Demi Moore : You Can't Let Ashton's Cheating Drag You Down

Tue, January 24, 2012 8:02pm EDT by 10 Comments
Ashton Kutcher Cheating

Demi – you were rushed to the hospital last night, Jan 23, reportedly for substance abuse  and this is so terribly sad. You can’t let Ashton’s immature and irresponsible behavior make you feel unworthy of love or life. You ARE terrific no matter what happened in your marriage!

Demi- please don’t think that you aren’t beautiful, talented and loveable because your estranged husband didn’t appreciate his marriage or you. You can’t let him define you.

Ashton is the one who is unworthy because he didn’t honor his wedding vows when he partied and allegedly bedded blonde Sara Leal, 23,  in San Diego on your  6th wedding anniversary. YOU are one of the most gifted and iconic actresses in Hollywood. Your husky voice is sexy and distinctive, you look at least 10 years younger than your biological age of 49, you’re a talented director, you’ve been a producer AND you’re also  a very important mother of three young women, who NEED you.

Your value is in who you are. Just because Ashton was too young to have made a lifetime commitment and you had to file for divorce doesn’t mean that you should punish yourself, by allegedly abusing drugs. You don’t serve to be punished in any way. You need to get help instead with the depression and possibly anxiety that are dragging you down. You’ve reached out for help before. In the 80′s you were treated in rehab for cocaine addiction. You beat your demons before and you can beat them again.

It has certainly looked like the disintegration of your marriage has taken a huge toll on you in the past couple of months. You are pale and skinny as a rail. You were already punishing yourself by not eating. Now you’ve gone a big step further and this is clearly a cry for help.

We at Hollywoodlife.com hope that your family and close friends rally around you and reassure you that you are valuable and that they help you get as much therapy as necessary so you can recover your self esteem. Just please believe us – YOU are not a problem. If Ashton was willing to toss his marriage away,  HE has a problem.

Get better Demi- we’re rooting for you!

– Bonnie Fuller


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Maria

Posted at 3:54 AM on January 26, 2012  

This isn’t Ashton’s fault in any way, shape, or form. Demi chose to do whatever she’s been doing… and honestly, I think she’s extremely insecure. She needs help and support. So I’m glad their not together anymore, she needs to stop chasing young boys and find a mature man closer to her age that can actually handle her.Watch out for J.Lo.too.

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Sandy

Posted at 9:37 PM on January 25, 2012  

She need to pull her self together and take control over her life. Its not the end of the world. Both cheated and it got put out in public about her male/ female encounters that she may not wonted it to be advertised. You are still a strong women and have people that love you in your life. She can move on and fall in love again. She’s a strong women
with many blessing. Wishing Ashton and Demi the best.

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lolanyc

Posted at 9:54 AM on January 25, 2012  

Well shes heartbroken. We dont know what they did inside their marriage. Open or Not. Maybe it was open but then aston bailed on the marriage. He left her completely. I know i can breathe or eat when im upset. Ive lost 10 lbs cuz of men. Men are aholes that ruin the lives of women. Just when u think u have a good one they go and betray u. Im not sure any marriage is truely happy. Just when u thought, heidi and seal, will and jada, ect… its a joke. Demi is beautiful!!! She just needs time to heal. She prob had a panic attack. Its hard seeing an ex move on or have fun on vacation.. she has it thrown in her face. I hope she can calm down and get it together soon. She already has kids.. been married, maybe she should be single. It really isnt all that bad. Men resepect u more if u arent their GF or wife…. or so it seems.

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ataylor

Posted at 6:00 AM on January 25, 2012  

Why are we glossing over the fact that they literally had an open marriage? That she, herself, had extra-marital dalliances as well during BOTH her marriages to Bruce and Ashton (with both men AND women)? The difference between her and Ashton is that Ashton got caught with his pants down in public and she managed to hide hers behind closed doors (although its pretty much an open secret in HW). Sure Ashton is a douchebag, but to lay the blame of her long-time substance abuse and self-esteem issues only on HIS cheating is ridiculous.

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Genung

Posted at 5:15 AM on January 25, 2012  

Bonnie: you are right – why is she punishing herself…

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Zilly

Posted at 9:48 PM on January 24, 2012  

I never saw these two together, not because of their age, but because when she came back to LA, she needed to become relevant, and latched onto Ashton, who was hot and relevant. If there are some substance abuse problems, maybe Ashton wanted nothing to go with that, maybe that was a huge crack in their marriage, and things just fell apart after that.

You never know what goes on behind closed doors, but you can’t blame Ashton for her problems.

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Alana

Posted at 8:38 PM on January 24, 2012  

This isn’t Ashton’s fault in any way, shape, or form. Demi chose to do whatever she’s been doing… and honestly, I think she’s extremely insecure–EXTREMELY. She needs help and support. So I’m glad their not together anymore, she needs to stop chasing young immature boys and find a mature man closer to her age that can actually handle her.

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dumas1000

Posted at 8:26 PM on January 24, 2012  

Demi is too old to find mainstream work in Hollywood. She is in the same boat as Heather Locklear. And both seem to be handling the situation similarly, which is unfortunate, but also understandable. It’s a shame that it as come to this. I think Ashton is only part of it. Just like Heather breaking up with Jack Wagner is only part of it. It runs deeper. These women are feeling unwanted, underappriciated, and undesirable because of their age. It doesn’t help that Ashton cheated on Demi with much younger women.

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Cleo

Posted at 11:26 PM on January 24, 2012  

What a revelation! There are many factory working women in their 40s and 50s going through the same thing, but you hear nothing about them in your pitiful defense of these two rich spoiled narcissic women.

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Lauren

Posted at 4:50 PM on January 26, 2012  

I agree with you. Demi always wants to be the centre of attention..she was a druggie mess in her 20′s, and it wasnt because of men. My Ex cheated on me with many women, i was upset..but didn’t act like an old skank to prove i was attractive to other men. I feel badly for her daughters…they are more mature than Demi is. There are millions of homeless people, with children, living in cars and shelters and they have more dignity than Demi. Stop being a selfish egomaniac. Ashton is gone…big whoop..this is not about Ashton leaving..it is about Demi’s huge EGO being crushed. I would never marry a child, no matter how flattering it may be. Ashton is acting like a rebellious teenager, like he just got let out of jail. Stop putting all the blame on Ashton..Demi is an insecure nightmare.

 
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