‘Vampire Diaries': Are Elena & Stefan Breaking Up In Season 4?

Wed, October 31, 2012 7:01pm EDT by 144 Comments
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dennis

Posted at 6:18 AM on November 12, 2012  

Delena is really getting on my nerves! It isn’t even love! Love means you do anything for the one you love and listen to him/her! Stefan was right in Friday’s episode! Damon would’ve only saved Jeremy and let Matt and April die! Stefan wouldn’t ! THAT IS LOVE PEOPLE! DELENA IS JUST LUST AND ATTRACTION! STELENA WILL SURVIVE!

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Cam

Posted at 3:43 PM on November 24, 2012  

Love isn’t about only about listening to the other person. If you’ve ever loved someone you’d know that love is about being yourself, growing and challenging each other and putting them before yourself! Damon has put her needs before his own so many times, we’ve seen Damon brave danger and death for her, and seen him make Stefan the good guy so the two could be together. Love is also SAVING the person at all costs. Damon would NEVER have let Elena die in that truck, but Stefan let Elena die, that’s the stupidest thing I’ve ever seen on tv. Damon may not be perfect, but at least we know that he would do anything to keep her safe. Stefan chose Matt over Elena, Damon chooses Elena everytime. That’s love.

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Ellie

Posted at 6:21 PM on November 10, 2012  

Ugh, Stelena are so boring, like a sponge that just had all the water squeezed out of it! Elena needed Stefan when she was innocent and human, now she needs Damon to help her get through being a vampire! In episode 4, she was actually having fun with Damon, but when someone sees her she has to go all ‘innocent little girl’ on him and it is so annoying! Stelena is a biased relationship, it’s based on being fake; they lie to each other about everything. Damon tells Elena that he’s NOT the good guy, even though he’s truly better than Stefan! God, I think damon should get with someone else and make Elena jealous, maybe she’ll realize how much she loves him then…

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Cam

Posted at 3:44 PM on November 24, 2012  

Well said!

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sophie

Posted at 11:06 PM on November 8, 2012  

never thought i would actually write one of these..

i love damon. don’t get me wrong. he’d be the best vamp friend ever; the one to go on late night adventures with, the one you could go to for a good laugh.. he’s the fun buddy! but as a man, a lover, a companion.. stefan all the way. especially in elena’s case where humanity and morals are everything. yes, i think elena has a lot of damon’s mischievous personality, but how much good can that bring her in the long run? they get along well yes, but just because you’re like someone doesn’t mean you belong with them.

to those who argue that damon embraced becoming a vampire and stefan ran from it.. stefan kept his humanity, he tried to stay true to himself. and THAT is what is so admirable. he’s capable of many things (ie: being a ripper) but he strays away from that so he can be a better person. so he can love as he did when he was human.

in the end, stefan is better for elena, as human and vampire. damon is fun. they’re hot together. but that’s all. there’s so admiration and respect. there’s only attraction to personality and appearance. and trust me, attraction is FAR from love.

remember, stefan was there for elena since day 1. yes, damon met her first. but when she needed someone most, stefan was by her side through thick and thin. damon could’ve easily taken the opportunity to be her support after her parents died, but he didn’t. it was always stefan.

let’s just imagine for a second if damon and elena actually did get together. where do you see that going? there’s no future. there’s just that moment. there’s just fun for a little bit, but there’s no growing. love is about growing together, whether you’re dead or not :p

