Bachelor Ben Flajnik Is Convinced Courtney Robertson Loves Him Blog

Ben confesses that he has ‘real feelings’ for Courtney. But does Courtney actually have feelings for Ben or is he heading for heartache?

Bachelor Ben Flajnik is completely blinded by Courtney Robertson‘s lies. He seems to believe that she was being completely sincere with him during the Feb. 20 episode when she told him that she was falling in love. In his People.com blog, Ben gushes about how good it made him feel to hear Courtney say, “I love you.”

During Courtney’s hometown date, she surprised Ben with an intoxicating confession of words that he had been dying to hear. She set up a mock wedding and “poured” her heart out to him. “Little did I know how much this elaborate setting would allow her to pour her heart out,” Ben writes. “Hearing Courtney tell me she loves me made it all worth it.”

Ben was anxious to meet her parents because he’s head over heels for Courtney. “I was nervous about how this day was going to go because I had real feelings for this woman,” he admits. “I also had concerns about her based on what the other women were saying, but seeing her away from the other girls made me feel like her behavior was circumstantial.”

“Meeting Courtney’s family was a very welcoming experience,” Ben continues. “It felt very familiar to me because I lived in Arizona for some time so it almost felt like home. Her parents’ Saltillo-tiled floor reminded me of my parents’ house, and it was a good, nostalgic feeling. Rick was a true gentleman, and I appreciated all the advice he gave me.”

Courtney then planned a date that made Ben feel like she was being totally real with him. “I picnic a lot back in San Francisco, and I loved that Courtney had planned this for our day,” Ben remembers. “My date with her felt really natural, and I have to give her props because she was really bold to assume that I would play along with a mock wedding.”

“All in all, it was a great hometown date,” Ben says.

BFFs — do you think Ben is setting himself up for heartbreak?

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The only people who have been lying are the tabloids and those idiot losers who invented the lies to cover up their own inadequecies. Courtney and Ben have been on this track of love since their first meeting…first date…second date…etc. Monica the lesbian started the negativity when she whispered in Kacie’s ear on day 1 “I don’t like her” referring to Courtney. The rest of the girls followed like lemmings and created a hostile environment for Courtney who reacted to their hostility. Since she has a sharp tongue, she used it. I would have done the same!!!

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Totally agree!!!

At first I did not liked Robertson at all but when I saw her interacting with her family in the show I developed a nicer opinion about her. She is truly competitive but not evil no matter her mean ways. In my opinion Ben and Robertson transmit a strong connection of love and attraction among the other girls. There were nicer contestants in character but what it matters in the bachelor is the connection between two. No matter who we America like for Ben he’ll pick what’s best for him. Being competitive does not mean not being capable of falling in love or care for someone at all. I’m pretty sure the other contestants are capable of being as mean as Robertson but maybe not willing to show it in National TV. Honestly I don’t think he is neither attractive nor charming in fact Kourtney it’s too pretty for him. I wish them best of luck and happiness no matter how long it lasts as most of the couples in this show haven’t make it for so long

Very disappointed in Ben. Perhaps one of these days he will mature enough to appreciate a real woman. Courtney played him like a fiddle, and he lapped it up.

I was always taught that if someone avoids eye contact, then it’s likely they’re not being honest. As endearing and impressive as the mock ceremony, apparently, was Courtney hardly ever looked into Ben’s eyes and she couldn’t stand still. I haven’t seen many moments where Courtney touches Ben lovingly. . . . every move seems pre-calculating & cold to be sure she “WINS”. I hope the best for Ben & love, but sincerely doubt that Courtrney’s the one. I would’ve put money on Lindzie as the best match.

I agree 100%. If someone can’t look you in the eye when they are speaking to you that says a lot. Courtney seemed like she was uncomfortable and struggling through the whole thing. I like Lindzi also but, unfortunately, I think Ben has his libido made up and he will choose Courtney. I can’t wait to see the expressions on these women’s faces and hear their comments when they find out about the skinny dipping episode. I also can’t wait to see Courtney play the role of the victim like she did with Emily, when she was clearly the villain. This ought to be very interesting.

Ben’s hairdo reminds me of The 3 Stooges… Moe is who comes to mind!!!

I agree, he needs a new style. Courtney will see to it that he gets glammed up, huh?

At this point, I don’t think many viewer care whether Ben’s feelings are hurt or not. I am sure they both have feelings for each other and so be it. Courtney strikes me as a wax figurine who has limited body movements and limited range of motion facial expressions. Too “plastic” looking.

Canadian viewer These two are suited for each other. All the other women should count themselves lucky to be sent home and let these two wallow in their foolishness. This has to be the worst bachelor ever so fake it is rediculous. I tink they both have a lot to learn about love, so sad.