Robert Pattinson: It’s OK To Forgive Kristen Stewart If You Still Love Her

Mon, July 30, 2012 11:43am EDT by 77 Comments
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Poor Rob! He must be torn in so many different directions right now since his world has been completely turned upside down. But I think if he wants to forgive Kristen, he should! Everyone makes mistakes, right? Read on for more details!

Robert Pattinson and Kristen Stewart have been Hollywood’s most talked about couple for years — and now because of a “momentary indiscretion” the two have temporarily (or permanently) parted ways.

Rob, 26, has reportedly moved out of the Los Feliz lovenest he shared with Kristen, 22, which can only mean that he’s moving in the opposite direction of forgiveness. But reports have surfaced claiming that Kristen is begging Rob to take her back and that Rob feels more alone than ever. I can’t even imagine what Rob is going through right now — four years is a long time to be in relationship! Not only has he lost his girlfriend, but also his best friend.

I’m not saying what Kristen did was right — at all — but I do think if Rob wants to forgive her , he should. It won’t make him look weak or like a push-over, it will show that he’s an understanding person and that he recognizes that sometimes love really is all you need.

In Hollywood, AND in the real world, couples overcome infidelity all the time. It’s not easy, but it can be done.

Rob needs to spend as much time as he needs to seriously think about what he wants and what will make HIM happy. And if that means keeping Kristen in his life, then so be it, but if he does decide to forgive Kristen he can’t hold it against her.

Sure, they’re not married, but maybe they should consider therapy if they really want this to work.  Rob should forgive Kristen if he believes that he will never be able to have another love like Kristen again. Real, true love is rare to find, and when you do cross paths with it, it’s never going to be an easy ride.

Rob and Kristen have shared so many memories and have such a close bond that if they truly want to make this work — they can!

Robert, take the time you need now to sort out your feelings, but if you decide to forgive Kristen — it’s OK! Your friends, family and fans will support you!

What do YOU think, HollywoodLifers? Should Rob take Kristen back? Have you ever taken back a cheating boyfriend or girlfriend? Vote and weigh in below!

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Ali

Posted at 1:47 PM on July 30, 2012  

This is true Rob.
Take all the time you need to think good things about it all in stride, this is a very important decision for you, a decision with which you will live the rest of your life and you must take seriously, it is true that relations are easy, but nobody has said that, a relationship has both good times and also bad, but bad memories in a relationship is in good and bad not only good, and you can not escape from this situation and you always sooner or later have to face it for the sake of you and all, think well ok.
Good luck.

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californialady1939

Posted at 1:29 PM on July 30, 2012  

Rob should take time to get over his anger and humiliation before making up his mind. He should make up his own mind, how much he loves her. If their affair is beyond repair, then fine dump her but if she is the love of his life, he would be a fool to live his life without her just because the public likes to see people punished. He should remember that young girls are stupid and easily led by older men. If he needs revenge, he should punch Kristen’s seducer in the nose.

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anon123

Posted at 1:14 PM on July 30, 2012  

I don’t think they should get back together because Rob already stated that he doesn’t like cheaters. He’d be a hypocrite if he takes her back!

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a teen

Posted at 1:05 PM on July 30, 2012  

Rob has to live with his decision, so please, don’t try to influence him! He’s smart enough to decide what he wants. Maybe only his friends and his family could give him advice. One day he may forgive, but he can’t forget it. Trust must be earned and Kristen has to promise and prove that it won’t happen again. He needs time now. Maybe long time. It was maybe a ‘mistake’ but it destroyed the trust and love. Stay strong Rob!

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throwing away 4 years

Posted at 12:58 PM on July 30, 2012  

Throwing away 4 wonderful years only for this would be stupid, but Rob doesn’t seem so smart to me so I don’t know.

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It's all on Rob

Posted at 12:56 PM on July 30, 2012  

If it was true love Rob will forgive her, if it wasn’t and his reputation is more important for him he will not forgive her.

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Kate

Posted at 12:55 PM on July 30, 2012  

I get it guys we love robsten and we want them together but i think Kristen doesn’t deserve a second chance.Would you forgvie sb who cheated you with a married man/woman would you?i wouldn’y.yes he loves her but thay doesn’t mean that he will never love again if he leaves kristen.maybe if he leaver her he will find a better woman…who won’t hurt him! kristen you dissapointed me sooooo much!