ok done writing BYE

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subhadeep

Posted at 12:32 AM on November 9, 2012  

Please, if you really cannot see that Stelena is based on lies/obligation and hypocritical behavior then you need to re watch the show and also are you seriously telling me that Damon was not there for her than pray tell me what was season 3 ? a figment of imagination ! the thing you do not understand is that Damon and elena’s love developed so they too time to get closer to each other like in a real relationship and stelena happened via authority of god, no development , no get to knowing each other, one minute they are chatting i n episode 2, they have gotten together from episode 3 , fell into bed in episode 10. Its like they were computer programmed androids who were programmed to fall in love rather than people who gradually developed feelings foe each other after getting to know each other through and through, like with Delena (3 seasons worth of character development ) .
When Damon developed a friendship with elena he could be there for her as her FRIEND ,which is evident in the latter half of season 1 and whole of season 2 & 3 , because as soon as he tried being anything more for elena then Stefan played the jealousy card. Hell ! he was even jealous of their friendship in s1. Secondly , honesty, Damon has been straight with Elena since day one. The good, bad and ugly side of him she has seen it all and fell in love with the REAL DAMON as compared to the “‘ perfect image” of Stefan that she had pictured in her mind . So much so,, that deviations from it has caused her to have a mental breakdown as can been seen in s3. Stefan hid the fact that Katherine looked like elena , causing her to have an accident due to depression from which DAMON saved her, he never told her about the “‘ the ripper of Monte ray” the countless bodies he left in his wake, how he slaughtered the entire village of Monte ray , his atrocities over the previous century all the while he continued to demonize Damon’s image and paint himself as the savior.
Thirdly, FRIENDSHIP, the most important aspect of any relationship , it forms the foundation or the building blocks. Damon and elena were friends first and foremost and developed feelings from there on. They first gained an understanding of each other , empathy towards each other and then love ensued. That is how a real relationship works as outlined earlier. Every adversity Stefan , fate or elena’s so called friends have thrown and them they have overcome and come out stronger. As for Stefan he starts judging and yelling on elena the minute he notices something wrong like when he yelled at her for blood sharing with Damon. He never noticed that his girlfriend was literally starving to death , no of course not, his feelings matter above everything else. When elena seemed hesitant about celebrating he never bothered to ask her what is her problem no he is too busy rejoicing in his own world with champagne rather than face reality that she cannot keep AB down. Which brings me to another point she went to Damon because as she said herself he would UNDERSTAND. that alone speaks volumes for the dependability of Delena and shallowness of stelena.
The thing is, even though Damon does not spend as much time with elena as Stefan he knows her inside out as was clear when he already had his suspicions when elena went to him with her AB issues.
Stelena buries the issues, truths and complications under the rug while Delena faces them head o n had always come stronger out of it.. Stelena is about grand gestures and long winded proclamations of love and showing opposite in their actions while Delena is much more subtle i n their approach, their simple words and actions speaking louder than any verses of stelena.
Delena will happen, it is inevitable so have a nice life living in the land of denial.

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sophie

Posted at 3:04 PM on November 9, 2012  

lol.. you’re an angry person. i simply post an opinion about a fictional love story and you go all balls out! it’s a tv show.. chill out. and yes, i will continue to enjoy my life.. not that how i live my life pertains to this show at all.

 
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dennis

Posted at 6:18 AM on November 12, 2012  

amen sister!

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X

Posted at 4:00 PM on November 24, 2012  

Its a nice theory, but if Stefan and Elena are so good for each other then why can’t Stefan see her through this dark time? He hasn’t been then for her through thick and thin, he spent all of last season emotionally abusing her, almost killing her…oh yeah, and letting her die. Stefan is a hypocrite.
St Stefan is a lie. He hides under this mask of guilt and morality.Whereas Damon is Damon.

Stefan is seriously a stalker. After he saved Elena from the car crash he watched her and researched her and then decided to infiltrate the highschool to make her his girlfriend, all the while lying to her about his past, her past and Katherine etc. Seriously creepy. The argument of Damon being there for her when her parents died, well he didn’t know they went off the bridge. Damon couldn’t have been there for her because he was trying to get Katherine back and had his humanity off.
Stefan is a good shoulder to cry on, I’ll give you that, but in the end, he’ll never understand Elena completely. He’s always trying to keep her innocent and pure. Life isn’t like that. We grow up and things change. Damon will always be there for Elena, he will always choose her. They belong together because in the end, Damon will never judge her, and she will always inspire the good in him.

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hayley

Posted at 8:31 PM on November 8, 2012  

I hope that Damon and Elena get together he is perfect for her. As Elena said to Matt, he consumes her. Stephan is too serious and not fun.

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dennis

Posted at 6:19 AM on November 12, 2012  

You couldn’t be more wrong!

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Ana

Posted at 8:05 PM on November 7, 2012  

Elena grow!! Pick damon fast!

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dam

Posted at 2:10 AM on November 6, 2012  

stefan is such a boring guy!! DELENA!! i want to see elena giving a chance to damon. Damon it´s not a bad person he just thinks different i love him he can give elena everything that stefan cant and yes also LOVE

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Shaun

Posted at 5:08 PM on November 5, 2012  

I have no doubt Stefan and Elena will break up this season, but I also have little doubt that they will be back together again so they can do it all over again. I mean they already have done the whole breakup get back together thing 3 or 4 times already.

