Kim Kardashian: Just Because Kris Humphries Threw A Tame Party On 'KKTNY' Is NO Excuse For A Divorce!

Mon, December 19, 2011 10:52am EDT by 57 Comments

If Kim Kardashian thinks she’s painting Kris as a divorce-worthy villian because he threw one party that his ‘brother-in-law’, Scott Disick,  attended, then she’s failing.

Yes, Kris Humphries made a dumb move, deciding to invite a “few” friends over when Kim headed out to LA to launch her Sears Karadshian Kollection. And of course, those friends just happened to bring along a bunch of babelicious chicks.

BUT, let’s get real here.  #1 The “party” was obviously staged for drama for the KKTNY TV show so it wasn’t exactly the act of a man who wanted to canoodle like a singleton.

#2: Kris Humphries did NOTHING that could be by any definition be defined as marital misbehavior. He provided booze, red plastic cups and snacks. That’s it. He didn’t do a smidgeon of flirting.

#3: Kris Humphries repeatedly made a point during the episode that the Gansevoort Park Avenue hotel where he and Kim were living post marriage was HIS place, too. Not just Kim’s and that he and Scott shouldn’t have to tiptoe around. That’s true. Why shouldn’t he, at least in principle be able to have a few friends over when Kim is away, as long as he he cleans up!

I would agree that if Kris started repeatedly throwing wild parties while Kim was away, then Kim would have some reason to question her hubby’s focus on and commitment to marriage. But this lame and tame get together barely merited the heartfelt apology Kris gave Kim, nor should it have been used as an excuse for divorce.

Instead what we see more of in the episode is Kris supporting his wife both when she thought BFF Jonathan Cheban had betrayed her and then when she realizes that she has unfairly attacked Jonathan.

It was Kris who gave her the idea for how she could win Jonathan back as a friend, when he told her that he “refused” to accept her apology because he was so hurt. Then Kris actually enables her to do that. Hardly villainous or selfish behavior.

But what Kris IS, is not a wimp. He’s clearly concerned about being another man “whipped” by the Kardashian women. He describes Bruce Jenner as the definition of “whipped” and accuses Scott Disick of being terrified by Kourtney, Kim and the other Kardashian women – which he is. And in fact, Scott continuously warns Kris that his party will not go down with Kim. And that if  Kris persists in holding it, he will end up in Minnesota’s Lake Minntonka.

Scott’s so scared like a rabbit that he threatens to run into his room and shut the door if Kris holds the party. Then he DOES shut it down by threatening to call security. He says he has Kris’s back.

Is that right? Should Scott and Kris really live in fear of their women.

Marriage is a two-way street. It’s about compromising. And what we’ve seen on KKTNY thus far is Kris Humphries doing all the apologizing almost every week. He’s apologized for not immediately jumping on having a baby when Kim brought it up — later though she changed her mind when he came on board.

The week before that he apologized for going home to Minnesota because he couldn’t concentrate on training in New York. Now, he’s apologized for having a party.

So far, the apologizing is virtually all one way — Kris to Kim. But obviously that wasn’t enough, as we now know, for Kim.

I’m not sure there’s ANYTHING Kris could have done to avoid being tossed back into Lake Minnesota.

The reason for Kim’s decision remains a TOTAL MYSTERY as KKTNY proceeds!

What do you think, HollywoodLifers? Is Kris asking to be dumped … or not?

— Bonnie Fuller

More Kardashian News:

  1. The Kardashians Reveal Their 2011 Christmas Card
  2. Kim Kardashian Insulted & Called ‘Hairy’ By Sacha Baron Cohen
  3. Barbara Walters To The Kardashians: You Have No Talent

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JENY WALKER

Posted at 1:42 PM on January 4, 2012  

KIM IS JUST LIKE HER MOTHER SELFISH.SELF-ABSORBED IT’S ALL ABT HER.KRIS JENNER COULDN;T WAIT TO DESTROY KIMS MARRIAGE SO SHE COULD HAVE SOMEONE TO HANG OUT WITH,KRIS JENNER ACTSSS LIKE A FOOL. A GROWN WOMAN SHOWING OFF/SHE’S ALWAYS POSING AS IF SHE WERE A BEAUTY QUEEN, SHE SHOULD SEE HER RIDICULOUS SHE REALLY IS, NOW THAT SHE HAS KIM SHE’S AT PARTIES SHE HOGS THE SPOTLIGHT FROM HER GIRLS ALWAYS HAS HERSELF FRONT AND CENTER IN PHOTOS, GO HOME OLD LADY AND QUIT TRYING TO BE THE CENTER OF ATTENTION.YOU LOOK RIDICULOUS, NO MAN WILL PUT UP WITH WITH KIM SHE/S TO MUCH LIKE HER STUPID MOTHER

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mitchnel1987

Posted at 3:58 PM on January 30, 2012  

I’m sorry but that doesn’t even make since.

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Sheila

Posted at 8:47 PM on January 2, 2012  

Kim is a spoiled brat and needs to be alone until she learns what marraige is about SHARING and not me, me, me. The whole time all she wined about was her space, her career, what she wanted. Well if you want everything your way, simply don’t get married. STAY BY YOURSELF since you are the only you are considering. That goes for anybody, not just Kim. She has alot of growing up to do. You don’t take sacred vows and a serious marriage commitment because you are 30 and thought you’d be married with kids by now. That is immature. It’s just sad to see such foolishness going on. Chris just got sucked into a big mess and I’m glad he got out before getting her pregnant.

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Brenda

Posted at 2:21 PM on December 26, 2011  

Ok, so I think Kirs humphries was extremely disrespectful in bringing all those people into the house. If my man allowed random people into my/our house around my belongings, he would be kicked to the curb. That is invading on my privacy and it is wrong. It makes it all the worse that Kim is famous, and people want to get into her household and stuff all the more. I don t think that action alone is grounds for divorce…. But you could tell throughout the whole season of the show that’s Kris is annoying and not cool, an he basically just gets on Kim s nerves to the 100th degree. he was trying to stand his ground and act like he is not gonna let a woman run things in his household. Well, guess what, Kris? Kim is running things. She is a successful businesswoman, moneymaker, reality star, and Famous….(why she’s famoun, I still don t know, but she is) so, he just needs to shut up and let her be. He probably needs a woman who is more homely and less in control. Maybe he needs a housemaker. Point blank, they should have never got married.

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kmoney423

Posted at 1:49 AM on January 5, 2012  

Are you serious?
1.) Kris Humphries is an NBA Player. He has HIS OWN money!
2.) It’s his house too. Kim Kardasian has money, but she doesn’t own everything.
3.) She’s been through how many celebrities? Yeah, this women has issues! And the fact that you take up for her says you have serious issues.

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mitchnel1987

Posted at 4:04 PM on January 30, 2012  

You’re so funny. Yes they both have money, that’s not the point. 1st its about trust. 2nd bc of their status, you can’t just allow ppl in. They are just different from normal ppl. Yes its his house too, but you have to realize when you have that kind of status, you must be extra cautious. That’s all.

 
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