Even though Kristen had an affair with Rupert that might have lasted for months, our top relationship experts tell HollywoodLife.com that Kristen can change her ways and have a healthy relationship with Rob!
There’s hope for Kristen Stewart. Even though the disgraced actress cheated on her longtime boyfriend Robert Pattinson with her Snow White and the Huntsman director Rupert Sanders, the old cliche’ “once a cheater, always a cheater” doesn’t necessarily apply to K-Stew.
“That saying isn’t always true,” relationship expert Diana Falzone explains. “Especially if this is a first offense for the cheater. If someone genuinely understands the harm their infidelity has caused and has vowed to never make that mistake again, there is hope that person will never step outside of the relationship.”
Cooper Lawrence, a radio host and relationship expert, also says that Kristen most likely cheated on Rob because he wasn’t meeting her needs in the relationship.
“It’s only true if they don’t fix the issues in their relationship,” Cooper says. “Cheating, for women, has to do with two things 1. Their needs are not being met in their primary relationship. 2. Modern women simply have more opportunity to meet other men and start affairs when they’re not happy, rather than confront their significant other.”
Even Dr. Jeff Gardere, a top family therapist in NYC agrees that Kristen turn things around.
“I don’t believe once a cheater always a cheater,” Dr. Gardere says. “People can change and mature. However if they don’t resolve their underlying issues, they will continue to cheat.”
— Chloe Melas
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Posted at 6:48 PM on July 31, 2012
There’s more to this than not getting her needs met. When a woman becomes involved with an unavailable man (i.e. married with children, older, boss, etc) there are deeper psychological issues at work…usually self esteem/abandonment issues. When the available man (Rob) doesn’t seem to be enough it’s usually because the woman unconsciously thinks there must be something wrong with HIM if he could love HER. Going after an unavailable man is almost always an attempt to prove one’s own worth…”if someone like HIM could love ME, then I must be okay”. But they set themselves up for failure by subconsciously going after men who CAN’T really be there for them…or if the man does become available (i.e. divorces his wife) before long, once again he won’t be enough. My heart truly aches for Rob here, I’ve been the cheat-ee and know how painful it is. But I also know that cheating isn’t always what it appears to be on the surface, and I do believe that Kristen is suffering mightily right now, and I wouldn’t wish that pain on anyone.