The 10 Things Kristen Stewart’s Family & Friends Should Be Doing Right Now

Thu, August 2, 2012 3:31pm EDT by 39 Comments
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Kristen is reportedly ‘inconsolable’ now that Rob is barely speaking to her, but top experts say her family needs to rally around her! Read on for what K-Stew’s inner circle should be doing to help her mend her broken heart!

Kristen Stewart‘s friends and family better not let her sit around in pj’s eating ice cream all day! The 22-year-old is reportedly devastated that she cheated on Robert Pattinson and could lose him forever. But there are 10 things that Kristen’s mom Jules Stewart and her besties should be making sure they’re doing.

1. Take her to a shrink to find out why she sabotaged herself and betrayed an international heartthrob who had a good heart,” psychiatrist and author of Bad Girls, Dr. Carole Lieberman says. “Men like this are hard to find, especially in Hollywood.”

2. “It’s important they don’t judge her,” relationship expert Cooper Lawrence tells us. “Everyone else in the world is judging her, hating her for hurting Rob/Edward. Even if they disagree with what she did, they need to understand that she needs allies.”

3. Warn her,” Dr. Lieberman explains. “Not to date other guys on the rebound.”

4. “Do something fun and memorable,” Cooper says. “Even though she initiated this scandal by sleeping with someone else, if this time in her life becomes only darkness she may never recover.”

5. Dr. Lieberman: “Stay away from Rupert!

6. “Remind her that she’s only 22!” Cooper says. “You screw up at 22, that’s what your early twenties are for. We have all done stupid stuff at that age … it’s totally normal.”

7. ) Give her some family advice,” Dr. Jeff Gardere says. “Loving and hard hitting.”

8. “Don’t let her be alone too much of the time,” Cooper explains. “She’s young, brooding, stressed, guilty…..it would be terrible to see her fall into a depression, which can easily happen. So, lots of dinners, girls nights, movies and anything that will keep her from falling into that cycle of depression.”

9. “Suggest that she do something positive for the world,” Dr. Lieberman says. “Like: build houses for the poor, teach acting to disadvantaged kids, etc.”

10. “Keep her away from TV, papers, the media, the Internet,” Cooper says. “She can’t figure any of this out if she is bombarded with what everybody thinks of her. Only she knows what’s really going on inside her, all we can do is speculate and she does not need our speculation to factor in to anything she is going through.”

— Chloe Melas

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natrose

Posted at 10:15 AM on August 3, 2012  

I thought we were living in the 21st century,very few people and I mean like slim to none are ready to be committed at the ages of 22 or 26.I didn’t marry until I was 26 and guess what it only lasted 2yrs and now I am raising an 11yr old son on my own and the divorce rate today is well over 50% people are better off waiting until their late 20’s or even 30’s to get married because people are not as mature in this generation and who are you or me to judge these ppl who we will never know personally so everyone should leave it alone and move on and it is between rob and kristen and you have no idea if they have been talking or they may have seen one another because both have not been seen for several days so focus on their careers because it sure is heck isn’t any of our business what they do in their personal life and this is something that will take time to heal but it can be done!js

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Aleisha

Posted at 2:17 PM on August 3, 2012  

I totally agree with you it is. None of our business.. I thinking since they are both MIA maybe they are together working it out with each other. That all I wanted to say

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ele75

Posted at 6:07 AM on August 3, 2012  

A może pan doktor dałby 10 rad dla Roba ! Kristen po prostu rozerwała mu serce .

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KellyM

Posted at 12:44 AM on August 3, 2012  

Remember everyone SHE told Catherine H. during casting SHE wanted to do the movie with Rob (Basically giving him a jump to fame.), she doesn’t use him for his money, he sees beauty in a “normal awkward” girl like her over some busty supermodel (“Plain” girls have a chance then.), and she doesn’t use him as arm candy, and doesn’t use him for fame.

I AM SURE NO MATTER HOW UPSET/MAD ROB IS AT HER HE WOULDN’T WANT PEOPLE BEING RUDE TO KRISTEN. So come on people!!!!

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mca

Posted at 12:14 AM on August 3, 2012  

i never agree with cheating..if u really how is the felling when u want to love someone dearl but she cheated on you just bcoz her excuse of being young..there’s no such a thing as age in love..if u love someone u’ll never kissed someone else..its not bcoz she’s still 22 and she can do anything she wants and call it a mistake..people always finds excuses for their mistakes..for kstew just leave rob alone until he find his own right mind..and he’ll come with the decision..what ever his decision are,just respect it..people can easily forgive but not forgotten..i know rob love,thats why it hurts even more..

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bluebird

Posted at 12:07 AM on August 3, 2012  

hahahahaha!…… KRISTEN STEWART is a DIRTY PIG!!!….. hope she’s dead by now!…..DON’T EVER MAKE ANY PUBLIC APPERANCES ANYMORE ESPECIALLY IN THE BREAKING DAWN PART 2!!!!…… SNIPERS AND ROTTEN TOMATOES ARE WAITING FOR YOU!!!!

