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Robert Pattinson — it’s understandable that you would feel insecure about Kristen Stweart’s commitment after her affair, but if you don’t stop being paranoid, as new reports have suggested, you’ll ruin your chance of making your relationship work again!

Robert Pattinson — you have shown that you are a man of incredible strength of character — you forgave Kristen Stewart and have taken her back in your arms. That shows a depth of maturity that Kristen must admire. There aren’t many men who would have been able to get past their hurt and betrayal after the love of their lives had cheated, but you did.

And we think you absolutely made the right decision. Kristen deserved a second chance. She deserved to be forgiven.

But, getting back together, will NOT ultimately work out Rob if you can’t get over your trust issues with Kristen. Both People and Radaronline are reporting that trust is still a road block in your relationship. “There’s still healing to do and trust issues,” a source told People.

“There are moments when he continually asks her questions about the affair — so it’s all still very tense. They have some really serious trust issues,” RadarOnline has reported.

HollywoodLife.com sources have also verified that you Rob are in the process of rebuilding your trust in Kristen.

And like I said, that is understandable. But Rob, you’re going to have to take a leap of faith very soon. You are going to have to accept that Kristen is recommitted to you in a serious way. You are going to have to truly believe the public apology to you that she issued immediately after her cheating became public: ”This momentary discretion has jeopardized the most important thing in my life, the person I love and respect the most, Rob.”

Then Rob, you will have to take her new public gestures of love and commitment seriously too.

Kristen just returned from Tokyo and she very visibly wore the $40,00 locket you gave her, which holds your photo and is inscribed with these loving words in Latin: “Even if you can’t see me, my love for you is always there.”

She wants you and the world to see that she LOVES you. She wears your clothes all the time, so she can “smell” you.

All of this means Rob, that she is telling you in every way that she can, that you CAN trust her.

So, you need to accept that. You can’t keep distrusting her. It will only make her feel like it’s impossible to fully win you back, and it will make her feel hopeless. Rob — you don’t want Kristen to feel hopeless. If she feels like this for too long, her hopelessness will eventually make her feel angry and resentful. That’s no way to make your love regrow.

Plus, your own distrust will drive YOU crazy. Rob — you have to make a conscious decision to drop the paranoia and accept her word. It’s the only way forward. If Kristen against all odds cheats again, you two will sadly have to deal with that.

But my bet is Rob, that Kristen learned an extremely valuable lesson and will never stray again! Do you agree HollywoodLifers? Let me know.

– Bonnie Fuller

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