Katy — we hear that you’re devastated by your divorce from Russell Brand. So you know what — it’s time to fight for your man.
Just because Russell Brand filed for divorce on Dec. 30th doesn’t mean that the death of your marriage has to be a done deal, Katy Perry.
Not if you still love Russell and want to be married to him. Katy — it’s time to get on a plane pronto from LA to London and go and fight for your marriage.
Maybe the two of you have been fighting long distance for months as your world tour has been going on. That’s understandable. You are still newlyweds and the first year of marriage is hard enough WITHOUT being separated by enormous work commitments. And it’s enough when the two people involved aren’t both major stars with major egos and “handlers” to boot.
It’s so easy to start fighting when you can’t see each other and you’re frustrated by the distance. Plus, it’s so much easier to make up when you can see each other, talk in person and be able to be intimate. Separation is that enemy of a happy romance and marriage.
Listen Katy — you’ve probably both been super stressed out. Russell is a recovering sex and drug addict – and that’s an ongoing stress. He NEEDS you. He married you because he was crazy about you and you were a shining light in his life. I bet you had tons of fun together and he liked the stability that your marriage offered him. But when you weren’t there and you were partying at times without him, he probably felt like you weren’t supporting him and his sobriety.
Katy – you can be there for him again, if you decide to make that a priority and that doesn’t mean that you have to put your enormously successful career on the back burner. You two just have to work together harder to coordinate your schedules and plan in time together. You can also have fun again. You can feel love and passion again. You don’t need to just accept that because you’ve had some arguents that your marriage is over for good.
But Katy, you may have to take the first step. Don’t be proud. Don’t let your marriage slip away because Russell may have filed for divorce in anger.
Just look at Billy Ray Cyrus who filed for divorce from his wife Tish. He quietly withdrew that petition several months later and the couple reunited.
It even looks like Arnold Schwarzenegger and Maria Shriver will reconcile despite the fact that he had a lengthy affair and out-of-wedlock son with the family’s housekeeper, Mildred Baena.If they can make up, surely you and Russell can! A source tell us at HollywoodLife.com that Arnold and Maria both still love each other and are working towards living together again. So that divorce petition will likely be withdrawn.
What I’m saying Katy is that a marriage isn’t over until the divorce papers are signed by both parties. You and Russell made what you thought was a lifelong commitment at your wedding on Oct. 23rd 2010. You vowed to stick together through thick and thin.
Now is that time to take those vows seriously and make a whole-hearted attempt to resolve your differences. Russell has released a statement saying that “I’ll always adore her” about you, Katy.
Well, if that’s the case Katy, then he will be happy to see you when you arrive at his door. Don’t let your marriage dribble away Katy — FIGHT FOR IT!
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kc
Posted at 12:45 AM on January 6, 2012
people should mind their own business. you have no knowledge of why they broke up. maybe its not as easy as ‘getting on a plane’. maybe theres a reason they are divorcing.
mae
Posted at 2:43 AM on January 5, 2012
I just happened this page in error..didn’t get halfway through it without wanting to vomit. “bonnie”…get a grip and get a real job. pathetic way to earn a living….moving on.
kate
Posted at 8:34 PM on January 4, 2012
I was reading about Russells childhood and the struggles he has faced.To see what he has since achieved is amazing. For him to commit to marriage and change all that he has known for katy is truly inspiring. He truly ooks so sad about the breakup n missin Katy terribly. Couples argue and disagree all the time n certainly in the first few yrs of marriage but its about patience. No problem cannot be sorted if ur heart is open to it. If katy luvs russell she knows exactly wat she needs to do. If she sleeps at night n hopin he was there right next to her then that’s a sign!
Recovered
Posted at 7:54 PM on January 4, 2012
They can still save their marriage–and I am rooting for them, as a married person in a troubled marriage, who takes it One Day at a Time.
