Robert Pattinson — it’s understandable that you would feel insecure about Kristen Stweart’s commitment after her affair, but if you don’t stop being paranoid, as new reports have suggested, you’ll ruin your chance of making your relationship work again!
Robert Pattinson — you have shown that you are a man of incredible strength of character — you forgave Kristen Stewart and have taken her back in your arms. That shows a depth of maturity that Kristen must admire. There aren’t many men who would have been able to get past their hurt and betrayal after the love of their lives had cheated, but you did.
And we think you absolutely made the right decision. Kristen deserved a second chance. She deserved to be forgiven.
But, getting back together, will NOT ultimately work out Rob if you can’t get over your trust issues with Kristen. Both People and Radaronline are reporting that trust is still a road block in your relationship. “There’s still healing to do and trust issues,” a source told People.
“There are moments when he continually asks her questions about the affair — so it’s all still very tense. They have some really serious trust issues,” RadarOnline has reported.
HollywoodLife.com sources have also verified that you Rob are in the process of rebuilding your trust in Kristen.
And like I said, that is understandable. But Rob, you’re going to have to take a leap of faith very soon. You are going to have to accept that Kristen is recommitted to you in a serious way. You are going to have to truly believe the public apology to you that she issued immediately after her cheating became public: ”This momentary discretion has jeopardized the most important thing in my life, the person I love and respect the most, Rob.”
Then Rob, you will have to take her new public gestures of love and commitment seriously too.
Kristen just returned from Tokyo and she very visibly wore the $40,00 locket you gave her, which holds your photo and is inscribed with these loving words in Latin: “Even if you can’t see me, my love for you is always there.”
She wants you and the world to see that she LOVES you. She wears your clothes all the time, so she can “smell” you.
All of this means Rob, that she is telling you in every way that she can, that you CAN trust her.
So, you need to accept that. You can’t keep distrusting her. It will only make her feel like it’s impossible to fully win you back, and it will make her feel hopeless. Rob — you don’t want Kristen to feel hopeless. If she feels like this for too long, her hopelessness will eventually make her feel angry and resentful. That’s no way to make your love regrow.
Plus, your own distrust will drive YOU crazy. Rob — you have to make a conscious decision to drop the paranoia and accept her word. It’s the only way forward. If Kristen against all odds cheats again, you two will sadly have to deal with that.
But my bet is Rob, that Kristen learned an extremely valuable lesson and will never stray again! Do you agree HollywoodLifers? Let me know.
– Bonnie Fuller
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crizo
Posted at 11:16 AM on October 29, 2012
woaaa there is a woman know at all puff, you dont know your life how can you dare talk about Ron and Kristen? go away please!!!!!!!!!!!!!
d.harris
Posted at 5:10 AM on October 29, 2012
thank you cold for your comment.such comments are rare here because most people are afraid of being called a hater,than being honest to themseves.if you care about someone ,you should be able to tell him or her when he or she got it right,and when he or she did not ;vis-vasa.i have no hate for non of them.i just do not like cheating.it is devastating.he has maybe forgiven her but,that does not mean that reference cannot be made on itcos the whole thing is still in motion. hope it will soon disappear.
It’s totally believable for Rob to give Kristen another chance – MOST people who go through this ARE still in love. The REASON why so many Twihards are still NUTS over this issue is because of our OWN obsessions surrounding them. Time to put blame where it belongs – on Stephenie Meyer’s “professional” book publisher and production company for poor literary editing, structure and STORYTELLING in general that CAUSED all these ridiculous, irresponsible, PREVENTABLE addictions. Search “Research Twilight Breaking Dawn” for blogspot called, “explaintwilightbreakingdawnending” for the info.
22
Posted at 2:55 PM on October 28, 2012
d.harris
Posted at 1:08 PM on October 28, 2012
making sure that there is trafick on her site —that is why bonnie is supporting KRISTEN all along.giving them advice through her article that she can not give her own children milking the situation pulling comment who cannot stand the circus.humans are very curious,and she knows that.as long as she keep feeding people with this sort of stories ,people will always come to the site to take a look including me.i stand guilty of it too as many of us do.i hope that for whate vereason ,rob is doing what is doing with kristen right now, that is for his own good,because as a mom i feel for rob and for bonnie to say in one of her articles that those who do not agree with her view of the scandal are jealous .it makes me wonder what kind of world are we living in and what kind of example are we giving to the young ones.i mean bonnie was supporting her all t he way as if what she did was the best invention ever.