I also think that Damon and Elena getting in a relationship is also quite far away though I believe it will eventually happen. It just seems like the ‘triangle’ aspect which is central to the show would not work as well if she did.

Plus I think people forget that Elena was soo indecisive about her feelings for both brothers for the past few seasons, and now that she is a Vamp her personality/emotions are heigtened. It would make no sense for me that with all these complicated feelings magnified that she would suddenly know exactly what she wanted. That would be out of character for little miss indesicive.

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Claudia

Posted at 3:38 PM on November 5, 2012  

The only reason Damon and Elena aren’t together yet is because the thought of Delena getting closer and closer for each episode is actually hotter than them both being in a relationship. The writers wants us to freak out every time there is a Delena scene, and they are taking it nice and slow, step by step. They want us to long for them, and they can’t hurry with Damon and Elena getting together because then all of this would be “over”. Even though I absolutely love every delena scene in every episode, I’m starting to feel like the writers are taking it too far. Damon deserves so much better than what he is getting and how he is being treated. Always looking like the bad guy. I love Damon so much. Elena is an idiot if you ask me. She’s so afraid of the thought of becoming more and more like Damon.

So, delena fans, we don’t have to worry. The writers are just playing games with us ;). Stelena fans, enjoy your time watching Stefan and Elena being together because no, it won’t hold very long. Just to mention, I’m not against Stefan, I like him, I just think that he can be with.. Katherine.. Or Caroline.. No, Caroline should be with klaus.. Or Tyler.. Oh god I really don’t care all I want is for Delena to end up together one beautiful day. :)

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Pessimist

Posted at 1:46 PM on November 5, 2012  

SE is full of lies. All they see in each other is this blind naive saintly image in each other. Silly kids.
To quote someone from youtube, ‘Stelena have as much chemistry as I do with a tree.’
And they’re just downright boring and nauseating to watch, amongst a fast paced show they just feel out of tune. Joss Whedon knew that once Buffy/Angel go together, it was boring and sent Angel off to LA. Unfortunately I suspect that Julie Plec’s fetish for misogynist Twilight/50Shades blinds her to this.

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Jess

Posted at 5:47 PM on November 4, 2012  

besides everybody wants to see delena, that’s obvious! and for all those people( well i mean 2 or 3 person without brain) damon is the favourite character!!! so if you think he is a bad brother, you are watching other show, not tvd! he’s the selfless character in the whole show! everybody knows that ¬¬

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Jess

Posted at 5:40 PM on November 4, 2012  

Please break up!!!! they are so freaking annoying together!!!! the’re not meant to be! Delena is meant to be! actually stefan has to die.. i hate him ¬¬

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Sarah

Posted at 3:43 PM on November 4, 2012  

I love Damon but Stefan and Elena belong together. I am going to have a hard time continuing to watch the show when she picks Damon. Which she will it’s in the books but also she will end up back with Stefan where she belongs in the end. When that happens I can stat watching again.

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samona

Posted at 3:25 PM on November 4, 2012  

I totally fucking agree with sharon I mean she wants Damon and she wants Damon to want her but she wants to show everyone she’s a one man woman for Stefan I mean that’s just crap.

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Sharon

Posted at 10:30 AM on November 4, 2012  

How about a third option: Elena needs to keep her self as far away from Damon as possible? I mean, sorry, but hasn’t she manipulated him enough? Hasn’t the “let’s make Damon feel like crap” story been told, then re-told, then told again into infinity? I’m sick of it. It’s tiresome and very boring! In The Five, Elena uttered the single most ridiculous line ever uttered in TVD history: I should be doing this with Stefan, not him (meaning Damon…..I mean, really? Perhaps she should try that…then perhaps she can help Stefan put his victims back together again when they’re done. Go away Elena….go away and leave Damon alone!

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Ally

Posted at 11:55 PM on November 4, 2012  

Amen. I so wish they’d let Damon move on with someone new. He is too sexy and charismatic to be wasted with such little pay off time after time. I’m finding it harder and harder to believe that he remains interested in this very annoying girl.

