Kristen Stewart: Her 5-Point Win Back Robert Pattinson Plan – That Worked

Fri, September 21, 2012 12:34pm EDT by 92 Comments
How Kristen Stewart Got Robert Pattinson Back
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Kristen Stewart — against long odds, you won Rob’s heart and forgiveness by apparently following a really smart plan. Here’s what you did right to get your man back.

Kristen Stewart — we’re so happy at Hollywoodlife.com that you and Rob are getting back together. You both still love each other and if you’ll be happier together than apart, then it’s the right thing to do.

Kristen- it’s clear now looking back at how you handled the post-cheating situation, that you must have followed a 5 Point Win Back Rob Plan, dictated by your heart. Most important, you knew your heart. You knew that you didn’t want to lose Rob. Despite the fact that you cheated, you knew that you loved Rob and that canoodling with Rupert Sanders was a huge mistake. That’s why you didn’t give up trying . Here’s what worked

1) Kristen — You Persisted in Trying to Win Robert Pattinson Back

Although at first it appeared to the outside world that it was a hopeless situation, Kristen, you didn’t give up. You publicly apologized immediately for your cheating so it was very clear that you were serious about owning up to your mistake and serious about your love for Rob.

Then, while Rob fled to Reese Witherspoon’s super private ranch in Ojai and reportedly refused to take your calls or answer your texts, you didn’t give up hope.

Apparently every time you did get through to Rob, you apologized over and over again.You were willing to grovel at Rob’s feet. You didn’t allow you ego to get in the way of your grovelling, and that was a good thing.

On August 30, your best friend actress Scout Taylor-Compton tweeted “never give up. never” and you apparently took her advice and didn’t give up.

Then on September 19, Scout tweeted, “believe, believe, believe. you are almost there,” and you did. That was smart because you realized that time was on your side.

You knew in your heart that Rob loved you and that if you persisted, he would miss you and his heart would soften. You were right;  he did.

2) Kristen — You Apologized Repeatedly

As I said above, as soon as your cheating was discovered, you didn’t hesitate — you apologized publicly, infamously admitting that the affair “jeopardized the most important thing in my life, the person I love and respect the most, Rob. I love him, I love him. I’m so sorry.”

It has been important for Rob to hear your apologies. And to hear your apologies over and over. The more you apologized, the more he was able to start to believe that you meant it.

The repetition gradually made him feel that he could trust your feelings.

3) Kristen — You Let Your Devastation Be Known

Kristen, you felt terrible — you still feel terrible — that you cheated and especially that you were discovered — you understood how much that hurt, embarrassed and humiliated Rob. It was a triple whammy for him.

That’s why it was important that he know how devastated you were by your own betrayal.

You let enough people around you know that you couldn’t eat, you couldn’t sleep, you could barely get out of bed, so that the word would get out and Rob would be aware of your massively depressed state.  You weren’t showering, changing your clothes or washing your hair. You barely had the will to live without Rob.

This was music to Rob’s ears. He was dealing with his own devastation. He was suffering, and it was important that he knew that you were suffering even more, and also that you were suffering the backlash of fans and many in the Hollywood community.

All of this allowed his natural love and concern for you — his empathy — to be aroused.

The point was — he still loved you. You knew he did, and you knew that eventually he wouldn’t be able to repress his normal worries for you even though you had let him down — his feelings were too ingrained.

4) Kristen — You Did a Great Job of Laying Low

Kristen — keeping out of sight of the paparazzi and of all your mutual friends, gave him a chance to wonder how you were doing and to both miss you and worry about you.

You knew Rob had always been protective of you and those feelings weren’t going to go away right away. They didn’t.

5) Kristen — Wearing Rob’s Clothes and Gifts Was Genius

Kristen — the very few times that you were out in public, it was the best move for Rob to see you wearing his clothes — his baseball cap, his backpack, his Irie t-shirt. You knew he would see the photos and that he would know that you were sending him a message of love. You were telling Rob that you missed him and were desperate to be close to him by wearing his clothes.

Rob would know you have loved his smell and to have his smell on you. You even talked about it to British Vogue in a new interview. “I love the way he smells,” you told the magazine. “I don’t get this obsession with washing the smell off. The smell of someone you love.”

Wearing Rob’s clothes was telegraphing a direct message to his heart about your feelings for him.

Finally — and this may have been the final move that won Rob back — you wore a locket Rob gave you prominently at two appearances promoting On the Road.

You first wore the $40,000 locket at The Toronto International Film Festival with your beautiful Zuhair Murad dress, on September 6th, and then in NYC with a black tank and white blouse.

Apparently, the locket contains photos of you and Rob and has a Latin inscription that reads, “Even if you can’t see me, my love for you is always there,” according to Ok! Magazine.

Even Rob had to feel his heart strings pulling Kristen. Now we know that you and Rob have a long way to go to rebuild the trust between you. You also have to understand that he is reportedly bucking the wishes of his sisters and some friends who don’t think he should be back together with you, so he is placing his love for you ahead of their influence. That’s big.