cold
Posted at 9:47 AM on October 28, 2012
Its one thing to stay with a cheater because she did it while drunk and the guy was hot, to stay with a Tramp, who fooled around with a married dude is complete different, says a lot about Pattinson’s attitude. Wonder how he would feel if Screw would have gone after his dad and ruined his family. I would even understand if these two would have taken their time working things out , but the whole taking her back within weeks tells me he is so whipped and without Standards. Where is all your smarts , telling the world you don’t understand why people cheat, You know why they cheat , because whimps like you take them back like nothing happened
JS
Posted at 3:00 AM on October 28, 2012
He’s not the trustful one, he doesn’t make friends with people after he became famous, coz he doesn’t trust them. His friends are the old ones, who were with him since his childhood. And you want him to trust Kristen? Oh, please… I can’t imagine what the hell is in his head right now. Stupid and unhealthy.
path of the heart
Posted at 2:29 AM on October 28, 2012
It is not always easy to forgive and forget when the one you love does something to betray you. BUt it must be done, everybody should to do it (forget and forgive).
To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you. And he knows it. Yes, he is great man with big heart and I have confidence – he will find the way how get over trust issues with Kristen…this is oportunity for him how to overcome himself…I am sure on the end of this story he will be even greater man (human being) than before.
New car.
Posted at 1:28 AM on October 28, 2012
You would not believe what happened to the mini and the other nobody equally, so it’s useless to talk about.
Dorothy
Posted at 9:55 PM on October 27, 2012
It is not always easy to forgive and forget when the one you love does something to betray you. But Rob, you have made the first step by giving her a second chance. Now you need to understand that by always bringing up what she done wrong is not going to help. It is only going to keep her at arms length and you will never be able to trust Kristen. Plus it only keeps hurting her everytime you bring it up. You and her will never be able to get past it and move on with your lives together. I’m not saying it will be easy because God knows it’s not. But you two have something great together and she has done everything to let you know how sorry she is.
Candy
Posted at 6:14 PM on October 27, 2012
To Kristen and Rob Supporter Forever: You keep saying things like “if the pictures were real” and implying that Kristen and Rupert may not have cheated. They already admitted to it. I’m curious to know what you think happened? Do you think it was a publicity stunt gone wrong?
Yes CANDY it was a stunt. If we were true fans of Robert AND Kristen we would know or would had been suspicious of these pictures. And some of you fans that have COVET, Kristen Stewart`s man What they are excusing Kristen of doing. Would know for five or more years been keeping her private life to herself. Why did you not ask your self why she come in the street with a married old man. I don`think I were the only one.I went look for the truth.The pictures did not look right. The pictures make Kristen too tall. Kristen would only come up to Sanders`s chin. In Kristen car she had two heads. You did not see a live video of Kristen or Rupert admitting or apologize for cheating. This is how the media do these story. They just show a pictures of the person that they are talking about. And please notice that the person will have on old clothing that they wore years ago Or the last time that they did have a interview.. If you don`t see a live video with the words coming from they mouth. Be suspicious. Go to Google type in these words.-Kristen Stewart cheating photos fake on Some-Stir. They will show you how the stunt was done. Kristen Stewart did not cheat on Robert Pattinson. When you see how this stunt done you will old Kristen Stewart a apology BIG Time. If we are real fans we will be suspicious what the media say. Please go Google for the truth. When you want to find out the truth of any thing Ask Google. I I hope Candy this will answer your question.
rsd
Posted at 2:20 PM on October 27, 2012
Here comes Bonnie Fooller again to give advice to people she does not know; about feelings she does not know are there…about a “couple” that she does not know for sure are indeed a couple. How does the rest of the world go about their lives WITHOUT Bonnie’s advice?!! Rob has a better head on his shoulders than you, bonehead…Btw, he shouldn’t trust Kristen; she is a cheater; she defends triangles; she believes we all should get rid of conventions and live freely! Look at her parents…they are 70′s hippies…free love and peace, remember? How peculiar. The fruit does not fall far from the tree!
no sex triangle
Posted at 4:18 PM on October 27, 2012
rsd—–Kristen defended the triangle of Jacob, Edward and Bella, which was how the book was written. Remember, Edward told Jacob, “you have a bond with her that I will never understand.” The meaning was not sexual, and Kristen did not mean that about her personal life. Gossip writers jumped on the words and twisted them. I am sure Kristen would have a good laugh and half expected that reaction.
