Robert Pattinson: How He’s Feeling After Kristen Stewart’s Betrayal — Experts Say

Tue, July 31, 2012 7:00pm EDT by 40 Comments
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Poor Rob! His best friend and girlfriend of four years betrayed him — he’s obviously dealing with a lot of emotions right now. Read on for more details!

Robert Pattinson has not only lost his girlfriend, but most likely his best friend.

His rise to fame has been with Kristen Stewart and we can’t imagine what he’s feeling right now! According to experts, he could be dealing with this break-up like one would deal with a death.

“Shock, denial, anger, blame, depression, acceptance, and moving on,” are all emotions Rob may be feeling right now,”  Dr. Gilda Carle, the 30-Second Therapist on Today.com tells HollywoodLife.com. ” They are not sequential, and someone can bounce from one to another and back again.  Emotions don’t follow textbook sequences.  For sure, Rob is not near the last two.”

So sad!  And Dr. Carole Lieberman, M.D. celebrity psychiatrist and author of Bad Girls: Why Men Love Them & How Good Girls Can Learn Their Secrets agrees.

“Denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance,” are the five stages of grief that Rob could be feeling right now,” Dr. Lieberman tells us.

Break-ups are tough and our hearts go out to R-Patz during this difficult time.

What do YOU think, HollywoodLifers? Have you ever been through a break-up like Rob and Kristen? Weigh in below!

More Rob and Kristen:

  1. Robert Pattinson: Don’t Let Kristen Stewart’s Affair Ruin ‘Twilight’ For You
  2. Kristen Stewart Knew Robert Pattinson Wouldn’t Tolerate Cheating
  3. How Kristen Stewart Hid Her Affair From Robert Pattinson

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Veronica

Posted at 11:10 PM on August 22, 2012  

Dear Mr. Pattinson,

I am a big fan of yours and I just had to tell you about what has been going on lately.
I heard that you and Miss. Stewart are having troubles. I needed to tell you that if you weren’t thinking of getting back with her that what you decide is fine but many of your fans and friends don’t think that is the right way to go. If you haven’t heard that Miss. Stewart has been crying and wondering why you won’t get back with her. I know that you must still be upset about the incident but you should still ask her why she did this and why you should forgive her. I think that you and her haven’t been communicating enough to understand what happened and why.

Thank you for you time.

-Veronica

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janet

Posted at 11:56 PM on August 5, 2012  

i think robert SHOULD forgive and forget ,but i dont think he should date or get merried to her . what happens if kristen cheats on robert when they are married? i hope she prays

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Tracey Bown Riley

Posted at 10:09 AM on August 2, 2012  

hey rob don’t afraid she wont doing it again kristen has learn and grown up she is very love robert always robert have to trust kristen again will be okay good luck to rober and kristen

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Kevin666

Posted at 8:12 PM on August 4, 2012  

once a slut always a slut is all i can say

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Margerite

Posted at 7:31 AM on August 2, 2012  

He will never be able to trust her again – he will always be afraid that she will do it again.

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Jennifer

Posted at 10:50 PM on August 1, 2012  

I did the same mistake, after 6 years of 100% faithfulness. It was hard to get back togeather, but I couldnt be withought him, month was the maximum. I did the same as Kristen, bombarded him with text messages and phonens. After long honest talking we finally rebound. In a way it heald our relationship, because not telling the truth was killing me.

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V

Posted at 6:58 PM on August 2, 2012  

So you cheated on your boyfriend? And he accepted you back? I wonder how he live with himself if he that.. to me any cheaters are whores lol should never be given a second chance.

This news might be fake and if it’s not fake well I hope Rob breaks up, cause deep down the person will never ever trust the one who cheated again, at least not to a 100%

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hope

Posted at 11:58 AM on August 1, 2012  

Of course Rob has lost the love of his life and his biggest supporter. And, yes, it does feel like the death of someone you loved. Rob and Kristen will both heal, but at different rates, this will go on for quite some time.