But Rob is wisely placing his own feelings and his relationship with you ahead of all that. After all, it’s his life, not their life. And if he is happier and his life is better with you in it, then he should be accepting your apologies, as he is doing.

Kristen — your apparent 5 Point Plan appears to have succeeded. Hollywoodlifers — take note if there is anything you can learn from it, even if you’ve never cheated on your man.

Do you think Kristen handled the past-cheating situation well or not? Tell me now!

– Bonnie Fuller

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  3. Fans So Excited To See Robert Pattinson & Kristen Stewart Together Again

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Pari

Posted at 5:55 PM on September 21, 2012  

fans are mature they understand that they are not Edward and bella and now that kristen has cheated , Rob is moving on . what is so hard to believe in that . its life it happens .

mostly fans are getting pissed at being kept hanging like a pendulum thinking are they or arent they together . the more they are delaying the announcement more and more people are getting disinterested in the movie and the actors .

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Anne

Posted at 5:42 PM on September 21, 2012  

this article is BS Rob wants nothing to do with her .

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lydia

Posted at 5:34 PM on September 21, 2012  

rob is a strong !! man, by taking kristen back,if that article is indeed true.. he stand strong against his sisters and friends, and basicaly, all the world’s criticism by doing so. the easiest way for him is to say goodbye to her for good. but he didn’t do that, he chose the hard way, just by listening to his heart. i give him big applause to that. besides, i dont thing they are realy back together just yet. he will not make it easy for her. she will have to earn it, earn him back. she will have to do a lot. anyway, i just hope he is happy, both of them. lots of love.

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marie

Posted at 5:13 PM on September 21, 2012  

Once a cheater always a cheater ….Rob pls stay away from her .

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TRACY

Posted at 5:13 PM on September 21, 2012  

using cheap tricks is her trade mark …that is what she has done ….but they will never work now that Rob has seen through her

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SCARLETT

Posted at 4:34 PM on September 21, 2012  

GOOD PLAN KRISTEN STEWART THANK-YOU BONNIE FOR SUPPORT KRISTEN

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lola

Posted at 4:32 PM on September 21, 2012  

We still don’t know if theres any truth to the story that Rob & Kristen are back together. But if they do, its Robs life & his choice to make, that doesn’t make him a weak person.

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lynnette

Posted at 4:08 PM on September 21, 2012  

how can Rob be so weak as to take this person who cheated on him back . she publically humiliated him and lied to him and she never finished with Rupert . It ended when she got caught ,
dont understand this at all …how can he be so weak . it is so unbelievable

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guest

Posted at 9:58 AM on September 23, 2012  

theres no reconciliation the summit /lionsgate/Kristen PR are feeding the tabloid with the reconciliation crap with out Robs blessing

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linda

Posted at 3:48 PM on September 21, 2012  

Dont understand how can Robert even think of taking the girl who caused him a public humiliation back..its a bad decision

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Tracey Bown Riley

Posted at 3:44 PM on September 21, 2012  

l am glad robert take kristen back now good luck both of them

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pia

Posted at 3:03 PM on September 21, 2012  

kristen is selfish and does not love him .Rob should move on .

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Maureena

Posted at 2:51 PM on September 21, 2012  

I do remember when I was 22 and did something similar to what Kristen did. How much I regretted it and years later look back at this big mistake I made.
Rob has a big heart. Sometimes it is harder to forgive, takes a lot of guts. But with great risks can come great rewards.
Kristen does seem to be truly sorry and very much in love. Sometimes you don’t know what you’ve got till its gone. Maybe she appreciates now what she has in Rob. She mentioned in an interview she want to get “fx#*ed over” as things were too easy for her. Be careful what you wish for. Lets hope this adrenalin rush, thrill seeking personality of hers, doesn’t mess up her judgment again in her love life. Great risks can also bring great devastation.

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Tish

Posted at 2:50 PM on September 21, 2012  

I would tell Kristen to shove off. She is a cheat and a liar. She does not care about Rob all she cares about is that her cheating has trashed her career (yeah!!). She needs to craw back in the hole she came from and leave Rob alone.

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sarcasm

Posted at 2:45 PM on September 21, 2012  

And he was a fool. His life his mistake.

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Stupid ppl..

Posted at 2:33 PM on September 21, 2012  

Are you f*cking serious?! Gosh this post is disgusting. Bonnie what are trying to say? Bonnie are you married? Do u have a boyfriend? What if he cheated on you? Would you want them to decieve you, trick and manipulate u into taking them back with a “5-point plan” ?! Wtf? Then you say she suceeded by following the plan and doing it right?! This isnt some game!! Wtf? Thats just f*cking with ppls emotions. Then you say “take note if theres anything you can learn from it..etc” are you serious? This isnt a game. You dont try to “win” a relationship back w\ a couple of mind tricks. “wearing robs clothes and gifts was GENIUS” wow rly? Shame. This post lacks standards.