Julie
Posted at 1:59 PM on October 27, 2012
Jack Hammer
Posted at 1:40 PM on October 27, 2012
By the way, does anybody know what happened to the black mini Cooper “luvmobile”? Yeah, the one where Kristen was snapped by the PapSmears with RuPig Sanders munching on her glorious tittays and c__t? I think it should be auctioned off for charity or prominently displayed in the HOLLYWOOD HALL OF CHEATING SHAME. Also don’t forget Rob’s LA baseball cap she was wearing that fateful day.
Jane
Posted at 3:59 PM on October 27, 2012
-Tjr
Posted at 11:43 AM on October 27, 2012
Guest, now that you have called Kristen all these awful names, when are you going to start calling Rupert awful names?he is the one that is married not Kristen!!!
-Tjr
Posted at 11:35 AM on October 27, 2012
Guest, Rupert is the homewrecker.it all starts with an idea and he had bad thoughts about Kristen! Its called “stinking thinking “
We NEED to start blaming the people who are RESPONSIBLE for all these painful OBSESSIONS – that’s why everyone is so nuts STILL!
This is OBVIOUSLY a publicity stunt but not necessarily one Kristen, Robert or ANY of their Twilight FANS volunteered for. Hollywood did this JUST to cause them PAIN so they could make money off the TEARS of YOUNG GIRLS! You KNOW these Twilight OVER-obsessions were PREVENTABLE, and SO many Twilight Fans are STILL feeling semi-crazy inside because of this PR stunt. TIME to think about putting blame where it belongs – Stephenie Meyer’s PUBLISHER and PRODUCTION companies for their professional negligence in allowing Twilight to be published and produced in SUCH an addictive way. Search for “research twilight breaking dawn” for blogspot called: explaintwilightbreakingdawnending.
guest
Posted at 10:46 AM on October 27, 2012
hahaha of couse Rob has a trust issue.his girlfriend is a cheater and a homewrecker .
kristen and Rob supporter forever
Posted at 9:48 AM on October 27, 2012
@Bonnie Fuller, How do you know that there are trust issues. You are a liar when you say you have inside information. I don’t understand how you can make up stories, lies and falsehoods just
to have something to print. Oh, yes of course, your site has no traffic (hits) when you don’t have
stories about Kristen and Rob. I have noticed that you have a lot of new ads from new sponsors, so that’s the incentive to keep on trashing Kristen and Rob. But, Bonnie, dear, Karma has a very funny way of coming back and biting you on the butt. You’ll see that day sooner than later. Same applies to the Kristen haters. What goes around comes around.
If you don’t have something about Kristen and Rob, your site has no traffic. You would be a big dissappointment to your new sponsors if your hits suddenly stopped like yesterday! So, you will have to keep on telling lies to retain the new sponsors that you have acquired. Perhaps, Rob and Kristen will move to the UK soon in order to be left alone to live in PEACE.
Bonnie you are really pathetic how dare you tell him what to do when you dont even know him. You are so lame and all you post is bs articles. What Rob needs to is grow a pair and walk away because now is a wimp
Rob already has a pair
Posted at 3:59 PM on October 27, 2012
Jen—-you tell Bonnie to stop giving advice, but it is ok for you to do so? As for wimp……W for warm, wonderful, I for Interesting, intelligent, M for manly, marvelous, P for person. And, he already has a huge “pair” because he chose to become and continues to be an actor, kept his commitments even though he endured a personal tragedy, cares about others more than himself, (Kristen, business partners, cast and crew members), struggled to accepts huge changes to his life, and puts up with all this external bs.
Marbella
Posted at 9:19 AM on October 27, 2012
vampfan
Posted at 8:59 AM on October 27, 2012
Bonnie, have you ever been betrayed by the love of your life? I have and believe me I gave second chances and third !! when someone strays they will do so a.gain cos they got away with it the first time !! Rob is right to mull it over and if he can,t get over the trust issues…..LET HER GO !! he will soon find his true love.
gb
Posted at 7:56 AM on October 27, 2012
how can a man forget the intimate pictures, these two are a laughing stock, one is a s#ut the other one a insecure no self esteem wimp
kristen and Rob supporter forever
Posted at 10:23 AM on October 27, 2012
@gb, You obviously do not know a “real man”. If he loves her enough to forgive and forget, he will.
