Kristen Stewart: Her 5-Point Win Back Robert Pattinson Plan – That Worked

Fri, September 21, 2012 12:34pm EDT by 92 Comments
How Kristen Stewart Got Robert Pattinson Back
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Kristen Stewart — against long odds, you won Rob’s heart and forgiveness by apparently following a really smart plan. Here’s what you did right to get your man back.

Kristen Stewart — we’re so happy at Hollywoodlife.com that you and Rob are getting back together. You both still love each other and if you’ll be happier together than apart, then it’s the right thing to do.

Kristen- it’s clear now looking back at how you handled the post-cheating situation, that you must have followed a 5 Point Win Back Rob Plan, dictated by your heart. Most important, you knew your heart. You knew that you didn’t want to lose Rob. Despite the fact that you cheated, you knew that you loved Rob and that canoodling with Rupert Sanders was a huge mistake. That’s why you didn’t give up trying . Here’s what worked

1) Kristen — You Persisted in Trying to Win Robert Pattinson Back

Although at first it appeared to the outside world that it was a hopeless situation, Kristen, you didn’t give up. You publicly apologized immediately for your cheating so it was very clear that you were serious about owning up to your mistake and serious about your love for Rob.

Then, while Rob fled to Reese Witherspoon’s super private ranch in Ojai and reportedly refused to take your calls or answer your texts, you didn’t give up hope.

Apparently every time you did get through to Rob, you apologized over and over again.You were willing to grovel at Rob’s feet. You didn’t allow you ego to get in the way of your grovelling, and that was a good thing.

On August 30, your best friend actress Scout Taylor-Compton tweeted “never give up. never” and you apparently took her advice and didn’t give up.

Then on September 19, Scout tweeted, “believe, believe, believe. you are almost there,” and you did. That was smart because you realized that time was on your side.

You knew in your heart that Rob loved you and that if you persisted, he would miss you and his heart would soften. You were right;  he did.

2) Kristen — You Apologized Repeatedly

As I said above, as soon as your cheating was discovered, you didn’t hesitate — you apologized publicly, infamously admitting that the affair “jeopardized the most important thing in my life, the person I love and respect the most, Rob. I love him, I love him. I’m so sorry.”

It has been important for Rob to hear your apologies. And to hear your apologies over and over. The more you apologized, the more he was able to start to believe that you meant it.

The repetition gradually made him feel that he could trust your feelings.

3) Kristen — You Let Your Devastation Be Known

Kristen, you felt terrible — you still feel terrible — that you cheated and especially that you were discovered — you understood how much that hurt, embarrassed and humiliated Rob. It was a triple whammy for him.

That’s why it was important that he know how devastated you were by your own betrayal.

You let enough people around you know that you couldn’t eat, you couldn’t sleep, you could barely get out of bed, so that the word would get out and Rob would be aware of your massively depressed state.  You weren’t showering, changing your clothes or washing your hair. You barely had the will to live without Rob.

This was music to Rob’s ears. He was dealing with his own devastation. He was suffering, and it was important that he knew that you were suffering even more, and also that you were suffering the backlash of fans and many in the Hollywood community.

All of this allowed his natural love and concern for you — his empathy — to be aroused.

The point was — he still loved you. You knew he did, and you knew that eventually he wouldn’t be able to repress his normal worries for you even though you had let him down — his feelings were too ingrained.

4) Kristen — You Did a Great Job of Laying Low

Kristen — keeping out of sight of the paparazzi and of all your mutual friends, gave him a chance to wonder how you were doing and to both miss you and worry about you.

You knew Rob had always been protective of you and those feelings weren’t going to go away right away. They didn’t.

5) Kristen — Wearing Rob’s Clothes and Gifts Was Genius

Kristen — the very few times that you were out in public, it was the best move for Rob to see you wearing his clothes — his baseball cap, his backpack, his Irie t-shirt. You knew he would see the photos and that he would know that you were sending him a message of love. You were telling Rob that you missed him and were desperate to be close to him by wearing his clothes.

Rob would know you have loved his smell and to have his smell on you. You even talked about it to British Vogue in a new interview. “I love the way he smells,” you told the magazine. “I don’t get this obsession with washing the smell off. The smell of someone you love.”

