Did Kristen Stewart Cheat Because Of Her Parents’ Marital Woes?

Fri, August 31, 2012 6:38pm EST by 59 Comments
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Kristen’s world was turned upside down when her parents’ relationship started to diminish. Now with the news that her parents have called it quits after 27 years, could this have affected Kristen’s view on relationships? HollywoodLife.com spoke to a relationship expert who had all the EXCLUSIVE details.

Kristen Stewart may have acted out of fear when she decided to sabotage her relationship with Rob Pattinson by cheating on him with Rupert Sanders. Relationship expert and bestselling author Rebecca Grado tells HollywoodLife.com exclusively, “After watching her parent’s marriage decay over the years,  Kristen’s views on relationships would have definitely been affected.”

“If Kristen’s parents, Jules and John, became estranged in 2010, we can then assume that there may have been instability in their relationship for quite some time,” Rebecca says.”  This instability would have made Kristen feel insecure and question her own relationship. It would have also made her question commitment and if it’s even possible to have an everlasting relationship.”

Rebecca says, “Kristen had to witness a 27-year-old relationship fall apart, this would make her ask, ‘Do relationships last?’, ‘Will my own relationship last?’, ‘What if Rob is unfaithful?’ She is going to feel out of control and one way to feel in control is to sabotage your own relationship.”

“This is something people do all of the time. They do it subconsciously. Instead of waiting to see what would happen, Kristen choose to sabotage her relationship with Rob. She probably thought it was going to end anyway and didn’t want to wait in agony.”

Do YOU think Kristen cheated because of her parents’ marital woes, HollywoodLifers?

Sandra Clark

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apsara

Posted at 10:26 AM on September 1, 2012  

well said Linda ..what crap !!!
but u know children pick up a lot from ones parents unconsciously specially how to deal with life and morals !!

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Linda

Posted at 8:33 AM on September 1, 2012  

What a load of bull. Mum and Dad’s marriage is in the crapper so I’m going to put mine there too. She cheated because she could, didn’t think she’d get caught and if she did everyone would forgive and forget. It’s called the Hollywood Brat Syndrome. Kick her to the curb

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Anon

Posted at 8:50 AM on September 1, 2012  

redundant. She’s already been kicked to curb. She’s been living there for several weeks now. Robert ain’t coming back for her. Yes, I hate to say it, but he’s not coming back her.
I love the girl to death, and I feel very sorry for her. Unfortunately, the fairy tale is over. She made sure of that.

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anonyme.

Posted at 7:58 AM on September 1, 2012  

you know nothing of the lives of two
you insult rob, and kristen, why?
this is not your life, you do not know if they are or not, if they speak or not, they are still in love, they are still friends
we know nothing, but you are just to insult and criticize, especially Rob, I read most of the reviews on this guy and not enough on kristen is normal for you? he did nothing, everything is the fault kristen and yet you say rob must do this, that, why?
  these parents divorce is the fault rob? listen you find a hobby and stop these criticisms and advice that you give idiots a rob! when you really love someone (like kristen said in the apology) is not cheating on him, because of your insults to rob, it is attacked everywhere, lose more fans, ks sites are closed, do you really want that for her? well not in all cases, it has hurt and rob you add layers of criticism, it will not kristen!
personal opinion.

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jackie

Posted at 7:41 AM on September 1, 2012  

COME ON – Now HL is saying that KRISTEN’S Parent’s divorce made her cheat. FOR CRYNG OUT LOUD. WHAT A LOUD OF S..T. KSTEW has know for how long her parents have been separated. Why should it bother her. Everyone is saying she is and adult so she knew what she was doing with Rupert. So why would her parents divorce matter to her. Now people are saying this is why she did what she did. CHRIST people get the facts right. No-one knows. You can’t blame her parent’s divorce. KSTEW is a strong woman but it is people like HL and the crazy stupid fans that are causing her all this grief with your snide, crucifying, abusive and hatred of her. If she was a teenager I would probably say yes. But she is a grown woman. My sister divorced her husband after about 15 years. How do you tell 4 kids that your father was cheating with your mother’s best friend. They took it bad but you know what they turned out to be great kids. They are all married and have great kids. So don’t tell me that Kstew wouldn’t be able to handle it. If her parents have been separated for 2 years or more she has had time to get use to it. What was she suppose to do go see a shrink because her parents have separated and now they are divorcing. KSTEW’S mother doesn’t care about her because if she did she would be helping her daughter not ignoring her when her daughter is suffering the way she is. What sort of mother is she. Both of her parents on on Rob’s side and are ashamed of what kristen has done. So why should Kristen care about their divorce. She doesn’t need their problems. She should just ignore it and think about herself because that is what is important here not her parents.

