Robert Pattinson: Don’t Let Reese Witherspoon Tell You To Dump Kristen Stewart

Thu, August 2, 2012 10:27pm EDT by 99 Comments
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Robert – it’s great that your ‘Water for Elephants’ co-star and friend Reese Witherspoon has been a sympathetic shoulder to cry on, but you don’t have to split with Kristen Stewart just because she divorced allegedly philandering ex- Ryan Phillippe.

Robert Pattinson – you are lucky to have a caring friend like Reese Witherspoon, 36, who has lent you her ranch in Ojai as a private hideout.

She’s also apparently been a huge emotional help to you Rob, a source close to Reese tells HollywoodLife.com. “They have talked a lot because Reese has gone through her own really bad breakup and it’s worked out for her, so she has been trying to tell him that it only gets better and he should look at what she has gone through as the perfect example.” Reese is now happily married to second husband, CAA talent agent Jim Toth, and she is pregnant with their child.

Rob – I think you need all the support you can get right now as you struggle to heal your broken heart and try to understand why Kristen cheated but… Rob – here is the big but.

Just because Reese had her heart broken by her first husband Ryan Phillippe and she decided to end their marriage, doesn’t mean that the situation is exactly the same.

Reese was married for seven years and had two children when she allegedly found private text messages between Ryan and his Stop Loss co-star Abbie Cornish in 2006.

This came on top of other rumors that Phillippe had allegedly been stepping out.

The situation had to have been extremely painful to Reese who, like Rob and Kristen, became romantically involved with Ryan when she was just in her early 20s. She married Ryan when she was 24.

But the thing is Rob – every situation and every person is different. Kristen Stewart is not necessarily just like Ryan Phillippe. Reese may have felt that Ryan was a lost cause at fidelity. Who knows – maybe he even admitted to her that he had fallen out of love with her.

Yes, Kristen cheated but it certainly appears that she knows she made a terrible mistake. She said it after all, in her public apology, which was issued the very day that her cheating photos were published. She said, “I’m deeply sorry for the hurt and embarrassment I’ve caused to those close to me and everyone this has affected.”

Just being willing to make that public apology, knowing that it would confirm her cheating was a HUGE and risky move by Kristen Stewart.

She knew that it could alienate her fans even more but she was willing to do it, if it would help save her relationship with you. That shows a depth of commitment to you (despite the cheating) that Ryan may not have felt for Reese.

My point is Rob – Reese is probably advising you to dump Kristen. She split with Ryan and eventually found greater happiness with her now husband, Jim Toth. Life and love did work out better for her.

However, Reese’s romance is not your romance. And Kristen is not Ryan. Kristen may very well be capable of learning from her error and re-committing to your relationship.

Psychologists and relationship experts have told us that this is very possible and that Kristen is not doomed to be a serial cheater.

So please keep that in mind. Take in what Reese says. But you also need to talk to Kristen. Listen to what she has to say. You owe that to yourself and to her.

Remember, Kristen is just 22 and she was taken advantage of by a man nearly twice her age. You may want to redirect some of your anger and blame.

You need to figure out what is right for YOU. It may not turn out to be what was right for Reese.

What do you think Hollywoodlifers? Should Rob take Reese’s advice with a grain of salt?

Bonnie Fuller


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gaga

Posted at 4:42 PM on August 2, 2012  

Reese shows Rob that there can still be love after someone trampled on your heart. Ksrew is an awful person, at Comic con she told Rob” shut the fack up” not a lot of respect ..she is Trash

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sade

Posted at 4:33 PM on August 2, 2012  

Some of you are ridiculous. You act like you know Rob when you don’t. Its not your decision of what he should do. It his decision rather he dumps Kristen or not. Stop acting like a bunch of 5 year olds, he’s responsible person let him make the decision.

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Anishka

Posted at 6:29 PM on August 2, 2012  

I totally agree!! stop trying to live RPattz life for him!! He makes the decision not us!!

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misch

Posted at 4:02 PM on August 2, 2012  

no self respecting man would take a public humiliation not only bec.kristen stewart cheated with a married man. he’d be a total sell out if he takes her back, his fans would see it as a total weakness on his part.