Wearing Rob’s clothes was telegraphing a direct message to his heart about your feelings for him.

Finally — and this may have been the final move that won Rob back — you wore a locket Rob gave you prominently at two appearances promoting On the Road.

You first wore the $40,000 locket at The Toronto International Film Festival with your beautiful Zuhair Murad dress, on September 6th, and then in NYC with a black tank and white blouse.

Apparently, the locket contains photos of you and Rob and has a Latin inscription that reads, “Even if you can’t see me, my love for you is always there,” according to Ok! Magazine.

Even Rob had to feel his heart strings pulling Kristen. Now we know that you and Rob have a long way to go to rebuild the trust between you. You also have to understand that he is reportedly bucking the wishes of his sisters and some friends who don’t think he should be back together with you, so he is placing his love for you ahead of their influence. That’s big.

But Rob is wisely placing his own feelings and his relationship with you ahead of all that. After all, it’s his life, not their life. And if he is happier and his life is better with you in it, then he should be accepting your apologies, as he is doing.

Kristen — your apparent 5 Point Plan appears to have succeeded. Hollywoodlifers — take note if there is anything you can learn from it, even if you’ve never cheated on your man.

Do you think Kristen handled the past-cheating situation well or not? Tell me now!

– Bonnie Fuller

More Kristen and Rob stories here:

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  2. Saad Siddiqui: Robert Pattinson Is A ‘Kind & Caring Human Being’
  3. Fans So Excited To See Robert Pattinson & Kristen Stewart Together Again

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Ramona

Posted at 12:01 PM on September 22, 2012  

Come on all you perfect people. Leave them alone and let them work it out. We are all less than perfect, do we not all realize that yet, I wish them Love & Happiness forever.

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Bob Richardson

Posted at 11:22 AM on September 22, 2012  

Another Hollywood Life misdirection.

The headline says they are “back together.” In the interview, Bonnie doesn’t go nearly so far – she says they are “in talks” about getting back together.

Christ on a bicycle, how do we know the “talks” weren’t anything more than preparation or a publicity stunt in advance of a final Twilight episode?

What we do know: Rob is on record saying he doesn’t like hosebags, whores and sluts, and Kristen is all three.

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Bob Richardson

Posted at 11:18 AM on September 22, 2012  

They are back together…. and it took all of 48 hours and she was caught sucking off a Walmart janitor in a bathroom stall.

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Ramona

Posted at 11:55 AM on September 22, 2012  

You Bob Richardson are an arrogant fi
lthy mouthed unforgiving PIG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Tracey Bown Riley

Posted at 10:31 AM on September 22, 2012  

they are back togehter already

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LADY PETALINE

Posted at 9:27 AM on September 22, 2012  

Go go go Kristen…..He will forgive you and he will take you back….Just make sure no more secret again…^^

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Antu

Posted at 4:01 AM on September 22, 2012  

LOOOOOOOOOOOVETHHEEEEEEEEEEEEEM!

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╬╬♥♥

Posted at 3:19 AM on September 22, 2012  

Pretty awesome summation….

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anne

Posted at 3:03 AM on September 22, 2012  

she killed his love when she cheated . he will never take her back . better get used to the idea .

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Cheryl

Posted at 2:42 PM on September 22, 2012  

guess you are wrong!!!!!!!!

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Canada and the OTR fans was a model for me.

Posted at 2:39 AM on September 22, 2012  

I Am glad That Kristen and Rob have Their films. I’m glad that Kristen and Rob received normal adult fans who like their acting work in film. Twi camp was divided into Robfans and Krisfans. Normal rest who go see the movie and not comment on the privacy, much appreciated. These are the best fans in the world, which spoke Kristen.

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love and support Kristen

Posted at 2:22 AM on September 22, 2012  

It seems only me or other people think after reading the comments I got back to the 16th century? or maybe kindergarten?

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Catherine Dove (@notthistwilight)

Posted at 1:08 AM on September 22, 2012  

U KNOW these extreme Twilight obsessions were PREVENTABLE, and SO many Twilight Fans are STILL in emotional turmoil because of this Robsten breakup PR stunt. Hollywood intentionally causing young, obsessed fans this kind of pain is wrong. TIME to start thinking about putting blame where it belongs – Stephenie Meyer. Search “explain twilight breaking dawn ending blogspot”.

