Kristen Stewart: Her 5-Point Win Back Robert Pattinson Plan – That Worked

Fri, September 21, 2012 12:34pm EST by 92 Comments
How Kristen Stewart Got Robert Pattinson Back
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Kristen Stewart — against long odds, you won Rob’s heart and forgiveness by apparently following a really smart plan. Here’s what you did right to get your man back.

Kristen Stewart — we’re so happy at Hollywoodlife.com that you and Rob are getting back together. You both still love each other and if you’ll be happier together than apart, then it’s the right thing to do.

Kristen- it’s clear now looking back at how you handled the post-cheating situation, that you must have followed a 5 Point Win Back Rob Plan, dictated by your heart. Most important, you knew your heart. You knew that you didn’t want to lose Rob. Despite the fact that you cheated, you knew that you loved Rob and that canoodling with Rupert Sanders was a huge mistake. That’s why you didn’t give up trying . Here’s what worked

1) Kristen — You Persisted in Trying to Win Robert Pattinson Back

Although at first it appeared to the outside world that it was a hopeless situation, Kristen, you didn’t give up. You publicly apologized immediately for your cheating so it was very clear that you were serious about owning up to your mistake and serious about your love for Rob.

Then, while Rob fled to Reese Witherspoon’s super private ranch in Ojai and reportedly refused to take your calls or answer your texts, you didn’t give up hope.

Apparently every time you did get through to Rob, you apologized over and over again.You were willing to grovel at Rob’s feet. You didn’t allow you ego to get in the way of your grovelling, and that was a good thing.

On August 30, your best friend actress Scout Taylor-Compton tweeted “never give up. never” and you apparently took her advice and didn’t give up.

Then on September 19, Scout tweeted, “believe, believe, believe. you are almost there,” and you did. That was smart because you realized that time was on your side.

You knew in your heart that Rob loved you and that if you persisted, he would miss you and his heart would soften. You were right;  he did.

2) Kristen — You Apologized Repeatedly

As I said above, as soon as your cheating was discovered, you didn’t hesitate — you apologized publicly, infamously admitting that the affair “jeopardized the most important thing in my life, the person I love and respect the most, Rob. I love him, I love him. I’m so sorry.”

It has been important for Rob to hear your apologies. And to hear your apologies over and over. The more you apologized, the more he was able to start to believe that you meant it.

The repetition gradually made him feel that he could trust your feelings.

3) Kristen — You Let Your Devastation Be Known

Kristen, you felt terrible — you still feel terrible — that you cheated and especially that you were discovered — you understood how much that hurt, embarrassed and humiliated Rob. It was a triple whammy for him.

That’s why it was important that he know how devastated you were by your own betrayal.

You let enough people around you know that you couldn’t eat, you couldn’t sleep, you could barely get out of bed, so that the word would get out and Rob would be aware of your massively depressed state.  You weren’t showering, changing your clothes or washing your hair. You barely had the will to live without Rob.

This was music to Rob’s ears. He was dealing with his own devastation. He was suffering, and it was important that he knew that you were suffering even more, and also that you were suffering the backlash of fans and many in the Hollywood community.

All of this allowed his natural love and concern for you — his empathy — to be aroused.

The point was — he still loved you. You knew he did, and you knew that eventually he wouldn’t be able to repress his normal worries for you even though you had let him down — his feelings were too ingrained.

4) Kristen — You Did a Great Job of Laying Low

Kristen — keeping out of sight of the paparazzi and of all your mutual friends, gave him a chance to wonder how you were doing and to both miss you and worry about you.

You knew Rob had always been protective of you and those feelings weren’t going to go away right away. They didn’t.

5) Kristen — Wearing Rob’s Clothes and Gifts Was Genius

Kristen — the very few times that you were out in public, it was the best move for Rob to see you wearing his clothes — his baseball cap, his backpack, his Irie t-shirt. You knew he would see the photos and that he would know that you were sending him a message of love. You were telling Rob that you missed him and were desperate to be close to him by wearing his clothes.

Rob would know you have loved his smell and to have his smell on you. You even talked about it to British Vogue in a new interview. “I love the way he smells,” you told the magazine. “I don’t get this obsession with washing the smell off. The smell of someone you love.”

Wearing Rob’s clothes was telegraphing a direct message to his heart about your feelings for him.