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Anreb

Posted at 2:38 AM on August 3, 2012  

OMG you’re so pathetic. She’s just cheating. She has not committed murder.

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eleena

Posted at 5:42 PM on August 3, 2012  

omg! you hope her death?! you have a lot of issues! you need help! i am sure you’re a pathetic girl who is waiting for robert pattinson to hit your door! -.- get a life and be a person, if you can!

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melody

Posted at 11:48 PM on August 2, 2012  

Dont worry Kristen, NO MATTER WHAT THE MEDIA AND THE PEOPLE SAYS ABOUT YOU, we, a part of your fans are still HERE with you………The news about you never affects us. What we worry about is YOU LOSING ROB…. but that’s it….. it’s REALITY. Accept it….. Get loose of Rob for the meantime, and see what will happen next. BUT MOVE ON, IT IS NOT THE END OF YOUR WORLD…..There are still LOYAL MAN IN THIS WORLD…. It is not just Rob…In the meantime forget him, and enjoy with friends (except Rupert Sanders).. Dump Rupert like a DEAD POTATO!

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Oleg Krayushkin

Posted at 9:58 PM on August 2, 2012  

Kristen hold. We are with you. We will not leave. Do you want us to

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roamer

Posted at 9:13 PM on August 2, 2012  

It’s Rob’s call whether to open the line of communication between the two of them again or not. I believed that their respective families and friends rallied behind Rob and Kristen’s back for support no doubt about that. It always takes time for wounds to heal what more if this involves the mind, body and spirit of a person? I guess all we can do right now is hope and hope and pray, nobody knows what the future holds for this two. Wishing Rob and Kristen peace and tranquility after the storm their future has got a lot of promises as a couple or as an individual.
Stop judging and condemning Kristen, look at yourself in the mirror first before you cast the first stone at this girl. We are humans we were made to make mistakes, mistakes that teaches us what real life is, to learn and grow as we mature.

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Astrid

Posted at 7:45 PM on August 2, 2012  

Oh poor little rich, pampered, spoiled, Hollywood brat! And a cheater to boot! Give me a break, she will get over it and move on to some other married older rich guy that pays any attention to her. Might as well enjoy her short movie career, since her acting is so bad, she won’t be the “it” girl by next year! Someone younger will replace her soon, and maybe when her career (which she owes to Twilight) is over, she will wise up and be able to stay in a stable relationship then, but once a cheater, always a cheater in my book.
Ana

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Mrs. Pattinson

Posted at 6:28 PM on August 2, 2012  

#2- she didn’t date Edward!

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LG

Posted at 6:21 PM on August 2, 2012  

I adore Kristen. I wish her all the best.

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gbtw

Posted at 6:06 PM on August 2, 2012  

not bad advice, but what i don’t get is this whole notion that she must spend the rest of her life with rob just b/c he’s supposedly a good guy (as if any one of us know a thing about him). she’s 22 for f’s sake! i had a perfect guy at that age, too, and i cheated on him to the left and right- presumably b/c there was somethign missing in our connection… doesn’t really matter why tho. point is, not every person feels the need to commit themselves to a person for the rest of their lives. maybe she was sick of it and wanted to try somethign more exciting! yah, she made a mistake doing it before she broke up with rob, and with a man who is married to her co-worker and have two kids… so, she’ll learn. but, jfc, the world is not even remotely going to end for this girl just b/c rob may not be in her future. once i felt strong enough to get out of my relationship with “mr. perfect,” i hit the ground running and never ONCE questioned the fact that the relationship was not good for me. who are all these people suggesting that losing rob is devastating to her future. she’s 22! why would someone in such an exciting time in their life, particularly her life, want to settle down and commit to one person for the rest of their life… seriously? are you people INSANE? or stuck in the 1950’s when women had nothing better to do than get married???

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Yeya

Posted at 5:59 PM on August 2, 2012  

wow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, everything would have been prevented if had paid you attention, taught limits and educated well this girl…

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Roy

Posted at 5:56 PM on August 2, 2012  

Kristen should stop making movies for a while and go to school. Stay out of the spotlight. At this point, everyone wants a piece of her for their own selfish reasons. Studios want to capitalize on the scandal. In Hollywood any kind of publicity is good publicity. They don’t have her best interest at heart. She is too drained but does not realize it. Twilight, the relationship with Pattinson and the crazy fans drained her life for the past few years. No other franchise has had that kind of an impact on the personal life of the actors. Even if Pattinson were to forgive her they should not get back together. It would be more of the same crazy fanbase expecting them to stay together forever because of the fans’ own fantasies. She does not owe anything anymore to those Twilight crazy people. She delivered the movies and a lot more.

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Leighanne

Posted at 5:34 PM on August 2, 2012  

Nice to see finally see people showing their support!!!

