Kristen Stewart seems to feel that if you truly love someone you should accept them, faults and all. And maybe she has a point. In any case Rob, you need to talk to her to see if you can possibly do that.
Mary Lou is a free spirit who, Kristen tells eTalk, is able to “understand that if she loved someone, then she loved them for everything they were. Do you know what I mean? It’s a pretty basic concept that we all try… you know, but… she was able to live such a full life because of that.”
It almost sounds like Kristen is begging you, Rob to give her a second chance, despite her faults and that she desperately wants to explain herself to you.
So the question is — is she being at all realistic? Rob? Do YOU believe that loving someone fully and possibly for life means that you should accept that they aren’t perfect and that they may need help and understanding, even if they cheated?
Relationships CAN Still Work After Cheating
It’s a lot to ask, but some experts say that it’s not out of the question at all.
“I agree with Kristen that if a person has cheated, made amends and realized what a hurtful thing they did, the other person should forgive them, IF they can find it in their heart,” says family therapist Jeff Gardere, chief contributor to Healthguru.com.
“Now it absolutely has to be the choice of the person who was cheated on, but I think they should talk it out and find out what really happened,” he explains. “Cheating is a red flag that there were problems in the relationship which may have involved both people — though that doesn’t justify cheating.”
In other words Rob, you may not want to accept any responsibility for Kristen cheating and you shouldn’t — but she may have been trying to tell you about concerns she had about the relationship or commitment before she cheated, and you weren’t hearing her.
Now, don’t get me wrong Rob — nothing is an excuse for cheating but Kristen clearly feels absolutely terrible about what she did and realizes that it was a stupid and awful mistake. The incident made her completely realize how much she loves and values her relationship with you.
It’s too bad that she had to make such an extreme and public mistake, but her feelings for you are honest and real. And if you did and do truly love her, then you should at least talk to her to see if you can accept her… faults and all.
Now Is A Good Time For Kristen & Rob To Talk
Now would be a good time after all the hoopla of both your Cosmopolis and her On The Road promos are done.
It’s unlikely Rob, that Kristen is one of those people who is inherently a “cheater.”
“I don’t think she’s a serial cheater. She got caught in a moment,” says relationship expert Cooper Lawrence, the co-host of Dish Nation, airing nationwide on Fox, starting Sept. 10.
That’s a shame Rob, but it is understandable.
It’s also understandable that what Kristen did to you, was even worse than hurting you privately. Her cheating was so public that it was worldwide news and it was incredibly embarrassing and humiliating.
Of course, you need to be wary about getting re-involved. But on the other hand, only you and Kristen know how special the relationship that you had was. If it was deeply meaningful to both of you, then maybe it is worth accepting Kristen, faults and all, if she can now truly commit to you.
What do you think Hollywoodlifers? If you truly love someone should you be willing to accept them, warts and all? Tell me now!
– Bonnie Fuller
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