They are a “laughing stock” to the narrow minded idiots like you. Who are you to call her a slut, it takes one to know one. Rob, a 26 year old man, a very successful actor made a decision to forgive her, that’s his choice. Rob knows a lot more of what happened than you and I do, perhaps Rob knows the pictures with Rupert were staged, just like the U-haul trucks. The bottom line is that people who hate Kristen because she is successful, very attractive, rich and famous are ones calling her all kinds of vulgar names in order to bring her down to their level. It’s an attack against a beautiful young woman, who has done nothing to any of us.
cold..
Posted at 6:03 PM on October 27, 2012
Unfortunately only a few people think that Screw is accepted because she is rich and attractive. Where is her inner beauty, where are all the wonderful things she did, she can’t even say one complete sentence and I call her a slut because she went behind her BF’s back to seek some sexual favours, or is she in love with Rupert and he promised her to leave his wife? A woman doing that is a s$$t what else, women who get paid are Prostitutes and do their Job .Proof me wrong. You should read gather.com Why Kristen Stewart is so disliked -get educated..there are a lot of answers. your Screw isn’t that nice , she apologized after being caught, later admitted that this went on longer than only one momentary discretion, she calls herself a cant . please grow up and look behind the facade and if you suggest that Pattinson knew that the pictures were staged he is as bad as this woman and deserves to be with the skank
Leef
Posted at 2:49 AM on October 27, 2012
I am going to be rude, I just vomited all over on reading this BS. Not true but you get the meaning. Bonnie here has asked her staff to gather all the articles written on these two and summarise them into one article!!!! These people are running out of ideas and you stupid lot are feeding on the BS which is written here!!!!! Bonnie you are neither their mother nor a relationship expert so DO HUMANITY A FAVOUR STOP TRYING TO GIVE ANYONE ADVICE. What you are ending up doing is playing with the mind of young teenagers who still have to learn what real life is all about. So quit it with all this crap. As for you people leave the two alone and let them work things out on their own. You are not only hurting the person who made the mistake but also her BF and their families. Who are you to say once a cheater always a cheater!!!!! There are a lot of cheaters in this world a bunch if them are here on this site writing these silly article. They are cheating on you believers by feeding you all this crap. We think we know what is good for Kristen and Rob??? Well we DON’T. so please do everyone else a favour and let them be. They need to work things out, they may stay together or break up. It is all up to them. These articles and foul comments are not helping anyone.
You are so right about all these story. But you are mistaking about Kristen Stewart mistake. The cheating on on Robert, was a lie BS.You know Kristen Stewart never rebut these people. Kristen said she don`t.But you have never see these reporters, Ever see them go up to Kristen and ask her face to face about this story. I know if any one would question her face to face. Kristen will answer them. But they don`t do that, It will be the end of they story. They see her in a airport. when Robert was having interviews they could have asked his about the cheating story You never see a video of them ever saying these words. You just see some old picture of them with old cloths . And they will make up the words for them.You did not see a video of Kristen apologize. But some of these fans can write some ugly things.These reporters Know that YouTube saw these photos was fake. And they went to the location of the so call affair. YouTube have learn that it was not a park, that the so call paparazzi was telling you about. I was not real people but photos of Sanders and Kristen. That right Kristen was not there. And the location look like it was right next to Sander fhome. I don`t know why you can Go to Google type in these words Kristen Stewart cheating photos fake, I don`t see why Robert and Kristen are letting this BS go on. There are people out here that is sick. The writings that I have seen are seriously and mentally insane.. Calling Kristen these ugly words. Every one are saying after Kristen`s affair, When I found the truth on Google. I know the media know YouTube have debunk this story YouTube showed you with pictures how it was done.This pictures of Rob, and Kristen getting in a cab have their heads down, with the paparazzi trying to get their picture. That was true, I seen it on TV last night.on ET. But they were still saying that the paparazzi want it their`s picture because they just getting back after the affair. Kristen and Robert have always been together.If this is a promotion this is not good .