Finally — and this may have been the final move that won Rob back — you wore a locket Rob gave you prominently at two appearances promoting On the Road.

You first wore the $40,000 locket at The Toronto International Film Festival with your beautiful Zuhair Murad dress, on September 6th, and then in NYC with a black tank and white blouse.

Apparently, the locket contains photos of you and Rob and has a Latin inscription that reads, “Even if you can’t see me, my love for you is always there,” according to Ok! Magazine.

Even Rob had to feel his heart strings pulling Kristen. Now we know that you and Rob have a long way to go to rebuild the trust between you. You also have to understand that he is reportedly bucking the wishes of his sisters and some friends who don’t think he should be back together with you, so he is placing his love for you ahead of their influence. That’s big.

But Rob is wisely placing his own feelings and his relationship with you ahead of all that. After all, it’s his life, not their life. And if he is happier and his life is better with you in it, then he should be accepting your apologies, as he is doing.

Kristen — your apparent 5 Point Plan appears to have succeeded. Hollywoodlifers — take note if there is anything you can learn from it, even if you’ve never cheated on your man.

Do you think Kristen handled the past-cheating situation well or not? Tell me now!

– Bonnie Fuller

More Kristen and Rob stories here:

  1. Kristen Stewart’s Sexy ‘Madame Figaro’ Magazine Cover Revealed
  2. Saad Siddiqui: Robert Pattinson Is A ‘Kind & Caring Human Being’
  3. Fans So Excited To See Robert Pattinson & Kristen Stewart Together Again

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Sandy K

Posted at 10:25 PM on October 2, 2012  

Can you say manipulative? Sorry gang, liars and cheaters are known for manipulation too. It’s a fun game to them. The thrill of not getting caught, the remorse only if you do get caught. Lived it.

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Keira English, Hungary

Posted at 5:03 PM on October 2, 2012  

Well, I am in tears. I am so happy to read this good news about them. Actually, i would have done the exact same things if I had been Kristen to win my love back. Honestly, I am really looking forward to seeing the last part of Breaking Dawn now and like them better than ever! I have always thought these two (Robsten) were suffering because of 1, the very intrusive and outrageous paparazzi and 2, a stupid married man who couldn’t resist temptation. I have no words to express how great it feels to know Robert has forgiven Kristen.

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Michael J. from Millville, New Jersey

Posted at 2:11 AM on September 24, 2012  

Kristen did a brilliant job! I am so glad that she and Robert are back together! Thank you God! Kristen is an extremely smart and intelligent young woman, so this turn and focus onto her personal life does not surprise.

All Love and Admiration go out to Kristen!

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Vennie Bermudez

Posted at 2:49 PM on September 23, 2012  

Kristen Stewart doesn’t need her 5-point win back, She’s DONE!

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Anne

Posted at 12:29 PM on September 23, 2012  

hate her for the media circus her stupid and reckless actions have caused . Really hope Rob leaves her and finds a mature woman , who can love like he deserves to be loved

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angie

Posted at 5:55 PM on September 23, 2012  

@anne eveyone deserves a second chance..just remember that no one is perfect,not even YOU..who are you to decide wether he should stay or leave her

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paty

Posted at 10:48 AM on September 23, 2012  

BUENO MIENTRAS SEN PERAS O MANZANAS ELLOS ESTAN JUNTOS QUE ES LO KE IMPORTA BUELA A KIEN LE BUELA NADIE ES PERFECTO EN ESTA VIDA SEAN FELIZ QUE VIDA ES SOLO UNA VIVAN FELIZ Y DEJENLOS QUE SEAN ELLOS FELICIDADES Y SUERTE PARA LOS DOS QUE NACIERON UNO PARA EL OTRO

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Who betrayed whom is debatable

Posted at 8:08 AM on September 23, 2012  

Kristen not take it please, is full of women around him, what kind of life? I hope everyone realizes? Rob is definitely not an angel.

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guest

Posted at 9:51 AM on September 23, 2012  

tell her she look so pathetic probably she will listen to you.Rob is not an angel but he is not a homewrecker caught cheating in public in the broad daylight with a married man

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Gina

Posted at 6:23 AM on September 23, 2012  

Rob should not get together with her , she has never loved or respected him , has always put him down in public . and then publically humiliated him with her affair , had cared she would never have felt the the need to stray .