KATY–Needs to respect and affirm her husband’s RECOVERY!! He was a heroin/alcohol/sex addict, and to be constantly around a boozy/drug environment will wear on anybody. Hang around a barber shop long enough, and you will come out with a haircut. As one who speaks from my own experience, it is hard to be with someone who drinks all the time, when I am trying to live a life in Recovery. She should go back to him if she loves him–it appears that they said “F- off” in haste, and are both too full of ego and pride to give in and ask forgiveness!!! BTW I might sound judgmental, but firmly am convinced that Katy is a high-functioning alcoholic who has not hit her bottom…this might be one of those wake-ups that God gives us, since she is choosing to drink over having a baby with her hubby. Listen to her interview where she basically said she is not willing to quit drinking in order to have a baby!! It speaks volumes about her REAL Love…
RUSSELL–Needs to put his sobriety above all, as it appears that he is doing. He loves her, and should humble himself, and ask her forgiveness, and they should take some SERIOUS time away from all spotlights, and cameras, and press, if they do want to keep their marriage.
Suzi K
Posted at 7:19 PM on January 4, 2012
I agree that he probably wasn’t happy, considering he is a RECOVERING addict, when she is partying at all times.
No one seems to understand that. Why everyone is saying “Stay strong Katy!!!”, I don’t understand–her drink is probably strong enough.
The only strength I’m worried about is Russell’s. As he is a RECOVERING ADDICT, one of Katy’s strong drinks could have him on a path to death.
Sad
Posted at 7:00 PM on January 4, 2012
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Lolanozz
Posted at 9:03 AM on January 4, 2012
Marriage is about comprise. Sacrifice. Katy is just selfish and isn’t ready to be married!!!
Genug
Posted at 3:24 AM on January 4, 2012
k
Posted at 12:43 AM on January 4, 2012
GOSSIPGIRL
Posted at 9:43 PM on January 3, 2012
Bonnie writes this SAME exact article whenever there’s a divorce. Like when Kim and Kris got divorced she told Kris to get on a plane and save the marriage AND she told Reggie Bush to get on a plane to get Kim. So yeahhh, this didn’t surprise me at ALLL.
WWP
Posted at 9:17 PM on January 3, 2012
It’s really creepy that Bonnie Fuller wrote this article as thought she actually thinks that Katy Perry or Russell Brand are interested in her opinion or value her marital advice. It’s like she’s some kind of weird stalker who thinks she has a realtionship with a famous person….
Jenny
Posted at 7:35 PM on January 3, 2012
I can’t believe that I’m saying this, but I agree with you Bonnie. If they still love each other, someone needs to swallow their pride and fight for their marriage. It doesn’t matter what your profession is, marriage should be your highest priority and should be taken seriously DAILY, not when you get around to it. It requires work, and will not always be peaches and cream everyday, but over all when you make up a million times, one of the most rewarding thing in a persons life. So fight Katy, and drop your fake friends who damage your marriage now.
Vaughn
Posted at 7:26 PM on January 3, 2012
I like these video debates, but if you’re going to keep doing them, I suggest you include a male perspective too. Bonnie gives the Boomer view, Chloe gives the 20-something view, but where’s the guy’s viewpoint?? This guy likes Katy Perry and Russell Brand. Rumor has it that Katy’s always partying with her friends. As a recovering addict, Russell has a hard time with that. It’s hard to be in a relationship with an addict.
Ella
Posted at 7:17 PM on January 3, 2012
i agree 100% i love katy and i also love russell i think they are just going through a hard time right now! When they got married last year i was over the moon because i knew they would last forever even though most hollywood couples dont thye are the best couple ever and i know they are made for eachother :)
Alexis
Posted at 6:47 PM on January 3, 2012
I’ve loved Katy Perry since the first release of her song. I have some what grown up with her, and seen her grow. She was amazing, is amazing even BEFORE & AFTER russell brand. I think she needs to focus on herself, and her career so when all is said and done, she can focus on marriage, kids. Katy Perry can also do better than Russell, he is nice and all but i think that she needs someone who understands her and her music alot more so that way, they understand why music plays such a big part in her life.
Deziree
Posted at 7:27 PM on February 28, 2012
Katy can do what she wants:)