Kristen Stewart Is In Denial Of Failed Relationship, Expert Says

Thu, September 13, 2012 4:25pm EST by 58 Comments
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Kristen is really having trouble moving on from her relationship with Rob. Should she seek therapy?

Breakups are always tough to stomach, but Kristen Stewart just can’t seem to accept that her relationship with Robert Pattinson has ended.
“I think that Kristen is still stuck in stage one of the five stages of grief, which is denial,” Dr. Ava Cadell, founder of Loveology University tells HollywoodLife.com exclusively. “With all her success in other parts of her life, it’s difficult for her to accept that this happening to her.”

Kristen has been on a downward spiral since the two separated in mid July after news of her cheating scandal went public.

“Relationships that die often cause a similar grieving cycle as when a loved on passes away,” adds relationship expert Dr. Phil Dembo. “Whether you caused the relationship die, or not, the grief is often overwhelming.”

Instead of mourning, Kristen has made it her mission to get Rob back. According to various reports, she’s been calling and texting him nonstop since the split.

“Kristen needs to work with a therapist to help her through the first stage and when she is no longer in denial, help her to release her ‘anger’ in a productive manner,” Dr. Cadell urges.

Though it may take months before Kristen can move onto the subsequent stages, including “bargaining,” “depression” and “acceptance,” Kristen needs to find a way to fully process the breakup.

“Kristen must accept the truth of her circumstance, learn about herself in this process and move beyond the grief into a vision for a life after Rob,” asserts Dr. Dembo.

Though moving on is easier said than done, “With guidance, the outcome of Kristen’s devastating relationship loss will ultimately help her to be a wiser person and a better partner,” explains Dr. Cadell. “We learn the best lessons from the failures in our lives.”

Do YOU think Kristen should see a therapist to help her heal?

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world

Posted at 11:46 PM on September 13, 2012  

HL, where is the palant now. I like the plant issue..hahahahahahahaha..

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move on because this is getting stupid

Posted at 11:34 PM on September 13, 2012  

when did rob or kristen said that they have broken up because i do not remember either one saying it the media has but not them

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p

Posted at 11:27 PM on September 13, 2012  

my god !!! what will it take for all of you to stop posting comments on this blog and about Rob and Kristen situation!!! i need someone to tell me why this is so relevant .. WHY ? WHY ? WHY ? i need an answer .. please ! again WHY IS THIS SO RELEVANT ???WHY ?

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p

Posted at 11:26 PM on September 13, 2012  

pPosted at 11:26 PM on September 13, 2012
oh my god !!! what will it take for all of you to stop posting comments on this blog and about Rob and Kristen situation!!! i need someone to tell me why this is so relevant .. WHY ? WHY ? WHY ? i need an answer .. please ! again WHY IS THIS SO RELEVANT ???WHY ?
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p

Posted at 11:26 PM on September 13, 2012  

oh my god !!! what will it take for all of you to stop posting comments on this blog and about Rob and Kristen situation!!! i need someone to tell me why this is so relevant .. WHY ? WHY ? WHY ? i need an answer .. please ! again WHY IS THIS SO RELEVANT ???WHY ?

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Catherine Dove (@notthistwilight)

Posted at 10:38 PM on September 13, 2012  

U KNOW these extreme Twilight obsessions were PREVENTABLE, and SO many Twilight Fans are STILL in emotional turmoil because of this Robsten breakup PR stunt. Hollywood intentionally causing young, obsessed fans this kind of pain is wrong. TIME to start thinking about putting blame where it belongs. Search “Blame Stephenie Meyer” on blogspot.

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lmao

Posted at 10:22 PM on September 13, 2012  

Lmao if this is really for promo robert and kristen are probably just sitting back laughing at all the crap they post on here knowing its all complete lies. That would be actually EXTREMELY hilalrious if I was a star and I just watched as people pulled things out of no where and made everyone believe it and then I would congradulate the smart one that know it was all lies :)

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TRACY123

Posted at 10:12 PM on September 13, 2012  

KRISTEN LOVES ROB, SHE KNOWS ALREADY THAT SHE MESSED UP, BUT BLAME RUPERT NOT
KRISTEN, HE IS THE MARRIED ONE THAT TOOK ADVANTAGE OF A YOUNG GIRL. RUPERT
WAS LUCKY THAT KRISTEN IS OVER 18 YEARS OLD, OTHERWISE THE POLICE WOULD HAVE BEEN KNOCKING AT HIS DOOR!!! RUPERT IS THE ONE ROB SHOULD BE MAD AT, NOT KRISTEN. ROB SHOULD BE COMFORTING KRISTEN FOR HER STUPID MISTAKE. IF ROB WAS SMART HE WOULD JUST GO BACK TO NORMAL WITH KRISTEN LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED, DON’T PAY ANY ATTENTION TO WHAT PEOPLE SAY, JUST GO WITH THEIR HEARTS.

