Rihanna Tells Fans Why She's Forgiven Chris Brown

Mon, February 20, 2012 2:58pm EST by 33 Comments
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kim

Posted at 2:30 AM on April 6, 2012  

When an abuser is focused on convincing you he has changed, ya know, so you can forgive and accept him again, he’s more focused on changing your mind, and changing how you feel and think about him. That means he’s not really working on changing himself in a genuine way. He’s only changing his behavior as a way to control your behavior. He’s just trying to control your behavior in a different way, but it’s still HIM trying to control YOU. And that’s not the way to have a healthy relationship.

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Jin

Posted at 10:23 PM on March 3, 2012  

Yes riahnna needs to forgive Chris and get back with him you can tell she loves him off and it will hurt her not to be with him, it is only the presure from the media and her supposed to be tru fans that is preventing her from being with him when 1.most of her fan has probly been thru sumthing similar or even worse and is still sitting nex to there boyfriends or sum may judge when they havnt even had a boyfriend 2. I don’t think Chris will risk loosing her again. Sometimes some people need to go thru an experience to realise what they could miss out on. 3. Nobody knows what really happens that night, So yes forgive and follow her heart is what she needs to do

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kayla

Posted at 6:53 PM on February 25, 2012  

You Are So DUMB.Who Gets Back With Someone Who Has Hit Them In The Past.SADD!!!:(

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osei kwame

Posted at 9:19 AM on March 9, 2012  

you don’t know what love is so don’t say that

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Kelli

Posted at 11:50 PM on July 4, 2012  

Your Sad Because Rihanna Is A Beautiful Person Inside And Ot And Even Though Something Like This Happened I Encorage Her to Go After Him ! Honestly I’ve Dated This Guy For 2 Years And When We First Met 3 Years Ago He Beat Me Up. My Bestfriend Was Always Putting Me Down For Still Liking Him Then He Went To My Mother And Sat Us Down And Told Me He Loves Me And Apoloized To My Mother. What I Am Trying To Say Is IF People Can Forgive For Sexual Abuse,Cheating, And Much More Why Can’t You People Be Suportive About Her Choices ? Shes Only Human. But I Guess that Doesn’t Matter I Guess Your All Perfect Huh !

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Cupid

Posted at 5:32 AM on February 25, 2012  

If she feels that its the ryt thng 2 do then let her do it. I mean every1 deservs a second chance, nd i ges, this is chris’s second chance. So gud luck with ur relationship.

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Keri

Posted at 11:22 PM on February 22, 2012  

Rihanna is under the spell of her first love. You can never get over you first love. So, Rihanna will soon realize whether she is doing the right thing or wrong.

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Jess

Posted at 2:50 PM on February 22, 2012  

I hope Rihanna and Chris don’t get back together. I’m sure that like me you’ve all heard the saying “Boys are not supposed to hit girls” enough for us to know that its wrong!As for you people saying”Its their lives,let them be!” need to realize that them getting back together will effect us Rihanna fans. She would be sending out a bad message. That its okay for a man to hit you..smh..their going to be Ike and Tina all over again. :(

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Ms Toya

Posted at 9:41 PM on February 22, 2012  

Jess, please… get over it. Don’t know your age and if (IF) you are considered an adult by age, grow up. You can not say or deny that you will never be in a combative confrontation with your other half and decide to make up. Live in reality sweetie, “Girls are not suppose to tolerate alot of things boys do” and we do. Because your not a celebrity, only people would know IF you tell them is your friends and family. It is no ones responsibility but parents to to raise their own children. Parents are suppose to be the leaders and examples to their flesh and blood. If she get a few fan haters, doesnt mean she’ll lose in record sales, hits on youtube, or itunes…WHY, because now haters envy her and they wont stay away. Remorse has been shown and time apart has allowed them to grow internally. You dont like the reunification, get over it.

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INeverLie

Posted at 2:04 AM on February 26, 2012  

Ms. Toya you don’t have a brain in your head. A healthy relationship does not include beatings. If someone beats you too a pulp or even pushes you, they don’t love or respect you. If you accept beatings as normal, seek professional help.

 
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Katee

Posted at 8:35 PM on February 28, 2012  

There is a huge difference in a combative confrontation and being abused. Abuse isn’t something to tolerate. Forgiveness is one thing but to make the decision to go back to someone who has intentionally hurt you in anyway on such a large scale, whether it be physically, sexually, or emotionally, is in no way a wise or thought out decision. You Ms Toya need to grow up and educate yourself.

