Dina Lohan — you once again prove why you are the worst mom of the year. It’s ridiculous that you’re battling with Lindsay so viciously – after clubbing, no less – that the police had to be called.
Dina Lohan — you’re a 50-year-old baby, who needs to start acting like a mom, not a party pal, before you ruin your daughter Lindsay Lohan‘s life even further.
#1 WHY were you out partying until 4 a.m. at the Electric Room in the Dream Hotel with Lindsay in the first place? Lindsay is an ADULT, who has been to in rehab for drug and alcohol addiction four times! Why would you go with her to precisely the kind of place where she could fall off the wagon? It’s completely irresponsible for you to enable temptation for her, especially because you were no doubt having a few drinks yourself?
Just the fact that you were going clubbing with her in itself, makes you a lousy mom and bad example. “Dina is Lindsay’s worst enabler believes Beverly Hills psychiatrist, Dr. Carole Liberman, author of Bad Girls: Why Men Love Them & How Good Girls Can Learn Their Secrets. “She cares more about making Lindsay her drinking buddy than about helping Lindsay gain sobriety!”
That’s for sure.
Dina Doesn’t Want To Grow Up
As psychotherapist Dr. Robi Ludwig puts it, “it sounds like Dina in her own mind is somewhat adolescent. She likes the idea of being more of a peer than a parental role model — Dina is not acting age appropriate.”
No, Dina — you are not acting age appropriate. You are a 50-year-old woman, who still has a 16-year-old son, Cody, living at home.
You are not a 26-year-old actress, like Lindsay.
Dina Should Be Keeping Lindsay Out of Trouble, Not Getting Her Into It!
As an adult and a mother, you should be the last person that your drama-addicted daughter has such a big fight with that police had to be called.
Dina, YOU, should not be the reason that Lindsay has another run-in with the law, in any way. She’s already been jaled twice and is currently on “informal probation.” Do you really want your daughter to have to end up in court again because you were fighting with her?
That’s a little selfish, Dina. Or should I say — a lot selfish!
It makes me wonder, Dina, if you’re not just really jealous of Lindsay. It’s always seemed like you wanted to live your life vicariously through Lindsay, and Dr. Lieberman agrees.
“Dina is now super jealous of Lindsay, especially since she seems to be turning her life around. Dina wants to attract more media attention and men,” Dr. Lieberman believes.
So Dina, if you’re jealous of Lindsay, are you trying to sabotage her recovery from addiction and from a huge career low?
Dina Is Sabotaging Lindsay’s Career
You absolutely ARE sabotaging but her sobriety and her career prospects. Every fight, every police incident, will make film producers less likely to offer Lindsay roles- they don’t want the drama and uncertainty about her behavior on their sets!
Dina — you and Lindsay need to be in counseling, the sooner, the better, says Dr. Gilda Carle, The 30 Second Therapist for Today.com. “This is not healthy, especially since there are other children in the house. The other kids will see their mom as competition, not someone to go for advice, support and love.”
Yet, that’s what Lindsay wants from you, Dina. She does want a mom, who is more mature and stable, than she is. If she wasn’t desperate to have a mom, she would have cut off her relationship with you long ago. But she NEEDS a mom. She already doesn’t have a dad. Publicity-hungry Michael Lohan is hardly a father she can count on for support and guidance.
Lindsay Is Desperate For A Real Mother
“Lindsay is crying out ‘Mommy! Be my mommy and not my BFF!” says Dr. Gilda.
So listen Dina — if you don’t get counseling and turn your non-mothering behavior around, then Lindsay is NEVER going to recover from her addictions. She can’t continue to spend time with a key enabler, says Dr. Robi Ludwig.
Dina — take a long hard look at yourself. Do you want cops in your driveway intervening in a fight between you and Lindsay ever again? Does that make you proud?I hope your answer is NO!
Then get yourself and Lindsay into serious ongoing counseling and get ready to grow up and be the real mother that Lindsay and your other three kids need! What do you think HollywoodLifers? Let me know!
– Bonnie Fuller
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