Kristen Stewart: The Only Way To Get Robert Pattinson Back Is To Go Radio Silent

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Kristen, you blew it! You cheated on Rob even though you love him to death. Now you’re going to have to take extreme measures to get him back. Here’s what to do!

Kristen Stewart, it’s clear that you are still completely in love with Robert Pattinson. The fact that you are still going out wearing his clothes speaks volumes. Now, you probably think at this point that there’s no hope of ever getting Rob back and you feel like your world is crumbling around you, because it is.

However the only way to get Rob to realize that despite everything he can’t live without you, is to give him what he wants now — space!

HollywoodLife.com spoke with experts and asked what’s the healthiest and most effective way to win Rob back. Now here’s what they and I say.

Stop Calling & Trying To Communicate With Rob

Calling Rob, texting him nonstop and repeatedly apologizing profusely isn’t going to do anything but push him further away right now. Wearing his clothes like you did on Aug. 20 is actually a great way to just show Rob that you are still genuinely devoted to him and your relationship. But that’s all you should do. You must go radio silent! You have to give Rob the chance to miss you and I promise that if he doesn’t hear a word from you for a few weeks… he will.

“At this point Kristen should just apologize personally to Rob once more and let him know she wants him back,” says family therapist Dr. Jeff Gardere, chief contributor to Healthguru.com. “Then just leave him alone. Then she should start working on her next projects and demonstrating that she is involved in overall self healing, maturation and growth. Her actions will speak volumes to him.”

Kristen, I completely agree with Dr. Gardere. You must start living your life again! Go to dinner with girlfriends, exercise, do charity work, travel, throw yourself into new projects, pick up a new hobby, but leave Rob alone!

Partying To Get Over Rob Is A BAD Idea

What you shouldn’t do is go out partying. Since that’s something that he doesn’t particularly enjoy and you never did it together, he’s not going to respect you if you start engaging in any Lindsay Lohan-type behavior.

Instead, just be low key in your nights out with close friends. Believe me, word will carry through the grapevine that you are moving on with your life.

“Being silent is the best thing she could ever do,” relationship expert Dr. Gilda Carle, the 30 Second Therapist for Today.com, says. “Rob needs time to think and consider and decide [what he wants to do] on his own. You can never force anyone to love you. You can never manipulate anyone to love you. He’s got to have time to miss her. Women don’t realize this.”

The Best Plan To Get Rob Back

Now Kristen, there is a chance that Rob may never come back. But there’s one saving grace to all of this — living your life will help you too! It will make you realize that even though your heart is broken, life does go on without Rob. It might feel like a half life, but each day will get easier. You’ll gradually find the joy in living again and you’ll become stronger through this. But above all, you’ll learn to never take love for granted and you won’t let something so precious like this slip through your fingers again.

“In a situation like this when you hurt someone you love so publicly you have to be on their schedule,” says relationship expert Cooper Lawrence, host of the “Loose Talk” podcast. “Let them come to you when they’re ready.”

It might be six weeks or six months, but you and Rob will talk again. My bet is if you suddenly go silent and you stick with it Rob will begin to wonder very quickly what you’re up to. He still loves you and questions about how you’re feeling about him will start to enter his man-mind. He may realize he doesn’t want you moving on from him after all and that he does want to talk and maybe work things out.

There’s no 100 percent guarantee that this is your best get-Rob-back plan. What do you think Hollywoodlifers? Do you agree, is it time to go silent?

— Bonnie Fuller

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Bonnie – you sound like a stalker. She just made a mistake that’s all. No big deal. That’s life. I doubt she’s looking for an agony aunt who can’t mind her own business. You need to focus on the man who is married. He was the one who was in a committed relationship. He is the responsible one. Don’t contribute to sexism by even giving an ounce of attention to Kristen and dumping the entire situation on her. It’s not her problem. Rob’s a grown man. He can deal with it. It’s good not to catasrophise these kinds of things. Most people go through similar things. Mistakes happen. It’s part of life.

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I do not believe it matter of sexism. They are both responsible. Nobody just knew about him before the affair.
I do disagree with you about her to be in a not committed relationship. She moved in with her boyfriend in his house a couple of years. Based on the events followed it does not looks like they had an “open” relationship. Also, since she got involved with married person with kids it means she does not consider marriage & kids as of a commitment either.

One more thing to remember: whatever we all call a “mistake” for Rob it is betrayal of their relationship and their trust. Also, the way it was done and discovered should be feeling as a backstabbing…

We don’t know what he calls it. But people seldom break up over this. And its kind of natural given their age and occupation. They are far too young to contemplate a lifelong commitment if you ask me.

As a person who is married for quite long time I would say that cheating is cheating. It does not matter married or not. It is not about marital status. It is about commitment, love, respect and honesty. I do not see hoe cheating can co-exists with any of those four… If it missed in live in couple it will be missing in marriage as well. “I do” will not change much…. I think that the acceptance of cheating as norm in couple relationship is a major reason for high and increasing divorce rate….

Girl in a steady but sometimes boring relationship on tour with a boss who is having marriage troubles.
Something happens,big or small it doesn’t matter
They come home,but live close. Boss then hounds Girl.She is now in a position of threat.
She feels obliged/forced to meet up.
Ask yourself.How would you deal?
I’d set the turd up. Let the world know what a creep he is.
Making sure I never had to work with him again.
Again ask yourself. How would you do that?

If he was a brilliant director I would certainly not set him up. There is more to judge people by then wether they are a good husband. He didn’t force anyone to do anything. And we don’t know if he is a creep or not. We just know he cheats. People have been cheating on each other more often then not since marriage has existed. And Kristin didn’t cheat on Rob. they were not married. Single people can’t cheat. thats why we call them single.

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