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SHAUNA

Posted at 8:27 AM on August 1, 2012  

AS MUCH AS ROB IS HURTING HE HAS SAID NOTHING HIMSELF ABOUT LEAVING KRISTEN FOR GOOD. ALL THESE RUMORS ARE BEYOND STUPID NOW.
Rob said he needs time( a few months) to work through all of this so why do all of you “RAGS and NEGATIVE” people feel the need to put words in his mouth? Let him figure out everything for himself like he wants;. he may leave her but then again he may not.
Love like theirs doesn’t come around very often and i think he has always known that by the way he looks or looked at her! Whatever she did is NONE of OUR business. This is between them and they will never figure it out if they are not given the chance to do this on their own.
So please, please and again please let them work it out without trying to put your two cents in and trying to sway them one way or the other!!!! This is their lives and they will have to live with this choice forever. Try not to push them into the wrong one because that is what you think for whatever reason.
I admit in some ways I am just as bad by checking in so often, but I do it to find out if they have chosen to speak out themselves. Reading all these other stories make me sad by how hard everyone makes up stories from ‘sources’!!!! If they are real ‘sources’, then post their names so these two know who they can trust and who is their real friends. If they can not be named then don’t print these stories every five minutes!!!!!!

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akak123

Posted at 8:53 AM on August 1, 2012  

omgggg thank you!! I’ve been thinking the exact same thing!! and if they’re a “close source” to Rob or Kristen then why are they betraying them and telling these magazines what’s going on knowing that they want their relationship private?! I agree and think that Rob and Kristen will work it out on their own and hopefully get back together too:)

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akak123

Posted at 8:54 AM on August 1, 2012  

omgggg thank you!! I’ve been thinking the exact same thing!! and if they’re a “close source” to Rob or Kristen then why are they betraying them and telling these magazines what’s going on knowing that they want their relationship private?! I agree and think that Rob and Kristen will work it out on their own and hopefully get back together too:)

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Gabby

Posted at 9:52 AM on August 1, 2012  

You are so right! I wish these people would mind there own business and leave it between Rob and K-Stew!

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:)

Posted at 6:51 AM on August 1, 2012  

Of course he’s hurting. Did you REALLY need an expert to tell you that?? Rob and Kristen will either get back together or break up, and we’ll see for ourselves in a few weeks maybe. No need to keep this scandal burning… I still support this couple all the way because I don’t believe mistakes define a person :)

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Norwegian girl

Posted at 6:07 AM on August 1, 2012  

I hope that Rob and Kristen will work it out.
I hope that Robert will get over it
and keep moving on
He is a better actor than Kristen
but they were a lovely couple though

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Maeve

Posted at 5:50 AM on August 1, 2012  

This is stupid!!Why they keep blaming Kristen??Such an idiot people!

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molly19

Posted at 11:46 AM on August 1, 2012  

theyre blaming kristen because she betrayed rob….i love them both but she is to blame for this and now she has to face the consequences of her affair.

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Gabby

Posted at 1:13 AM on August 1, 2012  

I want to know what they, Rob and Kristen, have to say because no where in the articles do they have direct words from the both of them. This is nothing but a sham..They love each other and Kristen was probably used because she is so young and doesn’t know all about life.

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Patricia

Posted at 4:16 AM on August 1, 2012  

Please, she is young but not an idiot! You DON’T cheat on your lover! She could have known it came out, it always does, sooner or later. She doesn’t diserve a nice guy like Robert.

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Maeve

Posted at 5:48 AM on August 1, 2012  

No!!IRobert doesn’t deserve to get Kristen!If he really loves Kristen….why can’t he just forgive her??We all know that Robert stole Kristen from Michael A and he used Nikki Reed too so he can have Kristen.

 
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Jennie

Posted at 11:39 PM on July 31, 2012  

I so can’t wait for the real truth to come out about this story. So many ppl saying its true, its false, and it’s a publicity stunt. Where is the truth. We know her and the director kissed. We know they are both still in the states and no one has moved out of the house, there is no fight over the dog, and the u haul was staged by a company wanting money for the pictures. What else is real and what is fake??

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grace

Posted at 12:01 AM on August 1, 2012  

how do you know no one moved out of the house?

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Posted at 6:52 AM on August 1, 2012  

With you all the way. Apart from the apology and pictures, everything is fabricated and made up by the media in order to generate interest. I think they’re quite loving making ignorant people hate Kristen… Ugh. Disgusting.

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Meem

Posted at 11:08 PM on July 31, 2012  

R-Patz and K-Stew? No. Just . . . no.

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melody

Posted at 10:18 PM on July 31, 2012  

One PIECE OF ADVICE TO ROB: Better form/organize a FACT-FINDING COMMITTEE to investigate the matter, rather than believe in all the SILLY PUBLICATIONS about Kristen. May be in this way, you can freely DECIDE ON WHAT TO DO about yourselves……. Dont PUNISH YOURSELF BY hiding and rejecting Kristen……. If truly LOVE is still there in your heart, then it’s instinct to FORGIVE.