guest
Posted at 10:23 AM on October 27, 2012
Kristen and Rupert already shamed themselves by apologizing.they already admitted both of them are a cheater.if the 50 cheating pictures are fake Kristen and Rupert lawyers already sued the US weekly so stop all these crap about the fakes photos.Kristen is immature and stupid who only think about herself and didnt give a damn about Rob,Liberty and the children.she is a cheater and a homewrecker.period
Jane
Posted at 4:06 PM on October 27, 2012
Why would Kristen and Rupert render a public apology after the pictures came out? They didn’t have to do that if the pictures were fake. Doesn’t make sense. I think her and Rupert got excited with each other on the SWATH set and acted upon it..whether it was the one time or many times and I firmly believe Liberty Ross had both of them followed from what she was hearing about them on the SWATH set.
kristen and Rob supporter forever
Posted at 10:09 AM on October 27, 2012
@Leef, I like your comment. I laughed when you said there are a lot of cheaters. I agree with you.
All of sudden, all the commentators have become a bunch of puritans, lol, lol. Did you look at Kristen wearing the LV outfit? She looked amazing, she can compete with any model in Paris, New York, or Milan. That’s is the reason why so many young women resent Kristen. Kristen has millions, Kristen is with Rob, Kristen does not have to work a single day in her life if she doesn’t want to, she can buy a mansion in the spur of the moment, she can travel anywhere in the world.
So, of course young women resent her. It is a natural reaction if you are insecure. So, the only wa to feel good is to put someone else down. In this site, it is Kristen Stewart, because she cheated.
The pic with Rupert may be a stunt, arranged by Rupert, Liberty, Rob and Kristen. Rob seems so
happy with Kristen that he may know that there was “no cheating”.
Leef
Posted at 11:36 AM on October 27, 2012
@ Kristen and Robert supporter forever. Thanks dear. And I totally agree with you. Kristen is amazing whatever she wears!!!!!! Love it!!!! As for people calling Rob a Wimp, is total BS. People have been brainwashed since day one of this incident by crappy we loose such as this one. I am not a teenager anymore and have made my mistakes but always had the support of my loved ones. Pity some people here are not getting any good advice. My family always thought me that a mistake becomes serious when you don’t learn from it and end up repeating it. As for taking someone back, if you believe this person is worth it than yes you should give it another chance. I have done that and never looked back. We are stronger than when we first started out.
rsd
Posted at 2:33 PM on October 27, 2012
But Leef, Bonnie “Fooler” has just accomplished her goal, which is to get hits and comments!!! And she hopes, although it will never happen, that she pisses the two of them so bad that they come out and make a statement; have a reaction, just like we do…Bonnie’s reporting days are counted, because she is lame at what she does. And you are right in that this site would not have hits without the garbage they print…but the well will dryout soon; which is why K&R are going out together every week, now. The other way around backfired, so they are trying reverse psychology. Let’s be in everybody’s face, every other day, give them what they want until there is nothing new to talk about. It will become like all the others we see photos of all the time: nobody cares if they kiss, hug, hold hands or whatever it is they are photographed doing because it became common sights. I hope they succeed; this obsession with every little thing they do…and the constant manufacturing of “stories” about them is getting really annoying!!!
Gloria
Posted at 12:33 PM on October 29, 2012
I AM SO HAPPY TO HEAR THAT KRISTEN AND ROBERT ARE BACK TOGETHER. I WISH THEM BOTH ALL THE LUCK IN THE WORLD, BE OF GOOD CHEER BE GOOD TO ONE ANOTHER, AND ROBERT YOU DO NEED TO START TRUSTING KRISTEN SHE WILL NOT CHEAT ON YOU AGAIN. ROB KRISTEN LOVES YOU VERY MUCH YOU CAN TRUST HER AGAIN SO DON’T THROW YOUR THREE YEAR RELATIONSHIP AWAY FOR ONE MISTAKES THAT KRISTEN DID. KRISTEN IS IN LOVE WITH YOU AND I KNOW YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH HER TO, I WISH YOU BOTH LUCK AND BEST WISHES. I AM A TRUE FAN OF BOTH I LOVE THESE TWO COUPLE, THEY MAKE A GREAT COUPLE YOU WERE MADE FOR EACH OTHER. I LOVE THESE TWO I WISH THESE TWO HAPPINESS TOGETHER. STAY FAITHFUL AND STAY TRUE TO ONE ANOTHER GOOD LUCK.