Miley Cyrus: Sex Is ‘Beautiful,’ ‘Magical’ & ‘Cool’

Mon, May 21, 2012 8:12pm EDT by 36 Comments
Miley Cyrus Sex

In one of her most revealing interviews yet, Miley Cyrus explains why she’s not going to back off her ‘Can’t Be Tamed’ image and why she embraces being sexy.

Miley Cyrus may only be 19-years-old, but she’s wise beyond her years. During a nearly hour-long interview on Lifetime’s The Conversation with Amanda de Cadenet, the former Disney darling opened up about her sex appeal, not changing for anyone and breaking out of her child star image.

“[It] used to be if you’re a woman you do not sing about sex, and now if that’s not what you’re singing about, if that’s not your entire image, you won’t get played [on radio and TV],” she said. “The last season of [Hannah Montana] I put out Can’t Be Tamed, which even just the title of that for a woman to say that she can’t be tamed, and of all people in the world, my face saying I can’t be tamed, when that’s all people really wanted to do — I think that proves how sexist people still really are and judgmental. It’s the whole thing of saying ‘be sexy, but our way.”

For years, Miley was forced to maintain an innocent image for the sake of her Disney show, which she was excited to give up after the show wrapped.

“I feel I was so trained in my interviews to be All-American or whatever,” she said. “I just got so set in the way of saying the same things I did when I was 12-years-old… I guess I kind of realized that my whole life isn’t one giant press junket. I don’t have to be smiling all the time and always have the perfect answer.”

Since she’s started growing up and showing off her curves more and more, Miley’s gotten flack from people who think she’s pushing the sexy angle too hard. However, she thinks our society perceives being sexy the wrong way.

“The girls that really base how much they’re worth on the sexual favors they can do for somebody, that makes me really sad,” she explained. “Because sex is actually really beautiful. It’s the only way we create, and it’s the only way the world keeps going. So it’s ignorant not to talk to your kids about it or [not] make it seem as magical or cool as it actually is,” she explained. “[Kids] have a TV, so they know what sex is. So educate them and let them know … it’s a beautiful thing, and it is magic, and it’s when you connect with somebody. And it isn’t how much you’re worth. Your worth isn’t based on that, your worth is based on how you feel about yourself.”

We rarely get to see discussions this long and this open with stars like Miley. What do you think about Miley’s image? Sound off below.

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Victoria

Posted at 4:21 AM on June 4, 2013  

Ok “Miley, I understand you want to grow up, so do a lot of other stars, but slow it down. For gods sak you kids under ten years old looking to you and sitting there telling children that you can’t be tamed, that’s really showing these kids what they should be like when their older. I mean I use to look up to you. I would always say, man I’m going to be just like Miley Cyrus, that’s deffinatly changed. Honestly look at Selena Gomez she just got off Disney last year and she’s taking things slow. Her music doesn’t really have anything to do with sex other than her latest song but that’s about it.”

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Jemma

Posted at 12:01 AM on April 9, 2013  

yeah, she’s just weird now :/

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Maddy

Posted at 6:08 AM on April 4, 2013  

Miley honestly is ruining her life. I’m not talking about sex, but she is showing a bad reputation and making bad choices. She smokes now and drinks, that is bad for her health. I’m not judging her, I think she is a beauitiful singer, but I am concerned for her. She’s letting the celebrity life get to her too much. She’s getting a lot of haters because of it. All her songs are about sex and she dry humps men on stage. I don’t understand why almost every celebrity thinks It’s cool to talk about sex, It’s really not. I agree with what Miley said, sex is a beautiful thing, but she is being kind of hypocritical. Her songs pretty much say she’ll go off and have sex with anyone. Like I said before, she’s letting the celebrity life get to her and she will surely regret it someday.

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Dmac

Posted at 9:15 PM on February 21, 2013  

All I know is that just because you grow up it doesn’t mean you have to flaunt all you have to be sexy. It is more sexy to wear less revealing things, because it let’s the mind wonder. She’s losing her fame pretty quickly and no one seems to care much any more. I never liked her any way. At least selina Gomez can be sexy and still be a Disney star. That’s more of an inspiration to me. Looks like Miley is going to get an STD pretty soon if she’s not careful. It’s good to talk to your children about sex bur not to tell them to go out and have it whenever they want with whoever. I hope to god girls will stop seeing her as a role model.

