‘Vampire Diaries’ Recap: Stefan & Elena’s Relationship Takes A Dive

Thu, November 15, 2012 9:43pm EDT by 113 Comments
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Fed up with her mind games, Stefan finally made Elena’s choice for her! Do you think it was the right one?

We have a lot to talk about, Vampire Diaries fans, and I think we all know where to start: Stefan (Paul Wesley) and Elena (Nina Dobrev) finally had “the talk” on the show’s Nov. 15 episode — and it didn’t go too well. In fact, I’m sure there’s a pretty large chunk of the fandom that’s ready to pull an Elena and jump off Wickery Bridge. But like Damon (Ian Somerhalder) told her tonight, “Don’t do it!”

I’m referring, of course, to Stefan and Elena’s intense — and beautifully written — break-up scene, which came as a bit of a shock. After a tumultuous couple of days, Elena admitted to Stefan that her feelings for Damon have magnified since she became a vampire, to which Stefan replied, “I can’t do this Elena. Not anymore.”

I have to say, I’m pretty proud of Stefan. He’s been such a freakin’ pushover for the past three seasons, bending to Elena’s every whim and allowing her to toy with his emotions. I’m glad he finally stood up for himself, what he wants, and what he deserves. RIP, “Stelena.”

As we’ve all noticed, Damon and Elena have grown closer and closer with each passing week, and it’s never been more evident than it was tonight. The way he talked her out of killing herself on Wickery Bridge — hallucinations can really mess with a girl’s head — proved he’s the one she cares for the most.

And can we talk about the following scene, when Elena woke up to find Damon perched on her windowsill like some kind of sexy kitten? The way he held her hand as he told her the truth abou the vampire cure gave me chills! So much love between those two.

Human Elena may have chosen Stefan, but Vampire Elena rides and (almost) dies for “Delena.”

A hunter is born:

In order to put an end to Elena’s hallucinations, a new hunter had to be born in Connor’s (Todd Williams) place, which is where “Little Gilbert” came into play. By laying the smackdown on one of Klaus’ hybrids, Jeremy (Steven R. McQueen) officially became a hunter, and he even got a snazzy new hand tattoo to make it official.

But by fixing one problem, the gang may have inadvertantly brought about a much greater one. Professor Shane (David Alpay) told Bonnie (Kat Graham) to come back to him when Jeremy “completes his mark,” because he’s “going to be the only one who can help.”

I’ve got a bad feeling about this, y’all.

The other breakup:

Stefan and Elena weren’t the only ones who hit a rough patch this week, as it looks like Caroline (Candice Accola) and Tyler (Michael Trevino) might also be donezo. Tyler was furious with Caroline for sacrificing his hybrid buddy to break Elena’s hallucination curse, but his rage multiplied by a billion when he found out that she promised to go on a date with Klaus (Joseph Morgan)!

Something tells me “Klaroline” fans, and Hayley (Phoebe Tonkin), were very happy about this new development. Very happy, indeed.

And then there’s Matt:

I was bummed at the serious lack of Matt Donovan (Zach Roerig) this week … until the very end of the episode. He may not be cool — or legal — enough to be Damon’s replacement drinking buddy, but Matt did pull through with some crucial information: Pastor Young was in cahoots with Professor Shane before he died!

We won’t know exactly what that means for a few more weeks, but at least we have the beautiful image of Matt in that tiny little Mystic Grill shirt to tide us over until we get our answers.

It feels weird doing a Stelena/Delena breakdown this week, considering how obvious the results are going to be, but it’s tradition:

  1. Stefan breaks up with Elena. (-1,000 points)
    xss
  2. TOTAL: -1,000 points
  1. Stefan tells Damon to go after Elena: “She’ll listen to you.” (+5 points)
    x
  2. Damon’s incredible speech at Wickery Bridge. (+20 points)x

  3. Damon’s equally incredible speech on Elena’s bed… while he held her hand. (+25 points)x
    xx
  4. Elena admits her feelings for Damon have been “magnified.” (+40 points)
    x
    xx
  5. TOTAL: 90 points

x

How do you feel about Stefan and Elena’s breakup? Do you think it’s permanent, or will she be back in his arms when the show returns in two weeks? And what’s your take on the future of Tyler and Caroline? It’s not looking good for either pair, so drop me a comment with your best theories!