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Claire

Posted at 12:57 PM on November 5, 2012  

totally agree with you. I believe that not even the Pure and Sweet Elena deserves Damon. He is the better person in this t.v show. But still I think Elena has to end up with Damon though I know that’s not gonna happen. Oh! and… Steleners please, grow up! It’s obvious that Elena is going to take the chance and apreciate some of Damon’s sexy body, I’m mean, he’s SOOOOOOO HOT! And believe me, Stefan’s not gonna be alone all this time. He’s a man and a vampire, and the romantic one was Damon sooo… I don’t think the Stelena break-up is far. It’s gonna happen as soon as we think. :D

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Hilary

Posted at 10:03 AM on November 4, 2012  

Are Bonnie and Jamie even an official couple? Did i miss something? lol No one even cares anyway. She should get back with Jeremy. Yes, he made a mistake but he loves her too, i don’t think he ever stopped loving her. They have great potential, she just needs to give him another chance. Also, i think it’s time for Delena now. This just has to happen because seeing Damon pinning over Elena all the time is frustrating. She has to make up her mind already.

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iLoveIaNinaPaul

Posted at 7:53 AM on November 4, 2012  

Im a big fan of Delena and feel that it’s about time they give their love a shot!

I love Stelena too and will slightly hurt when they breakup but i don’t think anybody can deny the chemistry between damon and elena

It could be caroline and tyler breaking up though…

I don’t think the writers will easily give up on stelena just like that… But we can only wish!!!

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hayley

Posted at 8:40 PM on November 8, 2012  

totally agree with you! Stephan has got all of the girls and Damon had to stand there and watch it. It is his turn! Go DELENA

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rtsgirl51405

Posted at 2:47 AM on November 4, 2012  

honestly i liked stelena the first 3 seasons……but its getting old…Elena is getting boring, and winy…they need to change it up a bit, now that shes a vampire she needs to let her wild/bitchy side come out already…i love damon, and i would like to see delena, but i would rather see her without either then continue to be so boring and winy….

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hayley

Posted at 8:43 PM on November 8, 2012  

Ya! Stephan even said himself that he didn’t even know who she was anymore. she is kind of turning into the Damon kind of side. which is why I think that Damon and Elena should get together.

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samona

Posted at 2:27 AM on November 4, 2012  

I’m sorry but let’s be realistic Damon’s love for Elena is far more than Stefan’s. I mean at the end of the day its Elena who needs to fucking decide what and who she wants. You cant blame Damon for falling in love with Katherine and Elena I mean you can’t choose who you love. He fell in love with them and both of them lead him on. Damon’s character on the show is always shown like he’s the bad guy but I don’t understand how he can be the bad guy if he’s always protecting Elena and is in love with her .. Please get your facts straight people.

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Jessica

Posted at 1:15 AM on November 4, 2012  

damn i just really hope she picks damon over stefan….sad but true. in the lastest episode “The Five” i saw more of Damon in her than stefan when they were at the frat party. i seriously hope that stefan & elena break up cause i’ve alway thought that she belongs with damon instead. and damon has made it pretty clear that he really cares and loves her….PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE pick damon over stefan. she made a terrible choice in the season 3 finale i cant wait to see who she picks (whispers softly) please let me damon!!!!!!!!!!

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Claire

Posted at 1:00 PM on November 5, 2012  

Me too, I just replied to Ally the same. He’s much better than Stefan, and I still think that Stefan’s still in love with Katherine, that he says he loves Elena because she has the good things Katherine no longer have or at least don’t want people to know she does. :D

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Ellen

Posted at 11:51 AM on November 3, 2012  

I never get tired of seeing Stefan and Elena together. She belongs with him and they have so much chemistry together. I’ve never thought their relationship was boring but true love. I could never see her with Damon. They are 2 different people with 2 different set of values. She cares about human life and he doesn’t. She may have feelings for Damon but she is in love with Stefan and it’s never going to change. I never liked the love triangle being between 2 brother’s but I can’t control that b/c that’s the way the books were written. Both of the main writer’s have said time and time again that the show is based on the love story of Stefan and Elena with twists and turns. There should be at least 6 seasons b/c that’s what the actor’s contracts are for and the ratings are still good. Besides there is more to this show than just SE/DE.

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nicole

Posted at 2:44 AM on November 4, 2012  

umm actually the author and julie plec have both said its a story about elena falling in love with damon…… its been said in several interviews……just saying.