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sandra

Posted at 12:50 PM on July 30, 2012  

NEVER, Never say cheat is right, Kristen you did something really bad and totally wrong!
BUT, a second chance!!! Just a second chance,
Ask yourself from the bottom of your heart, if you/who really and still LOVE her/each other….. take a few weeks to claim down…. to recall the beautiful moment you both experience…
Your heart will show you the way…. furious, loss of direction… this feeling will gone…
Don’t do something will make you regret one day….something is worth to re-build, if BOTH really CARE….
Are you really want HER out of your LIFE, let 3 years means nothing? Are you happy during these years??
BUT, If you alway remind yourself, you have a scar in your heart and not willing to let it over….
if you not willing and work hard to re-build trust, please please let yourself and let her GO….
Stay STRONG!!! Be brave, have courage… fight for something you should cherish!!

John 8:[...Let him among you who is without sin be the first to send a stone at her......And I do not give a decision against you: go, and NEVER DO WRONG AGAIN.]

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Elise

Posted at 12:48 PM on July 30, 2012  

rob should forgive her. this article totally puts it into the perfect words that he is not weak, its just he has great memories with her before all this and he might want to get back to those with her……..im still a fan of both of them :)

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Mellissa brown

Posted at 12:35 PM on July 30, 2012  

I think Robert must give kristen a second chance,u are human beings will all make mistakes…but kristen really disappointed melly d

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Janet

Posted at 9:14 PM on July 30, 2012  

Rob will never heal unless he forgives her. By forgive, I don’t mean take her back, but talk to her and let her know that he doesn’t hate her and that he still likes her despite what she did. At this point they will both be able to move on with their lives. Maybe even as friends.

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wicka

Posted at 12:35 PM on July 30, 2012  

yes…rob, if u still love her u should give second chance for her. i love u both guys, please make twihard, robsten, robstendream, robstenation, all of the world are love u make smile again with your relationship. I LOVE ROBSTEN FOREVER. PLEASE FORGIVE HER, YOU ARE THE BEST BOYFRIEND EVER.

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nina

Posted at 12:31 PM on July 30, 2012  

for the first time i agree with a gossip article but we all know this will take time

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sandra

Posted at 12:58 PM on July 30, 2012  

Totally agree… THE FIRST TIME, I write this…. and agree Hollywoodlife (its alway create story)

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Courtney

Posted at 12:30 PM on July 30, 2012  

Right why does rob need to forgive kristen if never cheated in the first place. I honestly think the whole kristen had an a affair is a lie, in fact the whole story about the puplic statement and rob moving out of the house is all a big lie and I think they should put the story straight one and for all to stop fans sending them death threats.

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Krystina

Posted at 12:29 PM on July 30, 2012  

What floored me was the question “have you taken back a person that was unfaithful to you?” I keep voting ditch Kristen but I took a unfaithful back, and I have been married to the same person for 27 years. Yes it did take long to trust again, but it worked and I am very happy now. But we are talking about Hollywood so I still say dump her.

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Concern

Posted at 12:25 PM on July 30, 2012  

I agree but it may take time. Rob needs to have that face to face meeting with Kristen…Not Rupert! However, his family and/or friends need to be with him. They should not be leaving him alone in this.

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Posted at 12:17 PM on July 30, 2012  

I think he will forgive her if it is true love I have always looked up to Kristen and I am not saying what she did is right but I am saying that they should get back together they made a great couple and the can’t live without each other I hope rob can see past this and see the love he has for kristen I do believe it will be hard for Kristen to earn her trust with rob back

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team Kristen

Posted at 12:16 PM on July 30, 2012  

Ladies jealous much? Kristen will muse for many men, for many artists. source of inspiration. This does not mean that when someone hugs or kisses with him end up in bed.This did not happen.Is beautiful and great actress. Kristen i believe what he says it is true. Mr. Pattinson does not believe her? Really? hmmm … according to oneself try you?

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genni

Posted at 12:22 PM on July 30, 2012  

I think so .