— Andy Swift

More Vampire Diaries at HollywoodLife.com:

  1. ‘Vampire Diaries’ Scoop: Damon Is Faced With A ‘Heartbreaking Decision’
  2. ‘Vampire Diaries’ Video: Klaus Tells Stefan About Elena’s Hallucinations
  3. ‘Vampire Diaries’ Recap: Elena Faces Her First Kill

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hannah

Posted at 4:23 PM on November 16, 2012  

delena all the way i have been waiting ever since damon admitted his feelings for elena the story lines are just getting better and better :)

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Emma

Posted at 3:48 PM on November 16, 2012  

Finally, DELENA COUPLE!

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Katerina

Posted at 3:22 PM on November 16, 2012  

DELENA Always And Forever

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Roberta

Posted at 2:42 PM on November 16, 2012  

IM CRYING((( STELENA(((

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Winer

Posted at 2:06 PM on November 16, 2012  

Stelena will be together!

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Thankful for DE

Posted at 2:05 PM on November 16, 2012  

We want DEX (Delena Sex) !!! okay

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Katt

Posted at 2:03 PM on November 16, 2012  

DELENA!YES!

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Bridgie

Posted at 1:10 PM on November 16, 2012  

FINALLY!! Ladies and Gentlemen after and excruciating 3 season it is finally happening!!! Woah! She better not break he’s heart and I hope the ex coming into town doesn’t ruin everything. DELENA

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stephanie

Posted at 1:42 PM on November 16, 2012  

and finally ladies and gentlemen. The ratings will go down.

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Melissa (@maddpappy)

Posted at 11:18 AM on November 16, 2012  

As an avid follower of the books I do believe they will follow the spirit of this path of light and darkness that was at the end if Moonsong. What I am glad to see is that Damon in tv will have a time with her. Book Damon was not near as harsh as the original writer wrote him-so it makes it hard to see it on tv. They are different. The core issue is why Elena feels as she does. I want it explored and I want the choice I never got in the book. WHY did you choose Stefan. HOW did you grow up. I don’t care who is end game. In fact, the road back to SE will be powerful. I do love DE (more in book) but TV Elena is different. I am almost excited to see her work things put with Damon and see how SE will be when they work through it which you know they will.

My guess is that she will end up with Stefan.

The only other thing I can see is if Damon learns to change that darkness inside of him that makes him react. If you read the book, the path of light and dark was at the core. Love can do that-it changes you but you have to let it in. I have to agree with many SE fans on their points about the love of SE, but SE need time apart to grow up. So many of you are sad and I get that.

Elena is just a girl at 18 who lost everyone, who just became a vampire. I know it may sicken some of you who do not value the changes in his moral compass, choices, and back and forth, but enjoy the ride back. I am sure SE will get back together. Maybe even a few times! She needs to know herself, take this road, then decide what is for her. If Damon continues to be abrupt, even though I love him for all he’s done, he’ll lose her too. One side always wins out, and I have a feeling once Elena settles from he reeling, she’ll find a piece of herself.

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Dana

Posted at 10:53 AM on November 16, 2012  

It’s the end of the show for me. It makes no sense. I can’t believe what I saw …
I don’t want to see during the next episodes, Stefan looking for a cure, a cure for a girl who don’t love him and have fun with his brother…
All this for the audience.
:(

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Melissa (@maddpappy)

Posted at 11:21 AM on November 16, 2012  

she and he both love one another. They broke up because she can’t deny what she feels for Damon. Stefan simply doesn’t want to be caught in the middle. He set her free to fly-and someday she’ll come home.

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ciao

Posted at 10:38 AM on November 16, 2012  

Oh seriously? Haven’t u understood that delena is not a good couple? Elena is just stupid, she loved stefan, she chose him and after a week she is in love with the other one? Are u for real? please make up ur mind for a good cause! Stelena is way better, damon and helena can only end up in bed together thats all! CAROLINE & TYL <3

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EmilyMae

Posted at 10:32 AM on November 16, 2012  

Loved this episode. I have had a hard time with the whole Elena with Stefan situation. I feel like she never really forgave him for everything he did as Ripper Stefan and now that is showing. Plus when she was human Damon was her weakness so of course as a vampire he will continue to be that. I dont think Stefan is giving up though. I think he will be more motivated to get the cure now that he knows Elena and him are on the outs. The big question is whether Damon will want the cure now that Elena is team Delena as a vampire. I hope they play with the Damon and Elena thing for a while, but i am pretty sure Stelena will return. (TEAR)
Im also really excited for the Professor Shane/Jeremey/April situation to play out. Cant believe we have to wait two weeks for Miss Mystic Falls!