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hayley

Posted at 9:03 PM on November 8, 2012  

I do not agree with you at all! Elena is changing as she is adjusting into being a vampire, she is becoming somewhat dangerous. Damon consumes her as she said, and Stephan is getting old and doesn’t really have a connection with her (as a vampire). He also said that he doesn’t like who she is know (as a vampire) and wants to change her back to a human again. Damon replied by saying he loved her both ways. DELANA ALL THE WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Lauren

Posted at 1:50 AM on November 3, 2012  

I think four seasons of the same couple being together, when the show is meant to have a love triangle basis – leads me to believe that this is quite possibly the last season if even a season for Stefan and Elena. Looking forward to a shift, because no offense to SE as a couple – but it does get a little monotonous and tiresome watching them do the same things over and over again. Break up, make up, cry, repeat. Yawn.

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Lacy (@lace0586)

Posted at 12:20 AM on November 3, 2012  

Damon is not trying to live anyones life but his own…It was coincidence that Elena started caring for Damon as a friend and the first person to be able to get him back to his humanity. She earned Damons trust. He didnt go out and seek her. I hate when he isnt getting credit for the good he has done. Damon at this point is this better suitor for her. I see in unrealistic for them to be happy together now too because WE HAVENT SEEN THEM HAPPY TOGETHER YET! It’ll be more realistic when it comes and Julie Plec is letting us see it slowly so when it happens we understand even though Stefan lovers don’t approve. Trust me…If I were dating them and I asked my mom who the better suitor for me she would probably tell me Stefan. He is loving and kind and compassionate. Great qualities….when my life isnt on the line. Then my mom would change her mind and tell me…no Damon would be the better suitor because he would keep you safe. Duhh people. Now Elena can fend for herself and she and damon are going to kick some major butt next episode!

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nicole

Posted at 9:51 AM on November 2, 2012  

stelena are the one! tbh i acc dont care about damon and elena, they are awful together and the show would be awful if they were even put together. ill admit there hott scenes do make the show good, but at the end of the day she goes home to stefan. elena needs to hurry up and stop leading them both on. and if its damon she picks. then i really hope stefan goes out ad gets the best action evaaaa!

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subhadeep

Posted at 7:11 AM on November 9, 2012  

well then , you are living i n denial along with the rest of your SE colleagues by the miraculous power of shutting your eyes through the majority of the show and only opening them on stelena scenes.

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Geeno

Posted at 1:57 AM on November 2, 2012  

Damon is the best ……… hez super awesome!! And if we look d fans count delena:stelena ITS 70:30 …………….. Damon has far far far more fans than elena and stefan combined… and damon-elena the best couple any series is going to make….

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Maria

Posted at 10:12 PM on November 2, 2012  

I couold not agree more! Damion is the best and delena the best couple

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Ellen

Posted at 11:57 PM on November 2, 2012  

You’re joking right. It’s about 50-50. Not every SE fan do these stupid pro-Damon/DE polls. Stefan and Elena have the best chemistry out of all the couples of the show. They have a loving relationship and honestly I could never see her happy with Damon.

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Shaun

Posted at 4:09 AM on November 3, 2012  

Sorry but the fan base a this point is much more in favor of DE then SE. I haven’t seen a single poll in over a year that had anything other than DE as the favorited couple.

 
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subhadeep

Posted at 7:15 AM on November 9, 2012  

No actually, we are not joking. Kindly search Delena i n Google and see how may results pop up as compared to stelena and even though ( as per you ) the basis is 50-50 miraculously DELENA has been the favorite TV couple of almost every major reviewer website including TV fanatic . How did that happen i wonder ?

 
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jade

Posted at 3:37 PM on November 4, 2012  

Your an idiot.

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Sarah

Posted at 11:03 PM on November 1, 2012  

I freaking hate damon, he is god damn annoying. I will never like him and elena together. He wants everything stefan has. He needs to start living his life and stop trying to steal his brother’s. Good god man!

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nicole

Posted at 9:52 AM on November 2, 2012  

omg ! i so agree! this has to be the best comment yet.

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jade

Posted at 3:39 PM on November 4, 2012  

Yeah he’s just a terrible brother and that’s what makes me not like him.

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subhadeep

Posted at 7:16 AM on November 9, 2012  

Maybe , you need to shed the mentality of a 10 yr old and watch the show properly ? Ever consider that

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