Kristen, you blew it! You cheated on Rob even though you love him to death. Now you’re going to have to take extreme measures to get him back. Here’s what to do!
Kristen Stewart, it’s clear that you are still completely in love with Robert Pattinson. The fact that you are still going out wearing his clothes speaks volumes. Now, you probably think at this point that there’s no hope of ever getting Rob back and you feel like your world is crumbling around you, because it is.
However the only way to get Rob to realize that despite everything he can’t live without you, is to give him what he wants now — space!
HollywoodLife.com spoke with experts and asked what’s the healthiest and most effective way to win Rob back. Now here’s what they and I say.
Stop Calling & Trying To Communicate With Rob
Calling Rob, texting him nonstop and repeatedly apologizing profusely isn’t going to do anything but push him further away right now. Wearing his clothes like you did on Aug. 20 is actually a great way to just show Rob that you are still genuinely devoted to him and your relationship. But that’s all you should do. You must go radio silent! You have to give Rob the chance to miss you and I promise that if he doesn’t hear a word from you for a few weeks… he will.
“At this point Kristen should just apologize personally to Rob once more and let him know she wants him back,” says family therapist Dr. Jeff Gardere, chief contributor to Healthguru.com. “Then just leave him alone. Then she should start working on her next projects and demonstrating that she is involved in overall self healing, maturation and growth. Her actions will speak volumes to him.”
Kristen, I completely agree with Dr. Gardere. You must start living your life again! Go to dinner with girlfriends, exercise, do charity work, travel, throw yourself into new projects, pick up a new hobby, but leave Rob alone!
Partying To Get Over Rob Is A BAD Idea
What you shouldn’t do is go out partying. Since that’s something that he doesn’t particularly enjoy and you never did it together, he’s not going to respect you if you start engaging in any Lindsay Lohan-type behavior.
Instead, just be low key in your nights out with close friends. Believe me, word will carry through the grapevine that you are moving on with your life.
“Being silent is the best thing she could ever do,” relationship expert Dr. Gilda Carle, the 30 Second Therapist for Today.com, says. “Rob needs time to think and consider and decide [what he wants to do] on his own. You can never force anyone to love you. You can never manipulate anyone to love you. He’s got to have time to miss her. Women don’t realize this.”
The Best Plan To Get Rob Back
Now Kristen, there is a chance that Rob may never come back. But there’s one saving grace to all of this — living your life will help you too! It will make you realize that even though your heart is broken, life does go on without Rob. It might feel like a half life, but each day will get easier. You’ll gradually find the joy in living again and you’ll become stronger through this. But above all, you’ll learn to never take love for granted and you won’t let something so precious like this slip through your fingers again.
“In a situation like this when you hurt someone you love so publicly you have to be on their schedule,” says relationship expert Cooper Lawrence, host of the “Loose Talk” podcast. “Let them come to you when they’re ready.”
It might be six weeks or six months, but you and Rob will talk again. My bet is if you suddenly go silent and you stick with it Rob will begin to wonder very quickly what you’re up to. He still loves you and questions about how you’re feeling about him will start to enter his man-mind. He may realize he doesn’t want you moving on from him after all and that he does want to talk and maybe work things out.
There’s no 100 percent guarantee that this is your best get-Rob-back plan. What do you think Hollywoodlifers? Do you agree, is it time to go silent?
— Bonnie Fuller
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