'The Bachelor' Drama: Courtney Robertson No Longer Loves Ben Flajnik — Here's Proof

Tue, March 6, 2012 6:01pm EDT by 74 Comments

An insider tells HollywoodLife.com why it’s obvious after last night’s ‘The Bachelor: Women Tell All’ special that Courtney Robertson and Ben Flajnik have broken off their relationship!

Although we don’t know 100%, it’s been widely reported Courtney Robertson “wins” a proposal from Ben Flajnik on the season finale of The Bachelor. However, an expert tells HollywoodLife.com how the 28-year-old model revealed she’s actually single on the “Women Tell All Special” March 5, meaning her relationship with Ben didn’t last long. 

Christy Whitman, co-author of the New York Times best-selling, self-help book Taming Your Alpha Bitch, tells us exclusively, “Courtney slipped on last night’s ‘Tell All’ episode by saying, ‘I cared for him’ and then tried to cover-up by quickly adding, ‘I still do.’ She gave it away that she is no longer with Ben.”

Whitman’s co-author, Rebecca Grado agrees, “I caught the Courtney slip too! I think Ben chooses her in the end because he see’s the softness, almost childlike way in which she acts with him. She is vulnerable and open, and that’s whats attractive. He has yet to see the ‘bitchy’ side of Courtney, and my guess is that when this is revealed to him, he will not stick around.”

Whitman — who is also the Founder of The Quantum Success Coaching Academy – believes Courtney is the clear front-runner for Ben’s heart because of her powerful presence. However, she thinks their engagement was short-lived.

“I do think Ben chooses her in the finale, but it’s quite clear that the two of them are done now,” she explains. “The relationship is most likely over. I am thinking she lost her man. I am sure Ben was in shock when he saw the other side of Courtney and how she treated the women.”

Adds Whitman, “No matter how beautiful a woman is, when she acts the way Courtney behaved, it’s ugly. Courtney’s behavior was ugly, she couldn’t even accept someone’s apology, in fact she threw the apology back in Emily’s face. What man wants to be with someone like that?”

Do YOU think Ben and Courtney are destined to have a long-lived relationship or did she ruin it with her bad attitude? Sound off below!

Reporting by Sandra Clark

More ‘Bachelor’ News:

  1. ‘The Bachelor: Women Tell All:’ Courtney Robertson Called A ‘Black Widow’ & ‘Liar’ By Other Contestants
  2. Courtney Robertson Isn’t A Victim Of Bad Editing On ‘The Bachelor,’ Says Ashley Hebert
  3. ‘Bachelor’ Ben Flajnik: Is He As Heartless As Courtney Robertson?

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redhotbeth

Posted at 11:35 PM on March 12, 2012  

Courtney is a “model” which is code for once in a while “model” job if she’s lucky and full time escort…. Ben is obviously not interested in a genuine relationship – he had the hots for her breast enhancements and manipulative ways….. THING IS his 15 minutes will be up soon cuz he’s really just such a dork both now on the outside and as we see ON THE INSIDE in chosing this snake… BUT COURTNEY will go one and attach herself to whatever rich guy and gig she can get…. THE BACHELOR IS A SHAM, not real at all…. it USED TO BE BETTER…. LINDSAY IS THE BOMB!!!!! I HOPE DOORS OPEN FOR HER CUZ SHE IS BEAUTIFUL AND A DOLL!!!!

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Gena

Posted at 9:43 PM on March 12, 2012  

Here we go :-(

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wanda

Posted at 9:09 PM on March 12, 2012  

Courtesy is only in it to be on tv, she is so fake. It’s a game to her n she is winning it. I do not like her, they do not belong together it’s not real love.

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blaine b

Posted at 8:22 PM on March 12, 2012  

Hey Ben LOSING!!!! Sucker done got played. Shoulda stuck with that little sweetheart Kacyie B.

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debbie

Posted at 8:20 PM on March 12, 2012  

Dear Ben,
You are a poor excuse for a man. I know you will probably pick Courtney and you will finally see what all of the women were trying to tell you. But you didn’t want to think with your brain. Let’s see how much true love Courtney has for you. I don’t think you’ll be WINNING. PS: Brad Womack – you are a very intelligent man. You had the good sense and the manners to do the right thing. You are a true gentleman.