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dn

Posted at 12:44 AM on September 22, 2012  

kscrew is a manipulative whore I dont believe that Rob has taken her backif its true that they are together his doing it because summit is pressuring to appear that he has taken slut kscrew

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Cheryl

Posted at 2:50 PM on September 22, 2012  

and what is scumbag rupert, a married man with kids.i guess most men thing of him as a super STUD. He knows he started all of this. hope wifie takes him to the cleaners LOLOLOLOL

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Veronica

Posted at 12:43 AM on September 22, 2012  

Women take men back all the time–why is it morally incorrect for a man to do the same thing? It’s not! More power to Rob!

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mandy

Posted at 12:39 AM on September 22, 2012  

Rob is a great guy , he comes from a good family why will he take her back . he should really focus on his career may be soon he will find a new girl friend .

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Fiona

Posted at 12:04 AM on September 22, 2012  

She probably made a plan to steel Rupert from his wife and children as well. She looks sneaky, she looks like a snake and Robert should run like heck. Hasn’t he learned? Hasn’t he seen enough? What does it take to open his eyes?

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Gentle Soul

Posted at 9:47 AM on September 22, 2012  

@ Fiona, it takes a snake to know another snake. You sound creepy!

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Cheryl

Posted at 2:54 PM on September 22, 2012  

lol and its steal not steel,duh

 
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bgks372

Posted at 11:09 PM on September 21, 2012  

HL, Kristen wore the same necklace at the cannes festival with her greenish gown…..She apparently has been photographed with that necklace on many time….HL you need to do better with your stories…Really!

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Mary S.

Posted at 10:49 PM on September 21, 2012  

That whole article was nothing but speculative crap.

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Jess

Posted at 10:17 PM on September 21, 2012  

You have got to be kidding me. This site is pathetic :-/

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Woody88

Posted at 10:03 PM on September 21, 2012  

PS: I have been to the site off of Mulholland Drive where the railing pictures were taken. The youtube video is FOS. Those pictures were taken right there from a hillside down the street apparently hiding behind a bush. The mystery is how they did not see/hear this person. Guess they were pretty wrapped up.

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Woody88

Posted at 9:59 PM on September 21, 2012  

Congratulations on stitching together a lovely fictional story. All that really happened is that after being without Kristen for two weeks, he realized that he was a fool for letting Rupert Sanders ruin his life without even finding out what actually happened. Photo shows her babysitting their Dog on week 3.

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gcv

Posted at 11:45 PM on September 21, 2012  

I wonder if Rob is going to make a statement after BD2 regarding what really went down if this is true.

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denice

Posted at 1:31 AM on September 22, 2012  

I don’t thank he will becouse it’s none of our besness it’s there life.hopefuly they will take 2 years off from acting and get away from the crazy fans, the medea , the papz.and find out want they realy want in life.

 
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jun

Posted at 8:21 PM on September 21, 2012  

its okay rupert might be free soon! dang those papz ruined their plan for snow white 2,3,4…

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guest

Posted at 9:56 AM on September 23, 2012  

Kristen and Rupert ruined the SWATH for being a cheater not the paparazzi

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jun

Posted at 8:18 PM on September 21, 2012  

thanks to the PR people she paid to stage all this 5 points it should work all their all fired!

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nojudge

Posted at 7:25 PM on September 21, 2012  

all of you people do not know this couple only what you have read and most of it are lies so why don’t you all let them live,love, and be left alone!!!

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belinda

Posted at 6:56 PM on September 21, 2012  

i agree

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ashley

Posted at 5:59 PM on September 21, 2012  

If Rob takes back a cheater who publically humiliated him it does not make him a strong man it makes him laughing stock and a door mat !!

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Paris

Posted at 8:34 PM on September 21, 2012  

Please keep a decent vocabulary. RP does not even know you. How you dare to dictate him who he should love. Not just him, but to anybody.

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Fiona

Posted at 12:06 AM on September 22, 2012  

So true, I love this man, and even I will have to look at him in disgust. I know he can do better than that sneaky little tramp.

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