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Regina McGuire

Posted at 4:48 PM on October 8, 2012  

do u even know what a homewrecker is, hello stup there was a married MAN Kristen is and was not married. And he was her BOSS, I see a little of pressure there. Hey Rob did u get to find out why Kristen was so pressured? funny the pics looked like a set up to me to destroy a relationship that many have been envious of for some time now.

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gcv

Posted at 1:37 AM on October 9, 2012  

Regina I totally agree with you! I have been saying this for a while..that the target was both of them not just Kristen. How rude and insensitive for another man to destroy the love of Rob‘s life.

 
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Rob: marriage to Kristen

Posted at 5:47 AM on September 23, 2012  

MTV reports That RPattz give Kristen a chance. Rob has the condition. Kristen has to fulfill the promise of marriage, OU OU. It will confirm that Kris him seriously. Hmmm, Kristen has a theory that the relationship does not need paper.

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Regina McGuire

Posted at 4:54 PM on October 8, 2012  

some people do feel that way, BUT For most people it is a bonding in your relationship that no man can tear apart. I do however agree if you love him and want only him why would a piece of wood stand in your way? ” Paper is made from wood” and if you are worried about the rain forest , he use the recycled paper. love you both.hold on tight,hard ,and kick back with force!

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Daphne

Posted at 4:03 AM on September 23, 2012  

It will take time, but I think Rob and Kristen will get back together. This whole thing is making them
appreciate and acknowledge what they truly love about each other. I went through this same thing, but
it did take a long time for us to be friends again, eventually reconcile, get back together, and even
start living together again. I was the same age as Kristen when this happened to me. He was my
first and only true love. I have never loved anyone like I loved him. Now I really like Rob. He’s my
crush now. ha ha

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Daphne

Posted at 4:04 AM on September 23, 2012  

Right on , Daphne4

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Posted at 1:50 AM on September 23, 2012  

Bravo! Bravo! Perfect article!….there is not much one could add to that!

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Liesel

Posted at 11:21 PM on September 22, 2012  

There seem to be recurring stories that they are working toward a reconciliation. It won’t be easy and it might not work out, Still if it eases his pain and hers then it will help both of them to move on. I’m sick of people saying no it’s impossible, she’s so evil he would never consider it or yes they are already together. They will decide and the haters on both sides make me sick.

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GUEST

Posted at 10:08 PM on September 22, 2012  

theres no reconciliation.the summit/lionsgate/Kristen PR are feeding the reconciliation crap to the medial.the real truth will come out after the BD.they are just fooling the gullible disgruntled dissappointed fans back to their graces.its a marketing ploy to sell the BD

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Debra

Posted at 5:43 PM on September 22, 2012  

There is no proof they are back together. Media are just looking for a new story to sell. lol

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jr

Posted at 2:46 PM on September 22, 2012  

They are not back together. Don’t be fooled.

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Tracey Bown Riley

Posted at 3:11 PM on September 22, 2012  

yes they are back togehter already how u do know they are not back togehter reply me now pls

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besh

Posted at 10:06 PM on September 22, 2012  

It is not really confirmed, “friends have speculated that he will take her back” was reported but not confirmed by either party and what Kristen said in Toronto was in regards to a questioned asked about how they will cope with the BD2 premiere, not a confirmation that they are back together, just remember studio bosses will do anything to make it look like everything is fine to keep the fans happy and I am sure Rob and Kristen will do the same and be professional during the premiere, and of course she is not going to say anything at this point in time.

 
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GUEST

Posted at 10:54 PM on September 22, 2012  

they are not back together they just want be sure that the promotional running smoothly.you cant just Kristen cheating under the rug in 2 months.it will take a while to take away the pain,hurt and humiliations that quick.forgiven by Rob probably but getting back together.dont think so

 
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giggles

Posted at 4:52 AM on September 23, 2012  

actually tracey,the same could be asked of you.where is your proof? not including 2nd hand gossip and/or ‘sources’.they are not together,the studio
just wants the fans to calm down and think everything is fine.it’s not the first time studios have done this and sadly,it won’t be the last.
buti it makes you robstens that happy to think they are together again,then by all means keep thinking that.in the end you all are the ones who are going to be hurt.i just hope you all can actually accept it and let them move on.just remember,they are not responsible for your happiness.that is on you
all.

 
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