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Katherine g.

Posted at 10:34 PM on September 13, 2012  

I totally agree with your comment, Kristen is still younger than Rob,and yes Rupert most likely used his position and gave her option on the part two and he put fear in her,she is a girl child actor and she’s had it hard. Rob should forget Hollywood and take her back and the both into counseling and stay out of the cameras for a while. Rob will never find another love they shared and with him almost 30 and starting a new relationship he will be too old to start a family as it takes years to know someone before they marry and mr Rob will wake up some day after going from one girl to another and reliaze he’s in his 40 or older and if Kristen does get counseling she will heal and they real love will never be again. As much as I adore all the twilight movies with all the name calling to Kristen when the ones are have cheated once in there life and with Rob not wanting to try and counsel with each other, I will not watch the part two, I read the book, so I know how it ends and a lot of other fans will not go as well, so now the author is screwed,you would think that there reps would advice them both to go see a pre marriage counsel and move on with there hearts not the gossip. In Hollywood there is a lot of crap that is said that is not always the truth.

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Oleg Krayushkin

Posted at 10:04 PM on September 13, 2012  

Something strange they say. They argue that she just need to get it back. Now they say that the split complete and final, so Kristen needs to live on and to see a doctor in order to avoid depression …
You’ll have to determine, gentlemen experts that you want.

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lin

Posted at 9:06 PM on September 13, 2012  

She should move on. She s all about her career what do she expect the pictures will never fade awayshe should hook up with rupert.

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oatmeal44

Posted at 8:07 PM on September 13, 2012  

I hope they elope………….and blow everyones mind

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INSIDER

Posted at 7:59 PM on September 13, 2012  

THAT’S BECAUSE THEY ARE STILL TOGETHER !!!!! YOU REALLY NEED TO GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT!!!!!!

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Rosita freskita

Posted at 7:20 PM on September 13, 2012  

Vox populi say: Better late than never………….
This woman is completely with mental stress,
out of reality, and causing many troubles,
to her and enviroment around her, at work,
al her family, at friends.
she needs for specialized care immediate.
And avoid a circumstance more painful and tragic.

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Lyudmyla

Posted at 7:15 PM on September 13, 2012  

Kristen, be strong! You are very smart and good person, never doubt that. If Robert can not forgive you and is willing so easily to forget 4 years of your shared love and life, than maybe you should let him go, inspite how hard it is. Everyone makes mistakes, we all see that you regret very much making yours, evryone deserves forgiveness. I hope, Robert will be rational enough not to absorb all this madness and hate that fans of Robert through towards you, Kristen. I am sertain, if you, Rob, do not give Kristen any chance to mend your relationship now, you will regret it all your life. Life is too short. You both maybe never get the chance to be togather again. Love you both and together. Excuse my english, it is not my first language.

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Tra-Tra

Posted at 6:45 PM on September 13, 2012  

It’s to much being said about Rob and Kristen all at once so what should we believe. If people leave them alone maybe they can work out there issues. When one site is saying this and the other is saying that who can workout anything. Good luck to the both of you I hope you can find your way back to one another.

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so what

Posted at 6:42 PM on September 13, 2012  

wow so much people who know them and comment on them, are you all rob family friends do you know them intimly NO SO SHUT UP rob would never…. he hate her…. she humiliared him… BLABLA BLA BLA BLA
you know nothing is it so hard for you to admit it LEAVE ALONE ANS STOP PUTTING WORD IN THEIR MOUTH IT S JUST YOUR DUMB OPINION THEY DON T NEED YOU AT ALL

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rob fan

Posted at 6:19 PM on September 13, 2012  

kristen needs to take and no longer hurting robert pattinson, there were too many people injured in this scandal and kristen faces, it has sought to destroy him and almost succeeded, rob needs the support of its parents, his sisters, I do not believe for a moment that the family pattinson spoke to the press, never, for me they are ordinary people like you and me, I wonder how ks feels in front of parents rob, I would not shame but I guess it, I’m really angry with ks, that’s all!
I saw the last peak ks, she seems in better shape than rob, but it does not matter, it will be fine when he begins his film, when in denial, I doubt ks begins the meaning of this word. …
rob all the vay

