Robert Pattinson — it’s NOT payback time! No matter how hurt and humiliated you are by Kristen Stewart’s cheating with Rupert Sanders, if you want to have a real, loving relationship with Kristen, you shouldn’t flirt with other women.

Robert Pattinson — do you want to give your relationship with Kristen Stewart a second chance? Are you still in love with her?

If you’ve answered yes to both questions or to even one of those questions, then you need to put a lid on what might be perceived as public flirting with other women.

Early Saturday morning, Oct. 6, at 3 a.m. you went out to The Electric Room club in NYC, while you were in the city with best friend Tom Sturridge and his fiancee, new mom, Sienna Miller. Sienna’s new film, The Girl, premiered at the Hamptons Film Festival the next night.

However, and this is key — at The Electric Room, you were photographed in very deep conversation with an attractive blonde. In one photograph, you and the blonde were leaning in and talking very closely. In another, you had your arm lightly around the woman.

As for the identity of the blonde, only you and your friends know for sure, but that’s not the point.

Now Rob and Kristen, there’s absolutely no evidence that any line was crossed, and there may not even have been real flirtation involved. Rob, you’re a warm and friendly guy, and maybe you were just being your warm and friendly self.

But since pics speak a thousand words, Kristen may not have felt too good about seeing those intimate-looking photos of you.

So Rob, for the sake of rebuilding your relationship with Kristen, you can’t have the attitude that it’s ok to dish it right back at her. That’s like throwing her cheating in her face — a definite no-no, relationship experts have told us.

It’s a no-no, because it’s revenge behavior, and you can’t be out for revenge if you’re trying to rebuild a loving and trusting relationship with Kristen.

Yes, she was the one at fault in your relationship, and you were the injured party. And yes, you are entitled to feel hurt and betrayed for a long time. But if you’ve agreed to accept Kristen’s apology, work at your love again and BOTH be committed to each other, then you have to cut the flirting and any other revenge actions.

If you don’t, then you’re just looking to hit back and hurt Kristen, and that’s just destructive for both of you.

So Rob, either you’re IN your relationship with Kristen, or you’re OUT of it. You can’t be half in and neither can Kristen.

It’s time to cut the flirting and treat her the way you’d like her to treat you, always!

Ok, Rob?

Now HollywoodLifers, what do you think? Do you agree? Tell me now!

– Bonnie Fuller

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