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naomi

Posted at 6:29 PM on January 31, 2013  

Whether Miley is a virgin or not shouldn’t matter, she’s a roll model to thousands! She’s not promoting sex among young children, she’s only expressing her view and that’s not a crime! And what’s wrong with losing your virginity at 15? I was 15 when I lost mine, that shouldn’t effect you opinion of someone!

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Joy

Posted at 7:48 PM on February 3, 2013  

and thank you naomi it doesnt matter

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Hailey

Posted at 1:11 PM on December 30, 2012  

Miley Cyrus lost her virginity at age 15 with that 20 year old..l don’t understand why anyone in the world would be a fan of miley, she is an attention seeking celebrity. No celebs are virgins any more and all you people are idiots

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Joy

Posted at 7:47 PM on February 3, 2013  

don’t talk about miley like that is a role model to millions of people including me. so dont talk about her or that will start a riot.

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Pickley

Posted at 10:15 PM on May 30, 2012  

That is hilarious. She is trying to educate everyone about sex. That’s all she ever sells anymore. Sex scenes, talk about nothing but sex, sex sex sex. She wants to be a sex symbol SO BAD, but her nasty attitude and constant reminder that she is so cool about sex just makes her a slut symbol.

She’s so nasty.

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Faith

Posted at 7:53 PM on February 3, 2013  

that is not what she sells to album and they sell to millions of people. And dont call her a slut . Ask everyone on the street have you ever lost your virginity bet they will say yas

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Lia

Posted at 5:53 PM on May 30, 2012  

if she wasn’t a celeb she would probably be a hooker….well she kinda is now.she is super annoying and ugly.she probably had sex when she was 15 with that 20 yr old guy.miley is just an attention craving skank.

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LoL

Posted at 7:58 PM on February 3, 2013  

She is not annoying or ugly and you dont even know if thats true and i bet it isnt. Bet your just jealous of her hahahahaha !!!!!!

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annie

Posted at 8:32 AM on May 24, 2012  

@m.Im a virgin and proud of it. If you think not being virgin before marriage is modernity animals are more modern than you

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toni

Posted at 12:07 PM on May 26, 2012  

THANK YOU SOOOOO MUCH. GOD BLESS YOU!!!! what is becoming of this world?!!

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lu

Posted at 11:11 AM on May 23, 2012  

cmon miley! i am so tired of society and the world portraying that stuff like this is okay. these artist have no clue what they are doing in young peoples lives. miley doesnt realize the young fan base she still has from her hannah montanna days. THEY STILL LOVE HER! and they wanna b like her so when they hear her talking about sex this way and see her dress like a tramp theyr gonna think its okay. Wake up world!

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m

Posted at 11:56 AM on May 23, 2012  

@lu: She may still have some young fans, but that doesn’t change the fact that she’s not on disney anymore, almost 20, and has her own life to live, her own RIGHTS, her own decisions to make, and career. Those little kids have their own parents. And sexuality is not a bad thing.

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lexi

Posted at 6:46 PM on May 24, 2012  

okay but miley is 19 going on 20, she can say what she wants, its her opinion, she has a right too it, she is not hannah montana any more, and she is right sex is suppose to be a beautiul thing between two people who love, each, and yes it can be complicated and emotional, but parents should tell both sides to it not just that you should do or ignore the conversation at all, having sexuality isn’t a bad thing

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Lumy

Posted at 1:51 AM on June 27, 2012  

THANK YOU!!
This is why she lost a lot of fans, including me! I can understand she’s getting older but she still has a good amount of young fans!

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mld6

Posted at 10:07 AM on April 9, 2013  

i bet its like heaven between her legs

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Ana

Posted at 9:02 PM on May 22, 2012  

Yo creo que ella fue bastante honesta, los padres deberían enseñarles a sus hijos a mirar a la sexualidad con respeto y como algo natural, no con miedo o como si eso fuese malo, y sobre si ella es o no virgen pues…creo que eso solo le concierne a ella, eso no cambiara mi mirada hacia ella, ella ya es una adulta, no vive bajo el alero de sus padres, es responsable de si misma hace bastante tiempo y tiene una pareja estable desde hace años.

