Kristen Stewart Is In Denial Of Failed Relationship, Expert Says

Thu, September 13, 2012 4:25pm EDT by 58 Comments
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Kristen is really having trouble moving on from her relationship with Rob. Should she seek therapy?

Breakups are always tough to stomach, but Kristen Stewart just can’t seem to accept that her relationship with Robert Pattinson has ended.
“I think that Kristen is still stuck in stage one of the five stages of grief, which is denial,” Dr. Ava Cadell, founder of Loveology University tells HollywoodLife.com exclusively. “With all her success in other parts of her life, it’s difficult for her to accept that this happening to her.”

Kristen has been on a downward spiral since the two separated in mid July after news of her cheating scandal went public.

“Relationships that die often cause a similar grieving cycle as when a loved on passes away,” adds relationship expert Dr. Phil Dembo. “Whether you caused the relationship die, or not, the grief is often overwhelming.”

Instead of mourning, Kristen has made it her mission to get Rob back. According to various reports, she’s been calling and texting him nonstop since the split.

“Kristen needs to work with a therapist to help her through the first stage and when she is no longer in denial, help her to release her ‘anger’ in a productive manner,” Dr. Cadell urges.

Though it may take months before Kristen can move onto the subsequent stages, including “bargaining,” “depression” and “acceptance,” Kristen needs to find a way to fully process the breakup.

“Kristen must accept the truth of her circumstance, learn about herself in this process and move beyond the grief into a vision for a life after Rob,” asserts Dr. Dembo.

Though moving on is easier said than done, “With guidance, the outcome of Kristen’s devastating relationship loss will ultimately help her to be a wiser person and a better partner,” explains Dr. Cadell. “We learn the best lessons from the failures in our lives.”

Do YOU think Kristen should see a therapist to help her heal?

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Lillie

Posted at 7:34 PM on September 14, 2012  

Kirsten should keep on trying because when u find someone you love you should NEVER let them go.

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Jane Hall

Posted at 6:02 PM on September 14, 2012  

I think they both need counseling, If he still loves her try to work it out. Dont listen to family and friends. Kristen needs to work on her jealousy. All that time together is worth fighting for.

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EDNA0307

Posted at 4:31 PM on September 14, 2012  

dahhh obviously she is in denial i will be to if i really love someone and wants to be with him,i’m pretty sure that she already learn her leason she is never ever goin to do this again because she already knows the consequences and she is never goin to do it again.i really hope that she and robert work this out and if they have to stay friend then thats ok i just want them to enjoy being with one another to be confortable being around each other thats it i jus want them to smile, so please leave them alone and let them relove this by themselves

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ZJ

Posted at 1:03 PM on September 14, 2012  

I think that Mr Pattinson needs help….”I love her; I love her, I am heartbroken, Cheating hurts so bad, so much that I can not even talk with her after almost 4 years relationship can not, ah how painful, I am so good guy, and she cheating me…I can not belive it”….yes, he need help…

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denice

Posted at 2:35 PM on September 14, 2012  

rob needs more then just help. he is boreing and kristen needs to find some one with life in them.

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Guest

Posted at 11:13 AM on September 14, 2012  

I personally think the woman needs professional help. Shortly before the affair Kristen was talking about how her life was too boring and perfect and wanting to be effed over, then she talked about how she likes to feel out of control. It seems to me that for whatever reason Kristen hit the self destruct button when she cheated with Sanders. I’ve said before that Kristen became way too invested in the character Marylou (On The Road) she has talked about how the character is so uninhibited and that the love the character and her husband shared transcended cheating, drugs etc.. through it all they stayed together, because it was based on real people I really think Kristen thought that Rob would forgive her anything too. Kristen failed to realize not everyone is comfortable with such an open relationship, it has to be mutual. Since Rob made his feelings about cheating and relationships clear in Italian Vogue, Kristen should have had some idea but I really think Kristen thought she and Rob could be like Dean and Marylou. Now that its turning out not to be the case (so far) Kristen has no idea how to handel the demise of thier relationship.

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jr

Posted at 10:30 AM on September 14, 2012  

Harry not only are you poor but you are really an idiot. Keep yourself in England I am sure Kristen is smarter than that now!!!!!wow what a dope r you!!!!!!!!!

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Flowergirl

Posted at 9:28 AM on September 14, 2012  

Loveology University…really? This one had me laughing out loud. Hollywood Low LIfe is really scraping the bottom of the barrel.

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Harry

Posted at 9:24 AM on September 14, 2012  

I’m British with a mediocre talent, pretty poor and thinking of going to the USA.
Can Kristen Stewart make me rich & famous as well?
I’m sure there is some miles in that gravy train yet.
I’ll even date her Mum.

