Taylor Swift: Stop Telling Selena Gomez To Dump Justin Bieber

Thu, November 29, 2012 6:04pm EDT by 60 Comments
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Taylor needs to butt out of BFF Selena’s relationship with Justin! She shouldn’t be giving her friend any advice to break up!

Taylor Swift, I know you think you’re looking out for your best friend Selena Gomez by reportedly encouraging her to break up with Justin Bieber, but you’re making a big mistake! You’re putting yourself in a no-win situation!

Taylor, girlfriends shouldn’t tell another woman to break up with a guy, even someone they’re married to. I understand that you’re worried about Justin’s recent flirting with other women and how it may hurt Selena, but don’t get in the middle. Listen sympathetically and sympathize and support, but don’t just blatantly tell them to break up because they’ll only end up resenting you.

You can’t win, Taylor. If Selena does end things with Justin, she could end up blaming you for her sadness and loneliness, thinking you pushed her into a split she didn’t really want.

On the other hand, if they stay together after you push for a break up, Selena won’t trust you. She’ll wonder why you don’t like Justin and why you tried to break them up. And of course, she will tell Justin, and then he will be mad at you, too.

Taylor, the rule is: even if you know someone is cheating, you’re never supposed to tell. In a cheating situation, the one being cheated on subconsciously knows, but they never want to be confronted with it. It has to be their own decision, they have to want to confront it. Of course, there’s always an exception to this rule. If someone is being physically abused or is involved with an addict — if their life or livelihood is at risk — the rule goes out the window.

The guy in the relationship will resent you when he finds out you’ve pushed for a split, and he will try to undermine your relationship. Don’t risk losing Selena. You need to be neutral — supportive, but not pushing in any way. Be a shoulder to cry on, but not an advisor.

It’s normal for Justin and Selena to have ups and downs, Taylor — they’re young. All relationships have ups and downs. It doesn’t mean you should imply that the grass is greener elsewhere. This relationship could be worth fighting for. Don’t let yourself be the reason it fell apart.

– Bonnie Fuller

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Someone

Posted at 10:03 PM on January 28, 2013  

For many years now women have been talking to there BFF about there boyfriends and giving advice and thats what Taylor Swift did she gave Selena advice and what Selena did with that advice is up to Selena not Taylor Swift.
So blaming Taylor for Selena and Justin breaking up is just another media lie to get viewers to there websites and what Taylor did is just give Selena her opinion on what she would do if some guy was doing that to her it didn’t mean Selena had to do it. So since the relationship is over it’s know ones fault but the fault of the one who done wrong and won’t tell the truth about what he did wrong instead he tries to come out with a song to get her back.
But even a song won’t change Selena’s mind he has lost her and as it say’s in other medis sites he has his friends helping him get over this which when someone say’s friends I thing of the Beatles song that say’s I get High with a little help from my friends and thats what Justin is doing getting high and not telling the truth of what he did wrong with his lying to Selena and cheating on her.
Until he tells that truth he will be stuck in a hole that keeps on getting deeper and deeper with his lies until someone finally decides to start dumping dirty back into the hole so others won’t be harmed by his lies.

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Jake moondance

Posted at 6:00 PM on January 1, 2013  

I hate they are breaking up but Taylor should butt out of selona business she could be a good friend by helping. Her standing next to her butt she need to butt out of their relationship to me their the best couple it is a shame to see them break up talor is not a good person to talk to about relationships I hope justin ans selona get back together

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Someone

Posted at 10:10 PM on January 28, 2013  

Selena had decided to break up with Justin long before Taylor said anything to her about it.
Also Selena was being forced to break up with Justin by Taylor Selena wanted to do this for a long time because of his lying and cheating and also his anger problems.
I hope she doesn’t take him back because she has finally brought back someone that has been missing for far to long and your wondering who that is well she has brought back the girl that I remember talking to and I would say the name I called her before JB but then it wouldn’t be just my name for her.

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Q_cam3ra

Posted at 10:22 PM on December 23, 2012  

No offense, but Taylor has no right to give advice about guys. She’s in love every few months. But I respect her trying to be a friend. But still.. Taylor needs to focus on her BEYOUND hated relationship with Harry Styles. I mean please, she’s gonna break up with him and make a song. That’s jut how it ends for her, and she’s trying to give advice? She needs to be taking her own, if you ask me.

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Someone

Posted at 10:20 PM on January 28, 2013  

Wow people believe everything they see in the media.
Most of taylor’s what the media calls her boyfriends were not her boyfriends but sometimes two friends just hang out with each other or they were dates.
I know 300 women that do the same things as Taylor and nothing is said about them and I know around 12 stars that have done the same thing as Taylor like Madonna look at all the guy’s she has dated and left but yet the media didn’t say that they were her boyfriend’s no what about Jennifer Love Hewitt she went out on many dates and they were not called her boyfriend’s by the media.
It’s just the media trying to knock a person down by using bullying tactics to make her look like a whore or something.
So if you listen to the bullying tactics that the media uses then your know better then them and it’s making you into a bully as well because you are making comments about something you don’t know the truth about.

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lizeth

Posted at 11:27 PM on December 22, 2012  

i think that taylor wants justin bieber all to her self or that she might doing a favor for some one for them to break up

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Someone

Posted at 10:23 PM on January 28, 2013  

Taylor doesn’t want anything to do with Justin even when he came onstage with her she did that for Selena not Justin and out of the respect Taylor has for Selena she let him come out onstage.
Taylor would never and will never date or be friends with him.

