Robert Pattinson: Don’t Let Reese Witherspoon Tell You To Dump Kristen Stewart

Thu, August 2, 2012 10:27pm EST by 99 Comments
FameFlynet, Pacific Coast News

Robert – it’s great that your ‘Water for Elephants’ co-star and friend Reese Witherspoon has been a sympathetic shoulder to cry on, but you don’t have to split with Kristen Stewart just because she divorced allegedly philandering ex- Ryan Phillippe.

Robert Pattinson – you are lucky to have a caring friend like Reese Witherspoon, 36, who has lent you her ranch in Ojai as a private hideout.

She’s also apparently been a huge emotional help to you Rob, a source close to Reese tells HollywoodLife.com. “They have talked a lot because Reese has gone through her own really bad breakup and it’s worked out for her, so she has been trying to tell him that it only gets better and he should look at what she has gone through as the perfect example.” Reese is now happily married to second husband, CAA talent agent Jim Toth, and she is pregnant with their child.

Rob – I think you need all the support you can get right now as you struggle to heal your broken heart and try to understand why Kristen cheated but… Rob – here is the big but.

Just because Reese had her heart broken by her first husband Ryan Phillippe and she decided to end their marriage, doesn’t mean that the situation is exactly the same.

Reese was married for seven years and had two children when she allegedly found private text messages between Ryan and his Stop Loss co-star Abbie Cornish in 2006.

This came on top of other rumors that Phillippe had allegedly been stepping out.

The situation had to have been extremely painful to Reese who, like Rob and Kristen, became romantically involved with Ryan when she was just in her early 20s. She married Ryan when she was 24.

But the thing is Rob – every situation and every person is different. Kristen Stewart is not necessarily just like Ryan Phillippe. Reese may have felt that Ryan was a lost cause at fidelity. Who knows – maybe he even admitted to her that he had fallen out of love with her.

Yes, Kristen cheated but it certainly appears that she knows she made a terrible mistake. She said it after all, in her public apology, which was issued the very day that her cheating photos were published. She said, “I’m deeply sorry for the hurt and embarrassment I’ve caused to those close to me and everyone this has affected.”

Just being willing to make that public apology, knowing that it would confirm her cheating was a HUGE and risky move by Kristen Stewart.

She knew that it could alienate her fans even more but she was willing to do it, if it would help save her relationship with you. That shows a depth of commitment to you (despite the cheating) that Ryan may not have felt for Reese.

My point is Rob – Reese is probably advising you to dump Kristen. She split with Ryan and eventually found greater happiness with her now husband, Jim Toth. Life and love did work out better for her.

However, Reese’s romance is not your romance. And Kristen is not Ryan. Kristen may very well be capable of learning from her error and re-committing to your relationship.

Psychologists and relationship experts have told us that this is very possible and that Kristen is not doomed to be a serial cheater.

So please keep that in mind. Take in what Reese says. But you also need to talk to Kristen. Listen to what she has to say. You owe that to yourself and to her.

Remember, Kristen is just 22 and she was taken advantage of by a man nearly twice her age. You may want to redirect some of your anger and blame.

You need to figure out what is right for YOU. It may not turn out to be what was right for Reese.

What do you think Hollywoodlifers? Should Rob take Reese’s advice with a grain of salt?

Bonnie Fuller


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Catherine Dove (@notthistwilight)

Posted at 11:22 AM on December 1, 2012  

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irma

Posted at 10:25 PM on August 9, 2012  

the actors arent actually vampire couple adward and bella for the twilight fans out there who love them. Fact is IN REALIITY she cheated, why put up with that?

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Milla

Posted at 12:43 PM on August 7, 2012  

just forgive this one because of all the good things that she has (if you see them)

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Jenna

Posted at 12:38 PM on August 7, 2012  

guys just GIVE IT A REST they are mature ppl ! they can get to decide for them selves , maybe yall giving advices just makes it harder for them to decide ok!?

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oatgarum

Posted at 1:57 AM on August 6, 2012  

WTF!!!!!! if i were rob i will dumb here remember rob cheater is always a cheater he will do it again that … coz what ive done when im playing games …i will cheat LOLssssss

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Heather

Posted at 4:45 PM on August 3, 2012  

If she truly loved him, she wouldn’t have had any other man on her brain. Should her take her back? I wouldn’t, personally. I would never be able to trust that person again knowing they touched someone else how they touch me. But if they feel that they can work through and gain trust back, then I say more power to them.

