Kristen Stewart & Miley Cyrus: You’re Making A Big Mistake To Put Men Ahead Of Your Careers

Thu, August 30, 2012 3:50pm EST by 45 Comments

Kristen Stewart and Miley Cyrus are reportedly placing more importance on their relationships than their careers right now, and that’s not good for the long-term at all!

Kristen Stewart and Miley Cyrus — I realize that you’re both madly in love and both having a hard time thinking about anything beyond your men right now.

Yes, you are both in completely different love circumstances. Kirsten, you’re reeling from being dumped by Robert Pattinson after cheating on him with your Snow White and The Huntsman film director, Rupert Sanders.

Miley, you’re engaged to Liam Hemsworth, the man of your dreams.

However, you both are so obsessed with your love life situations that you’re back-burning your careers, and that’s a huge mistake.

Kristen, you’ve been in hiding since your cheating scandal broke and have dropped out of the film Cali, which you were also supposed to co-produce. Fortunately for you Kristen, has heard exclusively that the movie will be put on hold until you’re ready to film it and that you won’t lose the role.

However, your romantic situation has also made it difficult for Summit Entertainment, which produces Breaking Dawn Part 2 to plan your promotional schedule, and they can’t be happy with that.


Then we’ve also read that during a recent emotional phone call with Rob, that you promised that you’d do anything for him to win his trust back. That included cutting back on work so you “could follow him around the world,” according to Look magazine.

Listen, I understand Kristen, that you’re desperate to win Rob back after betraying him but you are just 22-years-old and at the peak of a red-hot career. Do you really want to be damaging that career because you’re heartbroken?

Kristen, if you thought that playing the role of Mya, a petty thief returning to California to save her sister in Cali, was a terrific idea on July 23rd, the day before your cheating photos went public, then why isn’t it the right idea now?


Think of it this way Kristen — if you weren’t a huge Hollywood star and had a normal job like the rest of us, then you wouldn’t just be able to quit work because you made a stupid mistake and your boyfriend broke up with you. You’d still have to pay your rent. You’d be forced to carry on and continue your career.

And you know what, that would be a good thing. In the world today, most women aren’t fulfilled by their love lives alone. Their career is their passion as well, and you’ve always been incredibly passionate about yours.

I agree that if you and Rob do decide to get back together, it’s important to work together to make time for each other and to nurture your relationship. But telling Rob that you will wholesale put his career first and will follow him around the world, could ultimately end up with you resenting him and that’s not good for either of you.

Meanwhile, Miley — where has your career gone? You’ve got a gorgeous engagement ring and a sweet hunk of a fiance but you’re just 19. You’re far too young to throw in the towel on your own ambitions, in order to hang with your love.


Yes, you’ve been working for many years already so I can understand you wanting to take a break, but you’re at a critical career juncture now.

You’ve left Hannah Montana behind and you’re ready to establish your new adult career, but you need to make that move. The public and fans can have a short memory. You’d surely, like it for your fans to grow along with you.

But we hear from a source close to you that you’ve taken time off to be with Liam and that your main concern right now is just focusing on your relationship with Liam.

That’s fine. Why not enjoy being young and in love, BUT you are a talented, creative young woman and you also need to express yourself. We also hear at that you’ve worked on a new album with Pharrell Williams and you talked about how excited you were with it in the September issue of Marie Claire magazine.

So what happened? Why isn’t it finished?


Just like Kristen, you may feel that your love life needs to come first right now, but you need to be careful if you continue only down that road. At some point you may start to resent Liam, if you don’t have a career that satisfies YOU.

Miley, you and Kristen like almost all young women today need to have both a passionate love life and a career you’re passionate about in order to have real, long-lasting happiness.

Kristen and Miley, you can’t short change yourself on your careers. If you do, you will end up feeling like you’ve lost yourselves. A man can’t be your everything! You need to still be yourself to be able to love your man and to love yourself. What do you think Hollywoodlifers — should Kristen and Miley sacrifice their careers for love? Would you?

Bonnie Fuller

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mary ugele

Posted at 8:32 PM on December 17, 2012  

i think men should b part of our life so as our career too if ur man really loves u he will b supportive as to ur career too, i dont think the men are the problem here, but your career should be put 2nd if u ask me.