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Anjali

Posted at 5:56 PM on September 13, 2012  

It may seem I’m going of track, but bear with me. I remember being sat on the floor playing with my 8 month old son, looking up at TV & thinking a film was on- it wasn’t, it was 9/11 coverage. I’m from the UK, & every year, always watch documentaries about the terrible event, & cry. I watched the Firemen’s story the other night, & wasn’t aware of the media slating they got when their trauma manifested itself in sad ways. This is where I am going with this- the media built them up as Heroes, (which they were), then tore then down when they showed their fallible human sides & made mistakes-‘drinking, aggression, sex scandals, cheating’ it was reported. This is NOT, I REPEAT NOT a comparison to the scandals that appear about celebrities, this is a condemnation of the global media, & how they build people up, (for whatever reason), & then decide to publically destroy them when they display a weakness. They do not do this alone; they engage whoever in the public is willing to jump on-board their plan of destruction. And the worst part is, they do not crush people quickly, they prolong the torture, & fuel the hate for as long as they can- to get as much currency from it as possible. Like terrorist leaders, they care not for the pain they inflict, & they nurture the basest parts of human nature. For this particular incident-Pattinson & Stewart, they have no escape, they can’t win however they decide- even if they wanted to reunite, the media & a public element, will make it as hard as they possibly can for them. This should be their private life.

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deice

Posted at 8:43 PM on September 13, 2012  

anjali you said a mouth full and all true god bless you.

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Jane Hall

Posted at 5:54 PM on September 13, 2012  

I thought he stilled loved her. Got an awful lot of years invested to not try again. Is he worried about his sisters threat to kill him. Sounds like they both need counseling.

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To Tina and Carmen

Posted at 5:49 PM on September 13, 2012  

You are probably the same person but the only ONEs in DENIAL are you IDIOTS. They have both moved on with there life YOU on the other hand can not function without talking about this YOU are the ONES in DENIAL and TIna YOU need to stay on your MEDS lay off the kool aid. Nice to see Kristen owning your azzzzzz.

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jen.

Posted at 5:16 PM on September 13, 2012  

kristen is not bpolar,,,please,it’s lie,yes? leave them alone.

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Tina

Posted at 5:10 PM on September 13, 2012  

In the above pic,neither one looks happy. Wow, now, Rob is looking at least a little happier and Kristen looks miserable. Well, at least moreso than usual. She never seems to be smiling muchany more,and that was before the cheating scandal. Wow, maybe she needs more help than we knew,or ever could imagine. Her mood swings signal to me, a possible issue of bipolar or maybe manic depression,and the constant wearing of black, tells me an issue of depression. Better this break up now, instead of dragging poor Rob down with her. Mental illness is a serious thing and healthy people do not need to be dragged down by those that are ill,or their issues.
The breakup is a loss, because in a way, it is a death of something,and in this case, a relationship.
So she will go thru the 7 stages, and maybe not in order, but she will go through them.

Rob,will have his own stages to go thru,as well.
This is tough to go through in any case, even worse while doing this in the public eye.
In some interviews,press junkets,and such,Rob seems distracted,and as if he cannot focus on the matter at hand.
Now we know why. Maybe he was dealing with some serious sh*t that we had no idea he was handling.
Not to mention, the breakup/dissolvment of Kristen’s parent’s own marriage, makes this even more serious.
Kristen needs help.
Denial is not just a river in Egypt,honey. Get help.

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ToriBorn

Posted at 5:26 PM on September 13, 2012  

hard to be happy when you have tons of cameras showed up in your face when you are just trying to walk through the gates.

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Woody88

Posted at 6:25 PM on September 13, 2012  

HL always uses airport paparazzi photos as the basis for their “experts” opinions about their sadness. Talk about stacking the evidence!

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Carmen

Posted at 5:01 PM on September 13, 2012  

Yes kristen is defnatley still in Denial

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Tina

Posted at 5:13 PM on September 13, 2012  

@ Carmen : yep,she be.

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crizo

Posted at 4:55 PM on September 13, 2012  

you all SHUT UP<SHUT UP<SHUT UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Tracey Bown Riley

Posted at 4:59 PM on September 13, 2012  

what up tell me why u sed shut up for ?

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deice

Posted at 8:46 PM on September 13, 2012  

because you people are sad and just like HL you know nothing.

 
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Caroline Ambrosio

Posted at 4:38 PM on September 13, 2012  

Kristen não está em negação porque o relacionamento dela com Rob ainda não está totalmente resolvido,ela não vai desistir de Rob e ele pelo visto parece não conseguir esquece-la,o que indica que ele não vai resistir e vai perdoa-la e reatar o namoro!Rob demostra ainda ser completamente apaixonado pela Kristen e a Kristen tambem demostra isso!Eles vão voltar a ficar juntos porque mesmo com esse escandalo,o amor deles não acabou!Robsten Eternamente♥

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