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d.harris

Posted at 3:55 PM on August 2, 2012  

beccy,thank you for sharing my opinion on this.i have always known that there is something wrong with thatrelationship.it does not seem equal at all.i was among the minority that said something on my comments concerning that ,but fans always call whoever that mention such thing a——hater.

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SHAUNA

Posted at 3:47 PM on August 2, 2012  

ROB, WHATEVER YOU DECIDED MAKE SURE THE DECISION IS YOURS AND NOT THAT OF THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU. ONLY YOU KNOW HOW YOU ARE REALLY FEELING. TALK TO HER AND SEE IF YOU CAN WORK IT OUT…YOU OWE YOURSELF THAT MUCH.
I AM POSITIVE YOU ARE REALLY BEYOND HURT AT THIS POINT BUT DON’T MAKE THINGS WORSE FOR YOURSELF BY NOT TALKING TO HER. SHE HAS BEEN YOUR LIFE FOR ALONG TIME BOTH ON AND OFF THE SCREEN AND SO IF YOU LOVED HER ENOUGH TO WANT KIDS AND GET MARRIED THEN TRYING AGAIN MIGHT BE THE BEST THING;
LET YOUR FRIENDS HELP YOU AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE AND LISTEN TO WHAT THEY SAY BUT MAKE YOUR OWN MIND UP. DO WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU AND NOT THEM. YOU ARE THE ONE WHO WILL HAVE TO LIVE WITH THE CHOICES YOU MAKE NOW.
IF YOU TRUELY LOVE HER THEN IT WILL BE POSSIBLE TO GET PAST THIS. NO MATTER WHAT YOU DECIDE…. YOU SHOULD NOT DECIDE ANYTHING UNTIL AND ONLY AFTER YOU TWO TALK THIS THROUGH

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Russian

Posted at 2:59 PM on August 2, 2012  

also want a child of Rob

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invité

Posted at 2:50 PM on August 2, 2012  

she’s a ho!!

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Beccy

Posted at 2:49 PM on August 2, 2012  

I’m reallly sick of the young starlet taken advantage of BS. KStew is 22 not 16 (old enough to know better) grew up in the bussiness and was the HIGHEST paid actress in Hollywood this past year, the director guy was doing commercials until SWATH if he was pressuring her one call to her agent, manager or studio exec could have handled things, they would have told him to knock it off or be fired (it wouldn’t be the first time a director was replaced). I also find it unbelieveable that this was a first for them, 5 months on location, 2-3 months international press and now they decide to cheat, (anyone who believes that I have a bridge to sell you) they look way too comfortable in those pics for a first time out, not to mention the pics of them out to dinner in May. KStew cheated, in her boyfriends hat w/ a MARRIED FATHER OF TWO and went home to Rob as if nothing had happened. Rob and KStew were seen out in the days after so she certainly wasn’t riddled with enough guilt to confess BEFORE she got caught. A “momentary indiscretion” is a druken make out session or something along those lines not a secret rendevouz where you drop the guy off 3 blocks from home, way too thought out for a “momentary indiscretion” if you ask me. As for the apology I’m not buying it as true remorse, going public just adds to the HUMILIATION she inflicted, for years she has opperated on an- it isn’t anyones bussiness but our own- and this she goes public with? This was just PR damage control. As for Reese giving advice (if she is), well of course everyone has to do whats right for them but often times we are blinded by love and our friends can see the situation more clearly than us. If my cousin had listened to his friends and family he could have saved himself years of heartache and a divorce. For years there have been articles about Robs friends being weary of his relationship w/ KStew because he seemed more invested, it certainly seems that they saw somthing he couldn’t or wouldn’t, actions speak louder than words about a persons true feelings and if, IF Resse is giving him advice well thats what friends do. As for the Rob cheating rumors they are just that RUMORS, no color photos, no public confessions, nothing, no proof, being in a club the same night as another celebrity doesn’t mean your hooking up, believe me with the way this guy is followed around if there was any truth to these stories the would have nailed him like they did KStew. A rumor is just that a RUMOR, I can start one about Rob, Brad and Angelina or even YOU! it does not mean its true color photos and a public confession by both parties on the other hand….well that kind of betrayl, heartbreak and humiliation is not something to be taken lightly. Forgivness? someday. Taking her back? NO. Some eff ups are bigger than others and sorry isn’t always enough, sometimes the pain inflicted is too much to recover from, KStew didn’t wreck Robs guitar, she betrayed thier friendship, relationship and trust and publicly humiliated him in the process. Sometimes you just have to walk away, I’d say this is one if them.

