Demi Moore: It's Horrendous That You Did Drugs In Front Of Your Daughter Rumer Willis

Fri, January 27, 2012 5:49pm EST by 18 Comments
Demi Moore

Demi — there’s no excuse for doing drugs in front of your children — not even a heartbreaking divorce!

Demi — I am completely sympathetic to how low you must be feeling after your younger husband Ashton Kutcher (allegedly) cheated on you and totally humiliated you. That was a terrible betrayal.

But you know what — that betrayal is nothing compared to how you just betrayed your daughter, Rumer.

It’s clear from the 911 call that you were “smoking something” at a party that you were throwing at your house for your friend Heather Parry.

That’s what your friends told the 911 operator. “She smoked something similar to incense, not marijuana.”

Whatever it was, it caused you to go into convulsions and lose consciousness and be “burning up.” Your daughter “Ru” can clearly be heard, sounding incredibly frightened and worried in the background, as various party guests spoke to the 911 operator.

There is no way that your daughter should have had to experience this. “Demi’s behavior one the night of the 911 call was completely irresponsible,” Dr. Petra Morgan M.D., a Beverly Hills drug addiction specialist tells HollywoodLife.com. “Doing drugs in front of your children, no matter how old the kids are, is unjustified, destructive and selfish.”

And not only that – doing drugs in front of your kids send the message to them that it’s OK to do drugs. Dr. Morgan says: “actions speak louder than words.”

What’s just as bad as sending a message that drugs are OK is also the fact Demi that you are reversing the roles in your relationship with your daughter. You are making your daughter “become the mother. Role reversal can do terrible damage,” says psychotherapist to the stars, Dr. Gilda Carle, of drgilda.com.

Rumer is being forced to act as the responsible parent, having to take care of you. She had to watch you convulse and lose consciousness and had to oversee your care at the hospital.

In photos of her outside the hospital where you were treated, she looks like she has the weight of the world on her shoulders.

“What can end up happening is she will begin to resent not having a mother,” explains Dr. Gilda Carle, author of How to Win at Love.

Addiction specialist, Dr. Petra Morgan M.D says that when a person has been an addict, like Demi was in the past, fighting addiction is a lifelong process.

“This is a wake-up call for Demi to take care of herself and get the help she needs,” says Dr. Morgan.

What’s so sad as well is that Demi is repeated the very same bad behavior that she experienced from her own mother Virginia King, who was an alcoholic.

Demi was forced as a teen to be her own mother’s caretaker and it’s a role she never was able to relinquish until her mother died.

Now, she is doing the exact same thing to her own daughter, Rumer, 23, as her mother did to her.

Demi —  it’s time to get serious help and decide to grow up and be an adult … even if your heart has been broken!

– Bonnie Fuller

Click here to hear the 911 call

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xxxx

Posted at 11:13 AM on January 31, 2012  

ashton was lucky to have escaped that nut

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mikey

Posted at 11:34 AM on January 30, 2012  

oh man…. first i read the beginning of the article about how doing drugs in front of your children can do them harm, and I was okay with it, imagining a 7 year old girl seeing her mother doing this and not understanding… then i read that her daughter is 23!! hello?? She’es not a CHILD! Even if this might have been shocking to her, it has definitely not the same impact as on a small child, and that kind of impact was what the writer was describing in her “psychological “wisdom””!!

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gbtw

Posted at 3:15 PM on January 30, 2012  

i think you missed a lot of the point. it is selfish and destructive at any age to put your child in the position to have to be your keeper- not to mention, scary to see a parent nearly kill themselves. no matter how old you are, when you lose a parent your whole world becomes a lot more scary and uncertain- even if you’re 40. and, you can lose a parent in a lot of ways, not just in death. if you note from the doctor’s comment, he specifically points out that this is damaging no matter how old the child is. when you become a parent, and lose a parent, you might have a better understanding of how horrible a thing this was to do to her daughter.

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Kimica

Posted at 9:25 PM on January 29, 2012  

First of all, this writer is an enormous attention whore and needs to lay off Demi. Demi is more elegant and glamorous than this woman could be in her dreams. Plus, from the title it sounds as if she’d prefer a mother to shut herself in the closet to smoke salvia, instead of partaking in a casual group activity like normal people do. It’s unfortunate that Demi had a bad reaction, but luckily her [adult] daughter was there and was smart enough to call for help and relay the pertinent facts.