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M

Posted at 8:43 AM on May 22, 2012  

Guys c’mon Selena isn’t virgin
Selena and Justin had sex
So what if Miley isn’t virgin she’s not a kid anymore
She’s a women now

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m

Posted at 8:33 AM on May 22, 2012  

@annie, So what if she’s not a virgin anymore? There’s nothing wrong with that. I bet you aren’t one either. All of that abstinence stuff that she talked about was just because that’s what people wanted her to say. She pretty much explained that in this interview. She was only 14 and still on disney channel at the time; everything in her world depended on the approval of others. Now she’s no longer on disney and she’s almost 20 years old.

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toni

Posted at 12:10 PM on May 26, 2012  

just because someone decides to be a celibate DOES not give you the right to say that they are lying. Its a choice… and she made one so i dont see why you are attacking her :s. and BTW i think celbacy rocks :p. God bless you :)

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blaize

Posted at 8:29 AM on May 22, 2012  

Kim, you are such a prude. It is NOT wrong to speak out about sexuality, and it doesn’t make a person a ‘bad example.’ Sexuality is a natural part of life and should not be treated like a dirty little secret or something that’s ‘too taboo’ to talk about. It’s not like she’s giving specific details about exactly what she does in the bedroom, she’s just giving her honest (and ACCURATE) opinion of human sexuality. Freedom of speech gives her the right to do this.

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annie

Posted at 5:47 AM on May 22, 2012  

so she confirmed that she is not virgin.I still remember what was her oponion about being pure

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tammy

Posted at 2:16 AM on May 22, 2012  

Well, I like that she is being honest and all, but I didn’t like that she kinda made it sound like having sex is the same as getting high, and that it’s ok to have sex no matter what age you are. I am sure that wasn’t what she was trying to say, but still. And yeah, everyone knows she’s not a virgin-duh. I am glad though that she has sex for the “connection” and beauty of it rather than just letting any guy get between her legs.

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annoyed.

Posted at 2:03 AM on May 22, 2012  

ugh she just wants attention, how annoying.

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giftee

Posted at 11:59 PM on May 21, 2012  

i’m so agree with you christine..im a christian and my opinion is that you should save your purity to your future husband/wife…im not saying that sex is bad because It’s a gift from God to multiply but my point is that use it in the right time,the right people and the right place.Probably after marriage :)) Just sayin

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Posted at 10:02 PM on May 21, 2012  

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Christine

Posted at 9:35 PM on May 21, 2012  

I believe that sex is just part of society today. I am a christian and believe that sex is a gift from God that he gave so we can create, but I believe that you should save it for when you are married. Of course I can’t stop anybody from having sex. It’s not my life nor my business. I think that Miley Cyrus, for the age of 19 is pretty “out there”. I mean good for her, she’s doing movie roles and perusing her career. It’s none of my business what she does inside the bedroom. It’s her life, not mine. I have no right to judge anyone. Of course I can have my opinions, but honestly its like anyone listens. I don’t think sex should be used as a toy but I can’t stop anybody. Anyways, Miley I think you are very grown for your age you are still a teenager, but I’m happy for you and wish you the best of luck with your career.

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Megan

Posted at 8:58 PM on May 21, 2012  

She’s 19, she obviously has sex, why does that make her a bad person? Whenever Miley does anything, she’s a “slut.” Miley has done nothing wrong. Sex is life.

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toni

Posted at 12:14 PM on May 26, 2012  

@Kim …..point of correction, Sex is for MARRIAGE. Get your facts straight. it is for enjoyment between a MARRIED couple. If she knew she wasn’t going to keep her virginity till marriage then WHY did she wear a purity ring? there are plenty of people out there that have remained celibates till marriage…I don’t see why shes any different :s

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Rachel

Posted at 8:03 PM on June 4, 2013  

OHMYGOD someone has a different opinion to you, what ever shall you do?? Sex is not necessarily for marriage, that is just your opinion based upon your religious beliefs, which, as I’m sure you know, MANY people don’t share. Also, a lot of people intend to save for marriage wholeheartedly, but something happens to cause them to question and possibly even abandon that belief.
Sex being for marriage is not a fact, it is purely opinion. Get YOUR facts straight.

 
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Kim

Posted at 8:46 PM on May 21, 2012  

Instead of her to keep what happens between her legs to herself, she needs to tell the whole world so that she can serve as a bad example to the thousands of teens that look up to her!

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Hailey

Posted at 1:13 PM on December 30, 2012  

Teens? you mean ten year old girls

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Ray

Posted at 3:38 PM on March 22, 2013  

Wow I have never seen so many naive people in my life in the same place.

 
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