent flirting with other women and how it may hurt Selena, but don’t get in the middle. Listen sympathetically and sympathize and support, but don’t just blatantly tell them to break up because they’ll only end up resenting you.

You can’t win, Taylor. If Selena does end things with Justin, she could end up blaming you for her sadness and loneliness, thinking you pushed her into a split she didn’t really want.

On the other hand, if they stay together after you push for a break up, Selena won’t trust you. She’ll wonder why you don’t like Justin and why you tried to break them up. And of course, she will tell Justin, and then he will be mad at you, too.

Taylor, the rule is: even if you know someone is cheating, you’re never supposed to tell. In a cheating situation, the one being cheated on subconsciously knows, but they never want to be confronted with it. It has to be their own decision, they have to want to confront it. Of course, there’s always an exception to this rule. If someone is being physically abused or is involved with an addict — if their life or livelihood is at risk — the rule goes out the window.

The guy in the relationship will resent you when he finds out you’ve pushed for a split, and he will try to undermine your relationship. Don’t risk losing Selena. You need to be neutral — supportive, but not pushing in any way. Be a shoulder to cry on, but not an advisor.

It’s normal for Justin and Selena to have ups and downs, Taylor — they’re young. All relationships have ups and downs. It doesn’t mean you should imply that the grass is greener elsewhere. This relationship could be worth fighting for. Don’t let yourself be the reason it fell apart.

– Bonnie Fuller

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Sena

Posted at 2:36 PM on November 30, 2012  

Like what the hell ! How in the world would you know if Taylor told Selena to break up with Justin or not ? What is this “source” that told you ? I honestly think that they’re smart enough to discuss such issues secretly you know .. -.-

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theTruth

Posted at 2:34 PM on November 30, 2012  

Yeah like TayLor’s ever gonNa ReaD this!! NiCe One HL!!…..not!

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lina

Posted at 11:43 AM on November 30, 2012  

two must UGLIEST GIRLS IN THE PLANET together howw cute

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JULENa

Posted at 11:03 AM on November 30, 2012  

Do u know why i completely know this is a lie? because all of the other stories say that she helped and if she had said that then why are they proving more and more that they are back together!!! GET THE FREAKING FACTS STRAIGHT!!! Taylor is BOTH of their friends…AND even though she’s not the best relationship person in the world, her experiences make great advice for others

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JJ

Posted at 10:55 AM on November 30, 2012  

Any one else thinking that Justin won’t leave Selena alone because he’s scared Taylor will write a song about him???- Just sayin.

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JULENa

Posted at 11:04 AM on November 30, 2012  

LOL that is soo true!!!! never thought about it :)

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liz

Posted at 1:47 AM on November 30, 2012  

selena gomez is a smart girl and big enough to make decisions. if taylor is a real friend she needs to stop giving advice just because we all know that selena loves bieber soo why tell a friend((taylor)) to brake up??? shes going to follow her heart no matter what. taylor keep breaking up with guys and keeps making songs i bet she wants selena gomez to do the same lol.

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Connecticut Sam

Posted at 12:46 AM on November 30, 2012  

Sekena is too young to get lay.

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MissNobody

Posted at 11:31 PM on November 29, 2012  

Taylor is not even successful in her love relationship, now she’s telling Sekena to dump Justin! That’s very awkward…

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Bondustuipcomentguy

Posted at 8:56 PM on November 29, 2012  

At first I thought that what she might say to her because she want him as her boyfriend look he spend the world on selena who in the world wouldn’t like a guy like that. But I going to say what I think she really said to her hear It is. Taylor most likely said, “If you really love him and ir this is his first mistake you need to give him a chance to prove his love to you, and If you do not really love him I think it time to let go.” and Selena thought about it and said I am going to give him a second chance because He gave me a second chance.”

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BONDUMEN

Posted at 8:50 PM on November 29, 2012  

I think this these people can not get Justin bieber and Selena gomez to start fighting then, But who better then a best friends to start fighting to get thing intresting again. How come you guys reported that Taylor convince selena to get back together with Justin bieber. It seem like you people are trying to start something up. But the break up rumors Started with ONE COMPANY AND THE COMPANY NAMES IS TMZ. I do not think they really broke up let every one is saying they did. Everyone is quit to say it but the two people Who are dating use have to make it a offical they did not which mean they never broke up.

