'Vampire Diaries': Elena Needs To Be With Damon Not Stefan

Fri, May 11, 2012 11:52am EDT by 241 Comments
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Elena chose Stefan over Damon into be her lover in the final minutes of last night’s ‘Vampire Diaries’ season finale, but she chose the wrong man for all the wrong reasons!

Here’s the bottom line about Elena: she hates to hurt ANYONE! She’s such a mush-ball she even has stood up to and developed feelings of affection for evil original vampire, Klaus, who tried to kill her!

Elena is also a girl with serious martyrdom issues. How many times has she offered to sacrifice herself to save someone else – her sister, her brother, Stefan. So if she’s willing to sacrifice her life to protect someone she loves AND she hates to hurt anyone’s feelings, no wonder she’s willing to choose the Salvatore brother, who she thinks needs her the most – Stefan – even if she doesn’t love him as much as his bro – Damon.

Elena’s love choice in my opinion was a sympathy decision. She feels obligated to Stefan. He was her first vampire love. He’s been through hell and more, being compelled to go back to evil, human-killing vampire ways by the original vampire Elijah. Elena, believes that Stefan NEEDS her more and that he’ll be more hurt by being rejected by her, than will Damon.

So Elena is sacrificing her own feelings of deep and erotic attraction to Damon, because she is such a good girl, who is willing to put herself last.

But of course, it’s a huge mistake. Yes she does love Stefan. Elena is a genuine loving young woman and she has deep feeling for Stefan but I’d guess that these have become more like love for a brother or best friend feelings than love for a longterm lover.

The problem is as we all know; you really can’t have a whole-hearted long term love affair with your guy best friend. Bella learned that in Twilight when she had to make her equally tough choice to commit to Edward over Jacob.

Elena, no matter how much you deny it, you NEED to be with the brother that you are passionately attracted to and long to be with – if only your guilt wasn’t holding you back.

Elena, you must get over your enormous and self destructive guilt trip. Especially, now that you’re a vampire with all eternity ahead of you – you must be with your real true love and the brother you’re passionately  and erotically attracted to! And no question about it – it’s Damon.

What do you think, Hollywoodlife Vampire Diaries lovers?

– Bonnie Fuller

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SOl

Posted at 10:10 PM on January 12, 2013  

I agree with all of those who say that Damon and Elena should be together. I mean, we have to admit that in real life if someone is in the same situation as Elena, that person is more likely to choose the safer choice. Stefan is sweet and cute, but so can be my brother or bf. When Elena and Stefan are together it seems great, but when you compare that to DE, SE looks boring. I’m really enjoying the 4 season because Damon finally got a chance to show to the skeptics that he is more than an impulsive, selfish, and immature hot guy. Even the Stelena fans have to admit that Damon hasn’t been what they expected him to be.

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Kandy

Posted at 1:27 AM on June 12, 2013  

i totally agree. Damon is a better choice, if u think about it Damon has most of the best qualities like Stefan, plus his bad boy act and sexual qualities. Also she fed off Damon already and if u saw the ep then u could see how he was holding her. Damon said that it was personal, maybe in a boyfriend girlfriend way. Stefan had a lot of open chances to get Elena back, but he wanted to instead “FIX HER” as Elena said, and instead of getting her back he only drove her away. So Stefan ruined his chance and Elena went to Damon for help , he was supportive and next thing u know they’re in bed, and getting all mushy. So as u can see Stefan ruined his own chance, while Damon rightfully gets the girl. Damon and Elena forever!!!!! >^.^< <3

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Olivia

Posted at 9:09 PM on November 29, 2012  

I love how Delena fans say “omg its true love. They love eachother, bla bla bla.” & than when it happens to be that Elena and Damon get together, we find out its not real. That Damon just sired her. Like what.? That’s not true love. Thats pure disrespectful and hurtful. I loved Damon and know I hate him. He took advantage of her and none of you Delena fans can say otherwise. Thank god for Caroline and Stefan figuring it out. Damon is way out of the picture, and he would of never been in the picture if HE HADN’T SIRED ELENA. Stefan is very caring over Elena and he loves her for real. And she loves him. He doesn’t need to site her in order for her to love him. So all I have to say is “HA. HA.” to all those Delena fans. Hope you liked it while it lasted. And if I were you I would be pretty upset that this whole thing is one of Damon’s devious little plans for someone to love him.