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mimi

Posted at 2:30 PM on September 21, 2012  

Rob found a woman who loves him and who did not fear him the show, when it was destroyed kristen so much that the fans hate it, but we can not describe the hatred they have for it, my man told me that if I would do the same, to betray him in this way, I would have spat on and what needs to rob, not spit, but far from it, its falsity, its lies, that girl is not normal, if she wants, she has my blessing to stay with the old, good riddance ks

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apsara

Posted at 2:16 PM on September 21, 2012  

kristen is paying for mistakes she made , may be now she will learn there are no retakes in life .

Rob is better of without her . hope he finds the strength to move on .

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d.harris

Posted at 2:15 PM on September 21, 2012  

rumour keep speading,my niece said she read in ———the stir site—–that is not true that they are back.i wonder how credible is the site too. they are all milking the situation.

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dawn

Posted at 2:13 PM on September 21, 2012  

It’s all a prank people curtesy of Jimmy kimmel. Watch the emmys on Sunday. He’s suppose to reveal the biggest prank in history. Revenge will be served to the haters and tabloids but at what cost to the good fans? Such a small percent of rob and Kristen’s fan bases are haters. You’re supposed to ignore a child when they have a tantrum not give them more acknowledgement. Acknowledging them just makes the tantrum worse, psychology 101. The twilight fanbase was more like a family than just a normal fanbase. That’s been destroyed now and as a mom it hurts my heart to think of all the millions of good fans out there that have been hurt by this mess. All moms carry the weight of the world on their shoulders.

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Rachel Entzminger-Lloyd

Posted at 2:44 PM on September 21, 2012  

Dawn do you have “inside” information or is this a theory?

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seen

Posted at 3:53 PM on September 21, 2012  

Jimmy kimmel made some actors read mean comments on his show not long ago. One of those actors was Kristen. you can google the fact that Jimmy is going to reveal a huge prank on the emmys that has something to do with one of thr biggest news stories ouf there if not the biggest. Somebody commented about it on gossip cop and low snd behold there it was when I googled it. The person that commented and myself think its about robsten. Kristen has taken a severe beating at the hands of the haters over the years. Maybe rob wanted revenge and kimmel wanted to dupe the tabloids. I guess its z theory but it makes sense to me. Never believed Kristen cheated in the first place. Nothing made sense about it especially the photos. I’m very much in love therefore I believe in true love and I believe in them.

 
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dawn

Posted at 4:11 PM on September 21, 2012  

Rachel seen is me Dawn. Typed in my name so not sure why it says seen.

 
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guest

Posted at 10:03 AM on September 23, 2012  

so many teens and adult are heart broken with what Kristen did she is so irresponsible protecting her name and reputation she is the big name behind the twilight franchise.bet she doesnt care abiout her fans at all

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guinnethv

Posted at 1:59 PM on September 21, 2012  

The way Kristen’s looked when not on a red carpet, over the last year or two, Not Showering, changing her clothes or washing her hair are nothing new. I don’t think she is that good an actor and as we saw a few months ago, her moral scale is a kilter. I heard someone say that women went to see Rob’s movies for the sex. Well, Kristen isn’t shy about shucking duds, and she likes to play loose women., even in The Cake Eaters”. I’m not a hater, you have to be concerned in the outcome of this farce one way or the other. I don’t I’m just seating my opinion based on what I have seen

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jr

Posted at 1:36 PM on September 21, 2012  

It is still his choice to take her back or not. Its his life his heart. Good luck to you both no matter what you decide. Loyal fan of both!!!!!!!!!

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Woody88

Posted at 1:26 PM on September 21, 2012  

Everyone acts as if they have the slightest idea of what really went down, before, during, and after. I do not know anything either. I imagine that the universe posed this event as a test of their relationship to determine for BOTH of them whether they were engaged in mutual adoration or the mysteries of love. If they are back together, they have decided that the mysteries of love are what is happening, not something shallow. I wish them all the best!

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kate

Posted at 1:04 PM on September 21, 2012  

This article is appalling. The fact remains that she cheated on Rob under his nose with a married man/father and then KEPT IT FROM HIM. Wearing the locket that he gave her where he professed his loyalty is only another slap in the face. Making a list of all the basic things she “did” to win him back only shows that it didnt take much for him to take her back and that his standards arent very high.

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moime

Posted at 1:02 PM on September 21, 2012  

If it is truly what Rob wants I hope they can work it out. In the past they seemed to have something so special – their chemistry was amazing – hopefully they can get it back. Love Rob – he does seem like a very special, talented, gorgeous and nice guy. If Kristen wins him back hopefully she will treat him like he deserves.

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Anna

Posted at 12:49 PM on September 21, 2012  

Liberty was smart enough to start cozying up with her ex before rupert the other day. Rob leave her! You gonna look so dumb. Liberty is not chasing after rupert she got a new toy and you need to do the same. Find a woman, not a girl that does nothing but play games. And stop letting that girl cuss you out in public. You said she was stronger than you and youre right. She is. Manipulating you all over again.

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Enid

Posted at 1:03 PM on September 21, 2012  

I agree with you 100%. Kristen is a congenital serial cheater and eventually will hurt Rob over and over again. A fool proof chastity belt is Rob’s best defense if there is such a thing.

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KATE

Posted at 1:05 PM on September 21, 2012  

TOTALLY.

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