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Wait wAt !! Bye taylor!

Posted at 6:04 PM on December 18, 2012  

Yea! Taylor its none of ur business! Even if selena is ur bff- its her personal life… PERSONAL k?! Y dont u focus on ur own life cuz im sure u got one right?!!! And for selena and jb <3333333 fingers crossed u guys work things out in time for chritmas!!! :)))))) <3 JELENA <3 FOREVER!!!!!

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Mark

Posted at 12:58 AM on December 17, 2012  

I think that lady needs to leave Taylor alone! It’s not like Selena would break up with him because Taylor said it would be her decision too. Selena’s not happy, Taylor can see that. Leave Tay alone and shut up.

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Someone

Posted at 10:27 PM on January 28, 2013  

I’m happy to see someone else saying that it’s just advice from Taylor and that it’s up to Selena do to what she wants to do.
People don’t know that Demi, Miley and all 3 of Selena’s parents told her the same thing as Taylor did and yet know one say’s anything about them.

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unknown

Posted at 5:57 PM on December 15, 2012  

Taylor and Selena are friends and should be able to give eachother advice, its not all taylors fault that she has gone out wih a few different boys but she wasnt the only one in the relasionship and taylor knows selena better than anyone else besides her family. I love you selea and taylorxxxxxx

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Natalia

Posted at 6:34 PM on December 15, 2012  

You are so right

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danielle

Posted at 2:24 AM on December 15, 2012  

What does Taylor know about relationships? Her relationships only last about a week! Then she has a new song about her break up! Seriously move on Taylor, quit getting into people’s relationships.

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Unknown

Posted at 9:56 PM on December 11, 2012  

It’s nothing to get all upset about they are not the only two people in this world.if they do break up it’s alway someone else it’s good to experience new people!

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Unknown

Posted at 9:38 PM on December 11, 2012  

Maybe Taylor has a reason telling Selena to break up with Justin,maybe she see something that Selena doesn’t see . it could be that Justin is cheating on her I mean you will never know unless you actually there something you will need to see and hear for your self.

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Unknown

Posted at 9:28 PM on December 11, 2012  

It really doesn’t matter any more because at the end of the day they still going to do what they want to.Plus justin may do want to experience other girls because he have been with her a long time anyway I mean it’s not like Justin and Selena are married.

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Aaliyah

Posted at 9:28 AM on December 6, 2012  

No one knows what happens behind closed doors. How do you people know he’s cheated? Were you there? Don’t think so! Have you guys ever thought she didn’t trust him because that one girl lied to the media and said Justin was her baby daddy? Which we all know is a lie because she didn’t want to do the paternity test.

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jordynn

Posted at 9:20 AM on December 6, 2012  

Taylor has no room to talk about relationships seeing how hers don’t last and she has a new man every week. She needs to butt out because it’s none of her business. If Selena and Justin want to be together, then they’ll be together. If not, then they won’t. Although they do make an adorable couple. As for Taylor, she is just getting annoying and I’m getting sick of her.

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bee

Posted at 10:01 AM on December 2, 2012  

stop telling selena to break up with justin
gooo………………….jelena…

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bee

Posted at 10:03 AM on December 2, 2012  

although even if she id tellin them
im always gonna support jelena

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courtney

Posted at 6:33 AM on December 2, 2012  

i think Taylor should back off jelena is sooooo cute and NOBODY should break that.BTW im 11 years of age and im indian and i love JELENA

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woo

Posted at 10:03 PM on December 1, 2012  

How would yall know if she is?

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Ed

Posted at 5:46 AM on December 3, 2012  

You are a moron

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Oliwia

Posted at 6:31 PM on December 1, 2012  

i think she should butt off
.guys i have to tell u that maybe taylor is saying that to selena cause she wants to date justin ,or maybe because taylor had soooo many break ups that taylor thought that selena should have one aswel but anyways why would Taylor say that if she and justin are really good friends….weird..
anyway how i said its Justins and Selenas choice

my opinion is that they should.get back together and yes.i am a belieber :))

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just me.

Posted at 5:51 PM on December 1, 2012  

let selena follow her heard

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Milano

Posted at 9:30 AM on December 1, 2012  

Wow who ever wrote that is stupid because Taylor is actually is telling Selena the truth because Justin has heart Selena too many times so Taylor is just helping out Selena so she can see what jB is doing to her

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BieberLover101

Posted at 1:24 AM on December 3, 2012  

I totally agree with you Milano. Justin has been flirting with so many girls. He says he loves her and wants to be with her and no one else but he flirts with other girls and craves personal space. Selena chooses not to see the truth because she is blinded by her so called on and off again drama fest of a love affair. Selena has to find someone good for her and Justin will continue to be a player and he so called ” loves her and wants to be with no one else.” please…

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Nunya

Posted at 2:43 AM on December 1, 2012  

Why can’t Taylor tell her to break up with Justin? She probably knows every detail of the relationship and is looking out for her best friend’s interest. My best friend told me to break up with my high school boyfriend. Had I actually listened I wouldn’t have wasted two more years of my life on him. Your life advice is almost worse than your poor journalism.

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Belieber

Posted at 1:27 AM on December 3, 2012  

I know Nunya. If Taylor is a good friend, she knows everything about their relationship and is looking out for her.

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kougie757

Posted at 3:16 PM on November 30, 2012  

Hollywood life, why did you post an article a week ago saying Taylor told her to get back together with him? And now you say she told them to break up? Yeah, I believe you.. not

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