 
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milkah njage

Posted at 2:09 PM on February 22, 2012  

yeah,maybe ,maybe nt it depnds on base their luv.al the best guys,millie 4rm kenya..0724601458

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Chuck Daly

Posted at 11:45 AM on February 22, 2012  

This is no different than when you tell a friend something negative about someone, then after you forgive that person, your friend still holds a grudge. Rihanna has moved on. Fans need to stop holding the grudge.

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INeverLie

Posted at 2:11 AM on February 26, 2012  

I don’t know about you, but I lose respect for a doormat. I want to be treated as an equal in a relationship and not be beat to an inch of my life if I disagree. This speaks volumes about Chris Brown. He’s a woman beater. You don’t see him beating up men do you? That’s because he’s a bully and picks on someone weaker.

Is this a cultural thing. Do black women accept beatings as normal in their relatinoships?

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Clifford ngosa

Posted at 3:27 AM on February 22, 2012  

Rihanna & christ you are met to be together just work out your differences you be a good couple

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Baimba kargbo

Posted at 2:03 AM on February 22, 2012  

HEY AS FOR ME I FORGIVEN CHRIS.BECAUSE WHAT MAN NEED MOST IS TO HAVE WIFE TO BE THEIR FOR HIM AT ALL TIME.MUCH LOVE TO U ALL.

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MrEntertainment

Posted at 12:27 AM on February 22, 2012  

But can Chris forgiven her for cheating?

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MrEntertainment

Posted at 12:31 AM on February 22, 2012  

oops I meant can Chris forgive her for cheating?.. maybe enough to be friends but not enough to date her again.

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jack

Posted at 11:21 PM on February 21, 2012  

Only a black woman can forgive an abuser.

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Radiant

Posted at 8:33 PM on February 21, 2012  

Why are people thinking so illogically about this? Just because Rihanna has forgiven Chris Brown doesn’t mean that they are reviving their old romance. She’s just growing up, becoming more mature, & forgiving those in her past who hurt her, which just so happens to be Chris Brown. And I don’t blame her. I would forgive him too. I mean, who wants to stay mad forever?

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Adriane

Posted at 8:29 PM on February 21, 2012  

ND ALSO I LOVE U CHRIS BROWN <3

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B

Posted at 6:54 PM on February 21, 2012  

All their songs were about each other who didn’t think these

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c

Posted at 10:47 AM on February 21, 2012  

once an abuser always an abuser.. rihanna, who knew you were SO dumb?!

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MrEntertainment

Posted at 12:28 AM on February 22, 2012  

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

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Eric

Posted at 5:37 PM on February 20, 2012  

If they really are going out again, I bet it’ll just be a matter of time before they both get really drunk or high on drugs and some sort of high drama blowout happens.

Maybe Rihanna throws something at him and then they trash a hotel or something. Rock stars have been known to do that you know. I think Rihanna is asking for trouble. Who knows maybe she likes to “live dangerously”.

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dfadfas

Posted at 10:23 PM on February 20, 2012  

they are not going out again. They are JUST FRIENDS… why do you believe this BS that they are dating again?!

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INeverLie

Posted at 2:17 AM on February 26, 2012  

I believe women who accept beatings as normal have low self-esteem. They are hooking up and some say they never stopped. Doesn’t she realize that so many people in and out of the industry have lost respect for her.

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Lisa

Posted at 5:26 PM on February 20, 2012  

it is their business , celeb are not our property for pete’s sake or even friends or role models, enjoy their work or MOVE ON and by the way i am not fan of either of them just to be clear.

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Msss. Breezy

Posted at 4:51 PM on February 20, 2012  

Okaaaay. To me, rihanna is RIGHT to forgive Chris. & theyre not rekindling their romance. Chris is ina relationship ! & that tweet could’ve meant anything. Ive heard it before. Even before rihanna tweeted it. So, dont jump to conclusionsss. Just saying.

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INeverLie

Posted at 2:24 AM on February 26, 2012  

OMG women can be so gullible and stupid. There are certain lines, that once they are crossed there is no going back or forgiveness.

If someone beats your face to a pulp, you never, never put yourself in a position to allow it to happen again, and there is no forgiveness. In my eyes they would be dead.

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disco

Posted at 4:35 PM on February 20, 2012  

Based on personal experience, you can’t change a huge db into a winner.

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kris

Posted at 5:05 PM on February 20, 2012  

And hes a major DB!!!

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Ms. Toya

Posted at 9:57 PM on February 22, 2012  

*I meant your other half has forgiven you.

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