Soon Justin will be taking off to continue his tour, leaving Selena behind. How on earth will their relationship survive the long distance? HollywoodLife.com has all the EXCLUSIVE details on how the couple can save their love for each other.
Relationship expert Diana Falzone tells HollywoodLife.com exclusively, “Women of all ages will hit on Justin. It goes with the territory of being a famous pop-star, however it is how Justin handles the attention. Does he flirt back or does he keep boundaries? If he does the latter, then Selena cannot complain. After all, she has plenty of male admirers that Justin has to contend with. Jealously is a natural feeling, yet it must be contained so the relationship does not explode.”
Family therapist Dr. Jeff Gardere explains to HollywoodLife.com exclusively, “They need to make a pact that they will not get jealous because of all the fans that they are surrounded by. They need to remember that those fans can cause insecurities to a partner…but those fans are the bread and butter.”
“Finally they need to make a pact that each partner will be responsible for their own behavior and not worry about what the other partner is doing. That will take away a lot of anxiety about the actions of the other partners behavior. This will also make them more mature.”
Psychologist Dr. Carole Lieberman tells HollywoodLife.com exclusively, “If Selena hopes to continue her relationship with Justin, she has got to hide her jealousy. Nothing is more of a turn-off to a guy than a girl who pouts or gets angry each time she suspects he’s flirting or cheating, because it tells him that the girl is insecure.”
“Selena is scared that Justin’s going to think that these other girls are better in some way than she is. For example, Selena seems to have been intimidated by the Victoria Secret models competing for Justin. Some guys may, in fact, think that these girls are sexier than she is, but Selena needs to remind herself of all the positive attributes that she brings to her relationship with Justin,” explains Dr. Lieberman.
“Unless she can hide her jealousy – and distract herself with her work, friends, keeping glamorous, and so on – it will be a losing battle. Justin’s career is based, at least in part, on his being a babe-magnet. So he’s not going to give up flirting, and will need to sow his wild oats. It’s just the way guys are. If he didn’t do it now, and they married too soon, they would get divorced when he starts resenting not having experienced dating other girls,” says Dr. Lieberman.
“So Selena needs to just cool it, and put her energies into her career and other productive and fun activities and let Justin do whatever he’s going to do,” says Dr. Lieberman If his flirting goes too far, and he starts having sex with other girls, she should stop having sex with him and tell him that they should just be friends for now. He can’t have his cake and eat it, too.”
Do you agree, HollywoodLifers?
–Reporting by Chloe Melas, written by Sandra Clark
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