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kate song

Posted at 2:18 PM on August 3, 2012  

Anyway, she’s 22 and if she cheated on him she’s got some emotional maturity issues.. Also, they are not married. If you don’t own the cow.. then you don’t own exclusive rights to the milk.

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SO...

Posted at 2:42 AM on August 8, 2012  

I’m so tired of hearing she’s only 22. Please tell me at what age you become responsible for you’r own actions!!! 23? 25? 27? 30? 45? 50? At what age will KS be held accountable for what she does? Weather it’s slipping the F-bomb…or flipping the bird…or cheating on the man she claims to love? No More Excuses!

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Lily

Posted at 1:00 PM on August 13, 2012  

same here. but still, it’s more rupert’s fault, the cheating cow. but if kristen and robert both luv each other they should carry on with the relationship or they might regret it later.

 
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d.harris

Posted at 1:27 PM on August 3, 2012  

thank you sandy for your comment, i made almost a similar comment yesterday.mature response,unlike what we use to see here.

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rose from the philippines

Posted at 9:37 AM on August 3, 2012  

“forgiviness and second chance is the best!!! and ms. kristen stewart is not like other woman there. u are very lucky rob to have kristen as well as kristen to rob… u are partners!!!,,, so they let this partnership ruined by media and other plastic or fake friends telling u wrong .

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rose from the philippines

Posted at 9:38 AM on August 3, 2012  

don’t let this media destroyed your foundation your partnership.

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amiya

Posted at 6:00 PM on August 5, 2012  

oh,poor rose….the media did not destroy this relaysh,kristen did. and no,she is nothing special.
if she was she never would have cheated in the first place.you do not do that to someone you say is your soul-mate.and her age is just an excuse.

 
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Karma20

Posted at 9:11 AM on August 3, 2012  

She cheated on her last boyfriend with Rob and then cheated on Rob. She’s obviously a serial cheater and is just like if not worse then Ryan. Regardless of what anyone says to him, he’s going to do what he wants to do.You’re pushing for a reunion why? Kristen doesn’t respect relationships so she doesn’t deserve to be in one just like Rupert doesn’t deserve to be married. Cheating is choice. She chose to cheat so she has to do with the consequences.

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natrose

Posted at 9:56 AM on August 3, 2012  

Umm you do realize what you are saying? Then that makes rob a cheater to because she was with her bf of 2yrs when he started publically pursuing her but that didn’t stop him and in fact while doing the first twi promo he was asked about her bf and he said who cares about the bf so yeah he is a real gem now isn’t he?NOT

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L

Posted at 8:50 AM on August 3, 2012  

I doubt Reese is telling Rob to dump Kristen… I think the media’s running out of stories LOL.

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sandy

Posted at 8:41 AM on August 3, 2012  

What a ridiculous premise, Ms. Fuller: You have no idea if Reese is teling Rob to leave Kristen! Further, as you said, every person is different, and for that very reason, Rob should not NOT leave Kristen simply because she apologized. Only he can discern for himself whether he can even imagine, in time, fully trusting her again; despite how much he loved her, he may well not be able to shed nagging doubts from here on out. It is quite possible that there will be, as in so many relationships, a period of reconciliation; chances are good, however, that eventually the two will part ways and move on to the next phases of their individual lives.
As your opinion: Always entitled, of course, and you do seem to want to give folks a fair shake; however, this time your thoughts were based on pure conjecture. Not so cool.

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sasha annisa

Posted at 8:39 AM on August 3, 2012  

Listen to your heart Rob,,give kristen second chance,she deserve it.take time together n solve the problems.your love to kristen made so many people happy,so your hurts make us sad,we love Robsten forever..can’t imagine you dating with someone else..

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amiya

Posted at 5:57 PM on August 5, 2012  

oh,so as long as everyone else is happy,no matter if rob is or not,he should take her back?are you
for real? or just another immature child.

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drake

Posted at 7:21 AM on August 3, 2012  

rob i think he just dumped u and u shoud have don the same think she just fuc**d up

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