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Veta

Posted at 8:35 PM on November 29, 2012  

Maybe Taylor want Justin for herself, friends always F**k friend when it comes to man, look who taylor is going after Harry of all people

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Jennie

Posted at 8:35 PM on November 29, 2012  

I agrie

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Jennie

Posted at 8:33 PM on November 29, 2012  

Mome hi I’m Jennie who are you?

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Veta

Posted at 8:32 PM on November 29, 2012  

Taylor is the last one to encourage a breakup, she needs to but out Harry is so much worst than justin or is it that taylor needs company in the breakup department. Justin and Selena have been dating for 2years people always try to make it work let them figure it out for themselves if their relationship is worth saving. Taylor should be taking lesson from Selena when it comes to love and relationship.

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Jennie

Posted at 8:29 PM on November 29, 2012  

Do you like justien

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Jennie

Posted at 8:28 PM on November 29, 2012  

I I think tayler is doing what she can

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Jennie

Posted at 8:31 PM on November 29, 2012  

Mome

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Jennie

Posted at 8:27 PM on November 29, 2012  

Tayler

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RAYRAY!!!!!!

Posted at 7:58 PM on November 29, 2012  

Taylor needs to stay out of this sooo things don’t go from bad to worse

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soriana

Posted at 7:40 PM on November 29, 2012  

bonnie,geez,get a life,stop wit d rumour,n if for sure taylor advice selena to breakup,its not ur businees,they r friends..selena is an adult n has her own mind..girlfrnd,find anther hobby,u suck at this

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Swiftie27

Posted at 7:35 PM on November 29, 2012  

Taylor was the one that was comforting Selena the day before she broke up with Justin, she got them back together, she’s not driving them apart.
Taylor is friends with Justin too
And if you watched your Best friend get hurt by the same boy over and over again what would you do? I would you convince her to stay together with him or tell her that he’s hurting you and I don’t want to see that.
There’s reasons to why they’re bestfriends if they didn’t understand eachother why would they be bestfriends?
What if Selena is hurting? During your friends hardest time wouldn’t you be there for her?
And why do you believe this page?They said Taylor had gotten surgery to make her boobs bigger, all she did was buy a push up bra! Can this website be trusted HONESTLY CAN IT?!!?!?

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Swiftenators (@Swiftenators)

Posted at 7:11 PM on November 29, 2012  

Taylor and Selena are famous for having special bonding time after breakups like when Taylor brought tons of junk food for Selena after her breakup with old boyfriend. How do you know for sure, Taylor is telling Selena to breakup with Justin? This is just gossip, also Selena’s mom thinks she should break up too, are you going to yell at Selena’s mom?

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Me.

Posted at 10:40 PM on November 29, 2012  

THIS!

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brittany

Posted at 6:33 PM on November 29, 2012  

I love Taylor and she seems to be a good friend, but still

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Me.

Posted at 6:33 PM on November 29, 2012  

Bonnie, you seriously need to get a hobby! Taylor is one of Selena’s best friends OF COURSE she’s going to give her advice, now it is Selena’s decision whether she takes it or not.

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brittany

Posted at 6:32 PM on November 29, 2012  

As a person who has been in a lot of terrible relationships(and has been known to fall in love too quickly), I really don’t think Taylor has the right to say whether Selena should give up on her two year long relationship with someone she’s known for 3/4 years and is in love with.

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Swiftenators (@Swiftenators)

Posted at 7:17 PM on November 29, 2012  

Taylor telling Selena to breakup with Justin (who she is also friends with) doesnt sound like something Taylor would do. Bonnie Fuller gets the news wrong more times than she gets it right. Besides, Taylor’s in Australia right now and also, she knows more about Selena than me, Bonnie, you and even Justin, so we have no right to interfere in business that do not involve us.

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Swiftie27

Posted at 7:42 PM on November 29, 2012  

I totally agree with you
They said they invited over PROFESSIONAL PLASTIC SURGEONS over to look at her pictures and said she got her boobs done, but all she had done was go to Victoria Secret and bought a push up bra. Bonnie made herself sound stupid, should you be trusting this site at all?!!?
And the same day she made that article was the same day Taylor was spotted shopping with her friends at Victoria Secret.

 
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frank troy

Posted at 6:22 PM on November 29, 2012  

Ah and who are you to tell Taylor anything now I will agree she shouldnt get in the middle however it is not your place to tell Taylor anything!! I believe on the upward totem pole you are the ameba compared to where Taylor sits right now so really if anyone needs to butt out Bonnie it is you!!!

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