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Posted at 8:02 AM on September 9, 2012  

If they really love them (and I think they do) they can sacrifice everthing.

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Posted at 4:07 PM on September 1, 2012  

That’s stupid, lots of woman have great careers and love
I don’t see why u have to give up on to have the other.
One can’t center your life around a man, it never works.
Yes love is wonderful but giving up on a career u love,
Isn’t that like giving up apart of urself. At the end of the
Day u’ll have the person u love but u will feel empty
Inside, they’ll have their life and career where does that
Leave u?

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The Boy

Posted at 6:39 PM on September 2, 2012  

On Code 9 Brother and sister

Whoa Whoa Hold There for a second I’ve been watching you two for a long time but I bet you two silbbings know what I did to my mentor I’ve been hearing that you two are in the same room as my mentor was in before But I hate to break to you brother has anyone ever you told that you look like Justin Bieber and your sister looks like Taylor Swift I figure out was going happend to the two of you am going to the same you two as long as your not going to get your mom no way jose but Please tell me kids that you two are on disney channel Code 9

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Posted at 11:52 AM on September 1, 2012  

I’m Miley Cyrus fan, and I don’t have as short memory as it was said.
Love is the best thing in this life. So I don’t blame them for choosing it. If Miley chose Liam I’ll support her. Anyway it’s their life to decide what is more important for them.

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Posted at 12:04 PM on August 31, 2012  

How old are you!!!!! Give it a rest!!! I sure hope you do not make any mistakes in your life. Go out have fun!!!!!!

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Posted at 12:01 PM on August 31, 2012  

for once, they actually care about their family and boyfriends and that’s wrong? since when is it wrong to put love first? i’m sure they have enough money already even though they’re young! just let them live their life, and let them make their own decisions and stay out of it!
whatever they do is wrong to you, it’s not easy to to always have cameras and everbodys eyes on you. so let them live their life!

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Posted at 10:07 PM on August 31, 2012  

They’re not saying dont be in love. They’re basically saying dont be defined by your relationship. Be your own person.
The career they have chosen is a tough one to crack, so why let it slip? Because it’s easier to be forgotten than remembered.
Also they ARE young, they have their whole life to be with said person, so why not do what you want to do now and not regret it in 5 years times when/if they get divorced and wonder why they have no leg to stand on.

Its not being mean or cruel, you should look after yourself. For that “just in case” moment.

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Posted at 10:33 AM on August 31, 2012  

Money and fame can’t buy Love….get YOUR priorities straight HL!

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marie (@mariesnylife)

Posted at 9:37 AM on August 31, 2012  

Just a bunch of Illuminati controlled foolish kids FUBAR

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I heart Bonnie

Posted at 8:58 AM on August 31, 2012  

I think you ase absolutely right… Many girls still have that 1950s stay at home wife and kids dream. Miley I really don’t know about her but kristen is so sasha firece! I see her as the working women who could take on the world! I could see her as the women who walked side by side with other women to fight to be equal rights and to work in a mans world… Relationships are great when your both independent and can afford to pay your own bills… I mean look at beyonce… Shes doing it all!

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Posted at 8:41 AM on August 31, 2012  

whoever wrote this had nothing else to write about… apparently, stars aren’t allowed to have a personal life.

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Posted at 8:06 AM on August 31, 2012  

Miley shouldn’t be part of this article. She is working on a new album and she’s returning to television; guest starring in Two and a Half Men. She took a career break and now she’s coming back. Bonnie, you need to seriously think about what you’re writing before you just post it.

It’s this crap that has given HollywoodLife the nickname of “HollywoodLies.”

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Posted at 6:46 AM on August 31, 2012  

Dear Bonnie. I am amazed that you call yours a real job. Waking up in the morning and deciding who you are going to ‘pick’. Coz that is what your ‘job’ TELLING LIES AND INSTIGATING HATRED AMONGST FANS. And did you really write this article in the hope in the hope that the interested parties will listen to you. Once again you should keep track of the articles you publish coz one minute you write one thing and the next is the complete opposite. You contradict yourself every minute!!!!!

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Posted at 6:51 PM on September 18, 2012  

who are you to say what they should do uh

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