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marya

Posted at 7:21 AM on September 1, 2012  

rob, kristen needs you..

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MsA

Posted at 5:44 AM on September 1, 2012  

Come on! Her mom and dad broke up two years ago, and were living separate lives already. The divorce was just the paperwork.

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Ina

Posted at 1:37 AM on September 1, 2012  

Maybe Rupert went after Kristen because she was at a weak point. Older, experienced men know and can sense that. The photos show Rupert being the agressor. Further, Rupert is the married man and it was his obligation not to go after any woman particularly a young woman who worked for him. Dont’ try to blame Kristen for the fling. The responsibility for it not to happen was 100% on Rupert as the married and older man. Liberty may be mad at Kristen but the one she needs to direct her hate is to her disgraceful husband who went after a young woman destroying her life and that of Rob’s.

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Poppy

Posted at 4:59 AM on September 1, 2012  

Definitely Rupert took advantage of the situation…. With rob goin after Katy ‘s friend… Didn’t help the situation,,, poor Kristin….

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boyfriend

Posted at 11:13 PM on August 31, 2012  

Jules Stewart with her boyfriend, Tom Wright, at Kristen’s Cannes OTR after party bit.ly/RvOnsP

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Electra

Posted at 11:09 PM on August 31, 2012  

Oh give me a break. That’s a poor excuse. If she truly was ín love with Rob she won’t have.

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Liz

Posted at 10:33 PM on August 31, 2012  

C’mon HL.you knew it her mother cheated on father long time ago. Kristen cheated on Rob. Mother =Daughter

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Hate rupert

Posted at 12:02 AM on September 1, 2012  

Stupid thinking

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Victoria

Posted at 10:14 PM on August 31, 2012  

She is 22 years old…

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Suzy

Posted at 10:27 PM on August 31, 2012  

“like” :-)

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Oleg Krayushkin

Posted at 10:13 PM on August 31, 2012  

I do not think Kristen is acting out of fear. Perhaps she turned to Sanders for advice, but it is clearly not the kind of figure who can advise something sensible. And it did.
What is truly incomprehensible – so this reaction Pattinson. If he knew about the situation in the family Kristen (and he should have known – there were “four-year relationship”), then why is it so strange did. He proved himself not at its best.
He made ​​himself a complete idiot. He’s just a stupid little boy. He is well on the red carpet to show off, but you can not take the responsibility. He does not know what it is and is not prepared for this. He grew up in a different environment and has no idea about real life.
Now I realize that I wanted to say Kristen. Sorry, but Mr. Pattinson – did not the man who she needed. He showed himself full of selfish and stupid.
Well sad but rewarding experience for Kristen. When she realizes it, it will grow as a person and as an actress. And Pattinson has missed this opportunity.

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Guest

Posted at 1:03 PM on September 1, 2012  

Rob grew up in REAL life, Kristen grew up in make believe land called LA/ Hollywood where anything goes without real repercutions. Have you not seen what celebs get away with? Kristens parents have been separated over a year, she’s a grown woman, whatever was going on with her parents its not an excuse to cheat on your boyfriend of 4 years or be 50% of an extra marital affair. The only opportunity Rob missed was 4 years to find a woman who knows how to be faithful and trustworthy.

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Anon

Posted at 8:55 PM on August 31, 2012  

I again saw the US Weekly shots of Rupert and Kristen: Shocking and distressing…to say the LEAST! If I were Robert, I’d forgive her…and move on. I’m sure she loves Robert, but it is not meant to be.
I’ve been married for 27 years. I’ve seen “love” go up and down. I don’t think Kristen is ready to settle down with Rob or commit to a relationship. She wants to wield her feminine power …as she wielded it over Rupert. I’m sure it intoxicates her.
I love that girl, but I agree with Robert: I’d move back to London. She’s a real pretty girl. I hope some day she learns how to be a woman.

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Futile

Posted at 8:54 PM on August 31, 2012  

Kristen cheated on her first boyfriend with Rob so he should have known.

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Josie

Posted at 8:52 PM on August 31, 2012  

Kristen’s 60 year old mother cheated on her husband with her 40 year old business partner. A 20 year old difference. It was known around facebook adn twitter that she moved in with him and they even went to Kristen’s Cannes premiere together. There’s a pic! His name is Tom Wright.

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Guest

Posted at 1:05 PM on September 1, 2012  

Like mother, like daughter.