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Courtney

Posted at 5:34 PM on August 2, 2012  

I think that people should leave Kristen alone.Like the article said,she’s ONLY 22. she’s not perfect and she is certainly not the only actor/actress who has cheated on their spouse.

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Jane

Posted at 5:44 PM on August 2, 2012  

That’s not the point. The point was breaking up a married man with children’s home. If it had been Zac Efron, there would not have been this huge she said, he said and by not telling Rob when it first happened, she was on her way to doing it again. I get so tired of the age 22 being the reason for her betrayal. I had my first child at 21 and my second at 23. I would have never cheated on my husband and hurt him in this way.

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gbtw

Posted at 6:43 PM on August 2, 2012  

jane, i’m sorry, but you aren’t really someone who is going to relate or “get” what a 22 year old like kristen may be thinking… i also don’t get a person who could know at the age of 20 that they wanted to spend the rest of their life with one single person, and wanted to immediately have kids without exploring other aspects of life first… so, you know, good for you if that’s the life you wanted and the life you got- but there are plenty others of us who think very much differently from you and wish to explore life and relationships more than that. what kind of person is content with the first thing they try? really? don’t push your ideals on others. not to mention, rupert is the one who owed allegience to his wife and children, not kristen. yes, she did a bad thing and needs to learn from it, but his family is first and foremost supposed to be HIS concern. kristen gets it now, i’m sure, that she also has to take responsibility for the dogs who want to hump the next best thing… but, before this, she may not have really understood that as her responsibility. she allowed herself to live in the moment with the person who was there with her. this is not the highest sin, or even close to it. keep your judgments to yourself, or at least to those people who know exactly what they want in life at the age of 20- whoever those people are.

 
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dd

Posted at 9:35 AM on August 3, 2012  

being an artist they still just like us ordinary people…life cant never be perfect…i believe someone who we love cheat on us that is really hurt but then that is part our life…cant judge on kristen all the time and i think he should take his time to figure out why their relationship end up like this.

 
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Sarah

Posted at 5:28 PM on August 2, 2012  

They both need time and support. If they rush into anything it could potentially rip apart everyone and everything. They need to deal with this themselves. At their own pace.The only thing they need from the public is understanding and space. I wish them all the best.

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Guest

Posted at 5:26 PM on August 2, 2012  

I still am having a hard time believing that she is brooding for Rob. I think what she did was very calculated. Wonder what she is going to do with the jewelry Rob gave her.

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Maria Giselle

Posted at 5:23 PM on August 2, 2012  

and i think,,,,”IF YOU REALLY LOVE SOMEONE,,,YOU WON’T GIVE UP ON HER/HIM”—talk to each other,,,,,,fix things,,,,,,,,,,just saying

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Maria Giselle

Posted at 5:20 PM on August 2, 2012  

OKAY,,,,,,FIRST I WAS JUST WONDERING “WHY DO PEOPLE ACT THAT KRISTEN DID THIS ALONE SHE IS WITH SOMEONE!!!” ALL I’M SAYING IS LEAVE KRISTEN AND ROB,,,SO THEY CAN TALK THROUGH THIS,,,,AND WORK THINGS OUT,,,,”HOW CAN THEY WORK THINGS OUT,,IF EVERYBODY IN THIS WORLD ARE INVOLVE!!!” JUST SAYING

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Aleisha

Posted at 4:18 PM on August 2, 2012  

Is he barely talking to her or talking to save their relationship. Which one is it.

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tisha

Posted at 4:04 PM on August 2, 2012  

how do you stay home all bundled up, do something memorable and build houses for the poor at the same time?

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Vicky

Posted at 3:41 PM on August 2, 2012  

You guys forgot one!! Keep your mouth and your legs closed especailly if you’re in a committed relationship and the other person in question is married.

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CiCi

Posted at 4:02 PM on August 2, 2012  

What about the director?
He should keep it in his pants since he is married!!

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MILKYWAY2

Posted at 4:10 PM on August 2, 2012  

SHE DIDN’T SLEEP WITH HIM

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Jane

Posted at 5:47 PM on August 2, 2012  

Please tell me how you know that for sure….from Gossip Cop..oh, yeah, right.

 
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Please

Posted at 3:38 PM on August 2, 2012  

This is the most ridiculous article i’ve read yet….Cooper..she never slept with the man…thanks for the advice…

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Amy

Posted at 3:38 PM on August 2, 2012  

What about a list of things for Rupert?
A shrink? How about a relationship counselor?!

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gbtw

Posted at 6:09 PM on August 2, 2012  

thank you. he’s the one who really needs some counseling- to have prayed on a young girl when he has a wife and two young children at home? c’mon… i duplicate this request, hl, let’s see an analysis of the guy who preys on young girls under his authority… like the ex-coach of the american olympian who just won gold in judo. let’s see more about that, instead of this fixation on kristen being the broken/wrong one, here.

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