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gbtw

Posted at 3:09 PM on January 30, 2012  

huh? r u SERIOUS?! the woman was inhaling and smoking harmful chemicals (nitrous oxide, and “spice”)- she wasn’t casually smoking a joint with her daughter and friends. she was OUT OF CONTROL. and who relies on their daughter to be their “designated driver” or their babysitter in case anything bad happens when they’re callously endangering their own lives. i hope you don’t have kids. wow.

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Reality Check

Posted at 3:02 PM on January 29, 2012  

Hey! Wtf?! First i don’t feel sorry for Demi. It’s a big women with personal issues not my business. it’s annoying how people go for her instead of go for Ashton…ya know the one who cheated her :/

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gbtw

Posted at 3:05 PM on January 30, 2012  

do you really think someone this out of control with themselves (don’t think for a minute she wasn’t “partying” like this during the marriage), was faithful to their partner? all things go when you run in these circles of parties, losing consciousness, etc. i’m certain ashton wasn’t the only man she was with in the past 6 years or so. they had an open marriage. i’m sure there were supposedly some rules, but they were not monogamous. who knows what ashton endured with that woman. his public cheating was probably the only way he saw to get out of it- by getting her to end it (b/c she was probably threatening suicide whenever he broached the subject with her).

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Nicola

Posted at 3:32 PM on January 28, 2012  

Sorry but was she doing drugs “in front of” or “with”. Somehow I doubt Demi was the only person lighting up at that party. She was just the only one who reacted badly.

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Dumbpointerouter

Posted at 7:19 PM on January 28, 2012  

Where’s the relevance in your post. She was recreationally using drugs with or in front of her daughter…

Wait. You must be the mom who does keg stands at her daughters prom after part. Either that or your mom was that mom.

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psyche101

Posted at 12:07 AM on January 29, 2012  

But no one else was the parent of a child of theirs that was present – BIG difference.

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Annie

Posted at 2:48 PM on January 28, 2012  

Oh puh-leeze bonnie, spare us the sanctimonious diatribe!

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Razrblazr

Posted at 2:10 AM on January 28, 2012  

laughing at the poll… i mean honestly…

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patty

Posted at 1:08 AM on January 28, 2012  

Demi needs therapy, what a waste.I agree with Bonnie on this one, she should not do drugs in front of her children What a bimbo..

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Shelly

Posted at 11:51 PM on January 27, 2012  

Hasn’t it been reported more than a few times that Ashton and Demi had an open marriage? Demi is no youngster and should know how to handle herself better than this, IF the reason is because Ashton left her, but to be doing drugs in front of your children, even if they are grown, is crazy. I starting to think Demi is a weak minded person and needy which may be the REAL reason Ashton left her.

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psyche101

Posted at 12:14 AM on January 29, 2012  

Who could possibly think they have anything in common? She 49 and looking at getting a dr to perform a knee lift for her sagging knees and he’s a normal young guy looking to have some fun. She must be mentally and socially undeveloped to have the same interests as someone 15 years her jr having been previsouyl married and raising 3 kids.

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gbtw

Posted at 2:56 PM on January 30, 2012  

she already had the knee surgery- among many others (multiple boob surgeries, multiple liposuctions, etc). in any case, she’s f’ed up- and good thing ashton got out when he did. no need to ruin anyone else’s life, these stunts she’s pulling. i do not feel one iota of pity for her- just rage. pity for her children tho… i hope they have a more stable and safe home with their father, even though watching their mother kill herself is going to devastate them regardless. her death will be as dumb and shallow as her, and it’s all a travesty because of the people who will be left behind hurting and feeling guilty wondering if they could’ve done anything to save her. shame on her, wasting the life she was given.

 
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Carter

Posted at 8:09 AM on January 31, 2012  

GBTW,

You sound like a damn stalker…it’s creepy.

You’re quote (not all of it): “(don’t think for a minute she wasn’t “partying” like this during the marriage), was faithful to their partner? all things go when you run in these circles of parties, losing consciousness, etc. i’m certain ashton wasn’t the only man she was with in the past 6 years or so. they had an open marriage. i’m sure there were supposedly some rules, but they were not monogamous. who knows what ashton endured with that woman….”

Why don’t you suck Ashton’s d— instead of typing about it…..

 
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hellokitty2142

Posted at 9:18 PM on January 27, 2012  

as my health teacher would say ” doing drugs will not help solve ur problems”

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