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Anne

Posted at 6:55 AM on August 1, 2012  

Rob’s been involved in his fair share of stupid rumours. I doubt he’s reading magazines and gossip sites ;) Easy enough to get information from the source. He’s mature enough to have a civil conversation with Kristen. They might be fine now (and just hiding from the media) or they’re taking some time apart to think. Either way, they’ve got it under control!

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You CAN get through this Rob! I believe in you!

Posted at 10:14 PM on July 31, 2012  

I would never want my boyfriend to cheat on me. It would break my heart and even ruin my life! I would die!!

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Silly silly boy Robbie

Posted at 10:09 PM on July 31, 2012  

Yes! Kristen is free of both of these douchebags, Robert and Rupert. They both took advantage of her immaturity and kind heart. They are both older than her and used her and ditched her. Now don’t worry, because Robert is his own worst enemy. He portrays himself as alittle innocent lamb around his parents, London friends and in interviews. Whereas, in reality he is the polar opposite. He is a sexual addict, hard partier and cocaine addict. He is a bottom feeder, that’s why he picks up skanks and one night stands. He thinks that he is being clever and vengeful with Kristen, but he will be the loser in no time. Just wait and see. He lost the best cover/beard that he will ever have. Kristen gave and gave and never received any quality time or affection from this creep. No wonder she strayed. She will survive, bounce back and strive. I only see happiness for Kristen after the BD2 promos. She just has to make it through that mes, and the producers will probably drop her from it all together anyway because of the death threats from Robsessed hags. She lost a lousy unloving boyfriend but will someday meet a good man who truly loves and adores her. Rob will only destroy himself.

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Jennie

Posted at 11:36 PM on July 31, 2012  

Umm ok how do ou figure any of this? Do you know them both personally to say such mean stuff?

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Easther

Posted at 9:55 PM on July 31, 2012  

poor him..i hope he’s alright. i’ve been through the same situation(except for the press and stuff) but still, it’s hurtful and tough.. wish him all the best

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Dhannte

Posted at 8:17 PM on July 31, 2012  

Search: explain Breaking Dawn ending for the REAL truth about all of this, Ladies… KRISTEN isn’t to blame, it’s STEPHENIE MEYER and the irresponsible, negligent handlers of her precious saga…

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Nadine

Posted at 8:16 PM on July 31, 2012  

how pathetic HL. it seems all the experts in the US doesn’t have anything to do other than analyzing every detail of robert and kristen’s issue. and why all the experts talk to you EXCLUSIVELY and no one else, it’s weird right? .Go get a life please!!

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HAHA!

Posted at 6:56 AM on August 1, 2012  

LOL I agree. They’ve gotten exclusives from so many experts, it’s ridiculous. They obviously can’t get any real information so they’re ecstatic about this.

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Questionasked

Posted at 7:40 PM on July 31, 2012  

Okay this was not a cool situation. But the man is married with two children and is 40 something and the girl 20 something. Plus the man was her boss. He was her superior. In a situation like that why is it all laid on K as the big nasty. The 20 somethings are suppose to do stupid stuff so what is this dudes excuse who is all into wearing his wedding ring etc. I thing she was in a situation with a power figure and maybe it was felt she had to please him. Anyone thing of that? After all would it not be nasty for her job if he passed nasty stuff about her for not giving out or playing along in a flirt. And then again, the one most hurt is her and in shock is RP.

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David soto

Posted at 7:39 PM on July 31, 2012  

he still upset,he need calm down at home,but he still think about her more 1 choose…he hate cheat of who girl cheat on man that stupid…

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david soto

Posted at 7:36 PM on July 31, 2012  

he still love her much but he feeling about her still In a Relationship of her not broke up with her…she need listen to him

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Caitlyn

Posted at 7:28 PM on July 31, 2012  

YOU DONT KNOW HOW HE FEELS LEAVE HIM ALONE!

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Saadi

Posted at 7:17 PM on July 31, 2012  

Why does he look like he’s crying

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rob knows what's best for himself! not experts!!

Posted at 7:19 PM on July 31, 2012  

Saadi, that’s an old photo of him.

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Stupid paps.

Posted at 6:59 AM on August 1, 2012  

Rob’s either a bit tipsy, tired or annoyed at being stalked by the paparazzi….maybe all three. I’m glad Rob and Kristen are both laying low right now. The paps are ruthless and I’m sure reporters will make stupid articles about how “sad” they look when really they look like that all the time when being photographed >___<

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so

Posted at 7:10 PM on July 31, 2012  

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KRISTEN STATEMENT

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