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yulia

Posted at 12:12 PM on July 30, 2012  

KRISTEN and ROBERT FOREVER !!!!!!!!! РОБЕРТ УМОЛЯЮ ТЕБЯ ПРОСТИ КРИСТЕН. Я ЗНАЮ ТЫ ЕЁ ЛЮБИШЬ. ОНА ТВОЯ ЕДИНСТВЕННАЯ!! Я ЗНАЮ ЧТО В МИРЕ НЕТ СИЛЬНЕЕ НИЧЕГО НА СВЕТЕ ЧЕМ НАСТОЯЩАЯ ЛЮБОВЬ, А ОНА У ВАС ЕСТЬ. РОБЕРТ КАК ГОВОРЯТ НАСТОЯЩАЯ ЛЮБОВЬ ПРЕОДОЛЕЕТ ВСЕ. НЕ ПОТЕРЯЙ СВОЁ СЧАСТЬЕ. А ИНАЧЕ МОЖНО ГОРЬКО ПОЖАЛЕТЬ. ДАЙ КРИСТЕН ВТОРОЙ ШАНС, ЗАБУДЬ ВСЕ КАК СТРАШНЫЙ СОН. БУДЬТЕ СЧАСТЛИВЫ!! ЛУЧШЕ КРИСТЕН ТЫ НИКОГО НЕ НАЙДЕШЬ. KRISTEN AND ROBERT FOREVER!!!!

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wing

Posted at 12:07 PM on July 30, 2012  

love your view. it doesnt make rob looks bad or weak if he forgive kris. you know i do agree that, if they feel like that they are so important to each other, really love each other. forgiving is a good choice to show their love and relationship are strong enough to face everything in the world. of course i dont means that kris is right, its definitely wrong for a person to cheat. but its not a shame to forgive someone. robert, we all know that you need time to clear up your mind. please think clearly if you want to stay with kris for your whole life, if you do, just forgive her. if you cant, and its also understandable to stop your relationship. just want to say that, you are not alone, stay strong! kris, you have made a stupid mistakes, but we will forgive you. you are facing many consequences, stay strong girl! people love you will forgive you:) hope that you two will be fine:)

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Melinda

Posted at 12:17 PM on July 30, 2012  

I completely agree with you. We have to stay next to Kristen. A fan is fan when there is something trouble. We don’t what has happened exactly. They have to arrange this whole thing, and we have to accept that. This is their life. We mustn’t judge.We don’t know when we get in a similar situation.

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Melinda

Posted at 12:06 PM on July 30, 2012  

You are right. He should forgive her. Everything has a reason. I don’ t think what Kristen did was normal or good, but it has happened for some reason. Maybe there is some trouble in Rob. I think they can’t live without each other. If he doesn’t forgive her now, he will later. It’s a matter of time. He loves her so much, and Kristen loves him.
What I don’t understand at all: If she knows, her every steps are followed by pappz, why she did this in the daytime in the town. It is interesting. Something is wrong here.

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sandra

Posted at 1:03 PM on July 30, 2012  

Agree, for the past four years how hard for Pappz to take a photo to prove ROBSTEN LOVE, how come it’s too easy to take this scadel photo in a day time and open area???? BIG QUESTION!!!!

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andrea

Posted at 12:05 PM on July 30, 2012  

For once time, I agree with you!!!
I hope Rob can read you or his family andr real friends tell the same thing.

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Kaylie

Posted at 12:04 PM on July 30, 2012  

I agree if this is TRUE LOVE they can get past this and I hope they can work it out. For the first time I believed that this is TRUE LOVE, that it does exist and I believe that they can get through all of this. MY best wishes for Rob and Kristen

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nice

Posted at 11:57 AM on July 30, 2012  

this website got to stop puting stories they need to work things out by themselfs they dont need anybodys advice there adults and knows how to handle this and they`ll work it out. so just stop posting lies and stuff that just make the problem worse !!

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Pearly shells

Posted at 11:57 AM on July 30, 2012  

Aww man, look at them at the photo above. It makes me even more heartbroken.

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Liz

Posted at 11:51 AM on July 30, 2012  

Whaaaat??? What guy in the planet would forgive that fast?
Beside i think the trust is very much lost.

I think the best advice for Robert is TIME, and family and friends who listen to him and keep him company.

He needs time for him, without the cheating slut.

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