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Aussie

Posted at 5:08 PM on June 2, 2012  

Well said Debbie, Ben is a dropkick and only thought with one part of his anatomy. They deserve each other! When the little psycho finally puts a knife across his throat because he’s getting in the way of a “better prospect” he’ll finally get it!

They’re both basically cave people acting in a way that chimpanzees do in the jungle. Hope they don’t breed first!

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anna b.

Posted at 8:12 PM on March 12, 2012  

What about Kacie B. Ben you swine. You dumped her because you thought her parents were against you living with her without marriage. She was a sweet woman and you’re into the skanks. Well that’s what you got. Have a blast.

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Cally

Posted at 8:05 PM on March 12, 2012  

Ben, Ben, Ben,
You and Courtney are the perfect couple. She has no morals and you have no scruples. You both make me sick. Ben you made a fool of yourself. I bet Ashley is counting her blessings. PS: Get a proper haircut.

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Chris

Posted at 10:00 PM on March 12, 2012  

Well put Cally. That is perfect.

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lorena

Posted at 7:59 PM on March 12, 2012  

I think Ben deserves everything he gets. What kind of a gentleman is he…not one at all. Skinny dipping with all of those other women sitting waiting for him. I hope Courtney breaks his dirrty heart. Shame on you Ben. You are certainly are no gentleman.

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mercedes

Posted at 12:58 PM on March 12, 2012  

Okay. number one. ben is ridiculous and every single one of those girls on the show deserve better. Seriously soo disgusting. Second, stop hating on Courtney. Yes she made mistakes. we all do! she acknowledged them like a real person. everybody makes mistakes and everybody deserves second chances. But at the same time, they don’t have to forgiver her. thats okay, she did the right thing in the end and thats all that matters for her. The girls on Women Tell All were fiesty. Its understandable that their feelings were hurt, but such harsh remarks and dirty looks were on that episode. This was my first season and i don’t thin i will watch it again. its so crazy and a waste of time, at least this season was. Ben is gross and they all deserve better. i am so glad kacie b and nicki got out becasue they definatly deserve better. thats just my personal opinion. don’t hate. :)

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Vee

Posted at 11:52 AM on March 12, 2012  

the women were all sore losers, you notice the mob mentality how they ganged up at her in the end. They are jealous. Emily kept making these awful pouty faces. So immature. I liked Katie but in the end she started bad-mouthing also I think the women were not creative enough and felt jealous that Courtney had the creativity of using her feminine wiles, in the end a man wants a woman not a girl, notice how he kept referring to them as girls. the other women were just too immature to think of it. In the end I think they really did fall in love with each other; maybe they have broken up because of the pressure, this environment does not foster the long time you need to foster a secure relationship, you need more time and be in different circumstances, I think Courtney was just misunderstood, she has a quirky sense of humor,she is very confident whoch a lot of the women were not hence their venom she would roll the roses in their faces; but to be honest I dont see how you can be best friends with other women vying for one guys affection, the daggers will come out; I also think they were jealous of her beauty and being a model; if you are secure in yourself why drag others down; did you notice also the one who was nicest to her was also very beautiful; plain women and insecure women tend to hate women who are more vibrant and sparkly than they are–just make the most of yourself and be confident-why did these women focus on bringing Courtney down when they were with ben, it’s really none of their business, it’s not because they cared about thim, if they couldn’t get him they didn’t want him going to Courtney; she was the most interesting character on the show, without her it would have been so booring!Hope she and ben work out in the end, if not I’m sure there are lots of men who would want to go out with her; she understands men, looks like the other women dont’ which is why they are still single, they are so catty too, how wants that?It’s a little silly saying they all beame friends, but did they wind up with ben? no. Chin up Courtney, you did nothing wroong. I thought it was funny too when she came out in a bikini and he was talking to a woman and was distracted–kudos to you! if you got it use it! that’s why they are all jealous; women will hate you because you re beautiful, but in the end you just got to be you; jealousy always comes when there is success, this was the perfect show to showcase that!They were also very catty when they other girl from brad’s season came too-can’t call a kettle black

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Ron

Posted at 12:40 AM on March 12, 2012  

I must say Joy, that if you think Courtney is better in any way than Emily, you are as big a DIPWAD as Courtney is.