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Robert´s fan

Posted at 8:51 PM on August 31, 2012  

I do not believe it,
analyzing simply compare the reactions and attitudes between Robert Pattinson and KS,
discusses their origins,
analyzes their families,
analyze their environments,
discusses the education they received from their parents,
analyzes their friends separatly
analyses how they reacted each at the end of the relationship and thereafter,
You’ll have all your answers

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Fact

Posted at 8:47 PM on August 31, 2012  

Rob and Kristen have moved on, the PEOPLE in the media have moved on the sane true fans of both have moved on. Summit is not at all worried WHY because this is the last movie it shows Ed and Bella happy married with a kid it will break all records it will sell millions of DVD / blue rays just like the others. Rob and Kristen will still making movies they STILL have enough money to enjoy the rest of their life. The ONLY losers still going on are the Kristen haters who have been hating her for years YOU never effected her then and you don’t now also just the tabs and BS gossip sites only talk a out it because YOU losers have go to them NO real media outlet cares anymore about this they stopped caring 2 days after it came out. FACT Kristen still OWNS your azz and she forever will. The girl is a ROCK STAR she is not with Rob and
YOU are still jealous of her. She got to F U C K Rob for 3/4 years while you have to hug your pillow and sleep with you twilight blanket LMAO. Power of the KSTEW gotta love it.

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Anon

Posted at 8:57 PM on August 31, 2012  

Amen…brother…amen!

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aquarius64

Posted at 9:48 PM on August 31, 2012  

@Fact – judging by the butt-to-crotch shots by the railing, it’s Rupert that owns Kristen’s. And the media cares; they know Kristen’s antics guarantees hits and spikes in mag sales. She’s helped the t-shirt industry (in a vulgar way) and she’s the butt of jokes by comics. Rob threw her out of the house for all the world to see. Studieos are on a holding pattern with her to see if she survives this scandal and not be a financial drag on a movie project. No one is jealous of her; with all this crap going on now no one wants to BE her.

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Heidi

Posted at 9:54 PM on August 31, 2012  

you obviously looove her cause you comment every day, face it fact was right rob had her3/ 4 years , you wish she gave you time of day you pathetic hateful loser, now go inside and think of more hate to write about

 
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guest2

Posted at 12:33 AM on September 1, 2012  

dear aquarius64 , never in my life have seen such an imbecile , you my friend are at best one of the dumbest person on the web , don’t feel too bad because you do have company , at least 20% of the hateful comments about Pattinson/Stewart come from a little clique just like you . I guess you guys have no life , no friends , no bf so the only thing left for you is obsessing over “Edward/Rob..who really doesn’t give a damn about how you feel about Kristen , your opinions , comments etc… that comment was so ridiculous , i can’t help but laugh at you , not only you can’t spell , you also have an awesome connection with movie studios … yes it is spelled STUDIOS ..my favorite part “no one is jealous of her” … and “no one wants to BE her” … this is where you give yourself away you twit , you’ve been jealous and wanted to be her for the last 4 years , so now with this incident you figure this is the best time to actually trash her …. you poor , poor misguided moron … wake up!! not only Stewart will survive this ridiculous thing , she will continue to have fans that actually appreciate her as an actor and her movies and she will always be better off than you , plain and simple so you see no matter how much hatred people like yourself and others send her way it will never change the fact that she will continue to do her job and do it well , because in the end you and all of the other vile little pigs of the internet are actually irrelevant, but hey since you like being a miserable human being , i hope you and your hate are happy together , because that’s all you will have no one likes ugly and you my dear are a poor excuse for a human being .. a waste of flesh !!!!!

 
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Guest

Posted at 1:07 PM on September 1, 2012  

Amen aquarius64

 
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Heidi

Posted at 10:01 PM on August 31, 2012  

Fact well said you rock,i agree with everything you said BD2 will probably make the most money for summit cause all the haters will be tuning in way before the sane people do. I guarantee kristen will rock at the premiere with or without rob and there will be lots more people cheering her because of all the disgusting people out there LMAO too!

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jun

Posted at 12:17 AM on September 1, 2012  

i dont think having a lot of money can make her happy she’ll always be the cheater in peoples mind and those picture will never go away…its the first one in hollywood with evidence that is cheating between two people who got caught in the act..its worst than a porno movie by kim and paris at least ther’s is no hurt its just sleazy its easy to forget

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Rob Parrinson

Posted at 8:42 PM on August 31, 2012  

Deep in the night, when I’m alone
My heart starts to burn, ’cause I feel for you
I’ve been away too long from my love
I leave it up to you to understand

I’ve got this feeling, deep in my mind
Come back and love me, just one more time
On the ground of an ocean we buried our love far away
My heart’s still bleeding, won’t you come back and stay

But I can’t understand why there’s salt in my eyes
And I can’t understand why your heart is in disguise
For I still need you and I want you to come back again
You make me feel like never again