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Katty

Posted at 9:24 AM on September 14, 2012  

kristen is in serious denial she looks terrible and needs help of her friends and family to help her move on .

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Frankie

Posted at 8:35 AM on September 14, 2012  

No, she’s not in denial you twits. No need to deny something that’s back on track and doing fine.

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jr

Posted at 5:18 AM on September 14, 2012  

Rob let her go so she can run straight into Alex. Pettyfers heart soon she will be making the movie called. Cali.

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Frankie

Posted at 8:34 AM on September 14, 2012  

Ahem….no, she won’t be making Cali. She pulled out of that movie weeks ago. Get with the program.

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gentle soul

Posted at 5:09 AM on September 14, 2012  

yeah I agree poor girl really needs a therapist she is looking very thin almost anorexic .she really needs help to move on .

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Penny

Posted at 5:06 AM on September 14, 2012  

@ jr
is that short for jerk.
Looks like being rude jerks you off ! good nite !!

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jr

Posted at 4:31 AM on September 14, 2012  

Why should she release a statement.last I remember rob is the man. He should release the statement if its true.stop being a creep Ashley. Isn’t it past your bedtime?

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SS

Posted at 4:14 AM on September 14, 2012  

lol why is that i feel like this article is written for the twi-hards and not kristen herself? lol hahaha i think the FANS are more in denial than kristen herself. Maybe the twi-hards should see a therapist??

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ashley

Posted at 1:16 AM on September 14, 2012  

Am so glad kristen has moved on …she should now release a statement that she has moved on …there will be peace all around.

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jr

Posted at 4:48 AM on September 14, 2012  

You need to go to bed.

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ZJ

Posted at 12:36 AM on September 14, 2012  

Fortunately for her Kristen is moved on…

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KstewForever

Posted at 12:28 AM on September 14, 2012  

she isn’t in denial you idiots! they asked her how she and rob are gonna be in BD promotions and she said they’re gonna be fine. what else do you think she should have said, eh? that they’ve ended their relationship and won’t be promoting movie together? what she said DOES NOT means that she’s in denial. in fact, she hasn’t spoken anything of her relationship so don’t make something when there’s nothing!

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candy

Posted at 12:27 AM on September 14, 2012  

No, they aren’t together anymore. Both of them are moving on. lets deal with it!! if its not meant to be its not meant to be. we can’t do anything about it anymore.

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jackie

Posted at 12:21 AM on September 14, 2012  

So DR Cadell you are saying if Kristen moves on it will make her a wiser person and a better partner. Do you think that Rob will let her move on with anyone else if he still loves her – I THINK NOT. Do you think Rob will be able to handle seeing Kristen with someone else. Don’t you think Rob would say “what if, or I should have” when it is to late. Don’t you think Rob would say and this depends on when she does move on with someone else Kristen is cheating on him again because they haven’t officially split. I can’t see them moving on with anyone else besides each other. Because they would always be in each others hearts, minds and they would always be thinking about each other, that is no good for anyone they try to get into a relationship with. The other person would probably think am I just a replacement for Rob/Kristen I don’t want that kind of relationship. Don’t you think if Kristen tried to move on she would always be thinking about Rob and he would always be in her heart. Kristen wouldn’t be able to commit herself 100% to the relationship and visa versa with Rob. If you can’t give yourself 100% to a relationship than you shouldn’t be in one until you can because the relationship would be doomed from the start, this is fact.
HL why would these dr’s give you their opinions anyway are they that desperate for work. Please find something else to print but make sure it is the truth first.

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annony

Posted at 11:59 PM on September 13, 2012  

Kristen and Rob are together. HL is scambling to do everything they can to try to convence reader of their made-up lies. Don’t believe it. They are desperate to hold on to readers for hits. Go to crushable.com if you really want to known the truth.

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u are a poser

Posted at 3:21 AM on September 14, 2012  

Boycott this site they hate hetero-sexual relationships

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Gentle Soul

Posted at 10:37 AM on September 14, 2012  

I totally agree with you. They are together, why would they want to tell anyone that they are together.? Can you imagine how tired they are of the BS, the fans, the media, the paps. Imagine living in that kind of environment. People, then wonder why she uses her middle finger. Other, celebs can go out with their chldren, go shopping etc, etc… but Kristen and Rob are prisinors of their fans and the paps. They do need to move to Europe, I really think people would respect their privacy there. HL is not printing the crushable.com article because they might be seeing the last of their rumors coming to an end.

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