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Dave

Posted at 3:09 PM on August 2, 2012  

I agree!

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invité

Posted at 2:49 PM on August 2, 2012  

she’s a homewrecker now and for ever ok? ROB was good for her et now?,

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Sunshine

Posted at 3:11 PM on August 2, 2012  

if SHE’s a home wrecker so is RUPERT.
HE was also cheating, and I know he remembers he had a wife.

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erika

Posted at 2:42 PM on August 2, 2012  

oh really rob is good man..hahaha..are u kidding me

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disgusting

Posted at 3:04 PM on August 2, 2012  

NO……..
“Rob is a good man”..u doubt that????????????
r YOU kidding?????????

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Russian

Posted at 2:36 PM on August 2, 2012  

Why here Reese and Rob.?Kristen sniffed do not so fresh eggs Sanders fu ,and she lost vigilance

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Russian

Posted at 2:54 PM on August 2, 2012  

Share please,that smoke Kristen Stewart fans

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d.harris

Posted at 2:35 PM on August 2, 2012  

please bonnie,do not play this game with aready broken hearts.reese cannot tell rob to move on with out kristen ,but you are telling rob to listen to your advice b/c of the so called reason that you gave,but, you cannot ultimately say that you actually know what happen between kristen and rupert.i guess you are a family woman too and you know how these things work.liberty cannot openly tell the public that her husband sleept with another womanand thenjust accept him like that. . so we all heard she forgave her husband b/c she was told ,they did not sleep together.that is what she wants us to know,and she was wise in doing that .you do not know if reese is telling rob not to take kristen or not ,but,the wiser thing to do is to let rob decide without outside influence.he is an adult and he can make decision concerning his life without anyone telling him what to do especially when it comes to his personal life.you are contradicting yourself in most of your write ups.i also think that you believe that these two young people should be together ,but,you know truthfully that these things does not work like that.if they are pushed to stay together and it is not meant to be .their situation will be worse than it is now.if we really love them ,let them then make this decision and not us.

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invité

Posted at 2:31 PM on August 2, 2012  

rob is a good man ,kristen is a homewrecker .there are pictures everywhere ,always a source what the source? or is rob? robert is not good man..his not gentelman? why? she’s fault not rob! open your eyes !!

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a teen

Posted at 2:20 PM on August 2, 2012  

This whole cheating scandal looks like the mixture of 2 films, Americas Sweethearts and Breaking Dawn. First I thought it was a cheating scandal but now I know it’s part of The BD 2 promo. Maybe Kristen cheated on Rob … may not. In this case one thing is SURE, NOTHING is sure.

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erika

Posted at 2:20 PM on August 2, 2012  

robert is not good man..his not gentelman,.rob not have time to kristen he alway choose partying to other woman while kris busy to filming!..sorry for my english

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invité

Posted at 2:20 PM on August 2, 2012  

robert pattinson’s own sordid past!!!!!!YOU ARE CRASY CRASY !!!!!c’om get a life ,,STOP giving pattinson fault ,she’s a cheater but pattinson did nothing ok?

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tinnaz

Posted at 2:12 PM on August 2, 2012  

be together plz :-((

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olivia

Posted at 2:05 PM on August 2, 2012  

REESE SHOULD GIVE ROB ANY LOVE LIFE ADVICE-ROB WILL FORGIVE KRISTEN AND THEY WILL GET PAST THIS AND MOVE ON FROM IT TOGETHER

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Caro

Posted at 2:00 PM on August 2, 2012  

Please Bonnie how do u now that is happening??? all the people made conclusions but nowbody know nothing!!!

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Robert Pattinson's own sordid past

Posted at 1:53 PM on August 2, 2012  

Robert Pattinson has been cheating on Kristen Stewart since the start of their relationship. He hooked up with Megan Fox AFTER the Twilight premiere in Tokyo when he first got together with Kristen. He was sleeping with Nikki Reed at the start of New Moon filming and Ashley Greene all throughout. He hooked up with that Erika Dutra chick in Cannes that year and Camilla Belle in NYC when she went to visit him there during Remember Me filming. There were rumors of him and Emilie de Ravin having and on-set fling that same summer during filming. He was cheating with Ashley Greene again during Eclipse filming that fall while Kristen was on set. There were the rumors of him leaving Leighton Meester’s apartment in NYC early the next year. He cheated with some burlesque dancer Caroline Jones during Bel Ami filming in London causing him to be late for Eclipse reshoots and also his co-star Natalia Tena who he’d already had a history with before too.

