‘The Perks Of Being A Wallflower’ Star Ezra Miller: ‘I’m Queer’

Wed, August 15, 2012 4:31pm EST by 4 Comments
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Ezra reveals that he identifies as queer in a candid new interview, sharing how his struggles helped him relate to his new film, ‘The Perks Of Being A Wallflower’! Read on for the details.

Ezra Miller stars as the confident, and gay, Patrick in the upcoming film The Perks of Being a Wallflower, and in his real life, he’s announced that he identifies himself as queer.

In a refreshingly candid interview with Out Magazine, Ezra, 19, says, simply, “I’m queer.” “I have a lot of really wonderful friends who are of very different sexes and genders. I am very much in love with no one in particular. I’ve been trying to figure out relationships, you know? I don’t know if it’s responsible for kids of my age to be so aggressively pursuing monogamous binds, because I don’t think we’re ready for them…I do feel that it’s possible to be at this age unintentionally hurtful, just by being irresponsible — which is fine. I’m super down with being irresponsible. I’m just trying to make sure my lack of responsibility no longer hurts people. That’s where I’m at in the boyfriend/girlfriend/zefriend type of question,” he adds.

Ezra admits that both his sexual identity and a speech impediment he had as a child have helped him relate to the book-turned-film’s exploration of the awkwardness of adolescence. “I was trying to kiss boys in school,” he says, and then the best friend he fooled around with turned on him. “He had some macho realization that led him to believe that I was the problem. So I went from having a stutter to being a totally gay little opera singer to being, like, a really confused queer adolescent.”

The Perks of Being a Wallflower, which co-stars Emma Watson and Logan Lerman, opens in theaters on September 21.

We applaud Ezra for his honesty.

– Billy Nilles

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Posted at 7:59 PM on February 9, 2013  

By queer, he meant not involving gender with love, so he falls in love with whom ever he falls for – He isn’t necessarily gay, just doesn’t believe in gender playing a role in relationships – he speaks about it in other interviews.

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Posted at 5:57 AM on August 17, 2012  

Logan Lerman, Paul Rudd, and Ezra Miller = three hot Jews in one movie. It is like the male version of Black Swan.

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Posted at 3:42 AM on August 16, 2012  

While I’m extremely happy to see stars open up and be comfortable with their sexuality. As a fellow gay person I don’t think using the word queer is ok because it just make others feel its ok to call us that and it’s not.

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Posted at 11:25 AM on August 16, 2012  

I agree Katy. Queer has been used as a negative term towards gays for many years. I would never in a million years call my son queer. I would get on him if he called himself that. By gays using these negative stereotypical words it does let others think that it is ok to use them.

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