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Joan

Posted at 8:15 PM on March 9, 2012  

Ben deserves Courtney. How dare he dismiss one of the women because she had been in love with someone else before going on the show when Ben actually proposed to Ashley and then immediately accepted the offer to become the next bachelor. What a double standard. Let’s face it, it’s all about him. Yuck. What did he have going with Courtney except the sexual attraction? If any of the other women told him she thought she “lost the spark”, they would have been history!

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Terri

Posted at 1:24 PM on March 9, 2012  

In attempting to guess what has happened -between Ben & Courtney, and/or Ben and Lindzi, it’s interesting if you remove concepts and talks of ‘love,’ commitments, etc. And just consider money, contracts, future – money, image & so on. Then, wouldn’t Courtney have violated her contract with ‘The Bachelor’ / ABC and get less money by ‘slipping,’ like she did on ‘The Tell All,’ (saying she carED for Ben – past tense)? Unless that was a ‘plant,’ & she was supposed to throw us off? Or, if it wasn’t, and marketers see the benefit of the “On again, Off” scenario — i.e. People Magazine giving both Ben & Courtney a cover story. — Geez, that gives all of them a lot of dough! At this point, (everything else aside), because of the contracts & money involved, I’d say it would be hard for Ben to trust Courtney, and vice versa. It’s probably difficult for them to even trust their own emotions right now.

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Cynthia

Posted at 8:12 AM on March 9, 2012  

This was the first season which I watched. And all I can say is, what a joke! First of all, what is it that these (mostly.. I’m not talking physically) beautiful women saw in this guy? Not physically attractive, eternal bad hair day. Not engaging at all! Etc
All of these girls could do SO much better! If he does in fact pick horribly ugly, (internally and physically) Courteney, he will be getting exactly what he deserves and vice- versa! The other girl should be counting her blessings!

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Leah

Posted at 11:30 PM on March 8, 2012  

Ben should be very upset with the producers of this show. Courtney should have been removed from the show long before any of this could have happened. They made fool out of Ben and it wasn’t fair. I think on both these shows when someone is not there for the right reason or has come on the show to get noticed the producers should shut them down and remove them right away.
Ya I know this get more hype for the show and more people watch the show for the drama however these are real peoples lives and we would not like someone to do this to us!

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Joy

Posted at 6:37 PM on March 8, 2012  

The women at tell all were the ugliest women I have ever seen. A bunch of sore loosers out for revenge in any way they can get it, even if it means ruining another’s happiness, which for them appears to be immensely gratifying.
The way Emily ganged up on her was tragic. I lovd how the girl who was sent home because she was supposedly not over someone stood up for her. i wish she had done more like actually stand up and say how pathetic the lies were. One of the woman called Blakely a hooker. Where was the opposition towards her? I am sure there was more of that too from other woman. If Courtney started bleeding, Emily would not have forgiven her, she was not interested in a an apology, only revenge, for being more beautiful inside than Emily will ever be, unfortunately.

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Jenna

Posted at 2:56 AM on March 10, 2012  

Well said Joy. Nice to know not everyone in this country buys into the mob mentality.

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Aaron

Posted at 5:45 PM on March 8, 2012  

Ben is gross!!! The girls can do way better!!!

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Venus Dorsey

Posted at 2:30 PM on March 8, 2012  

He should have chosen Kacie B- it was painful to way how he ignored her on the WTA and telling her ealrier they were from different worlds–really think she “cared” for him

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SS

Posted at 3:37 PM on March 8, 2012  

totally agree with you Venus, however, her father did say he would have said “no” had he asked for her hand in marriage at that time. Kacie B’s dad was kind of intimidating. Of course all dads have a right to be, but Ben might have picked up on that and figured the dad would be way too involved in their marriage. I feel so bad for Kacie B, a true sweet girl. Then there was Lindzi..another great choice. Again, WHAT WAS BEN THINKING????? Ben, if you read this, watch the shows again and look at Courtney’s face as you let the others go and hear her sarcastic remarks!