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Robert Pattinson's own sordid past

Posted at 1:57 PM on August 2, 2012  

He cheated with Lindsay Lohan during Water for Elephants filming in LA that summer at Las Palmas and was photographed poolside with a bartender from Saddleranch crawling all over this lap poolside at a hotel that July after Kristen had already left for Montreal to being On the Road filming. There were rumors that he was going to co ke parties in Malibu and hooking up with sk anks like Teresa Palmer all that summer too. He was supposedly hooking up with Maggie Grace during Breaking Dawn filming while they were back in Vancouver spotted in her hotel while Kristen was back in LA. There was the Russian model Ana Colja who was interviewed saying how she’d been ‘close’ with Rob since attending the Oscars with him years back and they still saw each other all the time, hinting at a sexual relationship between the two.

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Robert Pattinson's own sordid past

Posted at 2:02 PM on August 2, 2012  

He was said to have been hooking up with his director David Cronenberg’s youngest daughter Caitlin during Cosmopolis filming that summer, hitting lots of late night hot spots and parties, spreading their DNA all over Toronto together. He was hooking up with LA bar sk anks like that Shea Marie chick who tweeted she shared “Jameson and Gingers” with him at Jimmy Fallon’s Emmy after-party and went back to Rob’s house to hang out following. There were all the bars he was hitting in LA closing them down at 3-4am every night while Kristen was busy in London filming Snow White and the Huntsman, girls tweeting about sharing drinks and cigarettes with him on the patio and flirting with him. He only visited Kristen one time during filming and not again until the very end after they finished their international promo tour for Breaking Dawn 1.

 
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disgusting

Posted at 3:07 PM on August 2, 2012  

oh boy….u are disgusting just as ur idol
KRISTEN the cheater….

 
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fans Kristen

Posted at 1:44 PM on August 2, 2012  

I am a fan of Kristen and the cast twi sorry, BD2 go see just for Kristen, as all her other films that will do. And of those councils Witherspoon is to me puke. Kristen might not want to go back to Pattinson.

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Robert Pattinson's own sordid past

Posted at 1:39 PM on August 2, 2012  

There were the Sarah Roemer hook up rumors that she went home with him from Soho House after they’d been partying with friends all night there and at La Poubelle. There were the Katy Perry texting stories that he’d been trying to console and hook up with her after her break up with Russel Brand–something that Kristen completely covered for him for I might add. There were the Lindsay Lohan cheating rumors AGAIN after that (didn’t believe those were true though-Linsday is too gross now even for bottom feeders like Pattinson). He gave an interview saying he frequented the KittyKat Club in Berlin when he was in town-a known fetish club where people openly engage in lewd acts and group sex.

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gaga

Posted at 4:44 PM on August 2, 2012  

you are a Real idiot, go take your medication because you are delusional

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andrea

Posted at 1:33 PM on August 2, 2012  

Exact Bonnie, it was that I thought yesterday… I hope Rob has got personality to take his own decisions.

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John

Posted at 1:31 PM on August 2, 2012  

It’s nobody’s business

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LJ

Posted at 1:19 PM on August 2, 2012  

are you kidding. STOP VICTIMIZING Kristen! She did what she did and she is not a stupid child she is an adult

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Robert Pattinson's own sordid past

Posted at 1:50 PM on August 2, 2012  

This is not going to go away if he dumps her. He’s going to reap a huge backlash so he’d better think wisely before condeming her for something that he’s done since the beginning of their ‘relationship.’ She’s not the only guilty party here. If he wants to keep this all under wraps and out of the mainstream media (as in not just in the comments section on gossip sites), then he’d better be careful. Kristen was stupid with how she handled her affair. Will Rob be smarter than she was? We shall see.

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gaga

Posted at 4:45 PM on August 2, 2012  

after all the dumping on Rob you want them together , are u mental

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