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One Delena fan

Posted at 10:44 AM on December 13, 2012  

I highly disagree with you on Damon. It seems to me that you didn’t really pay too much attention to the siring thing. Damon clearly had no idea that Elena was sired to him until Stefan told him that. Also during the episode it was pointed out several times that when a person is sired, their real feelings for others remain. Elena’s feelings for Damon were only magnified when she got sired. Sired people have to obey their “master’s” requests, like Tyler did with Klaus. However, Damon never said during the episode that Elena must love him or anything like that, which Elena would have obeyed. Therefore you cannot say that Damon took advantage of Elena.

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Delena

Posted at 3:03 PM on January 3, 2013  

He DID NOT TAKE ADVANTAGE OF HER, honestly have you been watching the show??? Wtf. Seriously. He DIDN’T KNOW ABOU TTHE SIRE BOND when he slept with her…did you watch the last few episodes or not??

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Posted at 10:20 PM on January 6, 2013  

Olivia, you’re an idiot. I’ve never said that to anyone online before, but its clearly what you are if you think all those things and have actually watched the episodes. No vampire CHOOSES to sire or be sired, it happens rarely and without choice, and only if the person being sired has strong feelings for the vampire whose blood turned them. Damon had NO idea that Elena was sired. When he found out he proceeded to try to find a cure, and then chose to set her free, because he wants her love for him to be REAL. Damon has never once on the show conspired to have anyone fall in love with him. He tried to win Elena fairly, not through any schemes. So next time you want to post anything online, pay attention to the FACTS and not some ridiculous interpretation of the characters.

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Nicole

Posted at 6:34 PM on November 29, 2012  

Steleenaa!!!!!

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steldena

Posted at 8:21 PM on November 4, 2012  

omg be honest with yourselfes. It’s gonna be stelena and we all know it. I really like damon but I don’t think he is the best person for elena. and the delena fans your just rooting for him and elena cuz you wish it were u! lol jk but thats kinda how i feel! even if i like damon i’m on stelena so ya.

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aisha

Posted at 3:30 PM on November 3, 2012  

I agrree… but I also thinks she loves Stefan too. :( NOOO </3 i want her and stefan to end up together. You did NOT just make me fall in love with those two for like 3 seasons( even when Stefans been through the worst) only to have this happen </3 ugh. I will be hEARTBROKEN. Damon just needs to find a new love interest and then ill be happy.

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Victoriq

Posted at 10:51 AM on October 26, 2012  

delena forever!..< 33333333333333333333333333333333333333333333333333333333

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Rita

Posted at 4:22 PM on October 22, 2012  

Damon and Elena are perfect and should be together..!!
DELENA FTW <3

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Sandy

Posted at 4:21 PM on October 22, 2012  

Demon ♥!!! Delena forever!!

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ana

Posted at 7:11 AM on October 20, 2012  

Right you are!!!!

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Daia! ♥

Posted at 11:45 PM on October 19, 2012  

Delena ♥

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Bubsy

Posted at 12:20 PM on October 17, 2012  

DELENA ALWAYS AND FOREVER !!

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anneleise

Posted at 11:38 PM on October 11, 2012  

It’s like you took the freaking words out of my mouth. Thank you!

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DELENA IS TRUE LOVE

Posted at 11:01 PM on October 9, 2012  

GREAT SENSE OF HUMOR! I LIKE IT. Delena is Delena!

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anneka

Posted at 9:00 AM on October 9, 2012  

I totally agree! I cant wait to see elena and damon get together. ive loved all the tension between them. Hopefully being a vampire will make her put herself first for a change.

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koti

Posted at 12:07 PM on September 25, 2012  

of course STELENA!

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Tiffany

Posted at 10:57 AM on September 25, 2012  

Apparently you never read the books.

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anneka

Posted at 9:03 AM on October 9, 2012  

The books are really different to the series so your post isn’t relevant to this article.

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