I can’t find the answer from the look in your eyes
My heart’s still crying. Don’t tell me your love is a lie.
You’re still the one who can set me in a state of trance
Why don’t we give us a second chance

But I can’t understand why you laugh, though you cry
And I can’t understand why I don’t say goodbye
For I still need you and I want you to come back again
You make me feel like never again…

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Rob Pattinson

Posted at 8:44 PM on August 31, 2012  

sorry Im drunk cant properly write my name…..here………….here…………

Deep in the night, when I’m alone
My heart starts to burn, ’cause I feel for you
I’ve been away too long from my love
I leave it up to you to understand

I’ve got this feeling, deep in my mind
Come back and love me, just one more time
On the ground of an ocean we buried our love far away
My heart’s still bleeding, won’t you come back and stay

But I can’t understand why there’s salt in my eyes
And I can’t understand why your heart is in disguise
For I still need you and I want you to come back again
You make me feel like never again~

I can’t find the answer from the look in your eyes
My heart’s still crying. Don’t tell me your love is a lie.
You’re still the one who can set me in a state of trance
Why don’t we give us a second chance

But I can’t understand why you laugh, though you cry
And I can’t understand why I don’t say goodbye
For I still need you and I want you to come back again
You make me feel like never again…

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Heidi

Posted at 9:51 PM on August 31, 2012  

wht the hell r u saying?

 
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dawn

Posted at 9:57 AM on September 1, 2012  

All will be okay. Love always finds a way to survive. What you said is beautiful. Now go eat a half gallon of chocolate ice cream and you’ll feel much better:-)

 
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jhon

Posted at 9:44 PM on August 31, 2012  

good job rob its a great song …..go for it …..hahaahahha

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jhon

Posted at 9:44 PM on August 31, 2012  

nice song you got there rob hehee…

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Livvie

Posted at 8:42 PM on August 31, 2012  

It’s affecting,because that’s the example she lived with but it’s not an excuse.. !

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Veronica

Posted at 8:12 PM on August 31, 2012  

I don’t know, but from my own personal experience, when my parents were having marital troubles, I began to act out. I didn’t have a boyfriend at the time, but I began skipping school and sneaking out of the house. It’s possible….now that I think about it though, I did want some sort of control in my life–that’s why I chose to do those things. Unfortunately, my parents ended up getting a divorce afterall. They were happily and unhappily married for 23 years. :(

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Guest

Posted at 1:25 PM on September 1, 2012  

Veronica, my earlier respone to you went missing, if I’m repeating myself sorry.If you were skipping school, you were still a KID. Kristen is an ADULT who has had over a year to process this information. Kristen also has brothers to talk to about this, as well as a boyfriend (at the time) and friends. Whatever was going on with her parents, Kristen is a grown up, its NO EXCUSE.

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niken

Posted at 7:46 PM on August 31, 2012  

ummm…..she cheats her bf way before Pattison era, which cause Niki reed to stop becoming her friend

The time line is wrong

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Heidi

Posted at 9:50 PM on August 31, 2012  

learn english hater!!!!!!

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@time to build a bridge

Posted at 7:40 PM on August 31, 2012  

No one knows how this actually affected her. Just because she acts tough, doesn’t mean she actually is…. Some people are better at better on a “brave face” to the world than others…Only those who truly know her and are her real friends will know how she felt during this time. And no one knows if her parents marriage was perfect or in trouble for a very long time…. But its time to move past this story… She cheated, she apologised, enough already….

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27 years most people will take that

Posted at 7:24 PM on August 31, 2012  

Uhh 27 years is a hell of a long time to be in a relationship especially in HW. So are you saying she prefers to sabotage her relationship to deny years of happiness b/c of the possibility of her relationship not lasting? Then she is f’ed b/c there is no hope for her in that case so she should just join a convent.

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LOL

Posted at 7:07 PM on August 31, 2012  

This is the craziest thing I have ever read. Kristen was always the one who was constantly talking about honesty and being real and always showing how tough she is. So how could this have affected her two years later?That makes no sense and is just another attempt at excusing her. Her mother has a new boyfriend already, she moved on. They just got formally divorced now. Interesting timing isn’t it? Just before TIFF, so Kristen can play the “woe is me card”. Pathetic!

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Heidi

Posted at 9:49 PM on August 31, 2012  

LOL you are crazy if you think Kristen is going to use this to her benefit,she wants nothing to do with anything said about her she is laying low TMZ got the story about mom and they released it so stupid people like you dont go nuts with the pots!

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Catherine Dove (@notthistwilight)

Posted at 6:56 PM on August 31, 2012  

Twihard Tattletale: Why some OLDER girls are MORE obsessed with Twilight and REAL fans should take it back! Search “explain twilight breaking dawn ending on blogspot”.

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