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Pam

Posted at 2:03 PM on March 8, 2012  

Bren was fairly warned. Then he had warned another when they tried to warn him. Carma I suppose. It’s like a parent with a child. You give your child inofrmation… child didn’t like that info. So, he ran further away. Only this time it was on tv with plenty of proof and he could have asked abc to allow him to see what the informants had seen! Oh well, This will not be the end of the world.

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karen

Posted at 2:18 PM on March 9, 2012  

Pam, I totally agree with you that Ben was farily warned. Honestly, I don’t really believe Ben was in it for the right reasons otherwise he would not have chosen Courtney. I mean, haven’t we all seen this show before. They are just another Jake and Vienna. Ben is just as full of it as Courtney is. Wait for it because we will see them on Bachelor Pad!!!!! :)

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Bonnie

Posted at 12:10 PM on March 8, 2012  

Courtney came on the show to win, not fall in love. It was just about winning and beating everyone else. Watching the entire season and seeing her with Ben on dates, just look at her eyes, there is no emotion of love (just a look of victory). The others, truly felt emotion for him, it wasn’t a game to them. She is a complete loser and no wonder her past relationships have failed. As they say, Why buy the cow, if you can get the milk for free? As for the producers of the show, that BS of the skinning dipping, should not have been allowed.

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Betty

Posted at 8:51 AM on March 8, 2012  

Ben is an idiot and deserves Courtney.

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Sandy

Posted at 4:26 AM on March 8, 2012  

Haha, Courtney stop defending your self under FAKE
NAMES, damage control… It’s way beyond your power. You are a horrible person and you showed your true collors in national tv! I just feel bad for Ben as he is known as the dumbest guy in America as he fell for literarely sh***, even as you keep trying to make everyone think he is still with you, c’mon you know better. Also, try to get a gig, and make some $, you’ll need it , as no one will like to hire you after your 15 min of fame expire. FYI writing good things about you on all websites is not consider a job! Haha

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Jenna

Posted at 2:59 AM on March 10, 2012  

LOL I’m not Courtney and I’m defending her. Get over yourself and consider that not everyone in this world agrees with your narrow minded view point.

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Kari

Posted at 5:19 PM on June 2, 2012  

@Jenna: Just because you decide to take the unpopular view doesn’t make you more intelligent, rational or open minded, that old ruse won’t work here.

You’re probably just as obnoxious as Courtney in real life. Go troll some other site loser!

 
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bob

Posted at 12:57 AM on March 8, 2012  

I hope they enjoyed their 15 minutes, its over..
ben; pull your head out of your sphincter and go marry your high school sweetheart, at least she’s for real..put your energy into winemaking..

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mocalsa

Posted at 12:12 AM on March 8, 2012  

They are on 2 different PLANETS……!!! neither of which is EARTH…! What a phony ‘beotch’ she is an he has no discernible quality’s other than complete idiocy !!!

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Rachael

Posted at 9:14 PM on March 7, 2012  

I love Courtney and even more if she wins it and walks away from him. He is gross! She is wayyyyyyyyyyyyyy beyond him!

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Sunshine

Posted at 10:46 PM on March 7, 2012  

LOL you must be one mean nasty girl too!

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guest

Posted at 1:04 AM on March 9, 2012  

Why so much hate on Courtney people!? What did she ever do to you?? If she was portrayed a certain way on the show does not mean thats the way she is. I mean yeah she said some nasty things, but so did everybody else. She only said what other woman were thinking. Sometimes being so straightforward backfires on you.. However, she acknowledged her actions and apologized. Have you not seen her break down at the WTA? What else do you want her to do to stop YOUR hate? Everyone deserves a second chance!..Dont put anyone down unless youre helping them up!

 
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Jenna

Posted at 3:00 AM on March 10, 2012  

Brilliant comment.

 
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