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Andjela

Posted at 10:15 AM on November 16, 2012  

I hate Elena….. o.O
i hope she will never ever be together with stefan,she is so not good for him,she doesn’t deserve him…..
stefan just needs to find another girl who won’t do those things that elena did to him and who will LOVE him,like TRULY LOVE him…..
I just hate her,no one knows how much i hate her character,why didn’t she just kill herself?!
i will keep watching this show now only because of stefan,because he’s my hero,he has always been helping everyone and this is how they return it ?
gosh,so stupid episode………
and about klaroline………OMG i love them as a pair,they’re so cute and adorable ^^
i hope they will be together and that she will leave this tyler jerk who has clearly had something with this hayley -.-
and damon…..he has disappointed me…..i mean,come on…..why don’t you just let go of that stupid elena girl and go find katherine,or stefan should go and find katherine or they need to find another girl,never mind……
but i just hope elena will be left with nobody,maybe then she will see how much she has hurt both of them………

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Julia

Posted at 9:28 AM on November 16, 2012  

I so hope they will never find the cure!! otherwise we might have the same drama again, she could change her mind again!! DELENA!!!

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Shannon

Posted at 8:51 AM on November 16, 2012  

I think everything about this episode was awesome! The stelena break up scene was very well written, as for Delena omg SO siked! I just hope they get together and have a real shot at happiness and that this isn’t more torture for us Delena shippers. I LOVE the way Elena grabs Damon’s hand and you can tell how much that means to Damon he stil tries to help stelena stay together( No one can say Damon’s selfish after that)!!

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amazingness

Posted at 8:24 AM on November 16, 2012  

DELENA!!!!!

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Lexi

Posted at 8:12 AM on November 16, 2012  

we want to Delenasex!

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Hopp

Posted at 8:11 AM on November 16, 2012  

DELENA goooooo!!!!

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West

Posted at 8:03 AM on November 16, 2012  

I believe in Stelena!They will be together again.

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subhadeep

Posted at 10:05 AM on November 16, 2012  

good luck , living in denial

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dragon

Posted at 7:44 AM on November 16, 2012  

Stelena will be together!
Caroline no longer develops!She uninteresting!

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subhadeep

Posted at 10:06 AM on November 16, 2012  

sure they will, in your dreams

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Anna

Posted at 7:41 AM on November 16, 2012  

Elena returns to Stefan!Tyler and Caroline very boring pair(

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Dimma

Posted at 7:39 AM on November 16, 2012  

I’m sorry Stefan(

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Mandy

Posted at 6:14 AM on November 16, 2012  

I just about lost my mind at several points in this episode. In the best way. Klaus threatening and complimenting Caroline in the same breath was insanely creepy/hot. Damon kicking himself even as he takes his version of the high road and explains the situation to Elena while holding her hand: heart-stopping. Stefan and Elena’s break-up: utterly unexpected, amazingly well-written, and even though I’m a Delena fan, I teared up. It was heart-wrenching all the way around.

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aLe7

Posted at 5:53 AM on November 16, 2012  

FINALLY ! WE HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR 72 EPISODES !72 EPISODES ! Name me another show whose shippers have been waiting for so long for their fav couple to have a real chance! It was about time.It’s gonna be good for Stelena fans too ’cause they need some time to be apart & Elena needs to see how things will be with Damon.AND NO HATE ON DAMON ’cause he was the one who made the last try to save Stelena.AND DON’T SAY you’re done with the show ’cause that means you’re not a real fan ! Delena fans have been watching for 4 seasons now & we only had “moments” to be happy.That’s all I had to say!

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Jacky

Posted at 6:38 PM on November 16, 2012  

Shut Up, and yes I?M DONE WITH THE SHOW!

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Clare

Posted at 5:28 AM on November 16, 2012  

I guess I’m just negative after watching the same scenes for three and a half years. I’m like some of the other posters here. Give it two episodes and Elena will be grovelling, cowering and begging to Saint Stefan once again. It’s a shame cuz I like a stronger and feisty Elena. Something she will never be around Stefan. I would like to see an actual DE relationship at some point, not just torment. SE had their two to three seasons.

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